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You think of all the potential you two would have as a couple, and you can’t accept the fact that they’ll forever remain unattainable for you. <\/p>\n
At the same time, your ego is hurt. How come this person doesn’t want to even give you a chance? <\/p>\n
Ser\u00e1 que vais mesmo passar o resto da tua vida sem nunca os teres tido? Ser\u00e1 que nunca vais descobrir como \u00e9 beij\u00e1-los e segurar a sua m\u00e3o?<\/p>\n
Well, the harsh truth is that you probably will, and it is something you’ll simply have to deal with, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n
However, this is not the end of the world, and if you just follow this dating advice, you’ll get over them in no time. <\/p>\n
Ser realista quanto \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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According to most dating advice, if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to make yourself stop liking someone, the first step is to accept the situation, as much as it might be painful.<\/p>\n
I know it is difficult to face the fact that someone you like very much doesn\u2019t care about you enough and doesn\u2019t want to give you a chance, but that is simply how things are.<\/p>\n
Therefore, you can\u2019t make any progress if you keep on getting your hopes up regarding this person.<\/p>\n
There is no point in putting effort in forgetting them if you\u2019re simultaneously trying to get them to like you back and doing everything you can to win them over.<\/p>\n
Para deixar realmente de gostar de algu\u00e9m, \u00e9 preciso matar todas as esperan\u00e7as de que voc\u00eas acabem por se tornar uma coisa. <\/p>\n
Don\u2019t ignor\u00e1-los numa tentativa de chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> because you won\u2019t get the results you want.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t waste this entire time patiently waiting for them to realize what they\u2019re losing or to come crawling back to you once they see you\u2019re really serious about your intentions.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t do it to prove a point or to show this person you can make it without them.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t do it because of them. Try doing it with the goal to help yourself and make yourself feel better. First and foremost, stop looking for hidden messages.<\/p>\n Stop trying to misinterpret this person\u2019s behavior and other acts of kindness as a sign they might have some feelings for you after all.<\/p>\n If necessary, to start the process of getting over this person, look at yourself in the mirror every single morning and repeat that they don\u2019t like you, never did, and never will.<\/p>\n Sim, ouvir isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, mas \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de o compreender e de o entender verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n After you\u2019ve successfully managed to come to terms with the situation, it is time to accept that there is no deeper, hidden reason for it.<\/p>\n This person simply doesn\u2019t like you, and they\u2019re not in any way mandatory to do so.<\/p>\n First of all, don\u2019t blame them for not feeling the way you would want them to. <\/p>\n You know how you can\u2019t order your cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> para deixar de gostar deles?<\/p>\n Well, they can\u2019t force themselves to like you either\u2013it\u2019s that simple. Laws of attraction are usually hard to explain, and just because someone isn\u2019t into you, it doesn\u2019t mean you should feel resentful towards them or start hating them. <\/p>\n Na verdade, comece a ver as coisas desta forma: deve estar grato pelo facto de nunca o terem enganado.<\/p>\n They didn\u2019t give you any false hope nor did they play with your emotions.<\/p>\n As coisas eram claras desde o primeiro dia e a forma como nos sentimos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a elas \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o completamente diferente.<\/p>\n O que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o se culpar pela falta de emo\u00e7\u00f5es que est\u00e1 a receber do objeto do seu afeto.<\/p>\n No, you shouldn\u2019t be more attractive, smarter or more interesting, and there is nothing you could have done to win their heart over.<\/p>\n Stop taking this rejection personally! Just because one person doesn\u2019t like you, it certainly doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not good enough or not meant to be loved.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need closure or explanation. You need to understand that you\u2019re hung up on the wrong person, and maybe see this as the Universe\u2019s way of saving you from a loveless relationship which was doomed to fail.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 algu\u00e9m a namorar consigo s\u00f3 porque tem pena de si ou porque n\u00e3o tem ningu\u00e9m melhor no seu horizonte neste momento.<\/p>\n Queremos que o nosso parceiro goste de n\u00f3s da mesma forma que n\u00f3s gostamos dele, e este n\u00e3o \u00e9 claramente algu\u00e9m que consiga fazer isso!<\/p>\n Congratulations because you\u2019ve done a load of self-introspection, and you\u2019re ready to make some concrete moves which will surely lead you to becoming completely indifferent towards this person.