{"id":48690,"date":"2020-08-28T02:06:25","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T02:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48690"},"modified":"2021-12-06T13:10:01","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T13:10:01","slug":"qualidades-de-um-melhor-amigo-10-caracteristicas-essenciais-para-procurar-num-melhor-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/qualidades-de-um-melhor-amigo-10-caracteristicas-essenciais-para-procurar-num-melhor-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Qualidades de um melhor amigo: 10 caracter\u00edsticas essenciais para procurar numa melhor amiga"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez foi tra\u00eddo por algu\u00e9m que considerava ser o seu bom amigo<\/a>?<\/p>\n

By someone you thought you could trust with your life and by someone you thought would remain \u201cyour person\u201d and partner in crime for as long you both breathe?<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 o fez, sabe que esta dor \u00e9 ainda pior do que aquela que sente quando rutura<\/a> uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if your former friend forgot all about you when they found someone new, if they revealed your secrets, if they didn\u2019t put the same amount of effort in your friendship you did or if it turned out that they were just using you all along\u2014losing a friend and realizing someone was never your friend in the first place is shattering.<\/p>\n

Besides feeling like you\u2019re all alone in this world, you can\u2019t believe that you were so foolish to let this person manipulate you and make you think they were someone they obviously never were.
\nYou feel humiliated, heartbroken, and devastated, and you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to prevent this from happening again, even if that means never having a friend in your life.<\/p>\n

After your friend backstabs you, you lose trust in everyone around you, and you can’t help but wonder if you’ll ever again have the bravery to let someone new in.<\/p>\n

Muda-nos para sempre e deixa-nos cicatrizes inapag\u00e1veis no cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na alma.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you’re not the only one who has experienced something similar because nowadays, finding a true friend is like winning a lottery.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like everyone expects instant friendships which end before they actually began and as if everyone forgot the meaning of loyalty, trust, devotion, and unconditional love.<\/p>\n

Sim, encontrar um verdadeiro amigo \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 essencial para a sua sa\u00fade mental, qualidade de vida e felicidade em geral.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re social beings; we need that one special person to hang out with, to share our secrets with, and to go through life with.<\/p>\n

Yes, finding a true friend is difficult, but it doesn\u2019t mean that you should lose hope because it is definitely not impossible.<\/p>\n

Podes n\u00e3o acreditar em mim agora, mas garanto-te que existem pessoas que t\u00eam todas as qualidades que um melhor amigo deve ter e pessoas que podem ser melhores amigas para ti do que qualquer pessoa do teu passado alguma vez foi.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, \u00e9 sempre melhor ter um amigo valioso de quem se pode estar seguro do que uma d\u00fazia de conhecidos que o deixar\u00e3o pendurado no momento em que surgir a primeira oportunidade.<\/p>\n

So, after reading all of this, I\u2019m sure you can\u2019t help but wonder what are the qualities of a best friend you should pay special attention to?<\/p>\n

Quem s\u00e3o as pessoas que merecem ser chamadas de amigas e que merecem um lugar na sua vida?<\/p>\n

Bem, tudo o que tem de fazer \u00e9 ler esta lista e descobrir.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, se houver uma pessoa com quem possa relacionar todas ou a maioria destas caracter\u00edsticas, nunca a deixe ir embora e considere-se sortudo porque tem um amigo para a vida.<\/p>\n

10 qualidades de um melhor amigo<\/b> :<\/b><\/p>\n

Fiel<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Uma das primeiras qualidades essenciais de um melhor amigo que se deve procurar \u00e9 fidelidade<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about the fact that this person has to necessarily support you even when you\u2019re doing something wrong and applaud you even when you\u2019re destroying yourself.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, quando digo que os seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos t\u00eam de ser leais, quero dizer que deve procurar pessoas que se mantenham ao seu lado nos momentos dif\u00edceis, porque ter algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para si, que o apoie e que nunca pense em abandon\u00e1-lo quando mais precisa dele \u00e9 a coisa mais valiosa da vida.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de procurar uma pessoa que beba e v\u00e1 para a discoteca consigo, procure algu\u00e9m que passe pelas suas separa\u00e7\u00f5es, pelas suas emerg\u00eancias familiares e por todos os outros infort\u00fanios consigo.<\/p>\n

