{"id":48770,"date":"2020-12-15T12:39:43","date_gmt":"2020-12-15T12:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48770"},"modified":"2024-10-30T11:39:57","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T10:39:57","slug":"o-proximo-ano-nao-sera-diferente-a-nao-ser-que-o-faca-assim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-proximo-ano-nao-sera-diferente-a-nao-ser-que-o-faca-assim\/","title":{"rendered":"O pr\u00f3ximo ano n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 diferente, a n\u00e3o ser que o fa\u00e7a assim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Novo ano - novo eu.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 ouviste esta frase?<\/p>\n

How many New Year\u2019s Eves have you spent swearing to yourself that the following year will represent your novo come\u00e7o <\/a> e uma oportunidade para come\u00e7ar a fazer as coisas de forma diferente?<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes prometeu a si pr\u00f3prio e aos outros que iria mudar no momento em que o rel\u00f3gio batesse a meia-noite?<\/b><\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll bury the old you \u2013 the girl who kept on letting the wrong people in her life, didn\u2019t sleep enough, kept a bad diet, led an unhealthy life, didn\u2019t take care of herself the way she should\u2019ve, procrastinated, and made overall lousy judgments and life decisions?<\/p>\n

How many times have you written down your New Years\u2019 resolutions?<\/b> E quantas vezes \u00e9 que as cumpriu realmente?<\/b><\/p>\n

How many times have you sworn that this is the year that you\u2019ll finally start working out and hitting the gym, icut all ties with your past and forget your ex t\u00f3xico <\/a> , or at last ditch that player who\u2019s been leaving you and coming back in your life as he pleases?<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

The year that you\u2019ll pass that exam that\u2019s been on your shoulders for ages, take that trip you\u2019ve been dreaming of ever since you can remember, get rid of all of your fake friends?<\/p>\n

The year that you\u2019ll do something about changing your shitty job and\u00a0 finally put yourself first? Where you\u2019ll learn the importance of self-care and self-love?<\/p>\n

Quantos <\/b>novos come\u00e7os<\/b><\/a> tinha mesmo?<\/b> Quantos dias 1 de janeiro esperou ansiosamente para fazer algumas mudan\u00e7as cruciais na sua vida?<\/p>\n

Seria imposs\u00edvel sequer contar, certo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando dezembro se aproxima e o fim do ano se aproxima, h\u00e1 sempre uma grande expetativa.<\/p>\n

Decide firmemente virar uma nova p\u00e1gina, come\u00e7ar a trabalhar no seu desenvolvimento pessoal e p\u00f4r a sua vida em ordem.<\/p>\n

Mas o que \u00e9 que acontece?<\/p>\n

The New Year euphoria passes by you, you go back to your old habits and daily routines, and before you know it, you\u2019ve forgotten all about your resolutions<\/b> .<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

That\u2019s it \u2013 until another December starts knocking on your door.<\/p>\n

Mais um dezembro em que voltamos \u00e0 estaca zero e nos arrastamos para este c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel de promessas vazias que, de alguma forma, acabam sempre em desilus\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

O que vos leva a pensar que desta vez as coisas v\u00e3o ser diferentes?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you don\u2019t have what it takes to transform yourself into the woman you should become.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not claiming that you don\u2019t possess the inner strength and capacity needed to make some important decisions regarding your life and actually stick to them.<\/p>\n

In fact, I\u2019m just trying to open your eyes and make you realize that things won\u2019t instantly get better just because you think you\u2019re closing a chapter of your life the moment an old year comes to an end.<\/b><\/p>\n

Santa won\u2019t come with a magic wand to do your dirty job for you, as much as you\u2019d like him to.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who has to make these changes, without anyone\u2019s help.<\/b><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica que tem todo o poder nas suas m\u00e3os e a \u00fanica que pode mudar a sua vida para melhor.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one responsible for your own destiny and the creator of your own happiness.<\/p>\n

Aquela que tem de tomar o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e fazer um esfor\u00e7o efetivo para fazer algumas diferen\u00e7as.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, yes, there\u2019s a possibility for this new year of your life to be better than any of the ones before.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a possibility for it to be your turning point, but you\u2019re the one who has to make it that way.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your responsibility to meet your own expectations and it\u2019s up to you to transform your dreams into reality.<\/p>\n

Cabe-lhe a si mudar os seus padr\u00f5es de comportamento e perceber que you can\u2019t keep on doing the same things while hoping to get a different result.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

It\u2019s on you to push yourself to become better and improve the quality of your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up to you to start chasing your own goals and dreams, without expecting someone else to do it for you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your responsibility not to repeat your mistakes, or allow yourself to dwell on the past.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up to you to start living your life, instead of just planning it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Claro que nada disto pode acontecer de um dia para o outro. No entanto, acontecer\u00e1 se decidir colocar toda a sua energia, tempo e esfor\u00e7o nisso.<\/p>\n

Besides, you don\u2019t need to see a calendar switch to make any of these things happen.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wait for January 1st or even next Monday to start working on these changes.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re really up to it, what is the point of waiting? Why not start right now?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

New year \u2013 new me. How many times have you heard this phrase? How many New Year\u2019s Eves have you spent swearing to yourself that the following year will represent your fresh start and an opportunity to start doing things differently? How many times have you promised yourself and others that you will change the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":177237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/The-Next-Year-Wont-Be-Different-Unless-You-Make-It-That-Way-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48770"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48770\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177238,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48770\/revisions\/177238"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}