{"id":47575,"date":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","date_gmt":"2019-11-14T18:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47575"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:42:11","slug":"5-maneiras-pelas-quais-um-homem-toxico-a-faz-voltar-para-mais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-pelas-quais-um-homem-toxico-a-faz-voltar-para-mais\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras pelas quais um homem t\u00f3xico faz com que voc\u00ea volte para mais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando algu\u00e9m se encontra numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica ou <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/span><\/a>, the first question that goes through everyone\u2019s mind is why they don\u2019t just leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal, quem, no seu perfeito ju\u00edzo, escolheria conscientemente permanecer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o doentia que continua a partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a destruir a sua vida?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the fact is that things aren\u2019t as simple as they appear at first because toxic people have a way of dragging their victims back to an endless circle of emotional violence and toxicity.<\/span><\/p>\n

Utilizam diferentes estrat\u00e9gias de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o para o deixar sempre a querer mais e aqui est\u00e3o as mais comuns. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele \u00e9 incoerente<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

A principal raz\u00e3o pela qual continua a voltar para um homem t\u00f3xico \u00e9 a sua inconsist\u00eancia. \u00c9 que este tipo de pessoa raramente mostra as suas verdadeiras cores desde o in\u00edcio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, they usually pretend to be something they\u2019re not until you fall in love with them. And the same goes for this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 dias em que ele \u00e9 o melhor homem do mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dias em que ele n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de te lembrar como s\u00e3o as borboletas e dias em que te sentes a mulher mais feliz do mundo s\u00f3 por o teres ao teu lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there are also moments in which he turns into a monster and moments when you can\u2019t recognize him. <\/span><\/p>\n

E, infelizmente, as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que a sua toxicidade vem ao de cima s\u00e3o cada vez mais frequentes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, faz-nos sempre voltar para mais, simplesmente porque esperamos ter de volta o homem do in\u00edcio da hist\u00f3ria. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuas a mentir a ti pr\u00f3prio que o seu lado mau \u00e9 apenas uma fase e continuas a esperar que o <\/span>homem simp\u00e1tico<\/span><\/a> para reaparecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He convinces you that you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

Another strategy toxic men use to keep their victims wanting more is telling them that they\u2019re not enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo conseguiu convencer-te de que n\u00e3o tens valor e que nada do que fazes est\u00e1 certo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Assim, subconscientemente, continua a voltar para ele e a tentar provar que ele est\u00e1 errado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer que ele veja o seu verdadeiro valor e que deixe de a considerar imatura e in\u00fatil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without being aware of it, you\u2019re actually in the constant search of his approval, which you\u2019ll never get. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want him to realize that you\u2019re enough because you think that is the only way in which you\u2019ll regain a sense of your own self-worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He makes you think you\u2019re unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

A toxic man won\u2019t only convince you that <\/span>you\u2019re not enough<\/span><\/a>\u2014he will also make you believe that you\u2019re unlovable. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will persuade you that he is the only guy who could ever be with you and that all other men out there would only use your body and throw you away after they\u2019re done with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, ao fim de algum tempo, sente-se grata por ele ter aceitado estar consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think yourself lucky to have him, despite all the awful treatment he\u2019s putting you through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you don\u2019t even think of replacing him with someone else because you think no other man could ever love you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even when you try finding someone else, you doubt his intentions and you constantly hear this guy\u2019s warning voice in the back of your head, telling you that you\u2019ll end up ridiculed and heartbroken.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what he wants\u2014to keep you by his side and to have you always going back to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ele isola-te do resto do mundo<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Todos os homens t\u00f3xicos t\u00eam uma coisa em comum: fazem o poss\u00edvel para isolar as suas v\u00edtimas dos seus entes queridos. <\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, your friends are not good for you and even your family members don\u2019t mean you well.<\/span><\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, pensamos que ele est\u00e1 a tentar proteger-nos das pessoas m\u00e1s da nossa vida, sem nos apercebermos de que ele \u00e9 o mau da fita. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se apercebe de que ele est\u00e1 a fazer tudo isto para a afastar de todos os que poderiam abrir-lhe os olhos e revelar-lhe a verdade sobre ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ao obrig\u00e1-la a cortar os la\u00e7os com todos os que a rodeiam, ele tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a tornar mais dif\u00edcil que o deixe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Desta forma, mesmo quando pensamos em ir embora, lembramo-nos de que n\u00e3o temos para onde ir.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost all the people you could rely on, the people who could help you get back on your feet and the people who could support you when turning a new page. So you stay right there where you are, without a chance to make a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s made you dependent on him<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Uma das coisas mais importantes para as pessoas t\u00f3xicas \u00e9 tornar as suas v\u00edtimas dependentes delas. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re struggling with financial or <\/span>depend\u00eancia emocional<\/span><\/a>\u2014the point is the same; it is a toxic man\u2019s way of caging you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is the one who knows what\u2019s best for you. He is the one whose advice you should listen to and even when he is insulting you, he is doing it for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de ele a desvalorizar, pensa que ele \u00e9 muito melhor do que voc\u00ea. <\/span><\/p>\n

You believe him when he tells you that you\u2019re incapable of achieving anything without him and that you couldn\u2019t go through life without his hand to guide you.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, even when you try walking away from this relationship, you keep on going back because you\u2019re scared that you won\u2019t make it on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

This guy is your comfort zone and you\u2019re too afraid to step out of it.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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