{"id":48470,"date":"2020-03-22T22:25:10","date_gmt":"2020-03-22T22:25:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48470"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:10:47","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:10:47","slug":"sexo-com-amigos-os-10-maiores-segredos-que-ninguem-lhe-vai-contar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sexo-com-amigos-os-10-maiores-segredos-que-ninguem-lhe-vai-contar\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexo com amigos? Os 10 maiores segredos que ningu\u00e9m lhe vai contar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por muito que tentemos neg\u00e1-lo ou contrari\u00e1-lo, haver\u00e1 sempre um fasc\u00ednio irresist\u00edvel na ideia de um encontro de uma noite com um melhor amigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A total no-strings, sex with benefits situation. In reality, you know it probably wouldn’t work but in your imagination, it’s just casual sex…<\/p>\n

Nobody will fall in love, so what’s the harm? It’s just some light, hot fun!<\/p>\n

What could go wrong? Why would a sexy, \u2018forbidden\u2019 hook-up with one of your close friends be such a big deal?<\/p>\n

As respostas a estas perguntas s\u00e3o, no m\u00ednimo, abundantes. Ningu\u00e9m espera que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica evolua a partir de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o de sexo.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m planeia sentir e ficar romanticamente preso a um bom amigo.<\/p>\n

No entanto, isso acontece com mais frequ\u00eancia do que se possa imaginar. <\/i><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Here, I’ll explain exactly what you’d be getting into along with the good, the bad and the ugly of getting into a fuck buddy situation with a friend before thinking it through.<\/p>\n

Merece ser informado sobre as coisas que nunca ningu\u00e9m lhe contar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Quem sabe, pode acabar por mudar de ideias e fazer o melhor para si pr\u00f3prio a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

Veja e decida por si pr\u00f3prio se a sua amizade consegue sobreviver a esta experi\u00eancia!<\/p>\n

Sex With Friends… Can It Work?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

According to a relationship expert, sex with friends doesn’t necessarily have to be the end of the friendship, provided that the friend is a close one and that the emotional connection is substantially strong enough to withhold such a risky move outside of the comfort of the friendship.<\/p>\n

It isn’t the norm and it’s not always encouraged but your sex life is your own.<\/p>\n

And you’re the ultimate judge of how equipped you are to get into a casual sex relationship with a buddy without emotions getting involved.<\/p>\n

And I’m here to educate you on the benefits of casual sex and the dangers that follow it.<\/p>\n

The thing is… the lines get blurred so easily and from the <\/b>primeira vez<\/b> se envolver num <\/b>engate<\/b> com um <\/b>melhor amigo<\/b> \u00e0 terceira vez, as coisas v\u00e3o parecer diferentes.<\/b>  <\/p>\n

Sexo fant\u00e1stico \u00e9 fixe e tudo, mas sem regras b\u00e1sicas, muita gente se queima e o embara\u00e7o segue-se.<\/p>\n

Sexual attraction doesn’t always have to turn into a sexual relationship.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, if the lines aren\u2019t clear and you feel the  possibility of one person getting attached, it’s best to nip it in the bud.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

But does sex with a friend have to signify a funeral for your friendship? No, it doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, tudo depende da forma como tu e o teu amigo definem o sexo.<\/b><\/p>\n

To some, it’s just a fulfilling activity that brings you some much-needed relaxation and a happy ending.<\/p>\n

E para outros, significa uma profunda liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> que conduz inevitavelmente a algo real e genu\u00edno.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea e o seu amigo est\u00e3o na mesma p\u00e1gina quando se trata de definir o que o sexo significa para ambos?<\/p>\n

E, em segundo lugar, quais s\u00e3o os seus objectivos finais?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>Is one of you secretly hoping the other one realizes that they’re in love with the other?<\/p>\n

Ou est\u00e3o os dois simplesmente e s\u00f3 para se divertirem sem compromissos?<\/p>\n

My advice is to never engage in a fwb situation if you’re not both in it for the same reasons.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If one person is emotionally invested and with ulterior motives, it’s bound to come crashing down. Be certain that neither one of you has a hidden agenda. <\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que a \u00fanica raz\u00e3o para este encontro \u00e9 a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00fatua, ap\u00f3s o que pode pegar nas suas coisas e ir-se embora, tendo cumprido a sua miss\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o for assim, as linhas v\u00e3o esbater-se, os sentimentos vir\u00e3o \u00e0 superf\u00edcie e pelo menos um cora\u00e7\u00e3o acabar\u00e1 partido.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 pronto para correr o risco? Continue a ler e descubra o que REALMENTE acontece quando decide atravessar a linha e explorar o territ\u00f3rio.<\/p>\n

