{"id":48759,"date":"2019-11-28T12:31:23","date_gmt":"2019-11-28T12:31:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48759"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:36:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:36:45","slug":"6-coisas-que-deve-saber-sobre-os-narcisistas-introvertidos-encobertos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-deve-saber-sobre-os-narcisistas-introvertidos-encobertos\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que deve saber sobre os narcisistas introvertidos encobertos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De certeza que j\u00e1 ouviu falar dos narcisistas que est\u00e3o \u00e0 nossa volta. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also familiar with their manipulation techniques, the things they tend to do in order to destroy their victim\u2019s lives, and the emotional scars they leave on anyone they get their hands on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if you\u2019ve ever dealt with covert introvert narcissists, you know that this is an especially dangerous subtype of this personality disorder, which in some cases, at first glance bear no similarities to \u201cbasic\u201d narcissists. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, aqui est\u00e3o as 6 coisas mais importantes a saber sobre este subtipo, que o podem ajudar a reconhec\u00ea-los a tempo e a lidar com eles com mais sucesso.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. N\u00e3o t\u00eam empatia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48760\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085.jpg\" alt=\"Foco seletivo solid\u00e3o jovem mulher asi\u00e1tica sentada no ch\u00e3o do quarto perto da varanda. Depress\u00e3o tristeza separa\u00e7\u00e3o rapariga adolescente asi\u00e1tica sentada sozinha abra\u00e7ando os joelhos fechando os olhos e pensando.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1499701085-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uma das primeiras (e ao mesmo tempo piores) caracter\u00edsticas deste subtipo de narcisistas \u00e9 a sua completa falta de empatia. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00e3o \u00e9 que estas pessoas sejam apenas <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/immature\/9-passos-para-lidar-com-um-namorado-egoista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, egocentric, and look after their own needs, they are also completely indifferent to anyone else\u2019s emotions, suffering, or troubles, unless they affect them personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever doesn\u2019t directly influence a covert introvert narcissist is of no importance whatsoever for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez disso, concentram-se apenas em si pr\u00f3prios, na satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus pr\u00f3prios desejos e na perfeita ordem das coisas no seu microcosmos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apesar do que possa estar a acontecer na sua vida, os problemas deles s\u00e3o sempre os piores e os que precisam de ser resolvidos de imediato. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re the centre of their own universe and expect everyone else to treat them that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Mas s\u00e3o extremamente sens\u00edveis<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202.jpg\" alt=\"Homem negro a falar ao telefone com uma emo\u00e7\u00e3o zangada \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1062607202-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ironicamente, apesar de os narcisistas introvertidos encobertos n\u00e3o terem compaix\u00e3o pelos outros, ficam ofendidos quando provam do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio e quando algu\u00e9m come\u00e7a a trat\u00e1-los da mesma forma que eles os tratam a eles. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embora fa\u00e7am o seu melhor para o esconder, a verdade \u00e9 que estas pessoas s\u00e3o extremamente sens\u00edveis e os seus sentimentos podem ser feridos num piscar de olhos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, if you ever find yourself in any type of relationship with this kind of person, you\u2019ll be expected to walk on eggshells around them, while they\u2019re allowed to treat you the way they want.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, narcissists don\u2019t see these double standards they\u2019re trying to set as something troubling. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Afinal de contas, \u00e9 assim que eles s\u00e3o e se algu\u00e9m quer um lugar na sua vida, tem de lidar com isso.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. They\u2019re passive aggressive<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295.jpg\" alt=\"Casal a discutir sentado no cais\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_453228295-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to many, the worst problem with handling a narcissist is the fact that they refuse to tell you when they\u2019re offended and hurt (despite these being the emotions they feel most of the time). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a covert introvert narcissist is bothered by something, they\u2019ll never put effort into resolving the problem the mature way, nor tell you what is wrong directly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez disso, essa pessoa vai dar-lhe o tratamento do sil\u00eancio, vai deix\u00e1-lo no fantasma e aplicar outros <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-relacao-passivo-agressiva\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">agressivo passivo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> t\u00e1cticas sem nunca lhe dar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o adequada ou uma conclus\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Naturalmente, este comportamento faz com que a v\u00edtima se sinta culpada e se pergunte qual foi o seu erro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, a covert introvert narcissist thinks it is beneath them to face you and tell you that something you did got to them, because they\u2019re scared that if someone knows they can be influenced, it\u2019d give this person power over them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, they prefer holding grudges, acting like they\u2019re above the situation and completely unharmed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. They\u2019re indirectly superior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689.jpg\" alt=\"Homem bem sucedido e bonito perto do carro.