{"id":48452,"date":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T15:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48452"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:57:02","slug":"8-problemas-das-relacoes-a-distancia-e-como-faze-las-funcionar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-problemas-das-relacoes-a-distancia-e-como-faze-las-funcionar\/","title":{"rendered":"8 problemas de relacionamentos \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia (e como faz\u00ea-los funcionar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s a known fact that maintaining a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> \u00e9 um fardo que muitos hesitam em assumir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Preservar um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span> sobre <\/span>Skype<\/span> com o seu <\/span>ente querido<\/span> traz <\/span>problemas comuns<\/span> que muitos casais nunca deveriam experimentar. <\/span><\/p>\n

No <\/span>fim do dia<\/span>, <\/span>amor \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> doesn’t provide you with that <\/span>cara a cara<\/span> toque que traz calor e seguran\u00e7a durante <\/span>dias maus<\/span> e alimenta-o durante os bons momentos.<\/span><\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o <\/span>trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/span> como est\u00e1. Mas quando a vida nos leva numa viagem para longe da nossa <\/span>ente querido<\/span> (por vezes at\u00e9 a diferentes <\/span>fusos hor\u00e1rios<\/span>), p\u00f5e \u00e0 prova tudo o que tu e o teu parceiro constru\u00edram.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s extremely emotionally exhausting, and most <\/i><\/b>de longa dist\u00e2ncia<\/i><\/b><\/a> rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/i><\/b> don’t go the distance (pun intended), particularly for that reason. You need your partner right by your side. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mensagens de texto<\/i><\/b> isn’t going to cut it when you’re balling your eyes out at midnight<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Chamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span> can’t replace the touch of your <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Observar <\/span>Netflix<\/span> juntos sobre <\/span>Skype<\/span> fica t\u00e3o triste, e o seu <\/span>LDR<\/span> provoca tanta coisa injustificada <\/span>falha de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> que acabamos por imaginar a nossa iminente <\/span>rutura<\/span><\/a> no matter how hard you’re fighting for your <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span> doesn’t make you feel paranoid and lonely on a daily basis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas um parceiro \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia pode come\u00e7ar a ter problemas com <\/span>possessividade<\/span> when they can’t be there to <\/span>efetuar o check-in<\/span> todos os dias em pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para tornar o seu <\/span>trabalho de relacionamento \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span>, \u00e9 preciso ter confian\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se o seu <\/span>parceiro \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> can’t give you that, how long until many other <\/span>problemas de relacionamento \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> come\u00e7ar a atormentar o vosso amor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo falta para o seu <\/i><\/b>Skype<\/i><\/b> as sess\u00f5es transformam-se em discuss\u00f5es acaloradas sobre o que o seu parceiro viu na sua <\/i><\/b>redes sociais<\/i><\/b><\/a> ontem? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo falta para <\/i><\/b>mensagens de texto<\/i><\/b> se transformar numa conversa passivo-agressiva que come\u00e7amos a temer?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

How long until you realize you’re neglecting your <\/span>vidas pr\u00f3prias<\/span> while trying to salvage what’s left of your <\/span>LDR<\/span>? <\/span><\/p>\n

And before you know it, with tears streaming down your cheeks and barely being able to utter a word, you’re looking for a <\/span>sa\u00edda<\/span>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

It shouldn’t be this hard. You love your significant other more than anything and you know you’re with the <\/span>pessoa certa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas como \u00e9 que conseguiu subestimar a gravidade da dist\u00e2ncia? Porque \u00e9 que pensou que um <\/span>Data Skype<\/span> poderia substituir inteiramente <\/span>contacto visual e presen\u00e7a f\u00edsica<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Acreditaste mesmo que este <\/span>seria<\/span>‘t be happening? Were you naive to think that you two could survive this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se faz funcionar?<\/h2>\n

\"Quando<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, se o amor for t\u00e3o forte e apaixonado como acredita, nunca desistir<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

