{"id":4932,"date":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T10:13:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4932"},"modified":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T19:01:39","slug":"carta-aberta-rapariga-deixou-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-rapariga-deixou-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta \u00e0 rapariga que deixou de se amar a si pr\u00f3pria"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 uma rapariga que continuar\u00e1 a dar at\u00e9 n\u00e3o ter mais nada.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014<\/span>TU. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

As pessoas pensam que podem passar por cima de n\u00f3s porque n\u00e3o nos valorizamos. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think that you are doing good by giving all the love you have to others, that love is not sincere. It can\u2019t be, and it won\u2019t be until you<\/span> aprender a amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Depois de aprenderes a amar-te e a valorizar-te, o teu amor pelas pessoas de quem gostas ser\u00e1 puro e honesto.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard for you to put a stop to everything all of a sudden, but don\u2019t let as pessoas usam-no.<\/a> People are a-holes, at least most of them. They will use any opportunity they get to suck you dry. If you are a good person, and you are, they will destroy you. They will be needing more and more each day\u2014<\/span>at\u00e9 n\u00e3o ter mais nada para lhes dar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t let everyone else be better and more important than you. Ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de controlar a sua vida.<\/a> Queres envelhecer e arrepender-te de teres permitido que outros te empurrassem para os bastidores da tua vida, quando o teu lugar \u00e9 na primeira fila do palco?  <\/span><\/p>\n

In your life, you are the most important\u2014you are playing the starring role and the world revolves around you. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to say, \u2018No\u2019. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You will not let anybody down if you don\u2019t jump to grant their every wish. If you don\u2019t feel like going out and if you feel like staying home\u2014stay at home. After all, if any of those people were your true friends, they would get it. But, no, these are the leeches who need your energy to feed off of. Otherwise, they would die.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that you need to take care of yourself. It\u2019s perfectly ok to just stop and rewind yourself. Reconsider some things. Find those that really matter to you because after all, you matter. Don\u2019t forget that.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ea tu pr\u00f3prio e ama-te primeiro. Tudo o resto voltar\u00e1 ao seu lugar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Para todas as raparigas: Apaixona-te primeiro por ti pr\u00f3pria<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are a girl who will continue giving until she has got nothing left. You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person\u2014YOU. People think they can walk all over you because you lack self-appreciation. Although you think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":4933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/kristina-flour-185595.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}