{"id":49074,"date":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T20:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49074"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:58","slug":"nao-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-feliz-natal-ao-seu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-feliz-natal-ao-seu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o mande aquela mensagem de \"Feliz Natal\" para o seu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A nostalgia est\u00e1 a tirar o melhor de si e a sua mente e o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o continuam a voltar \u00e0quele lugar feliz que voc\u00ea e o seu ex costumavam partilhar.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 a pensar no calor do <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/4-coisas-podem-encontrar-abracos-de-homens\/\">o seu abra\u00e7o apertado<\/a>e voc\u00eas os dois aninhados em frente \u00e0 televis\u00e3o a ver um filme de Natal.<\/p>\n<p>You miss him, you miss all those moments of pure joy and you keep forgetting that it wasn\u2019t all that perfect.<\/p>\n<p>All you want to do is reach out and make contact and you think a Merry Christmas text gives you the perfect excuse to casually start the conversation off and maybe even fix what\u2019s already broken.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t do that.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Don\u2019t send that \u201cMerry Christmas\u201d text because he isn\u2019t worth it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> He isn\u2019t worth a minute of your time or efforts. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tem uma fantasia perfeita de como as mensagens de texto v\u00e3o acontecer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108757\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escrever\u00e1 algo cativante e sincero e desejar\u00e1 a ele e \u00e0 sua fam\u00edlia um Feliz Natal.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, espera que ele tenha a melhor rea\u00e7\u00e3o poss\u00edvel ao seu texto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esperar\u00e1 o mesmo calor de volta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Esperar\u00e1s que ele te diga que sente a tua falta, que agora sabe o grande idiota que foi e que cometeu o maior erro da sua vida quando se afastou de ti. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, as hip\u00f3teses de esse cen\u00e1rio se concretizar s\u00e3o quase nulas.<\/p>\n<p>At best, you will get \u201cThanx.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Na pior das hip\u00f3teses, ser\u00e1 ignorado.<\/p>\n<p>Em todo o caso, vai doer imenso.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do that to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow him to make you feel small once more.<\/p>\n<p>Cumprir o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/recuperacao-de-uma-separacao-90-dias-sem-contacto\/\">regra de n\u00e3o contacto <\/a>e nunca o partir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher preocupada junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/worried-young-woman-standing-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Lembra-te, ele teve a sua oportunidade, teve todas as oportunidades do mundo para ser o homem que tu mereces e desperdi\u00e7ou-as todas. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pensa em todas as vezes que ele te fez mal.<\/p>\n<p>Pense no quanto ele a desiludiu mesmo antes da vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It was all one-sided, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Eras tu que fazias todo o esfor\u00e7o, iniciavas conversas e mensagens de texto, fazias planos e fazias o imposs\u00edvel para o fazer feliz e para que ele te amasse mais.<\/p>\n<p>So, whenever you want to text him, whether it\u2019s Christmas or not, keep in mind that you don\u2019t actually miss him, you miss the person you created him to be in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>O verdadeiro ele n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com a sua vers\u00e3o a\u00e7ucarada dele.<\/p>\n<p>He probably doesn\u2019t even have the potential of becoming that man one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Pode fazer muito melhor.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Muito, muito melhor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t you ever forget that for a second! <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio e em tornar-se o melhor que pode sonhar ser.<\/p>\n<p>Olhe para dentro de si, olhe para a pessoa que realmente \u00e9 e perceba, de uma vez por todas, que merece algu\u00e9m melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s digno de amor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s digna de um homem que queira estar contigo a cada passo do caminho e que te trate como mereces ser tratada.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, com o Natal \u00e0 porta, tome a firme decis\u00e3o de n\u00e3o enviar mensagens de Feliz Natal ou Boas Festas \u00e0 sua ex. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Above all, respect yourself and don\u2019t sell yourself short.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a desfrutar do esp\u00edrito natal\u00edcio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit.jpg 5000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-enjoying-the-christmas-spirit-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu \u00e9s digna de um amor verdadeiro, n\u00e3o do compromisso de meia-tigela que ele te estava a dar.<\/p>\n<p>Seja mais forte do que a sua nostalgia e os seus sentimentos e pare sempre que tiver vontade de lhe enviar uma mensagem.<\/p>\n<p>Veja o seu ex como ele \u00e9 e n\u00e3o como gostaria que ele fosse.<\/p>\n<p>Quando o fizeres, ver\u00e1s que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem com quem deves passar a tua vida para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t send that text, don\u2019t make that call, don\u2019t browse through his social media, kick him out of your life and he will, with time, disappear from your heart too. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o tenha qualquer contacto durante as f\u00e9rias e garanta a si pr\u00f3prio um in\u00edcio de ano limpo, pac\u00edfico e mais feliz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108754\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o mandes aquela mensagem de &quot; Feliz Natal &quot; ao teu ex\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nostalgia is getting the best of you and your mind and your heart keep going back to that happy place you and your ex used to share. You are thinking about the warmth of his tight hug, you two cuddled up in front of the TV watching a Christmas movie. You miss him, you miss&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":108767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Dont-Send-That-Merry-Christmas-Text-To-Your-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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