{"id":47564,"date":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T17:55:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47564"},"modified":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T22:16:16","slug":"6-razoes-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-provavelmente-nao-e-um-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-provavelmente-nao-e-um-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais o seu ex provavelmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

O narcisismo tornou-se muito popular nos \u00faltimos anos. Antes, ningu\u00e9m fora da psicologia sabia sequer que esta perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade existia. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

Atualmente, todos sabemos tudo sobre as caracter\u00edsticas narc\u00edsicas, o que os narcisistas fazem e porque o fazem. Em suma, todos nos torn\u00e1mos especialistas no assunto. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be aware of the existence of people suffering from this disorder, especially if they are surrounding us and influencing our lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, sinceramente, sabes quais s\u00e3o as probabilidades de isso acontecer?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you, the chances are very slim. I know I might be a bit harsh now, but isn\u2019t it possible that you\u2019re trying to play the blame game with your ex by accusing him of everything that went wrong?<\/span><\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you look inside yourself and be honest with yourself? You don\u2019t have to do it with me or even your friend, but be honest with yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t there at least one ounce of blame you are responsible for?<\/span><\/p>\n

A lot of people go online in search of the reason why their relationship has ended. It would be the same if you went googling symptoms of your current health \u2013 it always ends up with the worst possible diagnosis. <\/span><\/p>\n

According to Google, you should\u2019ve already been dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same when you Google alleged symptoms of your alleged namorado narcisista<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find your boyfriend in every article written on the internet. You\u2019ll blame him for everything he\u2019s done to you. He\u2019ll even become a \u201c<\/span>narcisista disfar\u00e7ado<\/span><\/a>.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

O narcisismo tornou-se popular hoje em dia. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas, acredite, as hip\u00f3teses de o seu namorado ser um narcisista s\u00e3o quase nulas.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you can\u2019t go around deciding who is a narcissist and who isn\u2019t without a trained psychologist examining the person accused of suffering from that personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

De acordo com alguns estudos, 1% da popula\u00e7\u00e3o humana foi seriamente diagnosticada com o dist\u00farbio narc\u00edsico. <\/span><\/p>\n

Portanto, o seu suposto namorado narcisista \u00e9 muito mais provavelmente um idiota manipulador do que um verdadeiro narcisista. Ou o caso n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o grave como o apresenta. <\/b><\/p>\n

No entanto, aqui est\u00e3o os sinais que v\u00e3o definitivamente afundar as suas teorias e provar que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 de facto um narcisista: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. What in fact if he\u2019s really not a narcissist?<\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Then you end up to be the crazy one. Don\u2019t make false assumptions without solid proof. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neste caso, essa prova \u00e9 uma avalia\u00e7\u00e3o psiqui\u00e1trica. Se virmos bem, todos n\u00f3s temos esse lado narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all sometimes want to get revenge, we want to look sophisticated, and we\u2019re definitely at least sometimes seeking attention.  <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Todos n\u00f3s queremos certas coisas e ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 alheio \u00e0 manipula\u00e7\u00e3o para conseguir o que quer. Como se nunca tivesses manipulado ningu\u00e9m? Seja fiel a si pr\u00f3prio! <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensem bem, se come\u00e7am a acusar as pessoas de coisas horr\u00edveis, precisam de ter provas primeiro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll look like the insane one. So to avoid hurting yourself, don\u2019t jump to conclusions. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s statistically impossible<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

A Internet est\u00e1 repleta de artigos sobre namorados narcisistas, como reconhecer um narcisista e como curar-se de ter sido quebrado por um narcisista. <\/span><\/p>\n

While this is all useful information, statistically, the numbers don\u2019t add up. It\u2019s impossible to have that many people suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Acusar algu\u00e9m de uma infra\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 tentador<\/h2>\n

\"Concentrada<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really tempting putting guilt on a person who has hurt you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to give in to the emotions of revenge and hatred without thinking about what your part is in the deal. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>So, what most of us do is we  blame someone else completely for everything that\u2019s happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

That way it\u2019s so much easier to live and come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over. <\/span><\/p>\n

Raramente algu\u00e9m assume uma verdadeira responsabilidade pelos seus pr\u00f3prios erros. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. O narcisismo n\u00e3o \u00e9 preto e branco<\/h2>\n

\"Confiante<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s possu\u00edmos certas caracter\u00edsticas narc\u00edsicas. A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 saber quem est\u00e1 mais longe no espetro do narcisismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

In other words, it\u2019s important to know who\u2019s bad enough to be a narcissist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 totalmente bom ou totalmente mau. Somos todos uma mistura de ambos. O que importa, no final, \u00e9 o que decidimos fazer no final e o que a nossa consci\u00eancia nos diz.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. A NPD foi considerada intrat\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"Modelo<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the perfect excuse for you. Once again, we get back to you and your lack of responsibility for your own mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

By saying the person who hurt you is beyond help, that\u2019s a perfect excuse for not even trying and, of course, making yourself look blameless. <\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Os emp\u00e1ticos atraem os narcisistas<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o \u00faltimo recurso para, mais uma vez, evitar assumir responsabilidades. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, but there are indeed women out there who label themselves as empaths, which automatically means they are narcissist\u2019s potential victims.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto absolve-as de toda a culpa. Por outro lado, fingir ser emp\u00e1tico torna as coisas ainda mais dif\u00edceis para as mulheres que s\u00e3o realmente assim. Tamb\u00e9m torna as coisas mais dif\u00edceis para as mulheres que estiveram de facto numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista.    <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n

If your ex really turns out to be a narcissist \u2013 because as I\u2019ve already said, it\u2019s possible, they do exist \u2013 by talking about them, you\u2019re only giving them attention. That is exactly what narcissists need to feed their ego and continue acting the way they do. <\/span><\/p>\n

A aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 como o ar que respiram. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>A atitude mais inteligente que pode tomar \u00e9 priv\u00e1-los dessa aten\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deixem de falar deles e tornem-nos t\u00e3o insignificantes quanto poss\u00edvel. Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica <\/span>como libertar-se de um narcisista <\/span><\/a>e deixar de ser o seu fornecedor. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>\u00c9 assim que se sobrevive a um verdadeiro narcisista.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Narcissism has become so popular in the last few years. Before, no one outside psychology even knew that this personality disorder even existed. Today, we all know everything about narcissistic traits, what narcissists do, and why they do it. In short, we\u2019ve all become experts on the subject. I\u2019m not saying that we shouldn\u2019t be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":47572,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105312263.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}