{"id":47721,"date":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T16:48:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47721"},"modified":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T14:21:10","slug":"o-tempo-cura-todas-as-feridas-ou-sera-que-cura-mesmo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-tempo-cura-todas-as-feridas-ou-sera-que-cura-mesmo\/","title":{"rendered":"O tempo cura todas as feridas (ou ser\u00e1 que cura mesmo?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whenever you’re going through a painful situation and experience something that will definitely leave a permanent stretch mark on your cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> e alma, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ou\u00e7a algumas frases t\u00edpicas da sua fam\u00edlia, dos seus melhores amigos e de todos os que o rodeiam.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you are going through some mental health problems, have lost a loved one,  didn\u2019t succeed in your lifelong dream, have lost your best friend or life partner, or in the middle of a heartache or family emergency, the fact is that most people use similar clich\u00e9s to comfort you.<\/p>\n

Dizem-nos coisas que sup\u00f5em que queremos ouvir.<\/p>\n

Que um dia o vosso desgosto<\/a> will be a part of the past, that you’ll manage to overcome your emotional pain, that those difficult times will go away, and that the bad emotions won’t get the best of you. <\/p>\n

They tell you that everything will be better and the good times will come (even in situations where the light at the end of the tunnel cannot be seen), that you\u2019ll be stronger (even when all you want is to give up), that everything will eventually go away (even when you\u2019re convinced that this overwhelming pain will consume you forever), that everything happens for a reason and a greater cause (even when there is obviously nothing good in this evil that life threw at you), that one day you\u2019ll laugh at all of this (even when you\u2019re struggling to not start crying at this exact moment) and that you\u2019ll eventually learn a valuable lesson from this heartbreak (even when you have no desire to be taught any lessons).<\/p>\n

Of course, people are telling you all of this simply because they don\u2019t know better.<\/p>\n

They see that you\u2019re a wreck, but can\u2019t do anything concrete to help you fix your emotional wounds \u2013 which sometimes hurt the same as physical wounds \u2013 so they say these seemingly empty phrases because that\u2019s the only choice they have left.<\/p>\n

However, sadly, in most times, all of these clich\u00e9s often have a completely counterproductive impact on the person hurting, albeit said with the best intentions and  that everyone telling you these things is well-meaning.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

When you hear them, you get annoyed because you\u2019re pretty much sure that the person doesn\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\n

You get frustrated when people who haven\u2019t walked a mile in your shoes try to convince you that your hardships are not such a big deal.<\/p>\n

Not only that, you also feel pressured, as if they\u2019re telling you to hurry up with this recovery and giving you some kind of a deadline by which it would be socially acceptable for you to get over whatever\u2019s bothering you and for your heartache to be gone.<\/p>\n

Yes, there are numerous clich\u00e9s you hear from well-meaning people when you\u2019re going through a difficult time and trying to heal from emotional wounds.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, \u201ctime heals everything\u201d is the most common one, without doubt and without competition.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ser\u00e1 que a passagem do tempo cura realmente? Ser\u00e1 que o tempo tem a capacidade de o fazer sentir melhor?<\/p>\n

Traz bons momentos e consegue curar as feridas?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 de facto suficiente dar tempo ao tempo e deixar que ele fa\u00e7a a sua magia? Ou isto n\u00e3o passa de ret\u00f3rica vazia?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to find out.<\/p>\n

O tempo cura mesmo tudo? <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Apesar de muitos concordarem com esta teoria, h\u00e1 ainda mais pessoas que pensam o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Namely, the truth is that time doesn\u2019t have a magic wand that will make all of your problems disappear.<\/p>\n

Yes, when you suffer from a broken heart or when something even more devastating happens to you, you probably won’t spend your entire life crying over it and suffering with the same intensity. <\/p>\n

Por exemplo, quando o seu um ente querido morre<\/a>No in\u00edcio, sentimos que a nossa vida tamb\u00e9m acabou.<\/p>\n

You feel like you can\u2019t breathe and as if this pain will always consume you with the same severity.<\/p>\n

No entanto, passado algum tempo, parece que a dor come\u00e7a a desaparecer. Passado algum tempo, transforma-se numa esp\u00e9cie de dorm\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Sim, essa perda ainda nos magoa todos os dias, mas de alguma forma, depois de muito esfor\u00e7o, aprendemos a funcionar no mundo real.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, you wake up every day, go to work, eat, engage with other people, start to sleep better, return to your old hobbies and interests\u2026<\/p>\n

Finalmente, um dia, d\u00e1 por si a sorrir ou mesmo a rir de uma coisa qualquer.<\/p>\n

You catch yourself waking up in the middle of the night, without feeling like you\u2019re covered in physical wounds, as if there\u2019s a huge, sharp knife stabbed in your stomach.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Portanto, basicamente, a vida continuou, por mais que provavelmente tenha tentado lutar contra ela inconscientemente. Continuou a viver e a existir e as emo\u00e7\u00f5es boas venceram.<\/p>\n

