{"id":48868,"date":"2020-09-29T14:05:57","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T14:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48868"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:18","slug":"7-maneiras-de-deixar-ir-alguem-que-ja-o-deixou-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-maneiras-de-deixar-ir-alguem-que-ja-o-deixou-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneiras de deixar ir algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 deixou ir voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deixar algu\u00e9m para tr\u00e1s <\/a>you still love can be the hardest thing you\u2019ll ever do.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s what you actually need to do in order to move on and be happy. <\/p>\n

Antes de o fazer, \u00e9 preciso pensar se \u00e9 isso que realmente quer e agir em conformidade.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you and say that it won\u2019t hurt that much.<\/p>\n

Vai acontecer. Mas tu podes faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o sabe bem como come\u00e7ar, veja algumas das coisas que se seguem e que podem tornar todo o processo muito mais f\u00e1cil. <\/p>\n

Mantenha-se firme na sua decis\u00e3o <\/h2>\n

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A primeira coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 manter-se firme na sua decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t say that you\u2019ll let go of someone one day and change your mind the next. <\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll just be hurting yourself more.<\/p>\n

Quando perceberes que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 volta a dar, deves queimar todas as pontes entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

Isso significa n\u00e3o ter qualquer contacto com essa pessoa. <\/p>\n

N\u00e3o verificar as suas redes sociais, n\u00e3o lhes telefonar ou responder \u00e0s suas mensagens.<\/p>\n

You should act like they don\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica forma de os ultrapassar sem stress e sofrimento adicionais. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give second chances <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

As pessoas apaixonadas fazem coisas loucas.<\/p>\n

They do things that they never thought they\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

Deixam que os outros passem por cima deles em nome do amor.<\/p>\n

But what they don\u2019t see is that love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s supposed to make you feel good in your skin.<\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o \u00e9 isso que sente, ent\u00e3o deve esquecer o assunto.<\/p>\n

Let it go and the only reason you should look back is to see how far you\u2019ve come. <\/p>\n

The golden rule is not giving second chances to people who don\u2019t deserve them.<\/p>\n

And please don\u2019t let nostalgia and some sweet memories make you feel differently. <\/p>\n

If you give a second chance to someone who doesn\u2019t respect you, you\u2019ll cry again over them, sooner or later.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should firmly decide that nothing will stop you from leaving them. <\/p>\n

Reagir \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

A pior coisa que se pode fazer \u00e9 enclausurar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the last thing you should do.<\/p>\n

Se te sentes mal, mostra-o.<\/p>\n

Faz as coisas que queres fazer.<\/p>\n

Se quiseres falar com algu\u00e9m sobre o assunto, fala.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to do that, take some time just for yourself. <\/p>\n

Faz tudo o que te faz sentir bem.<\/p>\n

Accept the fact that you\u2019ll feel differently each day<\/p>\n

Each day will be like a new chapter where you\u2019ll have to learn how to act.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll need to cope with the new situation and learn to live on your own. <\/p>\n

There\u2019ll be things that you\u2019ll change about yourself and you\u2019ll realize that you should\u2019ve made them earlier.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s all a part of the process and your new beginning. <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t stop loving someone overnight <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to still feel something for people who are no longer a part of your life, especially if they meant a lot to you.<\/p>\n

If you still love your ex, just know it\u2019s normal to feel like that. <\/p>\n

Ultrapass\u00e1-las ser\u00e1 um processo longo, mas que vale a pena.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso dar tempo a si pr\u00f3prio para se libertar de algu\u00e9m, porque isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que aconte\u00e7a num minuto ou dois.<\/p>\n

Pode durar semanas ou meses. <\/p>\n

And once you think you have completely let go of them, you\u2019ll realize you still have feelings for them.<\/p>\n

Por isso, d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo suficiente para os deixar ir.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que se deva apressar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something that needs to happen naturally.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only way it\u2019ll work out. <\/p>\n

Perdoa-lhes, mas perdoa-te tamb\u00e9m a ti pr\u00f3prio <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que tem de fazer \u00e9 perdoar-lhes para poder seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Mas quando os perdoar, certifique-se de que tamb\u00e9m se perdoa a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? <\/p>\n

Deve perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio por se agarrar a algo que deixou de ser real h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

Perdoe-se por todas as vezes em que decidiu coloc\u00e1-los em primeiro lugar, por todas as noites mal dormidas e por ter sido tomado como garantido. <\/p>\n

After that, forgive them for all the pain they caused you because that\u2019s the only way you\u2019ll be able to move on.<\/p>\n

And once you finally do that, you\u2019ll see that you are much better off without them. <\/p>\n

Rodeie-se das pessoas que ama <\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Once you decide to let go of someone you love, you\u2019ll need all the support that you can get.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s really important to surround yourself with friends and family. <\/p>\n

They\u2019ll be with you so you don\u2019t think about your loss as much.<\/p>\n

They know what you\u2019re going through and they\u2019ll know how to act accordingly.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really nice to have good people when life is good but it\u2019s also important to have them when things aren\u2019t going well. <\/p>\n

Basta estar com eles, falar e conviver.<\/p>\n

Trust me, that\u2019s the best way para esquecer algu\u00e9m <\/a>and accept what\u2019s happening in your life. <\/p>\n

Ser suficientemente forte para seguir em frente<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve gone through all the stages of the grieving process, you\u2019ll know how to move on.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really important that you do that without being involved in any kind of romantic relationship. <\/p>\n

If you try to find someone to give you comfort or to avoid being alone, you\u2019ll just be making a bigger mistake.<\/p>\n

But if you face your fear and reality alone, it\u2019ll make you stronger.<\/p>\n

Essa experi\u00eancia ensinar-lhe-\u00e1 que pode sempre contar consigo pr\u00f3prio e que deve colocar-se em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be hard but it\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

Once you learn how to move on and when you finally learn how to be satisfied on your own, you\u2019ll be truly happy.<\/p>\n

And after the painful experience that you had, you\u2019ll learn not to make the wrong choices again or at least to recognize the red flags in case you end up with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

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