{"id":48893,"date":"2020-04-29T18:27:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T18:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=48893"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:26:16","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:26:16","slug":"uma-visao-da-psicologia-masculina-durante-a-regra-de-nao-contacto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-visao-da-psicologia-masculina-durante-a-regra-de-nao-contacto\/","title":{"rendered":"Perspectivas sobre a psicologia masculina durante a regra de n\u00e3o contacto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quer queira o seu ex de volta ou queira esquec\u00ea-lo de vez e sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, there is one truth\u2014a regra de n\u00e3o contacto funciona<\/a> como nada mais.<\/p>\n

If you know that you DO want him back – CLIQUE AQUI<\/a>, I guarantee you’ll not only get him back but solve all the issues that got you to break up in the first place.<\/p>\n

A regra de n\u00e3o contacto estabelece que n\u00e3o deve ter qualquer comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ex.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mensagens de texto, nem telefonemas, nem bisbilhotar as suas contas nas redes sociais, nem nada.<\/p>\n

It’s simple in theory. But it’s much harder in practice. It’s not easy to go complete radio silence with someone you have cared for over a long period.<\/p>\n

That’s why the timespan of this rule is what a lot of people get wrong.<\/p>\n

Pensam que tudo estar\u00e1 resolvido no espa\u00e7o de uma semana. Infelizmente, demora muito mais tempo.<\/p>\n

O per\u00edodo sem contacto<\/a> deve ser at\u00e9 90 dias, mas pelo menos 30 dias <\/a>n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer tipo de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, nem sequer uma mensagem de texto se ele iniciar a conversa.<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 a perguntar-se se esta regra funciona nos homens, a resposta \u00e9: definitivamente sim.<\/p>\n

Se quiser ter a certeza absoluta de que o vai ter de volta, utilize O Guia do Fator Ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s the only thing that actually works that can ensure you get your ex-boyfriend back.<\/p>\n

Se se mantiver firme na sua decis\u00e3o e se afastar dele, \u00e9 garantido que ele a vai querer de volta.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica quest\u00e3o que ter\u00e1 ent\u00e3o \u00e9 se ainda o quer, porque este per\u00edodo sem comunica\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00e1-la-\u00e1 definitivamente olhar para as coisas de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

A regra de n\u00e3o contacto funciona com os homens?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sim, a regra do n\u00e3o contacto funciona com os homens. Sim, tem tudo a ver com o g\u00e9nero e com as diferentes mentalidades dos homens e das mulheres.<\/p>\n

Female and male psychology differ. That’s why this rule won’t work the other way around; the approach a man should have with his ex-girlfriend is usually completely different.<\/p>\n

A mente masculina s\u00f3 responde a psicologia inversa<\/a>. Basicamente, \u00e9 preciso fazer as coisas ao contr\u00e1rio do que ele espera.<\/p>\n

Em vez de o perseguir, <\/b>mensagens de texto<\/b>, calling, looking for closure, you simply disappear from his life and that’s the only thing that will make your ex think, “I made a mistake when I broke up with her.”<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 mais uma coisa essencial a fazer, que \u00e9 deslocar o seu interesse dele para si.<\/p>\n

Para que esta regra funcione, tem de se esfor\u00e7ar por se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

That’s why this is both a post-breakup recovery method and a strategy to get your ex boyfriend back.<\/p>\n

The beauty of no contact is that even if it fails for some reason that we have no power over, we start to rebuild ourselves into better and self-loving creatures instead of thinking we are not enough. It’s a healthy way of dealing with a break-up.<\/p>\n

O <\/b>regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/b> e <\/b>psicologia masculina<\/b>:<\/b><\/p>\n

This is a general portrait of a man’s thoughts during this radio silence. It’s not always easy to figure out what’s going on in that brain of theirs, that’s why we are here to help.<\/p>\n

Jogar duro<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

What’s more, he won’t just pretend, he might actually feel tough in this first phase.<\/p>\n