You survived. It seems that you\u2019ve seguiu em frente<\/a> e superou tudo.<\/p>\n

However, does that mean that you\u2019re fully recovered? Does that mean that your heart has healed, just because you don’t have trouble getting out of bed every single day?<\/p>\n

Ou ficou simplesmente entorpecido? A dor deixou de existir ou aprendeu a viver com ela?<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that, in these case scenarios, you\u2019re never fully healed, no matter how much time has passed.<\/p>\n

Afinal, ainda lhe d\u00f3i cada vez que pensa na sua perda ou no seu desgosto.<\/p>\n

So, no, the emotional pain doesn\u2019t go away, you just learn to live with it. You get used to your scars and they become an inerasable part of you.<\/p>\n

A dor j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que sentimos e deixa definitivamente de nos definir, mas continua certamente presente.<\/p>\n

Aprendemos a lidar com ela, a silenci\u00e1-la e a ignor\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

Even when you do feel better, it is not time\u2019s work. Even when you heal, it\u2019s not time that gets the credit, you\u2019re the one who does it.<\/p>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Talvez se aprenda alguma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa; talvez a vida aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you understand that everything happens for a reason or you grow as a person who is now capable of handling everything bad she\u2019s experienced.<\/p>\n

Talvez se aprofunde ainda mais feridas emocionais<\/a>Assim, os do passado tornam-se tolos.<\/p>\n

It could be that you\u2019ve become stronger and braver or  you\u2019ve thought things through and realized they\u2019re not worthy of your tears.<\/p>\n

However, you were the one who took the initiative. Yes, time might have helped you in the process, but you\u2019re the deserving one.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who took your entire life in your own hands and did all the work your own way, with time as your ally.<\/p>\n

Aquele que salvou a sua sa\u00fade mental, que percebeu que deixar ir<\/a> is the only option you have, who accepted the things you couldn\u2019t change, who decided to rise above the pain.<\/p>\n

Portanto, sim, o tempo pode servir-lhe como um analg\u00e9sico eficaz.<\/p>\n

The passage of time might serve you as an assistant in healing wounds and it will surely be your best friend while you’re trying to recover. <\/p>\n

Mas nunca \u00e9 a cura definitiva. <\/p>\n

O tempo cura todas as feridas Significado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando algu\u00e9m diz que o tempo cura tudo, significa literalmente que o tempo apaga a dor.<\/p>\n

Significa que, por vezes, estamos a sofrer e a passar por uma processo de cura<\/a> at the same time \u2013 that you are actually doing better with each day that passes, usually without even being aware of it while it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

It means that no matter the pain you\u2019re feeling, the grief that\u2019s consuming you, and the hardship you\u2019ve been through, things will eventually be okay \u2013 you just need to give it some time. Time for the healing process to take its course.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 tempo de perceberes que deixar ir \u00e9 algo que tens de fazer. D\u00ea tempo para que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas se desvane\u00e7am, para que as suas feridas emocionais se transformem em cicatrizes e para que essas cicatrizes desapare\u00e7am completamente.<\/p>\n

In fact, what you have to do is give yourself some time \u2013 to process things, accept them, forgive, get over something or someone, forget, and move on.<\/p>\n

This phrase is telling you that nothing happens overnight. That physical, mental, and emotional recovery is a healing process that lasts and you can\u2019t force it.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t apply to sorrow and sadness only.<\/p>\n

Quando o tempo passa, tamb\u00e9m elimina a raiva e o ressentimento, elimina alguns problemas de confian\u00e7a ou traumas de abandono<\/a> que possa ter.<\/p>\n

Este ditado tenta dar-te esperan\u00e7a de que nada \u00e9 permanente.<\/p>\n

Hope that you definitely won\u2019t be feeling this way \u2013 that time will fix you, if nothing else does.<\/p>\n

So, basically, whatever you\u2019re experiencing, the bottom line is that it will go away.<\/p>\n

Por muito otimista que isto possa parecer quando se trata de coisas m\u00e1s, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 bastante deprimente quando se trata de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e estados positivos, porque, de acordo com esta l\u00f3gica, eles tamb\u00e9m desaparecer\u00e3o, certo?<\/p>\n

O Tempo Cura Todas as Feridas Origem<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para onde quer que se olhe, v\u00ea-se algu\u00e9m com um o tempo cura todas as feridas <\/i>tattoo, quote, bumper sticker, social media post\u2026<\/p>\n

No entanto, pode perguntar-se quem foi o primeiro a dizer que o tempo cura todas as feridas? Qual \u00e9 a origem e o contexto hist\u00f3rico desta frase?<\/p>\n