As estradas v\u00e3o ficar esburacadas, todos os <\/span>LDR<\/span> problemas v\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a mexer com a sua cabe\u00e7a, mas um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> PODE sobreviver se voc\u00eas os dois forem uma frente unida.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re willing to fight for each other, then all of these problems will be merely obstacles that can’t touch the bond of your commitment to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s foolish to think that you two are going to be the ones to break the mold. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re not. Most people realize they’re in way over their heads within the first weeks of their <\/span>LDR<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you can’t make it. It only means you’re going to have to fight a little bit harder and stick by each other, no matter what your head tells you during the <\/span>dias maus<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Casais \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/i><\/b> s\u00e3o os que t\u00eam os trabalhos mais dif\u00edceis. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They don’t have the warmth of their partner’s body keeping them feel safe and protected at night.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

They can’t rush over to their partner in times of need and rest their head on their <\/span>ente querido<\/span><\/a>‘s chest.<\/span><\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o nos vermos <\/span>cara a cara<\/span> torna-se mais dif\u00edcil e frustrante a cada dia que passa.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this is why you work on it twice as hard. This is why you tell your partner you love them even when your heart is breaking in two while saying it. You’ll be feeling sadness you didn’t know existed.<\/span><\/p>\n

One whole part of you will be far away and you’ll be the only one picking up your pieces. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this isn’t forever. Let that keep you sane during times when you want to explode. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podem salvar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e sobreviver a isto, desde que continuem a p\u00f4r-se um ao outro em primeiro lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Luta contra os inc\u00f3modos <\/i><\/b>fusos hor\u00e1rios<\/i><\/b> e manter-se fiel ao seu <\/i><\/b>Data Skype<\/i><\/b> noites. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Keep to your routine and remember that for as long as you persevere in this, you’re one step closer to a permanent solution.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o os mais <\/span><\/i>problemas comuns das rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span><\/i> que v\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a aproximar-se de si mais cedo do que pensa.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But if you’re ready to fight for <\/span><\/i>a sua pessoa<\/span><\/i><\/a>, you’ll find ways to make it work. Love as strong as yours deserves a fighting chance.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Falhas de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> \u00e9 um dos maiores obst\u00e1culos para um \u00eaxito <\/a><\/span>LDR<\/span>.  Sure, you’ve got your <\/span>Datas Skype<\/span>, constante <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> e comunicar atrav\u00e9s de <\/span>redes sociais<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o que ningu\u00e9m nos diz \u00e9 que, muitas vezes, as coisas se perdem na tradu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you don’t see your <\/span>ente querido<\/span> Regularmente, desenvolvemos este mecanismo de defesa que nos ajuda a navegar nesta nova realidade, mas que tamb\u00e9m nos torna paran\u00f3icos e desconfiados. <\/span><\/p>\n

There doesn’t even have to be a legit reason for your anxiety, but it still happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 nesta altura que se descarrega no <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span> de uma forma muito mal executada, em vez de partilhar abertamente os seus problemas. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s normal to feel a certain way and to get things stuck in your head that distance makes you believe are true.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, muitas vezes, em vez de se falar sobre o assunto, o resultado s\u00e3o discuss\u00f5es aos gritos e declara\u00e7\u00f5es ofensivas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de apontar o dedo e atribuir culpas desnecess\u00e1rias, respire fundo, conte at\u00e9 tr\u00eas e pergunte-lhes gentilmente sobre os problemas que o incomodam. <\/span><\/p>\n

If they said something you took the wrong way, don’t accuse them prematurely but rather ask them politely.<\/span><\/p>\n

”<\/span>Sorry, honey, I’m not sure what you meant by that, can you please repeat what you just said?<\/span><\/i>” is how you can put it, and <\/span>o seu parceiro<\/span><\/a> will calmly explain what he said and it will all be resolved within seconds. Don’t attack \u2013 ask!<\/span><\/p>\n