Firstly, I’ll discuss the cool benefits of having sex with a friend, after which you’ll see the dangers it may present that no one will tell you about. Let’s get going!<\/p>\n

Sex With Friends – The Benefits<\/h2>\n

\"loira<\/p>\n

Por que n\u00e3o come\u00e7ar com algumas coisas suculentas, convenientes e fant\u00e1sticas que o sexo com amigos lhe trar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, o sexo deve ser divertido! Por vezes, tudo o que precisa de fazer \u00e9 ter alguma a\u00e7\u00e3o arrebatadora e vaporosa debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is para libertar a tens\u00e3o e relaxar a tua mente.<\/a><\/p>\n

E o sexo casual \u00e9 tudo sobre essa merda.<\/p>\n

Having romantic partners is priceless but there comes a time in every person’s life where they just want to have some carefree sex with someone who won’t get attached and develop romantic feelings.<\/p>\n

And why shouldn’t they? If you’ve got a buddy who’d be down for something like this, why bother swiping right no Tinder<\/a> se o puderes fazer com algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 conheces?<\/p>\n

Sleeping with a friend doesn’t have to be a big deal.<\/p>\n

And here’s the flip side to it that will prove to you it actually might be worth a shot!<\/p>\n

1. Familiaridade (n\u00e3o \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio recorrer a estranhos obscuros) <\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

The biggest plus of this whole situation is that you KNOW this person so you know they’re not some shady stranger who might end up robbing you blind when you fall asleep.<\/p>\n

And let’s face it, it’s a legit possibility with um caso de uma noite<\/a> hoje em dia.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o seu amigo e conhece-o genuinamente. Sabe o que o motiva, o que o faz feliz e o qu\u00e3o stressante ele pode estar num determinado dia.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to worry about a stranger being in your home because this person probably already spends half their time at your place so they feel at home!<\/p>\n

You can be honest about your likes and dislikes because since they’re not your actual romantic partner, you don’t have to worry about hurting their feelings.<\/p>\n

They don’t give a fuck! They’re in it to have some fun with a familiar face and then leave with a smile on their face. Nothing more and nothing less.<\/p>\n

2. N\u00e3o precisa de impressionar ningu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Since this is your friend, they know you well enough to not care if you’ve shaved your legs or armpits.<\/p>\n

They honestly don’t care what you look like. They’re not some stranger who’s going to leave your house and go on telling everyone about what it was like.<\/p>\n

Trata-se de um encontro amig\u00e1vel que acaba debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is e fica entre essas duas pessoas.<\/p>\n

So you don’t have to pressure yourself into looking your best. And doesn’t that release some of the pressure of the whole thing?<\/p>\n

Tal como nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es a longo prazo, com o tempo, deixamos de nos preocupar com essas partes superficiais de uma pessoa.<\/p>\n

You have one goal and it’s to have your fun in the sun and leave for the night.<\/p>\n

You’re not in high school and the whole school won’t be in the know the next morning, so relax. Do the deed and know it’s no one’s business but yours and your friend’s.<\/p>\n

3. N\u00e3o envergonhar o corpo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O seu amigo ama-o. T\u00eam uma amizade genu\u00edna baseada no respeito e no amor m\u00fatuos (o tipo de amor de amigo).<\/p>\n

And due to all that, you can feel safe around them and not fear being body-shamed if you’re not \u2018perfectly\u2019 shaped.<\/p>\n

Although, who’s perfect anyway?<\/p>\n

That’s just a myth that no one really should care about because people love who they love.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tem nada a ver com a apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica e tem tudo a ver com a beleza interior.<\/p>\n

Luckily, you’re getting naked around someone who knows you, ama-te<\/a> e aprecia-o.<\/p>\n

They would never make you feel bad for looking a certain way and that’s the best thing about sex with friends.<\/p>\n

You can be you! No hiding parts of yourself, no shame in taking your clothes off and no wondering if they’ll think less of you when they see a stretch mark.<\/p>\n

So if there’s one reason to try sex with a friend, this would be it.<\/p>\n

4. Whatever happens, you’ve always got a friend<\/h2>\n

\"amantes<\/p>\n

There’s a first time for everything, right? If you don’t try it, you’ll always wonder what it would be like.<\/p>\n

Assim, mesmo que se aperceba que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu g\u00e9nero de ch\u00e1, pelo menos continua a ter o seu amigo!<\/p>\n

