{"id":47530,"date":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47530"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:44:57","slug":"esta-com-ele-por-razoes-toxicas-5-formas-de-o-descobrir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-com-ele-por-razoes-toxicas-5-formas-de-o-descobrir\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1s com ele por raz\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas? 5 maneiras de descobrir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 mais importante do que ser solteiro<\/a> qualquer dia.<\/p>\n

Mas ser\u00e1 que vale mesmo a pena continuar a lutar por todas as raz\u00f5es erradas e at\u00e9 t\u00f3xicas?<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser estimulante, calma e tranquilizadora.<\/p>\n

Deve ser o seu lugar seguro, uma forma de se esconder dos problemas que o incomodam.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser algo que nos motiva a ultrapassar os dias de merda porque, no final, podemos ver a nossa pessoa preferida.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about just not being alone.<\/p>\n

It shouldn\u2019t be about being able to tell people you\u2019re with someone.<\/p>\n

Those are all the wrong reasons and you\u2019ll never find happiness that way.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

What you need is someone who\u2019ll make you feel like you\u2019re walking on clouds.<\/p>\n

Someone who\u2019ll make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o algu\u00e9m apenas para preencher um lugar vazio na o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a><\/p>\n

Por favor, tenham cuidado com as pessoas em quem investem o vosso tempo.<\/p>\n

Nem toda a gente \u00e9 t\u00e3o simp\u00e1tica como pode parecer.<\/p>\n

Nem todos merecem o seu amor.<\/p>\n

Are you in a relationship because you can\u2019t fathom a day without him or are these 5 toxic reasons keeping you attached?<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you feel like your ship has sailed<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t any good, kind, and available men out there anymore, so you took what you could get.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not a bad guy, but you don\u2019t feel that everlasting love with him.<\/p>\n

You keep trying to convince yourself that you\u2019ll get there, the feelings will appear, and it\u2019ll end up being your ultimate love story, but deep down you know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the love of your life.<\/p>\n

Sente que as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o limitadas e que se contentou com um tipo aceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a decent option, but he\u2019s not someone you\u2019d go to the ends of the earth for.<\/p>\n

He may be sweet and he may be kind, but if he doesn\u2019t make your heart skip a beat, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you\u2019ve been hurt way too many times to look for someone better<\/h2>\n

A dor que sentiste e as experi\u00eancias que tiveste com outros rapazes tiveram um grande impacto na tua vida.<\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re too scared to look for someone who\u2019ll make you the happiest you could ever be.<\/p>\n

E se voltar a acontecer?<\/p>\n

E se acabares destro\u00e7ado como tantas vezes antes?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a risk you\u2019re not willing to take.<\/p>\n

This guy is not someone who\u2019d magoar-vos<\/a>; he\u2019s proved it multiple times.<\/p>\n

So you\u2019ll stick it out because you feel it\u2019s better than finding an overwhelming love story and being broken again.<\/p>\n

You desperately wish you felt as strongly as he seems to feel for you\u2026 but you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a nice dude and he treats you right, so you\u2019ll stay to protect your heart from further pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you were the last one in your circle to find a man<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O facto de ser a \u00fanica rapariga solteira no seu c\u00edrculo social afectou-a bastante.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no fun being the only one without Saturday night plans once they all go off with their boyfriends.<\/p>\n

Being single does have its perks, but you can\u2019t enjoy it if all your girls are happily taken and you\u2019re left there alone, watching Netflix and wishing a man was there with you.<\/p>\n

You had to find someone, even if it wasn\u2019t a love for the ages.<\/p>\n

A partir de uma certa idade, deixamos de ser exigentes e baixamos os nossos crit\u00e9rios.<\/p>\n

So now you\u2019re taken, but it\u2019s not a love story you\u2019ll be telling your grandkids about.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not the guy you see a future with.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s good for now, but deep down you know that your one is still out there somewhere.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you needed to forget about your ex<\/h2>\n

You had a shitty breakup and you just couldn\u2019t stand the thought of him anymore.<\/p>\n

Ele deixou um buraco no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e precisavas de o preencher com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what this guy is.<\/p>\n

Um substituto para um ex que precisa desesperadamente de afastar da sua mente.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s wrong and you know you\u2019re going to end up hurting him and yourself in the process.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time before it happens.<\/p>\n

Mas, de alguma forma, torna-se um pouco mais f\u00e1cil esquecer o seu ex<\/a> se tiveres outro homem ao teu lado.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s not your forever, but you\u2019ll stay for as long as he serves his purpose.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with him because you need someone to flaunt on your Instagram<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You just need people to see you\u2019re “happily” taken.<\/p>\n

Even though you know it\u2019s not real happiness, it\u2019s more important to you to keep people fooled than to actually be happy.<\/p>\n

Por isso, continua com o seu estratagema.<\/p>\n

Continua a exibi-lo nas contas das redes sociais e as pessoas continuam a gostar das suas fotografias de amor.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re selling them something that\u2019s not real and sooner or later your lie is going to catch up with you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize how miserable you are by basically faking your life and people will start noticing you\u2019re not as happy as your photos seem to show.<\/p>\n

Antes de se magoar ainda mais, deixe de manter as apar\u00eancias falsas e comece a cuidar melhor de si.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 quando perceberes o qu\u00e3o errada \u00e9 esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o falsa \u00e9 que te dar\u00e1s a oportunidade de publicar sobre algu\u00e9m que te faz realmente feliz!<\/p>\n

\"Est\u00e1s<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that being in a relationship trumps being single any day. But is it really worth it sticking it out for all the wrong, even toxic reasons? A relationship should be nurturing, calming, and reassuring. It should be your safe place, a way to hide from the problems that are bothering you. A relationship…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":47545,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_36041066921.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47530"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47530\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47530"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47530"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47530"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}