{"id":47857,"date":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T22:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47857"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:18:05","slug":"10-licoes-importantes-que-a-tua-quase-relacao-te-pode-ensinar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-licoes-importantes-que-a-tua-quase-relacao-te-pode-ensinar\/","title":{"rendered":"10 li\u00e7\u00f5es importantes que a sua quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode ensinar-lhe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even if he wasn\u2019t the right one, the pain will still be there <\/h2>\n

S\u00f3 porque o seu parceiro n\u00e3o era a pessoa certa, n\u00e3o quer dizer que n\u00e3o sofra.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9 que querias que isto resultasse. Deste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a tua alma para desenvolver bases fortes com o homem. <\/p>\n

Querias tudo, mas n\u00e3o recebeste nada em troca.<\/p>\n

Eras apenas mais uma rapariga que ele seduzia com o seu charme e as suas palavras doces.<\/p>\n

E tu ca\u00edste nessa.<\/p>\n

You gave all you had and he couldn\u2019t even commit to you.<\/p>\n

So, when he leaves, don\u2019t wonder why your heart is broken.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal that you feel that way. <\/p>\n

But trust me, what doesn\u2019t kill you makes you stronger.<\/p>\n

Maybe you feel bad now, but you\u2019ll soon be so happy that you got rid of someone who could never love you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t make you feel good, you\u2019re allowed to leave <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Permanecer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase perfeita \u00e9 como agarrar-se a algo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 real.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 pode ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o ainda mais partido e acabar deprimido. <\/p>\n

No man should ever make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n

E se houver algu\u00e9m que vos fa\u00e7a sentir assim, esque\u00e7am-no.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be the man of your dreams. <\/p>\n

Ele nunca poderia dar-te o amor que mereces.<\/p>\n

And what\u2019s most important: ele nunca te p\u00f4s em primeiro lugar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should leave whenever you feel unappreciated.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re ready to invest it all to be happy with him and he doesn\u2019t feel the same way, just leave.<\/p>\n

If he cared enough, he\u2019d pursue you.<\/p>\n

But since he\u2019s not giving you what you want, it is better to end it before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Acredita em mim, ningu\u00e9m te vai culpar por escolheres perseguir a tua felicidade. <\/p>\n

Merece uma conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se deve implorar por uma conclus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something that should happen naturally.<\/p>\n

One of the characteristics of almost relationships is not getting closure because the one who loves less thinks he doesn\u2019t have to justify himself. <\/p>\n

So you end up with all your feelings and you don\u2019t know where to put them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re confused because you didn\u2019t see the red flags and now it\u2019s suddenly all over.<\/p>\n

Pode ser bastante duro.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn\u2019t give you any closure, just move on and be happy that you\u2019re free to do what you want. <\/p>\n

Salvou-se a tempo e pode agora come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Podes apaixonar-te por algu\u00e9m que sabe amar.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anyone<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter how much you try, you can\u2019t change someone unless they want to do so.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t even try.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste your time and energy on trying to make someone love you. <\/p>\n

Love and friendships shouldn\u2019t be forced.<\/p>\n

Devem surgir naturalmente.<\/p>\n

E se vires que n\u00e3o vais a lado nenhum, esquece.<\/p>\n

Vai doer menos, confia em mim.<\/p>\n

O que precisa de fazer \u00e9 aceitar que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 destinado a voc\u00eas os dois e seguir em frente. <\/p>\n

Once you remove yourself from everything that was breaking you, you\u2019ll see that you did the right thing.<\/p>\n

E a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar t\u00e3o orgulhoso de si pr\u00f3prio ser\u00e1 a mais doce de sempre.<\/p>\n

O problema n\u00e3o est\u00e1 em si<\/h2>\n

\"pura<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019ll reach a stage where you believe that the problem lies with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not true. You are not guilty of falling in love with that jerk. <\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how he\u2019d behave toward you.<\/p>\n