If you forego communication right from the start, you’ve got nothing to go on. <\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica forma de sobreviver a isto \u00e9 falar abertamente sobre tudo e nunca ir para a cama zangado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Air out all of your qualms and sleep knowing there’s someone out there wishing you were there.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. You’re stuck in a rut<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> durante demasiado tempo, com o tempo, os seus temas de conversa come\u00e7ar\u00e3o a parecer que est\u00e1 sempre a ter a mesma conversa seca todos os dias.<\/span><\/p>\n

There’s no excitement, no novelty, just the same old things at the same time every day that you hope will help you keep your relationship on its feet. But it’s slowly making you feel like there’s nothing left to talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t actually BE with them, hug them, kiss them and feel safe around them, and it’s slowly killing your communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ficamos t\u00e3o cansados de tudo isto que deixamos de tentar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estes tipos de problemas s\u00e3o muito comuns para um <\/span>LDR<\/span>. It’s still frustrating and saddening, though.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

First, you realize that it’s normal not wanting to talk every single day for hours and it’s totally expected to not have anything new to say all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn’t make it weird or worrying, it only means you’re human.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will be dry spells where you’ll talk every few days and there will be times when you’ll talk every single day. <\/span><\/p>\n

That’s what happens in a relationship, so don’t worry about it. My suggestion is to write down everything you want to share as it comes to mind throughout the day so you don’t forget it!<\/span><\/p>\n

That way when they call you, you won’t be scratching your head wondering what it is you wanted to mention because you’ll have it right there. Help yourself not to forget anything and you’ll go to bed happier.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Impaci\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"Mulheres<\/p>\n

When you’re in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span>a sua paci\u00eancia come\u00e7a a esgotar-se lentamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Coisas que antes eram a menor das suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es agora incomodam-no como um louco. <\/span><\/p>\n

Normally, if your partner doesn’t reply immediately, you don’t even think about it because you know they’ll get back to you asap.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas num <\/span>LDR<\/span>, you expect an answer immediately and if you don’t get it, you get anxious and start getting insane ideas in your head. <\/span><\/p>\n

What the hell are they doing that’s more important than getting back to you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o a brincar? Est\u00e3o fartos de si? <\/span><\/i>mensagens de texto<\/span><\/i> them? What\u2019s going on?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

That’s just your paranoia talking. You can’t see them, so your need for their presence is stronger than ever, which makes you go mad if they don’t reply promptly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Pense na raiz do seu problema. Quais s\u00e3o as suas expectativas? Fazem sentido ou est\u00e1 a deixar <\/span>a sua ansiedade<\/span><\/a> levar a melhor sobre si? <\/span><\/p>\n

O seu homem est\u00e1 realmente a dar cabo de si ou \u00e9 simplesmente demasiado impaciente e insegura para pensar com clareza?<\/span><\/p>\n

A sua incerteza quanto aos sentimentos que ele tem por si est\u00e1 a fazer com que a situa\u00e7\u00e3o pare\u00e7a maior do que realmente \u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que a dist\u00e2ncia a est\u00e1 a fazer precisar de valida\u00e7\u00e3o e confirma\u00e7\u00e3o constantes do seu amor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Talk to your partner. Explain how hard it’s become for you to stay sane. Let them know that you really love it when they get back to you quickly because it puts your mind at ease. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if they can’t always talk, they can shoot a simple ”<\/span>Adoro-te, mas estou demasiado ocupado para falar agora. Ligo-te mais tarde!<\/span><\/i>” and you’ll know everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Crescimento \u00e0 parte<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Just because you’re now in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span>, it doesn’t mean your individual lives stop progressing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to go through life, accumulate new experiences, and fight your battles by yourself. Those things will change you in ways that will make you grow and drift apart from the person you used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

