{"id":48020,"date":"2019-11-19T20:02:30","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T20:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48020"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:19:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:19:30","slug":"escolhe-sabiamente-as-tuas-batalhas-porque-nem-todas-sao-dignas-das-tuas-cicatrizes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/escolhe-sabiamente-as-tuas-batalhas-porque-nem-todas-sao-dignas-das-tuas-cicatrizes\/","title":{"rendered":"Escolhe as tuas batalhas com sabedoria porque nem todas s\u00e3o dignas das tuas cicatrizes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que \u00e9s o tipo de rapariga que defende aquilo em que acredita.<\/p>\n

A girl who can\u2019t keep still while there is injustice going on around her, a girl who is always giving her best to do the right thing and a girl who thinks she can change everyone for the better, if she just tries hard enough.<\/p>\n

Embora ter este tipo de esp\u00edrito seja fant\u00e1stico, tenho de rebentar a tua bolha e dizer-te para te descontra\u00edres, para te tornares um pouco mais realista e para tirares a cabe\u00e7a das nuvens.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not a kid anymore and it\u2019s time to realize that you can\u2019t save the world, as much as you\u2019d like to.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for you to start appreciating your own time and energy and to stop wasting either of them on irrelevant people and situations.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 altura de escolher o que e quem merece o seu m\u00e1ximo esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

You simply have to learn when it\u2019s time to fight and when it\u2019s time to turn your back and <\/b>sair<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Learn when it\u2019s time to tackle a certain issue and when it\u2019s time to embrace it and to accept that you can\u2019t change it.<\/b><\/p>\n

You have to learn that letting go doesn\u2019t equal quitting and that giving up doesn\u2019t necessarily mean you\u2019re weak.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014for as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been always giving one hundred percent of yourself to every relationship you get involved with.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether we\u2019re talking about romance, friendship, your studies or your work\u2014you go all the way in or you don\u2019t put yourself out there at all.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parab\u00e9ns porque este \u00e9 um tra\u00e7o de personalidade espantoso.<\/p>\n

It shows that you\u2019re a persistent girl who doesn\u2019t give up until she gets what she wants and until she achieves her initial goals.<\/p>\n

No entanto, embora o seu poder de car\u00e1cter seja fant\u00e1stico, este tipo de estilo de vida teve um impacto negativo na sua alma cansada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Exauriu-o e deixou-o sem for\u00e7a interior para lidar com as coisas que realmente importam.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re left with negativity and darkness which cannot be chased away as easily.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re left all alone to tackle your own issues, without anyone to give you a hand.<\/p>\n

Desperdi\u00e7ou muito do seu tempo e esfor\u00e7o em in\u00fameras rela\u00e7\u00f5es que estavam condenadas ao fracasso, em numerosas amizades que se revelaram falsas e em pessoas que nunca mereceram que levantasse um dedo por elas.<\/b><\/p>\n

E agora, n\u00e3o tem energia para lutar contra os seus pr\u00f3prios dem\u00f3nios e para p\u00f4r a sua vida em ordem.<\/p>\n

So instead of acting like everyone\u2019s guardian angel, give yourself a break.<\/p>\n

Instead of being so scared of quitting, give yourself the opportunity to change your mind and to let go of those who don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014you can\u2019t win every battle.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be your goal either.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, deve concentrar-se em aprender a escolher bem as suas batalhas, porque nem todos s\u00e3o dignos das suas cicatrizes. <\/b><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014if you fight each one of them with the same passion and intensity, you\u2019ll be too exhausted to win the ones which really matter.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow toxic people to drain your precious energy because when the time comes, you\u2019ll have none left to handle your own issues. <\/b><\/p>\n

E h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m uma coisa que tens de recordar quando se trata de ti: nem todos os problemas que tens s\u00e3o o fim do mundo, sabes?<\/p>\n

Nem todos os pequenos inconvenientes com que se depara merecem que se martirize ou que se deixe dominar completamente por eles e nem todas as discuss\u00f5es em que se envolve merecem que perca a cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

As pessoas far\u00e3o sempre coisas que desaprovamos.<\/p>\n

Ter\u00e3o sempre perspectivas diferentes na vida e cometer\u00e3o sempre erros.<\/p>\n

No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 sua fun\u00e7\u00e3o mostrar-lhes o caminho e segurar-lhes a m\u00e3o no caminho, especialmente se isso n\u00e3o for algo que eles queiram.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 sua fun\u00e7\u00e3o pux\u00e1-los fora da escurid\u00e3o<\/a> e ser a sua luz ao fundo do t\u00fanel.<\/p>\n

Seja suficientemente inteligente para escolher os desafios que enfrenta e aos quais responde. <\/b><\/p>\n

Suficientemente inteligente para preservar a sua energia e o seu tempo para pessoas e situa\u00e7\u00f5es relevantes, sem o utilizar com toda a gente que por acaso entra na sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por favor, seja sensato e escolha apenas os desafios que o ajudar\u00e3o a tornar-se melhor e que lhe oferecem a possibilidade de se aperfei\u00e7oar.<\/p>\n

E quando se trata do resto, basta deix\u00e1-los passar e deix\u00e1-los para tr\u00e1s, onde eles pertencem.<\/p>\n

\"Escolhe<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that you\u2019re the type of girl who stands for what she believes in. A girl who can\u2019t keep still while there is injustice going on around her, a girl who is always giving her best to do the right thing and a girl who thinks she can change everyone for the better, if…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":48108,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_6451009631.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48020\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}