Depois de terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo, ele vai procurar formas de desfrutar da sua nova liberdade.<\/p>\n

Ele dir\u00e1 que nunca esteve melhor e que ser solteiro \u00e9 a melhor coisa que lhe podia ter acontecido.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Este per\u00edodo p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 reservado para sair e ir \u00e0 discoteca com os seus amigos homens.<\/p>\n

O pior erro que pode cometer \u00e9 contact\u00e1-lo t\u00e3o cedo. Isso s\u00f3 vai inflar o ego dele e dar-lhe a oportunidade de se gabar aos amigos de como est\u00e1 a gostar dele.<\/p>\n

But this phase will soon pass and he will slowly start to wonder where you are and why you aren’t running back to him.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: O que \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1 a pensar durante a aus\u00eancia de contacto? (8 Pensamentos mais comuns)<\/a><\/p>\n

O seu comportamento vai confundi-lo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que um homem se sente quando uma mulher se afasta<\/a>? He expects you to chase after him in every way imaginable and once you don’t it will leave him in a state of shock.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, habituou-se a que estivesse sempre \u00e0 disposi\u00e7\u00e3o dele, que lhe respondesse \u00e0s mensagens e que estivesse dispon\u00edvel sempre que ele se lembrasse de telefonar.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you took all the control he had over you. He can’t manipulate you with love anymore. You decided to be stronger than your feelings.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7ou a pensar no que merece em vez do que quer e isso faz toda a diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

This is the point at which he begins to wonder why this is all happening, how you changed overnight… and he starts missing you.<\/p>\n

The less he knows about you, the more he’ll wonder<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

When he doesn’t hear from you for a long period of time, he will start to wonder why, especially if you have been in a long-distance or long-term relationship and you were used to everyday communication.<\/p>\n

O medo de que tenha seguido em frente vai-se instalando lentamente. Ele vai perguntar-se se tem saudades dele, se tem outra pessoa, se j\u00e1 o ultrapassou, etc.<\/p>\n

As perguntas v\u00e3o-se acumulando na mente dele. Esta \u00e9 provavelmente a altura em que ele lhe enviar\u00e1 uma mensagem de texto ou tentar\u00e1 contact\u00e1-la de alguma forma. S\u00f3 tens de ser suficientemente forte para n\u00e3o responder.<\/p>\n

Once you don’t answer, the anger will kick in<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Como a maioria dos homens, ele provavelmente ignorava as suas mensagens em v\u00e1rias ocasi\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Now that you are giving him a taste of his own medicine, he can’t handle it.<\/p>\n

“How dare she treat me like this?” is echoing in his mind and bruising his ego.<\/p>\n

O que ele n\u00e3o v\u00ea \u00e9 que a tratou dez vezes pior e causou o seu desgosto.<\/p>\n

E mesmo que n\u00e3o esteja a usar este sil\u00eancio para o irritar e apenas para lhe mostrar o seu valor, ele pode ser vingativo.<\/p>\n

A new relationship will seem like a good idea to him. It’s one way to get his mind off of you and show the world and himself that he is \u2018just fine\u2019.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, ele est\u00e1 a contar que isso o irrite e talvez o fa\u00e7a contact\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won’t do that. It will lead nowhere and make your heart more broken\u2014if that’s possible.<\/p>\n

So let the anger pass, remember that you went through things that were far worse and you’ve come out stronger and wiser from all of it. Hopefully, he will too.<\/p>\n

O per\u00edodo de aus\u00eancia de contacto recomendado transmite a mensagem certa<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

As I stated earlier, the 30-day no contact rule is the minimum time in which you can’t be in touch with your ex.<\/p>\n

It’s just enough time to show him what life without you looks like, to miss you and want you back.<\/p>\n

More importantly, it\u2019s enough time for him to think about where he went wrong.<\/p>\n

