{"id":47421,"date":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:28:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47421"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:50:50","slug":"3-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-se-deve-namorar-para-casar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/3-razoes-pelas-quais-nao-se-deve-namorar-para-casar\/","title":{"rendered":"3 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se deve namorar para casar"},"content":{"rendered":"

It is perfectly okay if you\u2019re feeling <\/span>inseguro quanto ao casamento<\/span><\/a> or even know that you don\u2019t want to share your life with another person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you if you dream of waking up next to the same man for the rest of your days.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, uma coisa \u00e9 o casamento ser algo que se deseja e encontrar uma pessoa adequada. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely different if it becomes your obsession and the only thing you think about whenever you date someone new.<\/span><\/p>\n

Times have changed and today, there are hundreds of reasons why you actually shouldn\u2019t date to marry. Here are the most important ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. A pr\u00e1tica leva \u00e0 perfei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

When you think about your dream man, you have an exact picture of how this guy should behave, how he should treat you, how he should look \u2013 you have every little detail about him all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, como \u00e9 que pode ter a certeza de que esse homem imagin\u00e1rio \u00e9 o homem certo para si, a n\u00e3o ser que tente algo e algu\u00e9m primeiro?<\/span><\/p>\n

Embora o namoro possa ser doloroso e cansativo, \u00e9 de facto uma experi\u00eancia valiosa que pode ensinar algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida importantes, especialmente as relacionadas com as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se namora com mais do que um <\/span>homem errado<\/span><\/a>, it helps you see what you don\u2019t want from a man and  realize what qualities you are looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, as separa\u00e7\u00f5es e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es condenadas ao fracasso s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser abandonado ou ficar preso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica \u00e9 algo que todos n\u00f3s queremos evitar, mas esquecemo-nos sempre que at\u00e9 as piores experi\u00eancias nos podem ensinar muito.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of it builds you as a person and helps you become the woman you\u2019re destined to be. It helps you see how much you can take and learn a lot about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you don\u2019t date the men you know you wouldn\u2019t marry from the start, you miss out on all of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

You deprive yourself of the opportunity to fail \u2013 and it\u2019s a well known fact that you can\u2019t expect to succeed unless you fail a few times first.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You\u2019ll appear as too desperate<\/h2>\n

\"Dor.\"<\/p>\n

Despite your final goal being finding husband material, you probably don\u2019t go around telling your plans to every man you run into. <\/span><\/p>\n

I suppose you don\u2019t surprise a guy on your first date with the marriage talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not giving some subconscious signals that this is the only thing on your mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o facto \u00e9 que os homens t\u00eam uma forma de perceber quando uma mulher tem o objetivo de os amarrar, o que, na maioria dos casos, os faz correr para salvar a vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not telling you to allow any guy to <\/span>guiar-vos<\/span><\/a> for ages just because you don\u2019t want to appear as overly desperate to get married. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, if a man senses your vibe and sees that you\u2019re obsessed with entering a serious relationship that would eventually end up in marriage, he\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re trying to trap him and run away before you have the chance to limit his freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you like to hear it or not, most men love spontaneous girls who don\u2019t give out the impression that they have every second of the rest of their lives all planned out. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re obsessed with tying the knot, in his eyes, you\u2019ll be everything but that.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, he\u2019ll immediately perceive you as a woman too weak to go through life on her own and ready to settle for everything he has to offer \u2013 even if it\u2019s less than she deserves \u2013 just to finally have a husband.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Provoca demasiado stress<\/h2>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Another reason why you shouldn\u2019t only date to marry is your mental health. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is the only thing on your mind, every date you go on and every potential relationship you get yourself involved in is a source of stress, instead of it being something you\u2019ll enjoy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que vai falhar? Ou ser\u00e1 que desta vez vai resultar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que seria a minha vida ao lado deste homem? Ele \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que consigo imaginar como um potencial pai dos meus filhos?<\/span><\/p>\n

Estas e muitas outras perguntas come\u00e7am a passar pela sua cabe\u00e7a sempre que conhece um rapaz de quem gosta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Assim, em vez de estar relaxado, a sua ansiedade entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o e estraga a experi\u00eancia de conhecer algu\u00e9m novo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de viver no presente, o <\/span>pensar demais<\/span><\/a> o seu potencial futuro, o que \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que deveria estar a fazer.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"3<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is perfectly okay if you\u2019re feeling unsure about marriage or even know that you don\u2019t want to share your life with another person. Also, there\u2019s nothing wrong with you if you dream of waking up next to the same man for the rest of your days. However, it is one thing if marriage is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":47428,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_691194007.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47428"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}