The same goes for your partner. His life will take him down a different path and who’s to say it won’t be as life-changing as yours might end up being? That’s just life.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the unfortunate thing is, all of this will be happening without them present, which will inevitably make you feel like you’re growing apart.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll both be in your own lane, not sure where your partner is headed, and that can cause emotional turmoil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Como este \u00e9 um dos maiores <\/span>LDR<\/span> os assassinos, levem-no muito a s\u00e9rio e trabalhem no seguinte. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantenham uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o regular e informem-se mutuamente sobre tudo o que se passa, por mais irrelevante que pare\u00e7a ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

Discuta o seu novo acordo e como se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao rumo que a sua viagem est\u00e1 a tomar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuem a ser uma equipa durante todo o processo e fa\u00e7am o m\u00e1ximo de visitas poss\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Stick by each other and if your end goal is a future by each other’s side, keep each other in the loop and never let them question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Diferentes fusos hor\u00e1rios<\/h2>\n

\"Estilo<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can personally do to change the fact that you live in different <\/span>fusos hor\u00e1rios<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean it won’t become an issue at some point.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’ve been in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> for too long, it’s so easy to get annoyed at the smallest things, and this will become one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ll get <\/span>farto e cansado de<\/span><\/a> always having to talk very early in the morning or late at night. You’re either too tired to have a full-on convo or it’s too early for any type of conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Tem consci\u00eancia de que foi para isto que se inscreveu. Quando concordou com um <\/span>LDR<\/span>Quando o seu parceiro (ou voc\u00ea mesmo) sabia para onde estava a ir e prometeu fazer com que as coisas funcionassem. <\/span><\/p>\n

And now it’s time to accept this as a small sacrifice for your <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not easy for them either, you know? But if you want to remain in a happy, <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span>\u00c9 preciso chegar a um compromisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’d rather not talk to your SO at all than get up early to see them, then what’s the point?<\/span><\/p>\n

Long-distance is no picnic. Unless you’re ready to face the challenges, you’re only delaying the inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Falta de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Normally, you’re not the type of person who gets paranoid for no reason and questions their partner’s loyalty for no valid reasons. <\/span><\/p>\n

But this distance thing is making you turn into a crazy person. Suddenly you find yourself questioning your partner for every little thing and it’s driving you insane.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust is the basis for every relationship. Without it, it’s <\/span>trabalho \u00e1rduo<\/span> manter-se firme. <\/span><\/p>\n

E um <\/span>amor \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> needs extra love and tenderness. Don’t let your <\/span>dias maus<\/span> transform\u00e1-lo num detetive. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know what your partner’s role is in your life, so don’t let distance shake you up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Simples. Confiar na pessoa que prometeu tomar conta de <\/span>o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If they weren’t trustworthy, you <\/span>seria<\/span>‘t have even agreed to an <\/span>LDR<\/span> em primeiro lugar. A menos que o seu parceiro lhe esteja a dar raz\u00f5es reais para desconfiar dele, tenha alguma f\u00e9 nele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Distance can only separate you if you let it. Yes, physically you’re miles and miles away. But if you know that this is the <\/span>pessoa certa<\/span> para si, ent\u00e3o deve dar-lhes mais cr\u00e9dito. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s difficult for both of you. Don’t make it worse with unwarranted and misplaced outbursts.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re both trying to stay in the same lane while being physically far away from each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust and effort are the only ways to make it go the distance. Don’t sabotage a good thing just because it’s getting challenging. Always keep the end goal in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Ci\u00fame s\u00fabito<\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

You need your partner to function normally. When they’re away from you, it’s like one whole part of your body is missing and it’s affecting you in big ways.  <\/span><\/p>\n

And since you can’t rest your head on their shoulder while snuggled up in front of the TV anymore, you can’t help but wonder if someone else is.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know it’s crazy. You know there’s no basis for such thinking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o que \u00e9 que se pode fazer sen\u00e3o criar estas vers\u00f5es maradas dos acontecimentos na nossa cabe\u00e7a?<\/span><\/p>\n

