{"id":47894,"date":"2019-11-18T21:17:45","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T21:17:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47894"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:40:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:40:02","slug":"4-coisas-que-o-seu-ex-traidor-fara-para-tentar-reconquista-la","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-coisas-que-o-seu-ex-traidor-fara-para-tentar-reconquista-la\/","title":{"rendered":"4 coisas que o teu ex traidor far\u00e1 para te tentar reconquistar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser tra\u00edda \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dolorosas e humilhantes que qualquer mulher pode experimentar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 despeda\u00e7ado, o seu ego est\u00e1 quebrado e a sua dignidade est\u00e1 ferida.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, apesar de saberem tudo isto, h\u00e1 muitas mulheres que aceitam de volta os seus ex traidores. Porqu\u00ea?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, a verdade \u00e9 que a maioria <\/span>batoteiros<\/span><\/a> s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m manipuladores muito h\u00e1beis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Utilizam diferentes estrat\u00e9gias e t\u00e9cnicas para atrair as suas v\u00edtimas, e aqui est\u00e3o 4 das mais comuns.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Negar o caso<\/h2>\n

\"Silhueta<\/p>\n

At first, when you find out that your partner has been unfaithful, he will do his best to deny his affair, and he\u2019ll never admit his wrongdoings if he thinks he has a chance of getting away with them. <\/span><\/p>\n

He might even try to convince you that you\u2019re crazy for suspecting him and try to make you feel guilty for not believing him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tenha em aten\u00e7\u00e3o que, ao fazer isto, ele est\u00e1 a usar psicologia inversa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele quer tirar toda a culpa de cima de si e fazer com que voc\u00ea pare\u00e7a o mau da fita, apesar de ambos saberem que n\u00e3o fez nada de errado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you catch him red-handed and even if you have all the evidence which proves his infidelity, he\u2019ll still deny that he is guilty. In fact, he\u2019ll probably tell you that things aren\u2019t as they seem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que nenhuma mulher no seu perfeito ju\u00edzo compraria as tretas dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, infelizmente, muitas raparigas caem nestas desculpas vazias e enganos simplesmente porque querem acreditar nos seus parceiros.<\/span><\/p>\n

Querem preservar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o a todo o custo e \u00e9-lhes mais f\u00e1cil mentir a si pr\u00f3prios do que enfrentar a verdade brutal.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Apresent\u00e1-lo como irrelevante<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, when a cheater doesn\u2019t have anywhere to go and when he sees that you are not believing in his lies, he will have to admit his infidelity. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, even when he does this, he\u2019ll try his best to present it as something unimportant, something that never mattered in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably tell you that this was nothing but a moment of weakness and that it is not something that should have any effect on your relationship whatsoever. <\/span><\/p>\n

Segundo ele, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de destruir o que voc\u00eas constru\u00edram durante anos e, definitivamente, n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo a que devam dar tanta aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o pela qual esta estrat\u00e9gia funciona em muitos casos reside no facto de a maioria das raparigas gostar de ouvir estas palavras dos seus ex traidor<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

They want to believe him when he says that all other girls in his life are just temporary and that they\u2019re the only ones who matter.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Culpam-no por isso<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Outra t\u00e9cnica que o seu <\/span>ex traidor<\/span><\/a> provavelmente usar\u00e1 nas suas tentativas de voltar a estar consigo \u00e9 tentar atribuir-lhe todas as culpas pelos seus actos. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably accuse you of not giving him enough attention or for killing the flame and the passion in your relationship, which made him look for comfort somewhere else.<\/span><\/p>\n

He wants to completely turn the tables and present you as the one who should be apologizing for the fact that he deliberately and consciously chose to hurt you. This is something you shouldn\u2019t allow at all costs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tenha tido os seus problemas, isso n\u00e3o pode ser uma desculpa para a infidelidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, he had the possibility of leaving you if he saw that you guys aren\u2019t functioning together which is always a better option than betraying you in this way.<\/span><\/p>\n

So instead of allowing him to convince you that you\u2019re guilty, be aware of one fact: this guy is not only a cheater, he is also a toxic manipulator who doesn\u2019t know how to take responsibility for his actions.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Prometer-vos o mundo<\/h2>\n

\"Empres\u00e1rio<\/p>\n

A \u00faltima estrat\u00e9gia, mas definitivamente n\u00e3o a menos perigosa, que o seu ex traidor ir\u00e1 sem d\u00favida utilizar para a convencer a aceit\u00e1-lo de volta \u00e9 fazer-lhe falsas promessas. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that he is ready to do whatever it takes for <\/span>outra oportunidade<\/span><\/a>, that this was a mistake he doesn\u2019t plan on repeating, and that he\u2019ll be the best possible boyfriend in the future, if you just give him the opportunity to repent. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele esteja apenas \u00e0 procura de luz verde para continuar a mago\u00e1-la.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, it is up to you whether you\u2019ll forgive a cheater and take him back, but I\u2019m just begging you to take into consideration the fact that most cheaters continue with their misdeeds even after endless second chances. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is probably not sorry for cheating on you\u2013he is only sorry that he got caught.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, as pessoas raramente mudam e n\u00e3o \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o seu ex seja uma exce\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you forgive him this time, he\u2019ll probably keep on cheating on you because he\u2019ll see your forgiveness as a sign of approval.<\/span><\/p>\n

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