Para uma pessoa que ser\u00e1, de certa forma, o seu parceiro de vida, algu\u00e9m que o apoiar\u00e1 sempre, algu\u00e9m que ficar\u00e1 ao seu lado nos bons e maus momentos, na sa\u00fade e na doen\u00e7a, e algu\u00e9m que nunca permitir\u00e1 que resolva os seus problemas sozinho.<\/p>\n

This is someone you can rely on and count on, no matter what happens, despite the distance between you two and despite the time you\u2019ve spent apart.<\/p>\n

Someone who would never sit still while others talk trash about you, and someone who won\u2019t leave your side the moment things get rough.<\/p>\n

You see, finding friends who are willing to party with you and who are there when you\u2019re laughing and when everything is going smoothly is a piece of cake.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need anyone special for this kind of relationship.<\/p>\n

However, having a good friend who holds your hand through all the hard times and who doesn\u2019t let you go through life’s difficulties on your own is like winning a lottery. And that is what true loyalty is all about.<\/p>\n

Honesto<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014most people feel that they\u2019re in good company when they\u2019re surrounded by people pleasers and others who nod their heads at everything they have to say.<\/p>\n

All of us love hearing compliments and enjoy spending time with someone who agrees with us, who always thinks we\u2019re absolutely right, and who boosts our ego.<\/p>\n

No entanto, apesar da opini\u00e3o popular, n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que \u00e9 um bom amigo e n\u00e3o s\u00e3o essas as qualidades de um melhor amigo que deve procurar.<\/p>\n

Sim, os seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos devem elogi\u00e1-lo quando o merece, especialmente \u00e0 frente dos outros, mas uma das qualidades mais essenciais do melhor amigo \u00e9, na verdade, a honestidade.<\/p>\n

You want your BFF to be someone who tells you the truth, even when you don\u2019t want to hear it, no matter how harsh and painful it might be and even when you\u2019re trying to lie and deceive yourself.<\/p>\n

Quer que essa pessoa seja brutalmente honesto<\/a>, open your eyes when you\u2019re blinded, to tell you that you\u2019re wrong even when you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019re not, to call you out on your actions, to prevent you from making wrong choices, and to point out to your mistakes, even when you don\u2019t see them.<\/p>\n

You want them to tell you some silly things such as you look awful in that new outfit you bought or that your new haircut isn\u2019t as great as you thought.<\/p>\n

To be brave enough to tell you some more serious things such as your boyfriend or girlfriend is good for nothing, that you\u2019re making lousy judgments or that it\u2019s about time to step out of your comfort zone and make some changes in your life.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, pode at\u00e9 odiar este amigo duro, porque ningu\u00e9m gosta de ouvir falar dos seus erros.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is actually the person who loves you the most\u2014a friend who cares about your well-being and someone you can trust your life with.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, cabe-lhe a si ser suficientemente sensato para distinguir entre os que est\u00e3o realmente a tentar insult\u00e1-lo com os seus coment\u00e1rios e os que est\u00e3o gentilmente a tentar inspir\u00e1-lo a tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want your friends to pat you on your head and give you a thumbs up even when you\u2019re making some harmful moves, just because they don\u2019t want to risk your good relationship, but you shouldn\u2019t allow anyone to put you down either.<\/p>\n

Aceitar<\/h2>\n

\"abra\u00e7ar<\/p>\n

Sabem como os adolescentes mudam todo o seu comportamento s\u00f3 para se integrarem num determinado grupo?<\/p>\n

You remember how back in highschool you pretended to love a certain type of music you actually couldn\u2019t stand or how you acted completely different to your true self just to be liked by the cheerleaders and mean girls and boys from your class?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re not in highschool anymore, and there are no cheerleaders and mean girls anymore.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to look for some other qualities in friends besides the fact that they belong to the popular squad.<\/p>\n

Agora j\u00e1 sabe que esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es e amizades eram t\u00f3xicas e que n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que se deva contentar na idade adulta.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, uma das qualidades de um bom amigo \u00e9 a capacidade de o aceitar completamente como \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Os verdadeiros amigos amam-no com todos os seus defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e nunca esperam que se entregue a outra pessoa s\u00f3 para lhes agradar.<\/p>\n

Respeitar\u00e3o a sua individualidade e diferen\u00e7as e nunca querer\u00e3o for\u00e7\u00e1-lo a tornar-se a sua c\u00f3pia.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, v\u00e3o adorar todas as partes de si, incluindo aquelas de que podem n\u00e3o gostar.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you and your BFF don\u2019t have the same taste in music or clothes, and it is completely irrelevant if you don\u2019t share similar hobbies or interests\u2014that is not what amizade verdadeira<\/a> tem tudo a ver.<\/p>\n