<\/p>\n However, you can\u2019t expect everything to change in the blink of an eye.<\/p>\n Yes, the truth is that luckily, you still haven\u2019t grown to love this person.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, the infatuation you feel is quite intense, and it lasted for a while, so you\u2019ll need a certain period for letting go as well.<\/p>\n At the same time, you don\u2019t want to spend more time trying to figure out how to stop liking your crush than you spent being head over heels for them.<\/p>\n Therefore, the best thing you can do is to listen to this dating advice, and give yourself a deadline in which you\u2019ll make this happen.<\/p>\n Observe the following simple steps and determine the time frame in which you should achieve your final goal\u2014to get over the girl or the guy you like.<\/p>\n Be realistic and not too harsh, but don\u2019t baby yourself either. If necessary, write down your progress with each day that passes.<\/p>\n Tenha em mente que cura<\/a> is never a linear process, so don\u2019t beat yourself up about going backwards just because you have a few shitty episodes.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019re not going anywhere, and you fail to see all the small steps you\u2019ve made just because there wasn\u2019t any huge achievement.<\/p>\n However, when you start tracking your progress, you\u2019ll have full insight on how far you\u2019ve come. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t be ashamed of being too detailed\u2014after all, you\u2019re the only one who\u2019ll be reading this.<\/p>\n Conte quantas vezes pensou neles, quantas vezes visitou os seus perfis nas redes sociais, quantas vezes os mencionou aos seus amigos e familiares e quantas vezes pegou no telem\u00f3vel e quis ligar-lhes.<\/p>\n Prometo-lhe que, \u00e0 medida que o seu prazo se aproxima, os n\u00fameros v\u00e3o diminuindo drasticamente a cada dia que passa.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019ll even catch yourself not thinking about them for a while, which is something that never used to happen before.<\/p>\n Outra boa estrat\u00e9gia \u00e9 oferecer um mimo a si pr\u00f3prio sempre que atingir um marco importante.<\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 suficiente para preparar a sua refei\u00e7\u00e3o favorita ou para comprar uma pequena coisa para si pr\u00f3prio por cada etapa ultrapassada.<\/p>\n This way, you\u2019re giving yourself some motivation you desperately need, and without even being aware of it, you\u2019re pushing yourself forward to keep up the good work.<\/p>\n A coisa mais importante a fazer nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, se quiser salvar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> \u00e9 cortar todos os la\u00e7os poss\u00edveis com o objeto do seu afeto.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t expect to fall out of love with them if you guys keep hanging out together, if you continue being just friends, and if you remain in each other\u2019s lives in any other way.<\/p>\n Por isso, em primeiro lugar, tem de afastar fisicamente essa pessoa do seu lado e, depois, trabalhar para a tirar do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e da sua mente.<\/p>\n If you think that blocking someone\u2019s number and having the need to unfollow their social media profiles is childish, I completely agree.<\/p>\n After all, we\u2019re all adults, and in most case scenarios, these types of drastic moves are exaggerated. <\/p>\n No entanto, na sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 exatamente isso que deve fazer, porque as op\u00e7\u00f5es bloquear e deixar de seguir s\u00e3o as \u00fanicas formas de evitar persegui-los ou de estar constantemente \u00e0 espera dos seus telefonemas.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 uma boa ideia deixar de aparecer nos locais onde sabe que os pode encontrar.<\/p>\n Se tiverem amigos em comum, pe\u00e7a-lhes educadamente que n\u00e3o mencionem essa pessoa \u00e0 sua frente e que n\u00e3o lhe d\u00eaem qualquer informa\u00e7\u00e3o sobre ela ou sobre a sua vida amorosa, mesmo que lhes pergunte.<\/p>\n If this doesn\u2019t work, cut as many ties as possible with everyone who knows them and especially with their closest friends and family.<\/p>\n Yes, at first, it will be hard because investigating your crush\u2019s activity and talking about them has become a kind of addiction for you.<\/p>\n However, after a while, when you see how much good this strategy has brought you, you\u2019ll be proud of yourself for pulling it off.<\/p>\n No entanto, existe a possibilidade de ter de descobrir como deixar de gostar de algu\u00e9m que v\u00ea todos os dias.<\/p>\n E se se tratar do seu vizinho do lado, de um colega de trabalho ou de algu\u00e9m com quem simplesmente tem de estar em contacto?<\/p>\n Bem, se for esse o caso, em primeiro lugar, reduza a sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o ao m\u00ednimo indispens\u00e1vel e evite-os tanto quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t engage in any conversations that are not strictly professional, and stop getting yourself involved in any kind of personal relationship, even if they want to be just friends because you wish for something more. <\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, concentre-se nos seus defeitos e n\u00e3o nos seus aspectos positivos.