{"id":47558,"date":"2019-11-14T17:42:35","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:42:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47558"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:07:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:07:10","slug":"ja-te-esqueci-e-espero-que-os-nossos-caminhos-nao-se-voltem-a-cruzar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ja-te-esqueci-e-espero-que-os-nossos-caminhos-nao-se-voltem-a-cruzar\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou farto de ti e espero que os nossos caminhos n\u00e3o se voltem a cruzar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J\u00e1 n\u00e3o me consomes os pensamentos. \u00c9s uma simples recorda\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o distante da minha vida que nem sequer consigo imaginar a minha vida contigo nela.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it took me so long to get to this point, longer than I ever thought possible. But it\u2019s not easy to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/estou-a-aprender-lentamente-a-deixar-ir-as-pessoas-que-nao-valorizam\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> deixar algu\u00e9m para tr\u00e1s <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a quem deste o melhor de ti, algu\u00e9m com quem sonhavas ter um futuro em conjunto.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not easy to make peace with the fact that someone yours is not yours anymore, that someone yours doesn\u2019t feel the same way about you. But it had to be done.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I loved you for all that you were and all you couldn\u2019t be. I loved, past tense, I don\u2019t anymore because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/foi-incrivelmente-dificil-deixar-te-ir-mas-nao-me-deixaste-outra-escolha\/\">n\u00e3o me deixaste outra alternativa.&nbsp;<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tive de parar a minha<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lf from thinking that one day we\u2019d get back together. I had to block my mind every time it wandered off to you and started thinking, \u201cWhat if things were different?\u201d&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muitas vezes escrevia-te uma mensagem, mas apagava-a antes de a enviar. Sabia que n\u00e3o conseguiria nada com uma mensagem, que s\u00f3 me tornaria fraca aos teus olhos.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com smartphone e caf\u00e9 num restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_359132639-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there were so many things left to write, to ask, to say to you but I knew deep down that you didn\u2019t want to talk about them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, deixei-o estar. Apercebi-me, algures durante a minha cura, que nem tudo tem de ser resolvido. Que, por vezes, ficamos sem conclus\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A pior parte foi perdoar-te por n\u00e3o teres sido capaz de me amar tanto quanto eu te amava.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That was the sad truth I had to live with. You just didn\u2019t feel the same way, no matter how many times I used to delude myself that you did. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca estivemos destinados a ser.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tamb\u00e9m tive de te perdoar por me teres magoado tanto como me magoaste. Por me teres virado as costas sem uma boa explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Nunca pensei que agisses de forma t\u00e3o cobarde.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tenho de me perdoar por pensar t\u00e3o bem de ti. Por te ter deixado ser o centro do meu universo e por me ter esquecido de mim.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Getting over you was a long process indeed. The overwhelming pain in my chest couldn\u2019t simply disappear overnight. It took its precious time.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899-300x221.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_92861899-768x566.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have to forgive myself for the greater pain I caused myself when I didn\u2019t know how to move on from you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tenho de me perdoar pelo mar de l\u00e1grimas que derramei a cada pensamento teu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perdi tanto tempo mas, no final, valeu a pena. Reconstru\u00ed a minha vida, tijolo a tijolo. Fortaleci o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Aprendi com a minha dor.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I never saw you after our break-up and I hope I never will. I don\u2019t need a reminder of what was or what could have been.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t know how I would feel if you were standing in front of me and I don\u2019t want to find out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You chose to be a part of my past and it\u2019s better you stay there. We were never meant to be. I see that now.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estou a caminhar para o futuro sozinho, com a esperan\u00e7a de que a pessoa certa para mim esteja \u00e0 espera ao virar da esquina.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You no longer consume my thoughts. You\u2019re a simple memory so far removed from my life that I can\u2019t even imagine my life with you in it. And it took me so long to get to this point, longer than I ever thought possible. But it\u2019s not easy to let go of someone you gave&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":47561,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_172657394.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47558"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47558\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}