A good friend will never try to change the essence of who you are, and they certainly won\u2019t make you feel rejected just because you don\u2019t fit their imaginary standards of perfection.<\/p>\n

Respeitoso<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Uma das qualidades mais importantes de uma boa amizade (seja ela uma amizade \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> ou n\u00e3o) \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, o respeito m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you think someone cares for you, if they don\u2019t respect you as a person, I assure you that they don\u2019t love you as much as you think they do.<\/p>\n

Um amigo de qualidade nunca o deitar\u00e1 abaixo \u00e0 frente dos outros e ter\u00e1 sempre o cuidado de n\u00e3o ferir os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Nunca o insultar\u00e3o ou o tratar\u00e3o de uma forma que possa considerar desrespeitosa ou humilhante.<\/p>\n

Apreci\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o como indiv\u00edduo. Respeitar\u00e3o a sua personalidade, os seus desejos e as pessoas que o rodeiam.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que n\u00e3o concordem com as suas escolhas e decis\u00f5es, aceit\u00e1-las-\u00e3o porque o consideram uma pessoa madura e com boa capacidade de discernimento.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o seu amigos genu\u00ednos<\/a> respeitar\u00e1 o seu tempo, espa\u00e7o pessoal e esfor\u00e7o, apesar da vossa proximidade.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t act like they\u2019re more important than you or expect you to be grateful they\u2019re hanging out with you.<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as pessoas que nunca o far\u00e3o sentir-se como a sua segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o ou rede de seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

People who won\u2019t expect you to put them first while they treat you like their last resort.<\/p>\n

Fi\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Uma verdadeira amizade n\u00e3o pode existir sem confian\u00e7a m\u00fatua. Afinal de contas, esta \u00e9 a pessoa com quem deve poder partilhar todos os seus dias e que conhece todos os seus segredos mais profundos, por isso n\u00e3o faz sentido telefonar ao seu melhor amigo<\/a> someone you can’t trust.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 ter um mau amigo que aproveita todas as oportunidades para partilhar os seus medos, d\u00favidas e humilha\u00e7\u00f5es com todos os que se cruzam no seu caminho.<\/p>\n

Someone who doesn’t know when to keep their mouth shut and who doesn’t value the fact you chose them as your confident.<\/p>\n

This is the first person you call whenever you’re in trouble, and the first person who finds out about every silly, little thing you do.<\/p>\n

Someone who is non-judgmental even when they think you’re wrong, and someone who would rather die than violate your trust.<\/p>\n

Um amigo de qualidade sabe literalmente tudo sobre si.<\/p>\n

Eles sabem as coisas que escondemos do resto do mundo (incluindo n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, por vezes) e nunca nos amam menos por causa disso.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que um verdadeiro amigo nunca revelaria os seus segredos, mesmo que a sua vida dependesse disso.<\/p>\n

They wouldn’t think about going around and gossiping about you even with their friends or family.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, a close friend won’t talk about the things you told them even if your friendship comes to an end.<\/p>\n

Um verdadeiro melhor amigo nunca usaria o seu lixo contra si, mesmo que se separem.<\/p>\n

Tipo<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

O que a maioria das pessoas presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o quando se trata das qualidades de um bom amigo \u00e9 a forma como essa pessoa as trata.<\/p>\n

Embora esta seja, sem d\u00favida, uma qualidade importante, deve procurar um amigo que seja essencialmente um bom ser humano, independentemente de tudo.<\/p>\n

Your real friends should be kind, understanding, and non-judgmental to everyone who crosses their path\u2014not just to ones they love.<\/p>\n

A tua melhor amiga<\/a> devem ser prest\u00e1veis, respeitadores, carinhosos e atenciosos com os seus outros amigos, com os seus familiares e com todos os outros seres humanos com quem se cruzam.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, seria poss\u00edvel ter uma boa amizade com algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 mal-educado com o empregado de mesa, que procura todas as oportunidades para enganar algu\u00e9m, que humilha os outros e que, apesar da forma como o trata, n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdadeiramente uma boa pessoa?<\/p>\n

With someone who doesn’t have any empathy, who is completely selfish, and who doesn’t care about other people’s well-being?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que se pode esperar deste tipo de pessoa?<\/p>\n

What would they do to you if you argue\u2014would they start treating you the same way they treat everyone else in their surroundings?<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014if someone is a toxic person, they can’t be a better friend.<\/p>\n

