{"id":47435,"date":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T14:41:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47435"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:17:16","slug":"5-coisas-que-ficaste-quando-o-perdeste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-ficaste-quando-o-perdeste\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que ficaste com ele quando o perdeste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perder algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, especialmente se esse algu\u00e9m for a pessoa que am\u00e1vamos mais do que tudo e o homem com quem plane\u00e1vamos passar o resto da nossa vida ao lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sometimes it can be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Even when you don\u2019t see it, every loss you experience actually brings you a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o as 5 coisas que ganhou quando perdeu o seu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. A sua vida de volta<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Talvez n\u00e3o o vejas agora, mas a verdade \u00e9 que este homem t\u00f3xico tinha <\/span>controlo<\/span><\/a> sobre a sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Things didn\u2019t seem that way at first glance but you were overly concerned with what he might have thought and how he might react to every move you made and every decision you took.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estavas t\u00e3o obcecada em agradar-lhe e em fazer as coisas que ele esperava de ti que, com o tempo, deixaste de existir. <\/span><\/p>\n

You stopped being your true self, you stopped being a woman, a daughter, a friend\u2026 and you became only his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, agora \u00e9 altura de voltar a tomar a sua vida nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os. \u00c9 altura de voltar a ser a pessoa que realmente \u00e9 e de se livrar do controlo dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014losing this man was anything but easy. In fact, it was a devastating experience which broke your heart into millions of pieces.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it didn\u2019t break you, did it now? You survived and there you are, standing, whole and complete as if you were never damaged.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if this doesn\u2019t deserve loads of respect, I don\u2019t know what does. <\/span><\/p>\n

If the mere thought of everything you\u2019ve been through and the fact that you\u2019ve managed to pick up your pieces and come out of this nightmare stronger than ever doesn\u2019t make you proud of yourself, I don\u2019t know what will.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those days in which this awful man tried to convince you that you\u2019re not good enough and those moments in which you sadly believed him are now just part of ancient history. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve grown into a woman who appreciates, respects and loves herself. Into a woman who sees her own worth and who wouldn\u2019t let anyone devalue her.<\/span><\/p>\n

And these facts alone are worth losing a man who wasn\u2019t the right one for you from the beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Mais tempo<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

You know all those nights you spent thinking about the future of your relationship, being perfectly aware that it was anything but healthy and that it wasn\u2019t going anywhere? <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos os <\/span>energia desperdi\u00e7ada<\/span><\/a> a tentar perceber este tipo e a fazer o seu melhor para ler os seus sinais contradit\u00f3rios?<\/span><\/p>\n

Lembras-te de todas as horas que passaste a persegui-lo e a todas as mulheres que se aproximavam dele? Toda a energia que desperdi\u00e7aste \u00e0 espera que ele recuperasse o ju\u00edzo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, now that you\u2019ve taken back your life, you should do the same with your time and energy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wasting another minute on this douchebag, redirect your focus and invest everything you have on to the only person who deserves your undivided attention\u2014yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Arranje um novo passatempo, comece a ler, v\u00e1 ao gin\u00e1sio ou fa\u00e7a algo que queira fazer h\u00e1 algum tempo mas nunca teve oportunidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, comece a p\u00f4r-se em primeiro lugar e d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio todo o amor que este homem estava a receber de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Liberdade<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A relationship cannot be successful without compromise\u2014there is no doubt about that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You always have to try your best to satisfy the other person\u2019s needs as well, to meet them halfway and for both of you to be pleased with the final solution.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially difficult and exhausting when you\u2019re dealing with a selfish man who doesn\u2019t give a damn about making you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, tudo tinha de correr como ele queria e os seus desejos n\u00e3o tinham qualquer import\u00e2ncia.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, quando perdeste este idiota, ganhaste automaticamente a liberdade de fazeres o que quiseres. <\/span><\/p>\n

E isto \u00e9 algo que se deve utilizar ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode come\u00e7ar com pequenas coisas, como ver aquele filme que ele nunca concordaria em ver consigo ou encomendar comida daquele s\u00edtio que ele desprezava. <\/span><\/p>\n

Later on, you\u2019ll see how liberating it is to have the complete freedom to make all of your life decisions on your own, without having to consult anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Novas oportunidades<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should <\/span>saltar de um romance para outro<\/span><\/a> no momento em que se escapa de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t forget that this homem que se afastou de si<\/a> Na verdade, deixou um caminho aberto para todos os outros tipos que querem uma oportunidade contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este homem que a deixou deu-lhe a oportunidade de conhecer finalmente algu\u00e9m digno do seu tempo e algu\u00e9m que a far\u00e1 sentir-se amada e apreciada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sem ter consci\u00eancia disso, deu-lhe a oportunidade de encontrar a felicidade e a sua alma g\u00e9mea.<\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, ao perder o homem errado, teve a oportunidade de conhecer o homem certo.<\/span><\/p>\n

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