You believed all he said and thought he\u2019d provide you with that fairytale he was talking about.<\/p>\n

You gave him all you had and he didn\u2019t give you anything in return.<\/p>\n

You waited for him to get his shit together but he didn\u2019t change. <\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o tem qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o fazer.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel bad after you leave him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll just jump over to another victim and do the same to her.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think you\u2019re the guilty one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one to blame.<\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t you ever forget that.<\/p>\n

O amor j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tem o mesmo significado para ti<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

After you get your heart broken, you don\u2019t have the same outlook on love.<\/p>\n

When you escape an almost relationship, you\u2019re so scared that every next man who enters your life will do the same to you. <\/p>\n

Pensamos nisto sempre que algu\u00e9m nos chama a aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E depois foge-se sempre do amor.<\/p>\n

And even if you know that you\u2019re not doing the right thing, you\u2019ll be a prisoner of your own mind for so long. <\/p>\n

You think that true love doesn\u2019t exist until you find a man who makes all your doubts go away.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o ser\u00e1 finalmente a vers\u00e3o antiga de si pr\u00f3prio. <\/p>\n

Aprende-se a respeitar-se mais a si pr\u00f3prio <\/h2>\n

After all that you\u2019ve gone through in your almost relationship, you actually learned one thing well: how to respect and love yourself.<\/p>\n

Now you know that if you don\u2019t respect yourself enough, others won\u2019t do it either. <\/p>\n

And that\u2019s what you are proud of currently.<\/p>\n

Percebemos que qualquer homem mau tentar\u00e1 enganar-nos e aproveitar-se de n\u00f3s se o deixarmos.<\/p>\n

Mas como j\u00e1 passou pelo horror de estar com algu\u00e9m que queria tudo sem lhe dar nada em troca, sabe como agir agora. <\/p>\n

Nunca permitir\u00e1s que nenhum homem te maltrate ou te tome por garantida.<\/p>\n

Agora queres tudo ou nada.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re staying single<\/a> at\u00e9 obteres o que realmente mereces. <\/p>\n

Ultrapassa-se mais cedo do que se pensa <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t believe that you\u2019ll get over your almost relationship, but you will.<\/p>\n

De facto, acontece mais cedo do que se pensa.<\/p>\n

I know that you are confused now and don\u2019t know how to move on, but you\u2019ll learn to live with it over time. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go through different phases and learn new things about yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re no longer the same person and the change you went through actually helped you. <\/p>\n

Maybe you didn\u2019t end up with the love of your life, but you learned to get over some things faster.<\/p>\n

You discovered a new strength within yourself and are now so proud of the woman you\u2019ve become. <\/p>\n

You no longer compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives <\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se acaba uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase terminada, aprendem-se algumas coisas.<\/p>\n

You learn that you shouldn\u2019t compare your love life with other people\u2019s lives. <\/p>\n

You realize that every love story is individual and you can\u2019t expect the same thing to happen to you as to your best friend.<\/p>\n

If you continue doing that, you\u2019ll end up depressed every time someone else gets what you wanted. <\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, h\u00e1 pessoas que sabem mentir bem e fingir que est\u00e1 tudo bem.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s one more reason to stop trusting all that you see.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais cedo o conseguir, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 para si.<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m te ama, vai atr\u00e1s de ti <\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It is pretty simple. You know if someone loves you if they\u2019re prepared to chase you.<\/p>\n

Ponto final. Tudo o resto s\u00e3o brincadeiras.<\/p>\n

So, when you notice that a man you\u2019re seeing wants boyfriend benefits but doesn\u2019t want to be your boyfriend, just know it\u2019s a red flag. <\/p>\n

If someone truly cares about you, he\u2019ll make some effort.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll try to make you feel good and nothing will be too much for him.<\/p>\n

So, next time someone tries to lead you on just because they\u2019re your weak spot, just move on. <\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa que queira mais do que d\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente digna de fazer parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n

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