Bom ouvinte<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Let’s face it\u2014at some point, all of us get boring to others.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter if you keep on talking about that ex who dumped you ages ago, if you continuously bother everyone else with the same problems you could fix in a blink of an eye or if you go on and on about one and the same issue that has already been talked about million of times.<\/p>\n

A dada altura, as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta cansaram-se de tudo o que tem para dizer, por muito que gostem de si.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o seu amigo genu\u00edno<\/a> ser\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m um bom ouvinte.<\/p>\n

Nunca estar\u00e3o demasiado ocupados para ouvir os seus problemas, mesmo que esses problemas lhes pare\u00e7am disparatados, e nunca o ignorar\u00e3o quando precisar deles.<\/p>\n

They will be your shoulder to cry on, even after hundreds of “I told you sos”, and they will always do their best to make you feel better.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a pessoa a quem podes telefonar a meio da noite, s\u00f3 para partilhar algo excitante ou avassalador que te aconteceu; a pessoa que deixar\u00e1 tudo e todos pendurados s\u00f3 para te ouvir; e a pessoa que ter\u00e1 sempre a paci\u00eancia de passar pelos teus problemas, como se fossem os seus pr\u00f3prios.Perdoar<\/p>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

One’s character can be best seen through their ability to forgive.<\/p>\n

Yes, most of us have fragile egos, and there are some deal breakers we simply can’t ignore, but if your true best friend really loves you, they will forgive you for almost everything.<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong\u2014this is not a green light to keep on hurting this person just because you know they will always have your back.<\/p>\n

Just because they call you their best friend, it doesn’t mean that you should take advantage of their love and kindness and treat them however the hell you want.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, there doesn’t exist a friendship which hasn’t had a rough phase, and it doesn’t mean that you and your BFF are bad friends just because you occasionally have an argument.<\/p>\n

However, if you two have managed to become stronger from all of this, it is a clear sign that you’re real friends.<\/p>\n

Se cometeste um erro e o teu amigo reuniu for\u00e7as para perdoar<\/a> e considerar que toda a vossa amizade n\u00e3o \u00e9 digna de uma discuss\u00e3o, isto \u00e9 algo que deve ser apreciado.<\/p>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Outra das qualidades de um bom amigo \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a sua natureza protetora.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos o desejo de cuidar de quem amamos, por isso os seus amigos pr\u00f3ximos tamb\u00e9m devem cuidar de si e vice-versa.<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you’re an immature brat who needs someone leading you through life or that you can’t make it on your own.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t mean that you’re looking for your best friend to be your parent.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 simplesmente agrad\u00e1vel saber que temos algu\u00e9m que se preocupa com as nossas necessidades e algu\u00e9m que moveria montanhas para nos fazer sentir melhor, se necess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Os bons amigos s\u00e3o como anjos da guarda<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They call to check up on you, take care of you when you’re sick, pay attention to the way you feel, worry when you’re not answering your phone, do their best to save you from your bad judgments, and chase away the people who want to hurt you.<\/p>\n

So, if you’re lucky enough to have a friend like this, don’t consider them boring or nagging. Instead, appreciate everything they’re doing for you because people like this are hard to find.<\/p>\n

Divertido de estar por perto<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve dealt with all the important character traits of a best friend, let’s not forget that your good friend should also be someone you always have a blast with.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 algu\u00e9m que torna os vossos dias um pouco mais brilhantes e algu\u00e9m que faz com que todos os vossos momentos juntos sejam memor\u00e1veis e valham a pena ser vividos.<\/p>\n

This is the person who is up for everything you suggest, someone who is always ready for adventure, someone who supports your crazy ideas, and the person you share your wildest and the dearest memories with\u2014 a spontaneous and relaxed person you’re always comfortable next to.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 ter um amigo pessimista que estrague todos os seus encontros com tens\u00f5es desnecess\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to spend your time with a person who picks fights, who is never satisfied, and who spreads their negativity everywhere they show up.<\/p>\n

A verdadeiro amigo<\/a> deve ser algu\u00e9m capaz de o fazer rir, mesmo nas horas mais dif\u00edceis, e algu\u00e9m que tenha a capacidade de o ajudar a levantar-se do seu ponto mais baixo.<\/p>\n

So, if your best friend has all the qualities mentioned above and is also fun to be around, congratulations because you’ve hit the jackpot!<\/p>\n

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