{"id":49018,"date":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","date_gmt":"2019-12-02T21:28:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49018"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:18:30","slug":"namorar-alguem-com-filhos-9-dicas-para-namorar-um-pai-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-alguem-com-filhos-9-dicas-para-namorar-um-pai-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Namorar algu\u00e9m com filhos: 9 dicas para namorar um pai solteiro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uma das quest\u00f5es mais importantes que todos n\u00f3s enfrentamos \u00e9 se queremos ter filhos ou n\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alguns de v\u00f3s sonham em ter uma casa cheia de filhos e pensam que ser pai ou m\u00e3e \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que d\u00e1 sentido \u00e0 vossa exist\u00eancia. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, there are some people who simply don\u2019t see themselves as good parents and who have no desire to acquire that role.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, the choice is all yours and your partner\u2019s. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, o que acontece quando, de repente, um novo mi\u00fado se torna parte da sua <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida familiar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even though you probably still didn\u2019t have plans on becoming a parent?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens when you meet someone who is already a parent, while you\u2019re child-free? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode funcionar e como tirar o melhor partido dela?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014dating is chaotic and hard but dating someone with children is even more challenging. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, h\u00e1 alguns aspectos que deve ter em conta antes de o considerar e aqui est\u00e3o os mais importantes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg\" alt=\"fam\u00edlia feliz\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-rock-near-seashore-1914982-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Namorar algu\u00e9m com filhos Pr\u00f3s e contras<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tem uma nova experi\u00eancia de vida<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acabam por receber muito amor sincero<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Testas o teu car\u00e1cter<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prepara-se para o papel de pai ou de m\u00e3e&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recebe muito menos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo a s\u00f3s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com o seu parceiro<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 um teste \u00e0 vossa paci\u00eancia e <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/6-sinais-reveladores-de-que-nao-es-mentalmente-forte-estas-apenas-a-agir-como-um-durao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for\u00e7a mental<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Traz muito stress<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It causes you more problems than a \u2018regular\u2019 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>9 coisas a ter em conta antes de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-namora-um-homem-com-filhos\/\">Namorar um pai solteiro&nbsp;<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1. As crian\u00e7as v\u00eam num pacote<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg\" alt=\"fam\u00edlia a brincar em conjunto\" width=\"800\" height=\"671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-300x252.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/a-man-and-a-woman-assisting-a-girl-while-jumping-1128317-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alguns dos mais importantes <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conselhos para encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you mustn\u2019t forget when you consider a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-factores-de-rutura-para-evitar-comecar-uma-nova-relacao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e solteira<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (or if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar algu\u00e9m com um filho a caminho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) \u00e9 que nunca se obt\u00e9m apenas um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">novo parceiro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">os seus filhos v\u00eam sempre no pacote, quer se queira quer n\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Independentemente da idade dos filhos, eles continuar\u00e3o sempre a ser a parte mais importante deles e, se decidir partilhar a sua vida com essa pessoa, esses filhos passar\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m a fazer parte de si.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar algu\u00e9m com um filho com necessidades especiais<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (for example, if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar algu\u00e9m com uma crian\u00e7a com s\u00edndrome de Down<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or some other mental or physical disability); this kid will need their parent\u2019s help and guidance for the rest of their life and that is simply something you have to accept.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re in the initial stages of your relationship and if you still haven\u2019t met the kids; just because they\u2019re not physically present in front of you every day, it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t exist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And it certainly doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll manage to \u2018get rid\u2019 of them in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um milh\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> anos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sim, trata-se de uma grande responsabilidade, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m algo em que deve pensar imediatamente, antes que as coisas se tornem s\u00e9rias. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, nobody knows what will happen and whether your relationship will work out but you need to figure out whether you\u2019re ready to become a potential <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pai adotivo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou n\u00e3o de imediato.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t worry\u2014nobody will judge you if you realize you\u2019re not cut out for something like this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 muito mais honesto dizer <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a verdade<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> logo ap\u00f3s o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiro encontro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (ou algumas mensagens trocadas numa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontros em linha<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do que desistir mais tarde no processo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. It won&#8217;t be easy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49020\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste junto ao lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-sitting-by-lake-185939-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cada pe\u00e7a de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conselhos para encontros<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dir-vos-\u00e1 que estar numa&nbsp; <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-coisas-que-ele-so-fara-se-voces-estiverem-numa-relacao-de-compromisso\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e solteira<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 dif\u00edcil. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Requer muitas d\u00favidas e ainda mais paci\u00eancia e energia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s face it\u2014maintaining a healthy romantic relationship with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nova pessoa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is hard enough, let alone when there are children involved. However, it doesn\u2019t make it impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00f3 precisa de estar perfeitamente consciente de tudo o que assinou. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lembre-se de ser sempre solid\u00e1rio, compreensivo e de manter os nervos calmos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, nobody forced you to get yourself involved in this and now it\u2019s your chance to play your cards right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sim, haver\u00e1 momentos em que desejar\u00e1 nunca se ter metido nesta confus\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moments when you\u2019ll want to give up and run for your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, on the other hand, when the beautiful times come and when the sun starts to shine again, you\u2019ll see that all of the hardships were worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. O seu parceiro foi magoado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49021\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste no banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"551\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-in-black-shirt-and-gray-denim-pants-sitting-on-gray-1134204-768x529.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter whether this person you\u2019ve started dating was officially married or this kid was born in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014the bottom line is the same; they\u2019ve been through a lot. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ve experienced a nasty divorce or a painful break-up and something like that would leave a mark on anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Afinal de contas, todas as rupturas de uma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 dif\u00edcil. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre perder algu\u00e9m que se amava e voltar ao antigo <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-vida-de-solteiro-nao-escolheu-a-vida-de-solteiro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida de solteiro<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e ficar com um ser humano completamente novo para cuidar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person wasn\u2019t only heartbroken and abandoned\u2014they also developed serious trust issues and emotional traumas. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Afinal, o seu parceiro, que prometeu fazer parte da sua vida para sempre, deixou-os, por isso \u00e9 natural que tenham dificuldade em deixar entrar algu\u00e9m novo no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, sem esperar o mesmo resultado.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, they are probably over everything that happened by now but that doesn\u2019t make them emotionally baggage-free. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That doesn\u2019t mean their pain is wiped away or that they can live as if these painful experiences never happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, \u00e9 preciso lembrar que tudo isto os tornou muito mais fortes do que todos os outros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They didn\u2019t have time to grieve or feel sorry for themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De facto, todo o seu processo de cura foi muito diferente do que ap\u00f3s uma simples separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They couldn\u2019t focus on the pain they were feeling because they had to put all of their energy into dragging their kid out of all this unharmed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This person didn\u2019t just manage to repair their broken heart\u2014they also raised a child in the process, which is worthy of admiration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t be surprised by their strength of character when you notice it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The hell they\u2019ve been through toughened them up and if their inner power intimidates you, it is time to rethink your choices.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Tens de te comportar como um adulto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49022\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de cor-de-rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-in-pink-cardigan-and-white-shirt-leaning-on-the-wall-975657-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A \u00faltima coisa que qualquer <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e solteira<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> quer \u00e9 outra crian\u00e7a que precisam de criar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> They don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t know what they want or a person who will bring unnecessary drama into their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O que \u00e9 que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-preciso-um-homem-forte-para-conquistar-o-coracao-de-uma-mae-solteira\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3es solteiras<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e os pais est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura de um adulto que seja seu parceiro em todos os sentidos da palavra. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Querem algu\u00e9m que possa ser igual a eles, algu\u00e9m que tenha a capacidade de caminhar pela vida lado a lado com eles, em vez de um pirralho imaturo e mimado que est\u00e1 constantemente \u00e0 espera que os guiem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por conseguinte, se considerarmos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar algu\u00e9m com filhos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, \u00e9 preciso reconsiderar a vossa maturidade. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 capaz de ser adulta ou est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera que algu\u00e9m a cuide?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. Don&#8217;t rush things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg\" alt=\"encontros de casais\" width=\"800\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/photography-of-couple-holding-hands-842546-768x492.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mais <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bom conselho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> deve ter em mente que deve levar as coisas com calma e respeitar sempre este <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nova pessoa<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019s personal boundaries. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuidado com o facto de que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3es solteiras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and dads can\u2019t afford to get themselves in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with just about anyone overnight and if you\u2019re not ready to give them the time you need, it is better to walk away right away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta pessoa ter\u00e1 de avaliar a sua personalidade a mais do que um n\u00edvel <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-devem-acontecer-antes-de-te-comprometeres-com-um-homem\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">antes de se comprometer<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para si.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tem for\u00e7a de car\u00e1cter? Para onde vai a sua vida e qual o impacto que ter\u00e1 na sua vida? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 suficientemente s\u00e9rio para fazer alguns planos importantes para o futuro? Ou vive a sua vida de dia para dia, ao sabor da corrente?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 respons\u00e1vel? Cumprem as vossas promessas?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 conhecido por ser um desordeiro? \u00c9 financeiramente est\u00e1vel ou planeia viver \u00e0 custa deles?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seria um bom modelo para os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s child<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? \u00c9 algu\u00e9m que seria um bom <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madrasta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou padrasto dos seus filhos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estes s\u00e3o os dilemas que cada <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">padrasto ou madrasta<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tem de enfrentar antes de come\u00e7ar algo s\u00e9rio. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, the last thing they plan on doing is bringing someone who can\u2019t be trusted into their children\u2019s lives, without doing a detailed background check on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, don\u2019t rush things when it comes to getting to know your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enteados<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Their parent will know when it is the right time to take such a huge step and you can\u2019t expect it to happen after the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiro encontro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou algumas mensagens trocadas numa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">encontros em linha<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> local.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Don&#8217;t expect them to put you in first place<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com vista deslumbrante\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-on-rock-platform-viewing-city-196667-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uma das coisas que muitas pessoas que est\u00e3o em <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es duradouras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3es solteiras<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e os pais t\u00eam mais dificuldade em aceitar \u00e9 o facto de nunca virem a ter <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeiro lugar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in their partner&#8217;s life, as much as they love them. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is simply a fact that you can\u2019t change (and shouldn\u2019t even want to) and something you have to deal with from the very start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019ll be <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-sinais-de-que-foi-emocionalmente-negligenciado-em-crianca-e-como-isso-o-afecta-agora\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emocionalmente negligenciada<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou n\u00e3o consideradas neste <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> mas \u00e9 preciso saber que os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as crian\u00e7as est\u00e3o em primeiro lugar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They will always love them more, take care of them more and put their needs in front of your relationship\u2019s well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, don\u2019t get all surprised when, for example, they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-alguem-cancela-os-planos-a-ultima-da-hora\/\">cancelar planos no <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-alguem-cancela-os-planos-a-ultima-da-hora\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltimo minuto<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because one of the children got a fever or when they don\u2019t answer your text at the exact moment you sent it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t freak out when your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s children<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> juntar-se a si durante um momento rom\u00e2ntico <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tempo a s\u00f3s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you\u2019ve planned, simply because they couldn\u2019t find a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bab\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a tempo (ou se os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bab\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> os colocou no <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00faltimo minuto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To put things simply, don\u2019t expect to have a full-time boyfriend or girlfriend who will only be dedicated to your relationship because, whether you like to hear this or not, there is always something going on in their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they\u2019re also thinking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially the case if you\u2019re <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar algu\u00e9m com um filho deficiente<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: ter em conta que t\u00eam <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um milh\u00e3o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> responsibilities you know nothing about and that in the back of their mind, there is always a part of them worrying about their kid\u2019s health and future.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Don&#8217;t interfere with their parenting methods<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49025\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg\" alt=\"ma com um filho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/light-sunset-people-water-34014-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite the fact that you\u2019re in a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> com o seu parceiro, um peda\u00e7o de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bom conselho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is not to forget that you\u2019re still not a part of this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fam\u00edlia mista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">o que significa que n\u00e3o tem qualquer direito de se imiscuir em certos aspectos da sua vida <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida familiar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isto aplica-se especialmente \u00e0 interfer\u00eancia nos seus m\u00e9todos parentais.