Quiseste experimentar algo diferente, tentaste e aprendeste a li\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Pode rir-se disso agora, enquanto toma uma bebida e recorda aquela vez em que teve um caso de uma noite.<\/p>\n

And if this is a good friend, you know they’re not going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Nothing can chase them away. You both decided to do this together and it’s a thing of the past now.<\/p>\n

It might work and you might find a system that truly doesn’t mess with your friendship.<\/p>\n

OR you might realize you’re not cut out for this and go back to being friends.<\/p>\n

5. \u00d3timo treino para futuras experi\u00eancias sexuais<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You can both simply \u2018use\u2019 each other (in the best way possible!) to get some practice in if you’re not sexually as experienced as you’d like to be.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma \u00f3ptima ideia, n\u00e3o \u00e9? Diverte-se de forma inofensiva com um amigo e ganha a t\u00e3o necess\u00e1ria experi\u00eancia e feedback honesto.<\/p>\n

This will help you gain confidence, get better at things where you’re lacking and become a self-assured lover who won’t hold back under the covers.<\/p>\n

E o sexo com os amigos ajuda-nos a conseguir tudo isto!<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de recear os poss\u00edveis resultados, concentre-se nestas fant\u00e1sticas vantagens que o ajudar\u00e3o a tornar-se o amante que deseja ser.<\/p>\n

You’ll learn the best way to approach a person, find out how to avoid possible mistakes and give your lover the best experience of their life.<\/p>\n

E tudo isto enquanto desfruta de sexo inofensivo com o seu amigo.<\/p>\n

Sim e sim!<\/p>\n

Sex With Friends – The Dangers<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Okay, so I’ve shown you the perks of having sex with a friend and I genuinely believe in every single one of them.<\/p>\n

Como em tudo na vida, h\u00e1 dois lados da moeda e esse era o lado bom, aquele em que se obt\u00eam todas as partes boas sem sofrer as consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

And if you’re among the lucky ones, that could easily happen to you! But to be fair, I must say that the dangers of sex with friends outweigh the benefits.<\/p>\n

True, it might be close… but you’ll see why the cons prevail in this situation.<\/p>\n

Sex therapists warn against this arrangement due to the dangers I’m about to list here.<\/p>\n

It’s not a rule that this will be the case but there’s a huge likelihood and you deserve to be warned about the good, the bad and the ugly before making an educated decision.<\/p>\n

If you’re adamant to try sex with a friend, here’s everything you should know that no one will tell you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 depois de passar cuidadosamente por todos estes pontos \u00e9 que estar\u00e1 verdadeiramente pronto para esta viagem. Apertem os cintos, aqui vamos n\u00f3s!<\/p>\n

6. It’s probably much better in your head<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando pensamos (fantasiamos, se preferirmos) em ter sexo com um amigo \u00edntimo durante algum tempo, constru\u00edmos isso na nossa cabe\u00e7a, ao ponto de se tornar um objetivo inating\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

You probably have an idea in your head that it’s going to be just like in the movies but I have to be honest with you; it rarely is. <\/p>\n

Most of the time, it’s awkward at first and once you get down to business, you’re reminded of how awkward these things can be if it’s not with your long-term partner.<\/p>\n

One-night stands generally end up being the hottest experience of your life of the worst idea you’ve ever had.<\/p>\n

There’s no in-between. The same goes for sex with friends. <\/p>\n

It’s either going to rock your world and make you see this could become a regular thing or the more likely version\u2014realizing what a mistake this is within minutes and not knowing how to tell the other person without hurting their feelings.<\/p>\n

7. It’s likely going to affect your friendship<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You may think that you’ve got this and that nothing can ruin your friendship but you\u2019d be wrong.<\/p>\n

Uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia sexual tem a capacidade de transformar os melhores amigos em conhecidos inc\u00f3modos. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 muitas coisas piores do que sexo mau entre amigos, certo?<\/p>\n

Imagina ter um caso horr\u00edvel de uma noite com um amigo \u00edntimo e depois tentar manter a vossa amizade como se nunca tivesse acontecido?<\/p>\n

Isso seria, no m\u00ednimo, complicado.<\/p>\n

You’ll meet up for coffee, feel completely normal for a minute and the moment something reminds you of your unfortunate experience, there will be such a loud silence that you’ll want to disappear from there.<\/p>\n

You both know it sucked but you don’t want to say it but at the same time, pretending is out of the question because you BOTH know the truth so there’s no win there.<\/p>\n

Apenas dois amigos que tentam fingir que nunca tiveram uma experi\u00eancia sexual estranha, que pode deteriorar a sua amizade e enfraquecer os seus la\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

