{"id":48013,"date":"2019-11-19T19:25:46","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T19:25:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48013"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:19:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:19:10","slug":"a-pessoa-certa-vai-amar-te-por-todas-as-coisas-pelas-quais-a-pessoa-errada-te-deixou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pessoa-certa-vai-amar-te-por-todas-as-coisas-pelas-quais-a-pessoa-errada-te-deixou\/","title":{"rendered":"A pessoa certa vai amar-te por todas as coisas que a pessoa errada te deixou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lembra-se de como o seu ex aproveitava todas as oportunidades que tinha para apontar os seus defeitos e as coisas de que n\u00e3o gostava em si?<\/p>\n<p>Como ele tentou constantemente mudar-te e transformar-te numa rapariga que nunca quiseste ou pudeste ser?<\/p>\n<p>Para ser sincero, este homem passou toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o a criticar tudo sobre si, desde a sua apar\u00eancia \u00e0 forma como se veste, aos seus amigos, h\u00e1bitos e personalidade.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, he acted like he couldn\u2019t stand you and from this point of view, you can\u2019t help but wonder why he was with you in the first place, when you clearly annoyed the hell out of him.<\/p>\n<p>Ele estava sempre a sugerir que engordasse ou mudasse a cor do seu cabelo.<\/p>\n<p>Ele n\u00e3o parava de te chatear por as tuas saias serem demasiado curtas e as tuas unhas demasiado compridas.<\/p>\n<p>However, he didn\u2019t only have issues with this simple stuff.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ele tamb\u00e9m achava que falavas demasiado, que eras demasiado barulhenta e demasiado feminista.<\/p>\n<p>Ele discordava de todas as suas atitudes, muitas vezes considerava-o est\u00fapido e fazia o poss\u00edvel para o fazer mudar de ideias sobre literalmente tudo.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t like any of your friends or co-workers and even your closest family members bothered him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48100\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14375551371.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14375551371.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14375551371-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14375551371-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>According to him, you spent your free time in all the wrong ways, you slept too much and ate too little, you didn\u2019t know how to dress, you used too much make-up and all of your judgments were bad.<\/p>\n<p><b>A lista pode continuar para sempre, mas a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que nada do que fizeste foi suficiente para este homem t\u00f3xico. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ele nunca estava satisfeito contigo e nunca recebeste a sua aprova\u00e7\u00e3o ou elogio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, come\u00e7ou a acreditar que o problema era voc\u00ea quando, na verdade, ele era o vil\u00e3o da hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, <b>you weren\u2019t <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-estas-a-pedir-demasiado-estas-a-pedir-a-pessoa-errada\/\"><b>pedir demasiado<\/b><\/a><b> and you aren\u2019t too skinny, too much of a smartass, too stubborn or too emotional\u2014you were just too much to handle for a weak, immature man like him.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se aperceber de que ele estava a tentar aumentar o seu ego e curar os seus problemas de inseguran\u00e7a pondo-a em baixo e destruindo a sua auto-confian\u00e7a, come\u00e7ou a questionar o seu pr\u00f3prio valor e a perguntar-se o que poderia fazer para se melhorar.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe que, infelizmente, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada de invulgar, porque muitas rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas seguem exatamente este padr\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, tudo \u00e9 completamente diferente quando se entra numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e madura.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll see that for yourself once you finally find a real man.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando este homem entrar na sua vida, vai amar todas as partes de si.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Ele amar\u00e1 todas as tuas cicatrizes, todos os fragmentos quebrados e todos os peda\u00e7os de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48101\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_4728109271.jpg\" alt=\"casal num barco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_4728109271.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_4728109271-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_4728109271-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This man won\u2019t love you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/estar-com-alguem-que-nao-te-ama-apesar-dos-teus-defeitos-mas-por-causa-deles\/\">apesar das vossas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>, he will love you for them because he\u2019ll know that even your flaws make the person you are today.<\/p>\n<p><b>And the best thing about it all is that he wouldn\u2019t change a thing about you, even if he had the chance to.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se sentir intimidado pela sua for\u00e7a mental e emocional, <b>ele orgulhar-se-\u00e1 da mulher poderosa que tem ao seu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Proud of the fact that you have an opinion and attitude of your own and proud of the fact that you know what you want and aren\u2019t afraid to get it.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se sentir amea\u00e7ado pelas suas realiza\u00e7\u00f5es, ele ficar\u00e1 feliz com todos os seus \u00eaxitos.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t compete with you, nor will he feel less of a man because you achieved more or because he doesn\u2019t earn as much money as you do.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de tentar estar acima de si, este homem ficar\u00e1 feliz por encontrar uma igual <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-qualidades-divinas-que-fazem-o-parceiro-perfeito\/\">parceiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Happy to have a woman who has the capacity to go through life shoulder to shoulder next to him, a woman who doesn\u2019t need his guidance and a woman who doesn\u2019t expect him to show her the way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48102\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6582257861.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6582257861.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6582257861-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6582257861-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de ter ci\u00fames da sua apar\u00eancia, ele vai considerar-se sortudo por ter acertado no jackpot e ter uma namorada t\u00e3o boa.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t mind all those other guys staring at you because he\u2019ll know that you\u2019re all his and that the only thing they can do is look because he is the one who has you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Em vez de tentar deit\u00e1-lo abaixo, ele far\u00e1 o seu melhor para o fazer avan\u00e7ar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Em vez de o derrubar, ele ser\u00e1 o vento para as suas asas e estar\u00e1 sempre presente para o ajudar quando precisar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Parece demasiado bom para ser verdade, eu sei.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, posso garantir-lhe que um homem assim existe e s\u00f3 quando o conhecer \u00e9 que ver\u00e1 as diferen\u00e7as cruciais entre ele e todos os outros que a tentaram destruir, incluindo o idiota do seu ex.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48099\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/ihrweg.com4_-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A pessoa certa vai amar-te por todas as coisas que a pessoa errada te deixou\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/ihrweg.com4_-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/ihrweg.com4_-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/ihrweg.com4_.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember how your ex used every opportunity he got to point out your flaws and the things he didn\u2019t like about you? How he constantly tried to change you and turn you into a girl you never wanted or could be? To be honest, this guy spent your entire relationship criticizing everything about you, from&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":48097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_14304467001.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48013"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48013\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}