<\/p>\n Remember that you\u2019re idealizing this person and that you never dated them, so you probably don\u2019t have a clue about the parts of their personality you wouldn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t insult them or put them down because that would be childish, besides being rude.<\/p>\n However, whenever you\u2019re around them, take off your rose-colored glasses; focus on the imperfections regarding their looks and character and keep telling yourself that you two would never have been a dream couple.<\/p>\n O erro n\u00famero um que a maioria das pessoas comete quando tenta esquecer algu\u00e9m \u00e9 reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>.<\/p>\n They\u2019re ashamed of admitting to themselves that they\u2019re head over heels for someone because that realization would destroy their ego, so they just go on, pretending that nothing is going on and that they\u2019re not as badly hurt as they really are.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, according to most dating advice, this approach won\u2019t bring you far.<\/p>\n After all, if you convince yourself that this person\u2019s lack of emotions doesn\u2019t bother you, you\u2019ll also see no need of doing something about your feelings, which you pretend don\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de que reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00f3 pode criar confus\u00e3o no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na sua mente.<\/p>\n In fact, your emotions might become stronger with time, and before you know it, you\u2019ll catch yourself loving this person, instead of just liking them.<\/p>\n Para o evitar, \u00e9 fundamental entrar em contacto com os seus sentimentos, sem deixar que eles o definam completamente.<\/p>\n No entanto, a \u00fanica maneira de as mudar \u00e9 reconhec\u00ea-las e \u00e0 sua verdadeira intensidade.<\/p>\n At\u00e9 que ponto gosta realmente desta pessoa? Trata-se de uma paixoneta tempor\u00e1ria, uma atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, uma paix\u00e3o ou amea\u00e7a transformar-se em algo muito mais?<\/p>\n Another thing to pay attention to is the source of your pain. Are you indeed heartbroken because of this one-sided love or is all of this just your ego which can\u2019t stand rejection?<\/p>\n Trust me\u2014it will be a hell of a lot easier for you to handle this situation once you become aware of everything you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n The worst thing you can do when you\u2019re trying to get over the girl or the guy you like is to shut yourself off from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n Yes, you\u2019ve acknowledged your emotions, but that doesn\u2019t mean you should let the sorrow eat you alive or get the best of you.<\/p>\n Da mesma forma que deu a si pr\u00f3prio um prazo para deixar ir<\/a>determine tamb\u00e9m um prazo para deixar de sentir pena de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Comece por dar a si pr\u00f3prio alguns dias para processar as coisas, para estar sozinho com os seus pensamentos e para chorar a dor.<\/p>\n No entanto, ap\u00f3s esse per\u00edodo, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio concentrar-se em nunca se deixar aborrecer.<\/p>\n As long as you have plenty of time on your hands, your thoughts will wander and bring you to thinking about this person you\u2019re so desperately trying to forget.<\/p>\n Por isso, a forma mais eficaz de evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a \u00e9 manter-se o mais ocupado poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n If necessary, make a strict schedule of your everyday activities, so you\u2019re never left with time or energy to think about them.<\/p>\n You can engage in more work as well, but don\u2019t let that become your only sanctuary.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, v\u00e1 ao gin\u00e1sio, inicie um novo passatempo, comece a aprender uma nova l\u00edngua ou at\u00e9 comece a ver um novo programa de televis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Fa\u00e7a o que fizer, certifique-se de que a sua mente e o seu corpo est\u00e3o t\u00e3o activos quanto poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t push yourself too hard and do things which make you happy and pleased.<\/p>\n At first, you\u2019ll probably see all of this as a waste of time because you\u2019ll continue to think about your crush even in the most crowded places.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, with time, you\u2019ll realize that your thoughts are more and more occupied with other things. <\/p>\n Outra boa forma de se manter ocupado \u00e9 passar tempo com os seus bons amigos<\/a>.<\/p>\n Tem a op\u00e7\u00e3o de telefonar aos seus velhos amigos ou de ir \u00e0 procura de novos amigos para alargar o seu c\u00edrculo social.<\/p>\n Qualquer que seja a atividade a que se dedique, pode ser uma oportunidade para conhecer novas pessoas.<\/p>\n Find a gym partner, a hiking buddy or join a book club where you\u2019ll find some folks who have similar interests as yourself.<\/p>\n Go clubbing, volunteer or spend a day with family\u2014just don\u2019t ever isolate yourself from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not advising you to run away from your thoughts, but don\u2019t spend most of your time alone with them either.<\/p>\n Estar rodeado de pessoas pela primeira vez depois de um desgosto amoroso pode aborrec\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n Afinal de contas, gostarias de estar com a tua paix\u00e3o e qualquer pessoa para al\u00e9m dela incomoda-te.