Bem, apesar de n\u00e3o existirem dados exactos a este respeito, h\u00e1 algumas suposi\u00e7\u00f5es sobre quem foi o primeiro a dizer esta famosa frase e como se tornou um prov\u00e9rbio em muitas l\u00ednguas em todo o mundo.<\/p>\n

According to some sources, Glenn McCormick was the name of the man who once said \u201cGod heals all wounds.<\/p>\n

\u201d Nevertheless, after a while, the word Deus<\/i> foi substitu\u00eddo por tempo <\/i>and that is how we got today\u2019s form of this sentence.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, algo otimista e positivo como isto atra\u00eda as massas. Dava-lhes f\u00e9 num amanh\u00e3 melhor e for\u00e7a para continuar.<\/p>\n

It was a silver lining to many people\u2019s cloud, so it\u2019s no wonder this phrase not only stuck in many cultures, but also became so powerful and common.<\/p>\n

B\u00edblia O Tempo Cura Todas as Feridas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A no\u00e7\u00e3o de que quando o tempo passa, ele se torna o curador, est\u00e1 presente em muitas religi\u00f5es e especialmente no cristianismo.<\/p>\n

Embora a B\u00edblia nunca diga explicitamente esta frase exacta, aconselha certamente a paci\u00eancia e d\u00e1 esperan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

For example, in the words of the Psalm 147:3: \u201cHe heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.\u201d<\/p>\n

Aqui, est\u00e1 impl\u00edcito que \u00e9 Deus quem cura todas as feridas, em vez do pr\u00f3prio tempo.<\/p>\n

Also, in Jeremiah 33:6, it is said: \u201cBehold, I will bring it to health and healing, and I will hear them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sem d\u00favida, a palavra mais importante nesta frase \u00e9 \"ESPERA\", que basicamente est\u00e1 a dizer aos crentes para n\u00e3o esperarem que um milagre aconte\u00e7a de um dia para o outro.<\/p>\n

So, based on all of this, one can conclude that time alone doesn\u2019t have the necessary power to cure the believers and that time does not heal you. Instead, Jesus Christ sometimes needs time to save them because, according to the Bible, he is the only real healer.<\/p>\n

O Tempo Cura Todas as Feridas Cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Existem numerosos cita\u00e7\u00f5es profundas e inspiradoras<\/a> sobre o tempo cura todas as feridas<\/i>. <\/i>Aqui est\u00e3o algumas das mais motivadoras:<\/p>\n

Dizem que o tempo cura todas as feridas<\/i>. Deixem-me dizer-vos que o tempo n\u00e3o cura nada. <\/i><\/p>\n

You can do the wrong thing for 10 years and it doesn’t equal the right thing for one day. \u2013 <\/i>Phil Mcgraw<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 se disse que o tempo cura todas as feridas. Eu n\u00e3o concordo. As feridas permanecem. <\/i><\/p>\n

Com o tempo, a mente, protegendo a sua sanidade, cobre-os com <\/i>tecido cicatricial<\/i> and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. \u2013 <\/i>Rose Kennedy<\/p>\n

O tempo cura as m\u00e1goas e as brigas, porque mudamos e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o somos as mesmas pessoas. <\/i><\/p>\n

Neither the offender nor the offended are any more themselves. \u2013 <\/i>Blaise Pascal<\/p>\n

O tempo pode curar todas as feridas, mas n\u00e3o as apaga <\/i>as cicatrizes<\/i><\/a>. \u2013 <\/i>Jane Yolen<\/p>\n

I’ve learned\u2026 That love, not time, heals all wounds. \u2013 <\/i>Andy Rooney<\/p>\n

Who said that time heals all wounds? It would be better to say that time heals everything \u2013 except wounds. With time, the hurt of separation loses its real limits. <\/i><\/p>\n

With time, the desired body will soon disappear, and if the desiring body has already ceased to exist for the other, then what remains is a wound, disembodied. \u2013 <\/i>Chris Marker<\/p>\n

The defects and faults of the mind are like wounds in the body; after all imaginable care has been taken to heal them up, still there will be a scar left behind, and they are in continual danger of breaking the skin and bursting out again. \u2013 <\/i>Fran\u00e7ois de La Rochefoucauld<\/p>\n

O tempo n\u00e3o cura<\/i> all wounds. It just puts more space between the times you remember the events that gave you those wounds\u2026 There are some hurts that never stop hurting no matter how faded are <\/i>as cicatrizes<\/i>.<\/i> \u2013 Charles Watson<\/p>\n

Time doesn\u2019t, as advertised, heal wounds. Although the wrenching immediacy of grief eventually passed, the settled sorrow that replaced it might in its <\/i>caminho pr\u00f3prio<\/i> ser ainda mais intenso.<\/i> \u2013 Dean Koontz<\/p>\n

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