8. Ci\u00fame inesperado<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is something that creeps up on you out of the blue. You certainly don’t expect to get jealous in this arrangement, but trust me… it happens more often than you think.<\/p>\n

At first, it’s all good and it seems to be working.<\/p>\n

You’re starting to get the hang of the whole thing and you’re able to separate your friendship from the liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Depois, um dia, vimo-lo a falar com outra pessoa e a fazer-se ao espelho.<\/p>\n

You see them clearly coming on to this person and start realizing you’re not okay with that.<\/p>\n

De onde \u00e9 que vem esse ci\u00fame? Pensaste de certeza que n\u00e3o havia sentimentos da tua parte, apenas bom sexo.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, que raio se est\u00e1 a passar? A isso, meu amigo, chama-se ser humano.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 natural para todos n\u00f3s come\u00e7armos a desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional com uma pessoa com quem temos rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais regulares.<\/p>\n

And it makes sense, doesn’t it? You see them naked on a regular basis and you enjoy your time together.<\/p>\n

Mas nunca contamos com o facto de sermos n\u00f3s a desenvolver sentimentos, at\u00e9 que isso nos aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

9. Julgamento externo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Clearly, this one is not on you two but people sure do feel entitled to their own ideas of what someone else’s life should look like and criticize their choices like it’s their job.<\/p>\n

It sucks and it’s totally unfair but it does happen. Are you ready to be faced with the unwarranted opinions of your friends and family?<\/p>\n

Are you prepared to explain your decision over and over again to people who have no business butting in (but which won’t stop them)? <\/p>\n

This is something that comes with the territory and I’m here to inform you before you do something that might end up backfiring.<\/p>\n

People will condemn you because they don’t understand you.<\/p>\n

Julgar\u00e3o as suas escolhas e nem sequer tentar\u00e3o compreend\u00ea-las.<\/p>\n

Isso torna-se um fardo demasiado pesado para suportar e acaba por arruinar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amizade, <\/a>even if it’s going well!<\/p>\n

People will always stick their noses in where they don’t belong. And you’re the one who knows how well you can deal with that.<\/p>\n

10. Pode abrir uma lata de minhocas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Have you thought about this scenario? What if you and your friend start getting busy and one day you both start realizing that you’ve got romantic feelings for each other that you’re not ready to deal with?<\/p>\n

Ou, pior ainda, s\u00f3 um de v\u00f3s se apercebe disso e a coisa torna-se demasiado complicada.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que isso afectaria a vossa amizade e a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amigos?<\/p>\n

I’m guessing you didn’t even stop to contemplate this. But it happens extremely often.<\/p>\n

How would you deal with realizing you’ve both got feelings but don’t want a relationship?<\/p>\n

What would you tell your friend who informs you that they’re starting to fall for you but you’re SO not in that place?<\/p>\n

You’re far more likely to react poorly and not handle it to the best of your ability because it’ll catch you by surprise and you won’t know what to do or say.<\/p>\n

Your friend might end up hurt, you’ll end up resenting yourself for handling it so horrendously and both your friendship and your sexual relationship will come crashing down.<\/p>\n

Pense em todos os cen\u00e1rios poss\u00edveis antes de decidir envolver-se neste processo.<\/p>\n

Just because it seems great on paper, it doesn’t mean it’ll be like that in real life.<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

By this point, you’ve probably changed your mind more than once about wanting to have sex with a friend.<\/p>\n

But that’s actually a good thing. It means you’re getting the picture and you see how complex it truly is.<\/p>\n

Things often appear simple, fun and harmless but when translated into real life, they’re anything but.<\/p>\n

So I hope you’ve now been informed enough to be able to make a smart decision, knowing all the ways it can affect your friendship.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 certo que h\u00e1 aspectos positivos, mas os perigos s\u00e3o mais prov\u00e1veis do que as vantagens.<\/p>\n

We’re talking about the bond of two friends being tested for sex purposes.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 preparado para arriscar perder um amigo por algo t\u00e3o fr\u00edvolo como o sexo?<\/p>\n

Are you prepared to handle them developing an emotional connection and ask you for more than you can give them right now If not, it’s probably not the smartest idea to try sex with friends.<\/p>\n

Only when you’re both on the same page about your feelings, end goals and expectations can you begin considering a sexual relationship with a close friend.<\/p>\n

Isto pode acabar por ser uma pequena experi\u00eancia divertida ou pode abrir uma lata de vermes que o apanhar\u00e1 de surpresa. Est\u00e1 preparado para correr o risco?<\/p>\n

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