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O que \u00e9 preciso lembrar \u00e9 que estes mi\u00fados t\u00eam um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e e pai<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e n\u00e3o vos cabe a v\u00f3s cri\u00e1-los. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you can help your partner when they ask you to but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to make some important decisions regarding these <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kids\u2019 lives<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muitos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">madrastas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e os padrastos cometem o erro de serem demasiado simp\u00e1ticos com os seus <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enteados<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pensando que este \u00e9 um caminho seguro para os seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though becoming pals with these children is awesome, that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re entitled to skip the rules their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e e pai<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> impostos, s\u00f3 para parecer mais fixe ou para provar o seu amor por eles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, you don\u2019t have the right to punish or discipline them in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De facto, se os vir a comportar-se de forma inadequada, a fazer algo proibido ou a trat\u00e1-lo com falta de respeito, cabe-lhe a si informar os pais sobre esse facto e eles tratar\u00e3o do assunto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your views on your partner\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/este-metodo-e-imprescindivel-quando-se-e-pai-ou-mae-com-um-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e9todos parentais<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o s\u00e3o relevantes. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you can always offer them your advice but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to question their child-rearing strategies or to judge them because you think you would do something better.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>8. You&#8217;ll have to deal with their ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-leaning-on-glass-window-1101726-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Para al\u00e9m de obter uma <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pacote de ofertas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which includes your partner&#8217;s kids, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a verdade<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is that you\u2019ll also get their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ex-mulher<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou marido, de uma forma ou de outra. Afinal de contas, os dois s\u00e3o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">co-parentalidade<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e essa pessoa continua a ser uma parte inevit\u00e1vel da sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A \u00faltima coisa que deve mostrar \u00e9 um ci\u00fame tolo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new partner\u2019s ex-wife<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou marido, pensando que ainda existe algo entre os dois. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have in mind that they will be these kids\u2019 parents for the rest of their lives, even when their kids become <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adultos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and that you won\u2019t get rid of your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner\u2019s ex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> em breve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, I\u2019m sure you also think that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as crian\u00e7as est\u00e3o em primeiro lugar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e que tamb\u00e9m queres o melhor para estas criaturas inocentes. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sabe perfeitamente que a sa\u00fade <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/family\/5-dicas-de-sucesso-para-ser-pai-ou-mae-com-um-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">co-parentalidade<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 a coisa que vai ajudar este mi\u00fado a crescer e a ser a melhor pessoa poss\u00edvel, por isso quem \u00e9 voc\u00ea para dizer algo contra isso?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>9. Se te fores embora, abandonas tamb\u00e9m a crian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg\" alt=\"fam\u00edlia no bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-carrying-toddler-3038369-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abandonar algu\u00e9m que se ama \u00e9 uma das coisas mais dif\u00edceis que cada um de n\u00f3s teve de fazer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, afastar-se de v\u00e1rias pessoas que amamos (e que nos amam de volta) \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil, especialmente se uma dessas pessoas for uma crian\u00e7a a quem nos afei\u00e7o\u00e1mos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este \u00e9 outro aspeto de que deve estar ciente antes de se envolver com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">m\u00e3e solteira<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014if you leave, you\u2019re not only abandoning your lover, you\u2019re also abandoning a child who embraced you into their life and who accepted you a part of their <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fam\u00edlia mista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that\u2014you&#8217;re also leaving a void in this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">child&#8217;s life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e alma.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-forcada\/\">for\u00e7ado a permanecer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> that doesn\u2019t work just because of the kids; I\u2019m just pointing out that ending a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> traz mais responsabilidade do que uma rutura normal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, this situation would be more painful for you as well, because you won\u2019t only <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/160-citacoes-emocionais-de-tenho-saudades-tuas-para-ele-e-para-ela-para-enviar-a-pessoa-amada\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sentir falta do seu namorado ou namorada<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014you\u2019ll also miss the kids.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-49028\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Namorar algu\u00e9m com filhos: 9 dicas para namorar um pai solteiro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Healthy-Post-Holiday-Recipes-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the most important questions all of us face is whether we want kids or not. There is no wrong answer here\u2014we are all entitled to make our own choices and to run our lives in the way we think best. Some of you dream of having a house full of children and think&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":49029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/affection-baby-baby-girl-beautiful-377058.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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