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1234136689-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Os mais comuns <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-ele-tiver-estas-10-caracteristicas-pode-ser-vitima-do-seu-abuso-narcisico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">carater\u00edstica de todos os narcisistas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is their superiority over others \u2013 or at least, their belief that they\u2019re the most important people in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Without any concrete reason, these people tend to think they\u2019re better than anyone else and are convinced that they\u2019re entitled to more than their victims.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, many narcissists don\u2019t hide the way they feel. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019re completely open about the fact that, according to them, you\u2019re beneath them and that no one could ever reach their level.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, a covert introvert narcissist is different. This is a person who\u2019ll never directly insult you or tell you that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para a fazer sentir assim. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll use every opportunity to humiliate you and make you feel bad about yourself in different sneaky ways, which makes you, as his victim, feel that much worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. They\u2019re paranoid<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48764\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de um homem de barba brutal a andar na rua. Jovem hipster com estilo a posar, \u00f3culos de sol, bigode, la\u00e7o, suspens\u00f3rios. Homem de neg\u00f3cios a olhar para a c\u00e2mara ao ar livre.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_525269068-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Outra carater\u00edstica de todos os narcisistas dissimulados \u00e9 a sua paranoia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sabe como todos n\u00f3s olhamos para as coisas do nosso ponto de vista, esperando que os outros se comportem da mesma maneira que n\u00f3s?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, this is exactly what narcissists do as well. They don\u2019t trust anyone because they in turn know they\u2019re not trustworthy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They expect the worst from the people around them because they\u2019re aware of all the evil things they\u2019re capable of doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De acordo com um narcisista introvertido dissimulado, toda a gente o quer apanhar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Esta pessoa est\u00e1 sempre atenta, porque est\u00e1 convencida de que at\u00e9 os mais pr\u00f3ximos podem mago\u00e1-la inesperadamente e apunhal\u00e1-la pelas costas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His paranoja doesn\u2019t allow him to believe in anyone\u2019s honesty or good intentions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you treat him in the best way possible, he\u2019ll always second guess you and assume that there\u2019s some hidden agenda deeply rooted behind your behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Precisam de admira\u00e7\u00e3o e aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem casal bem sucedido a sorrir, mulher abra\u00e7a homem dentro de casa, bokeh\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_640282210-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ao contr\u00e1rio da forma como agem, a verdade que todos os narcisistas introvertidos dissimulados tentam esconder do resto do mundo (incluindo eles pr\u00f3prios) \u00e9 que precisam de aprova\u00e7\u00e3o, admira\u00e7\u00e3o e aten\u00e7\u00e3o das suas v\u00edtimas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basicamente, este homem manter-se-\u00e1 ao seu lado desde que saiba que \u00e9 grande aos seus olhos e que voc\u00ea se apaixone por ele <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-subtis-de-manipulacao-numa-relacao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipula\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though they\u2019re introverts by nature, ignoring them is what spiritually kills them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can\u2019t stand noticing that their actions have no impact whatsoever on their victims, and as soon as this happens, they move on in search for new prey.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, it appears that a narcissist has no real control over his victim \u2013 things just appear that way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Instead, his victim is in charge of him because he\u2019s the one who is emotionally dependent on her reaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 coisas que deve saber sobre os narcisistas introvertidos encobertos\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m sure you heard about narcissists who are all around us. Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also familiar with their manipulation techniques, the things they tend to do in order to destroy their victim\u2019s lives, and the emotional scars they leave on anyone they get their hands on. However, if you\u2019ve ever dealt with covert&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":48766,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_228417220.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}