{"id":48069,"date":"2020-09-19T18:41:39","date_gmt":"2020-09-19T18:41:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48069"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:41:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:41:54","slug":"leia-isto-sempre-que-se-comecar-a-comparar-com-uma-rapariga-mais-bonita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-sempre-que-se-comecar-a-comparar-com-uma-rapariga-mais-bonita\/","title":{"rendered":"Leia isto sempre que come\u00e7ar a comparar-se com uma rapariga mais bonita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s when you&#8217;re sitting in a waiting room, walking down the street or scrolling down your feed on social media that you notice hot girls with perfect bodies, hair and make-up.<\/p>\n<p>And then you think: &#8220;I&#8217;ll never look that good no matter how hard I try because God blessed me with an apple-shaped figure instead of an hourglass one.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re automatically convinced that in order to wear the crown of the prettiest girl in the room, you need to meet certain standards because beautiful girls all have one thing in common: \u2018They look flawless\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>You suddenly feel like you&#8217;re not good enough and that you should&#8217;ve tried harder because being just a pretty girl is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>But what if I told you that a prettier girl doesn&#8217;t exist?<\/p>\n<p><b>Existem <\/b><b>mulheres atraentes<\/b><b>, <\/b><b>mulheres bonitas<\/b><b>, <\/b><b>bom aspeto<\/b><b> mulheres e <\/b><b>mulheres bonitas<\/b><b> a transbordar de <\/b><b>autoconfian\u00e7a<\/b><b> mas NENHUM deles \u00e9 <\/b><b>mais bonito<\/b><b> do que tu e nem nunca o ser\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E a \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual pensa que eles s\u00e3o <\/b><b>mais bonito<\/b><b> do que tu \u00e9 porque <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/isto-e-o-que-significa-realmente-amarmo-nos-a-nos-proprios\/\"><b>you&#8217;re being too harsh on yourself<\/b><\/a><b>!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual pensa que as raparigas novas do seu liceu ou do seu trabalho e mesmo as suas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/o-valor-da-amizade-e-a-sua-importancia-crucial\/\"> amigas <\/a> are prettier than you is because you&#8217;ve forgotten your own self-worth .<\/p>\n<p>You have forgotten how pretty you truly are and that you&#8217;re just a human being with your own unique qualities and flaws and all those little things that make you who you are!<\/p>\n<p>You have forgotten that you don&#8217;t have to be perfect in order to compete with that one prettier girl .<\/p>\n<p>Todos esses modelos perfeitos que v\u00ea na televis\u00e3o e nas redes sociais n\u00e3o s\u00e3o reais!<\/p>\n<p>Os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social est\u00e3o cheios de jovens raparigas de 22 a 25 anos, bloguistas e outras raparigas famosas cujas apari\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o tratadas por um m\u00ednimo de dez pessoas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112984\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher atenta a olhar pela janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ser mais exato, os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social est\u00e3o cheios de merda! <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Os meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o social s\u00e3o um dos principais culpados por terem dado in\u00edcio a esta s\u00edndrome da rapariga mais bonita ao publicitarem a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o e apenas a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;ve ever thought that one of the girls on the small screen is prettier than you, you have no idea how wrong you are!<\/p>\n<p>Even \u2018the prettiest girls \u2019 have huge issues with self-esteem , have regular problems with best friends , falling in love for the first time and finding the right person and even \u2018the prettiest girls \u2019 sometimes do desperate things to feel better in their skin.<\/p>\n<p>You see, \u2018a prettier girl \u2019 is just another girl next door, with the same problems as you, and with the same thinking as you.<\/p>\n<p>Essa rapariga mais bonita tamb\u00e9m pensa que outra pessoa \u00e9 mais bonita do que ela e \u00e9 assim que acabamos todos por ficar presos neste ciclo vicioso e intermin\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>After all, what makes a girl prettier ? Is it her appearance, perfect mind or something else? Is there perhaps a tool for measuring levels of beauty that we&#8217;ve been ignorant of?<\/p>\n<p><b>Claro que n\u00e3o!