{"id":4902,"date":"2017-09-13T08:17:49","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T08:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4902"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:08","slug":"carta-rapaz-deixou-de-se-preocupar-rapariga-amada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-rapaz-deixou-de-se-preocupar-rapariga-amada\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que deixou de se preocupar com uma rapariga que outrora amou"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I bet you didn&#8217;t see this one coming. I bet you never thought you&#8217;d lose her. I bet you never thought someone better is going to come along\u2014someone who will cherish her and appreciate her.<\/p>\n<p>You took her for granted and now this is the price you&#8217;ll have to pay. You\u2019ll have to see me taking care of her, loving her. Doing all the things you had the chance to do, but didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>You know what? You\u2019re an idiot!<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma rapariga que merecia ser levada a s\u00edtios bonitos, ser mimada. Esta \u00e9 uma rapariga que te ensinou a amar. Esta \u00e9 uma rapariga que sacrificou o seu tempo e as suas necessidades apenas para satisfazer as suas. Como podes n\u00e3o ter vergonha de ti pr\u00f3prio por teres brincado com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela e com o seu amor genu\u00edno por ti?<\/p>\n<p>Did you even love her? Or did you just like the idea of love, so you gave it a try? I bet all your friends were in happy relationships. They had all changed from the times you wandered the streets in the middle of the night, lurching on the sidewalk after a night of heavy liquor. They all grew beyond that\u2014the only one who was left stuck in the past was you, and you didn\u2019t want to be all alone there.<\/p>\n<p>So, you decided you needed someone to make your time pass more quickly, someone to amuse you. You liked this idea of love but you were still too immature to actually love someone. You had to run into her\u2014the most innocent and pure girl we both met.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/cobarde-que-faz-cair-sem-intencao-amor-de-volta\/\">Voc\u00ea \u00e9 um covarde por me fazer apaixonar por voc\u00ea sem nenhuma inten\u00e7\u00e3o de me amar de volta<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You had to destroy her. You had to crush her. You pretended to love her, maybe you even convinced yourself you loved her\u2014and she bought it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know, she told me. You had some happy times together. Times that she still cherishes because that\u2019s the way she is\u2014good person who is unable to hold a grudge\u2014unable to get angry, even when she has every right to do so.<\/p>\n<p>How could you not know somewhere deep in your heart that you\u2019ll never find someone like her? No one will ever love you better than she did. Maybe you didn\u2019t even notice she loved you. Man, she would have moved mountains for you. The two of you could have been ever-lasting. If only you knew how to appreciate her.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Tenho pena de ti e da tua alma miser\u00e1vel. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tenho pena que nunca ningu\u00e9m te tenha ensinado como tratar aqueles que amas. Tenho pena que provavelmente ainda n\u00e3o saibas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/perdido-largado\/\">what you\u2019ve had and lost.<\/a> I feel sorry that you didn\u2019t shower her with romance and courtship as men who are in love do.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, tu n\u00e3o \u00e9s um homem. \u00c9s um rapaz. Um rapaz que ainda pensa que ser fixe e agir como se ningu\u00e9m lhe pudesse tocar est\u00e1 bem. Ultrapassa isso. N\u00f3s ag\u00edamos assim quando \u00e9ramos jovens e est\u00fapidos. <a href=\"http:\/\/elitedaily.com\/dating\/real-man-right-woman\/980955\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Um verdadeiro homem sabe como amar a sua mulher<\/a>, and he knows how to make her queen of his realm. Let\u2019s face it\u2014if she is the right one, she is the queen of his realm, and he is her king.<\/p>\n<p>So, please, until you become a man, do not to try to love anyone. You\u2019ll just hurt them like you\u2019ve hurt her. Like you\u2019ve hurt my love.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4903 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ian-dooley-280945.jpg\" alt=\"O olho azul do homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"589\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ian-dooley-280945.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ian-dooley-280945-300x221.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/ian-dooley-280945-768x565.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But, you know what, I\u2019m done with the anger towards you. There is nothing that I can do\u2014I can\u2019t undo what\u2019s been done. I can only make sure she never goes through that s**it again. And I promise you and everyone else that she won\u2019t. She\u2019s done with pain for her lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>What I actually wanted to give you is one big, honest \u2018thank you\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Because if you weren\u2019t such an idiot, I wouldn\u2019t be the luckiest man alive.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Thank you for forcing her into the arms of another man. Me. Thank you for giving me the chance to nurture her and to give shelter to her wounded heart. Thank you for giving me a girl whom I\u2019ve lost my breath over. A girl for whom I would go to the moon and back\u2014to whom I would give my heart entirely.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for giving me the girl whom I\u2019m proud to walk the streets with and whom I\u2019ve brought home to meet my parents.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Obrigado por n\u00e3o perceberes o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/guy-made-realize-love-never-like\/\">Obrigado por n\u00e3o lhe mostrares o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor<\/a>\u2014thank you for letting me show her that.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Thank you for letting me console her whenever she has a bad day. I was never happier then when I turned those heavy tears rolling down her cheeks into a blissful and hopeful smile with belief that everything would be ok. If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never know what that would feel like\u2014what would loving someone deeply feels like.<\/p>\n<p>Although I can\u2019t stress how stupid you are, what you missed out on, and how many mistakes you\u2019ve made, you did do one good thing.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve lost her.<\/p>\n<p>Obrigado.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/guy-stopped-giving-damn-girl-loves\/\">Para o tipo que deixou de se preocupar com a rapariga que ama<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bet you didn&#8217;t see this one coming. I bet you never thought you&#8217;d lose her. I bet you never thought someone better is going to come along\u2014someone who will cherish her and appreciate her. You took her for granted and now this is the price you&#8217;ll have to pay. 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