Se voltar para ele demasiado cedo, ele assumir\u00e1 naturalmente que n\u00e3o fez nada de errado e que pode voltar a correr para si sempre que quiser.<\/p>\n

You don’t want him to think that now, do you?That’s why that 30-day no contact span is of extreme importance.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t just deepen his longing for you, it also shows him that you value yourself and that he can’t mess with your feelings.<\/p>\n

Ele vai sentir a tua falta<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os dias sem contacto tornar-se-\u00e3o dif\u00edceis para ele, tal como foram para si durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n

Ele vai tornar isso \u00f3bvio e haver\u00e1 alguns sinais \u00f3bvios de que sente a sua falta durante a aus\u00eancia de contacto.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, o facto de ele lhe enviar mensagens, mesmo que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o responda, \u00e9 um excelente sinal de que tem saudades suas. Em segundo lugar, ele est\u00e1 a mostrar sinais de ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, pode ouvir dos seus amigos em comum que ele tem andado a fazer perguntas sobre a sua vida amorosa e se aquele tipo na sua fotografia do Instagram \u00e9 seu bom amigo ou algo mais.<\/p>\n

Jealousy in a healthy amount is a good indicator of somebody’s feelings.<\/p>\n

Also, he might \u2018accidentally bump into you\u2019 from time to time. You will immediately know it’s no accident if he doesn\u2019t usually visit the same places as you.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele pode tentar falar com os seus amigos sobre a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual, perguntar porque n\u00e3o responde aos seus telefonemas, fazer perguntas ou at\u00e9 dizer que tem saudades suas. Ele sabe que tudo o que disser chegar\u00e1 at\u00e9 si.<\/p>\n

Ele vai querer-te de volta e vai tomar medidas para o provar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There will come that final point in which he will regret letting you go. He will finally realize that you\u2019re one of a kind.<\/p>\n

Ele vai recordar todos os momentos que passou consigo, vai sentir falta da forma como o fez sentir e vai p\u00f4r de lado o seu orgulho<\/a> and do the impossible to get you back. If he is the real deal, he won’t let you go without a fight.<\/p>\n

Excep\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 regra de n\u00e3o contacto:<\/strong><\/p>\n

All men are different and aside from some general predictions we made earlier, there are some men who can’t be sorted there.<\/p>\n

A sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o a este m\u00e9todo ser\u00e1 diferente porque a sua natureza \u00e9 diferente. Eis alguns exemplos de mentalidades espec\u00edficas da psicologia masculina:<\/p>\n

Um homem de cabe\u00e7a dura<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

He won’t contact you during the no contact period because he is just too proud and too stubborn to do that.<\/p>\n

He will want to hear from you but he will wait until you make the first move. Which you won’t make.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, se der o primeiro passo, ele ficar\u00e1 com a ideia de que ganhou e que est\u00e1 louca por ele.<\/p>\n

Essa ideia vai lisonje\u00e1-lo no in\u00edcio, mas, mais cedo do que imagina, ele vai voltar a fingir-se de frio e desinteressado.<\/p>\n

You see, while a bullheaded man is inflexible and not big on changing his mind, it’s not impossible.<\/p>\n

Vai demorar mais tempo, mas se ele realmente a quer, ter\u00e1 de lhe telefonar primeiro ou perd\u00ea-la-\u00e1 para sempre. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra forma de isto acabar bem.<\/p>\n

Um homem inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He won’t text, he won’t call, he won’t come anywhere near you because he thinks he is not good enough.<\/p>\n

Unlike a stubborn guy whose ego doesn’t let him contact you, this guy won’t get in touch because he is afraid of rejection.<\/p>\n

Your first instinct after reading this is to contact him but don’t (wait at least 30 days).<\/p>\n

Apesar das suas inseguran\u00e7as e medos, ele continua a ser um homem e, assim que vir uma mensagem sua, ter\u00e1 ganho vantagem e ver\u00e1 isso como um sinal da sua fraqueza.<\/p>\n