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If Instagram was considered a tool for measuring beauty, then we&#8217;re on a <i> autoestrada para o inferno, <\/i> o que, aparentemente, foi previsto pelos AC\/DC h\u00e1 muito tempo. A \u00fanica verdade \u00e9 a seguinte:<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s bela \u00e0 tua maneira e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma \u00fanica alma no planeta Terra que te possa dizer o contr\u00e1rio ou fazer-te sentir o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>Not a single soul on the planet is prettier than you because we&#8217;re all created in the image and likeness of God.<\/p>\n<p><b>There isn&#8217;t a wrong way. There isn&#8217;t a right way. <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/deus-ve-todas-as-tuas-imperfeicoes-mas-ama-te-perfeitamente\/\"><b>There isn&#8217;t perfection.<\/b><\/a><b> There isn&#8217;t imperfection.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que observamos, sentimos e pensamos \u00e9 um produto do nosso eu interior!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112986\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a posar na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-woman-posing-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se te convenceres de que outra pessoa \u00e9 mais bonita do que tu, passar\u00e1s toda a tua vida a viver numa ilus\u00e3o, s\u00f3 porque foste demasiado cruel contigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>O que pensamos \u00e9 um reflexo do que sentimos sobre n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios!<\/p>\n<p>If you constantly feel like \u2018She&#8217;s prettier than me,\u2019 it is because a lack of something inside your soul has invented it. It&#8217;s not real!<\/p>\n<p>Se pensa que os outros s\u00e3o mais bonitos do que voc\u00ea, n\u00e3o \u00e9 porque eles s\u00e3o mais bonitos. \u00c9 porque se sente vazio, insatisfeito e menos digno. \u00c9 porque o criou e n\u00e3o porque \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n<p>E acreditem em mim, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para se sentirem assim! Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p><b>Because you&#8217;re amazing! <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes, you&#8217;re amazing. You spent nine months in your mother&#8217;s belly, you spent three years shitting in diapers, you gave your parents nightmares as a teenager, you spent thousands of nerves (and years) finishing school, you spent an eternity finding the right guy who ended up being your best guy friend , you got fired at the worst possible time and guess what?<\/p>\n<p><b>You&#8217;re still here! You&#8217;re still here because you&#8217;re fucking amazing, so don&#8217;t you dare compare yourself with others!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you dare think that you&#8217;re not good enough or that others are prettier than you because they&#8217;re fucking not and they never will be.<\/p>\n<p>There isn&#8217;t a single person like you in the entire universe and if that&#8217;s not enough to make you feel like the prettiest creature on earth, I don&#8217;t know what is.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously. I&#8217;m not even kidding now. You have no idea <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-formas-poderosas-de-usar-a-sua-energia-feminina-para-atrair-o-homem-certo\/\"> o qu\u00e3o poderoso tu realmente \u00e9s <\/a> de dentro para fora. N\u00e3o fazes ideia do potencial que tens!<\/p>\n<p>Pode conseguir tudo o que quiser, por isso, porqu\u00ea perder tempo a sentir-se mal e a pensar que precisa de mudar para vencer todas as mulheres que acha que s\u00e3o mais bonitas do que voc\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira a sorrir para a c\u00e2mara\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/blond-woman-smiling-to-camera-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No. You don&#8217;t need to prove anything to anyone, let alone bother yourself with such nonsense because guess what?<\/p>\n<p>Tu j\u00e1 \u00e9s a mais bonita porque tu \u00e9s tu e nunca ningu\u00e9m ser\u00e1 como tu!<\/p>\n<p>Temos a nossa pr\u00f3pria perspetiva \u00fanica, temos as nossas pr\u00f3prias formas de lidar com as coisas, temos os nossos pr\u00f3prios h\u00e1bitos idiotas e temos a nossa pr\u00f3pria forma de comer massa e de lidar com pessoas irritantes.<\/p>\n<p>Tens a tua pr\u00f3pria aura e energia que podem atrair as maiores coisas do mundo, se forem redireccionadas para valores reais.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que alguma vez se compararia com os outros ou pensaria que eles s\u00e3o mais bonitos do que voc\u00ea? Porque \u00e9 que alguma vez pensaria, por um segundo que fosse, que aquilo que \u00e9 n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom?<\/p>\n<p><b>The moment you start living a life where you no longer give a shit about trivial things is the moment when you&#8217;ll realize how wrong you were. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>The moment you start noticing all those great things about you inside out is the moment when you&#8217;ll realize your TRUE BEAUTY!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, open your eyes and promise yourself that you&#8217;ll never, ever again think that someone else is prettier , more successful or better than you because the only truth is that we are as beautiful as we think we are!<\/p>\n<p>If you treat yourself with care, spoil yourself with long bubble baths and drinks with your best friends and enjoy every single second of the day, the next day and the day after that, it means you&#8217;re living life to the fullest and that is the only thing that matters.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que importa \u00e9 sentirmo-nos realizados, amados, saud\u00e1veis e gratos no final do dia.<\/p>\n<p>And the sooner you realize that, the sooner you&#8217;ll awaken your true beauty and you will no longer be overly critical toward yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that love is the most powerful force in the universe and if you&#8217;re living by the principles of love, you will discover how powerful, brave and beautiful you truly are.<\/p>\n<p>Because it&#8217;s what you&#8217;re feeling in your heart that reflects on the outside.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e bonita a sorrir\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might be Miss Universe but with an empty heart and soul, it just means nothing. Even if you were officially declared the most beautiful woman on earth, if you&#8217;re not content with yourself and if your outer beauty doesn&#8217;t match your heart, everything would be meaningless.<\/p>\n<p>If you had perfect hair, nails, body and outfit, you still wouldn&#8217;t be happy and you would still keep looking for someone who looks prettier than you.<\/p>\n<p><b>O segredo para <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-regras-de-relacionamento-a-seguir-se-quiser-ter-uma-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\"><b>viver uma vida feliz<\/b><\/a><b> e <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/confidence\/20-sinais-de-que-se-deve-amar-mais-a-si-proprio\/\"><b>estar apaixonado por si pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/a><b> est\u00e1 em aceitar-se como um ser \u00fanico e perfeitamente imperfeito <\/b><b>ser humano<\/b><b> e dar o seu melhor para ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de SI MESMO e n\u00e3o a melhor vers\u00e3o dos OUTROS.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 milhares de carros mais bonitos do que o seu, h\u00e1 milhares de namorados mais bonitos do que o seu, h\u00e1 milhares de apartamentos mais bonitos do que o seu.<\/p>\n<p>Mas nenhum deles \u00e9 como aquele que tens!<\/p>\n<p>Nenhum desses carros tem os encantos do teu carro. Nenhum daqueles namorados tem o carisma do teu namorado. Nenhum desses apartamentos \u00e9 t\u00e3o confort\u00e1vel como o teu.<\/p>\n<p>O mesmo se aplica a ti. H\u00e1 milhares de raparigas que podem ser mais bonitas do que tu, mas nenhuma delas \u00e9 TU e \u00e9 isso que te torna verdadeiramente especial e bonita!<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/e-assim-que-se-deixa-de-sentir-ciumes-de-uma-rapariga-mais-bonita\/\"> \u00c9 assim que se deixa de sentir inveja de uma rapariga mais bonita <\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112983\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Read-This-Every-Time-You-Start-Comparing-Yourself-With-A-Prettier-Girl-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Leia isto sempre que come\u00e7ar a comparar-se com uma rapariga mais bonita\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Read-This-Every-Time-You-Start-Comparing-Yourself-With-A-Prettier-Girl-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Read-This-Every-Time-You-Start-Comparing-Yourself-With-A-Prettier-Girl-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Read-This-Every-Time-You-Start-Comparing-Yourself-With-A-Prettier-Girl-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s when you&#8217;re sitting in a waiting room, walking down the street or scrolling down your feed on social media that you notice hot girls with perfect bodies, hair and make-up. And then you think: &#8220;I&#8217;ll never look that good no matter how hard I try because God blessed me with an apple-shaped figure instead&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":112995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Read-This-Every-Time-You-Start-Comparing-Yourself-With-A-Prettier-Girl-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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