<\/p>\n However, after a while, you\u2019ll see that other people manage to take your mind off your overthinking and troubles.<\/p>\n Pode ter muitos novos amigos, conhecidos, colegas de trabalho com quem vai almo\u00e7ar e pessoas com quem gosta de conviver no seu c\u00edrculo social, mas apenas algumas pessoas na sua vida merecem ser chamadas de amigos verdadeiros.<\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t spill your soul out and reveal all of your deepest secrets to everyone in your life, but your best friend is someone you can share your problems with.<\/p>\n Even when you\u2019re at your lowest, knowing that you have someone you can call in the middle of the night and having a person to hold your hand through the dark hours is a true blessing.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be ashamed of talking about how you feel with this person because wondering how to stop liking a guy or a girl you can’t have is completely normal and something we\u2019ve all experienced at one point.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, desta forma, pode sempre ouvir conselhos preciosos.<\/p>\n Os seus bons amigos podem ajud\u00e1-lo a tirar os \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa, dar-lhe uma nova perspetiva das coisas e ajud\u00e1-lo a ultrapassar os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n Even if they don\u2019t give you a solution, having someone to hear you out or just sit with you in silence will also ease your pain.<\/p>\n No entanto, certifique-se de que n\u00e3o transforma todos os seus encontros num tempo dedicado apenas \u00e0 sua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, sempre que estiveres com o teu melhor amigo<\/a>Estabele\u00e7a um per\u00edodo de tempo durante o qual essa pessoa pode ser mencionada. <\/p>\n Tell them about your progress and about everything that has been on your mind lately, but after the determined period is over, finish any conversation that might include your crush, and don’t go back to it.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, alguns conselhos de namoro dizem-lhe para procurar ajuda profissional se vir que tem dificuldade em afastar os seus sentimentos sozinho.<\/p>\n However, according to some, liking a person who doesn\u2019t like you back is not so serious, so therapy isn\u2019t necessary.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, if your obsession isn\u2019t coming to its end despite the amount of time which has passed and if you have a habit of falling for people who can\u2019t reciprocate your love, it wouldn\u2019t be a bad idea to examine the behavior patterns connected to your love life with an expert.<\/p>\n After all, professional help can\u2019t cause you any harm.<\/p>\n Um dos mais eficazes formas de expulsar algu\u00e9m do seu sistema<\/a> \u00e9 canalizar toda a energia que desperdi\u00e7ou com eles para si.<\/p>\n \u00c9 investir todo o tempo que passava a abrir os seus c\u00e9rebros e a pensar neles no seu auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento.<\/p>\n Now that you\u2019re about to stop liking the object of your affection, start liking yourself with the same intensity.<\/p>\n Ponha-se em primeiro lugar, sinta-se atra\u00eddo por si pr\u00f3prio e concentre-se em tudo o que h\u00e1 de belo no seu rosto, no seu corpo e na sua personalidade. Fa\u00e7a tudo o que puder para agradar a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Instead of wasting another minute on someone who clearly doesn\u2019t want you, start living your life to the fullest and enjoying every single breath you take.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, j\u00e1 \u00e9 altura de ter algum respeito por si pr\u00f3prio e de se colocar em primeiro lugar na sua pr\u00f3pria vida.<\/p>\n Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, start noticing your self-worth, and remember that you\u2019re not someone who would settle for anyone\u2019s crumbs of love and attention.<\/p>\n Lembrem-se de que n\u00e3o \u00e9 da vossa responsabilidade perseguir algu\u00e9m<\/a> who obviously doesn\u2019t want to get caught.<\/p>\n A \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 humilhar-se e implorar a essa pessoa que volte a gostar de si.<\/p>\n This is not the end of the world\u2014it is just a new beginning for you! <\/p>\n A maioria das pessoas dir-lhe-\u00e1 que a melhor forma de ultrapassar um desgosto de amor \u00e9 lan\u00e7ar-se numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Once you get occupied by someone new, you won\u2019t have time, energy or desire to think about this person from your past.<\/p>\n No entanto, envolver-se num novo romance tamb\u00e9m pode ser contraproducente se o fizer sem estar totalmente preparado.<\/p>\nEvitar o jogo da culpa<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nD\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio um prazo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDistanciar-se da sua paix\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon\u2019t run away from your feelings<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nMantenha-se ocupado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSocializar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFalar com algu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nConcentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nVoltar ao namoro<\/h2>\n
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