They’re not here to tell you that you’re being silly. They can’t kiss your forehead and soothe you with their presence. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now, all you have left is your jealousy and it’s eating you alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como resolver o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

Lembre-se de todas as vezes que o seu parceiro lhe deu todas as raz\u00f5es para confiar nele. <\/span><\/p>\n

S<\/span>comparar o que tem (uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura, significativa e com futuro) com um engate superficial que pensa que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a ter.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acredita sinceramente que eles o trairiam desta forma? Ou est\u00e1 a dar largas \u00e0 sua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sempre que tiver essas explos\u00f5es de ci\u00fames, rebente-as imediatamente e mude a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o para um pensamento mais positivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner is dealing with his own difficulties, so don’t add to them. Stop finding problems where there aren’t any. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deixar de bisbilhotar e de querer encontrar problemas. Este comportamento destrutivo vai acabar por ser prejudicial para a sua <\/span>LDR<\/span> at\u00e9 ativar a raz\u00e3o e desativar a paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Obstina\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> aren’t immune to <\/span>bloqueio<\/span><\/a> e actos semelhantes de necessidade de controlo passivo-agressivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m no stranger to such a thing, unfortunately. <\/span><\/p>\n

In case you weren’t sure what stonewalling means, it’s purposefully not answering texts or getting back to a person for a few days as a way of controlling the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s when one partner uses silence as a weapon in the most passive-aggressive way imaginable. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isto pode acontecer como resultado direto de <\/span>falha de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o,<\/span> o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 invulgar em <\/span>LDRs<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de ter paci\u00eancia e tentar compreend\u00ea-lo para poder responder, recorre-se a um completo sil\u00eancio de r\u00e1dio que mata lentamente o outro parceiro por dentro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Depois, segue-se o sil\u00eancio e as entranhas revolvem-se todos os dias.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se resolve o problema?<\/b><\/p>\n

If you’re the partner who’s doing the stonewalling, ask yourself why. <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a tentar fazer o seu parceiro sofrer ao utilizar esta t\u00e1tica ofensiva? Ser\u00e1 que ele merece mesmo isso? <\/span><\/p>\n

Or are you simply activating your defense mechanism and it’s making you do stuff like this because otherwise, you’re going to break?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tratamento silencioso<\/a> nunca \u00e9 a resposta. S\u00f3 piora a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e faz com que ambos sintam que o outro est\u00e1 a fugir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Communicate even when it’s the hardest. You’re going to thank yourself later.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you’re the one who’s being stonewalled, text your partner how disappointed you are that they chose to go this route.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s hurtful and low and you deserve better. Nothing will ever work itself out without healthy communication. <\/span><\/p>\n

They’ll probably eventually realize this too and you’ll end up talking it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Trai\u00e7\u00e3o num relacionamento \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia: 15 sinais e maneiras de lidar com isso<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n

This one’s for all the long-distance lovers out there. Nobody understands the burden you bear better than you and your <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos os problemas aqui apontados s\u00e3o resultados directos da press\u00e3o que a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span> brings and the constant yearning for a partner who’s not there.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve found yourself in these, don’t let it get you down. I promise you, all long-distance lovers go through these at some point. <\/span><\/p>\n

O truque \u00e9 continuar a lutar mesmo quando se quer acabar com tudo.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s the distance talking. And if you let it win, you’re going to be even more miserable than you are now. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continue assim. Lute contra os problemas e tente encontrar um meio-termo, independentemente da quest\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Datas Skype<\/span> will be your best friend from now on. I know it’s not ideal and nothing can replace being able to hold your person in the flesh, but it’s the best thing you’ve got right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, where there’s a will, there’s a way. You can do this while knowing that this isn’t forever, that one day you’ll figure it all out. <\/span><\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be waking up next to each other and going to bed together.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isn’t that all you really need to keep persevering in making this work? The distance only wins if YOU let it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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