Um homem sem no\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Ele nunca percebe porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1 zangado com ele. Ele tem um p\u00e9ssimo timing para dizer as coisas<\/a> e ele \u00e9 socialmente estranho. Parece-lhe familiar?<\/p>\n

Men definitely come from a different planet, there is no doubt about it. That’s why it’s no wonder they don’t pick up on most things.<\/p>\n

If you are dealing with a clueless man, he might not even be aware that you went no contact and he might have the impression that everything is fine. He might text you randomly to see what’s new.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que a regra do n\u00e3o contacto funciona com este homem? Mais uma vez, a resposta \u00e9 SIM, a \u00fanica coisa diferente \u00e9 a abordagem.<\/p>\n

Ap\u00f3s um per\u00edodo de 30 dias sem contacto, ter\u00e1 de ser voc\u00ea a sentar-se com ele e explicar-lhe que certas coisas t\u00eam de mudar se ele a quiser de volta.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o tipo de homem que ter\u00e1 de guiar constantemente na sua hist\u00f3ria de amor.<\/p>\n

Don’t expect him to know or guess your feelings and wants, as he is clueless.<\/p>\n

Um homem ferido<\/h2>\n

\"silhueta<\/p>\n

To make things clear from the start, the term \u2018hurt man\u2019, in this case, signifies that you are the one to blame for the break-up.<\/p>\n

You betrayed his trust, cheated on him or have done anything that is unforgivable in his eyes and that’s that.<\/p>\n

Unlike the other guys, who want to contact you but they don’t want to because of their male pride, this guy has no wish to hear from you.<\/p>\n

In this case, the no contact rule won’t work. Sure, there is a possibility that you guys will get back together eventually but you have to be patient and understanding.<\/p>\n

Take a deep look inside though\u2014if you did something wrong, why you did it, if there was something lacking in the relationship that made you act out, etc.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you and your ex-boyfriend are not compatible and he isn’t the man of your dreams. Think about it before you torture yourself and him once again.<\/p>\n

The ‘YOU’ factor in the no contact rule<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I mentioned this at the beginning but it’s worth stressing it once more. You are the one holding the keys that unlock the doors of your love life.<\/p>\n

The post-breakup period is the worst time to do anything. Your emotions are all over the place. Your mind is anything but focused. Your pride is hurt and your self-esteem shook. You’re heartbroken.<\/p>\n

That’s why the days of no contact are as important for you as they are for getting your ex back, if not more. There is a reason for a minimum of 30 days of complete silence between you and your ex.<\/p>\n

Por isso, d\u00ea tempo a si pr\u00f3prio. Dedique esses 30 dias (ou mais, se necess\u00e1rio) a si pr\u00f3prio e s\u00f3 a si pr\u00f3prio. Desenvolva-se a partir do zero.<\/p>\n

Learn from what happened and don’t let it bring you down. See what you want and what you need and if there is the prospect of ever having that with your ex.<\/p>\n

Talvez no final destes dias sem contacto, se aperceba que est\u00e1 melhor sem o seu ex, mais em paz consigo mesma, mais satisfeita e mais feliz.<\/p>\n

Se isso acontecer, corte todos os la\u00e7os com ele. Por outro lado, se ainda gosta dele e acredita que existe uma forte liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre voc\u00eas e que ele \u00e9 o homem dos seus sonhos, tente outra vez.<\/p>\n

Mas tem de ser com uma condi\u00e7\u00e3o: tem de passar, pelo menos, 30 dias sem qualquer contacto, caso contr\u00e1rio, de nada valer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Everything you need to get your man back on your side is the no contact rule and male psychology\u2014or in other words, you need their way of thinking.<\/p>\n

There is one thing you need to remember though:The no contact rule doesn’t work if you break it.<\/p>\n

Once you break it, he immediately starts thinking, “I have her eating out of the palm of my hand,” and that’s where he starts taking you for granted and you will be back where you started.<\/p>\n

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