Como os narcisistas tratam as suas ex: 12 maneiras sem vergonha<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\nYou will\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n
Sinto-me como a Alice no Pa\u00eds das Maravilhas.<\/b> Every new (usually normal) feeling is strange. You feel like you don\u2019t deserve this. After some time of maltreatment, you got used to it. You got used to feeling subordinate to your partner.<\/p>\n
Now that your luck has changed, you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. These new feelings you are experiencing are frightening you because they are not abuse, they are love and you don\u2019t know love.<\/p>\n
Duvidar do seu comportamento.<\/b> Not a day passes by that you don\u2019t suspect things are going to change\u2014that all this nice behavior is just a facade.<\/p>\n
O tipo que te fazia duvidar de tudo e de todos, no in\u00edcio era simp\u00e1tico e carinhoso. Depois, de repente, tudo mudou.<\/p>\n
So it\u2019s completely natural for you to think this one is going to do the same. You are just waiting for the storm that will bring dark clouds to your relationship to happen.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t hope for the better because you never saw anything but misery. But this time it\u2019s different. Just wait and see.<\/p>\n
Sentir-se confuso<\/b> because your voice is finally being heard. There is actually someone by your side who is interested in what you\u2019ve got to say.<\/p>\n
No one is ignoring you or shushing you. It\u2019s not easy to switch yourself over to that mode.<\/p>\n
Depois de tanto tempo a ser tratada como merda, vai finalmente ter todo o amor e respeito que merece. O teu novo homem vai interessar-se pelas coisas que tens para dizer porque se preocupa genuinamente contigo.<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o ser culpado<\/b> for all the bad stuff that happens in your relationship. You won\u2019t be his punching bag every time he feels like crap. He won\u2019t blame you just because he is unhappy with himself.<\/p>\n
Antes, tudo o que acontecia de negativo era, de alguma forma, culpa sua e, passado algum tempo, come\u00e7ou a acreditar nisso.<\/p>\n
Na verdade, culpava-se pelos seus erros e pelo seu comportamento cruel. Agora, as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve met someone who is responsible enough to admit when he is wrong.<\/p>\n
He is man enough to own up to his mistakes, and that\u2019s something you thought you were never going to see.<\/p>\n
Ser reintroduzido no compromisso.<\/b> When a narcissist says something, it\u2019s going to be that way and no other way. You didn\u2019t have the right to propose anything.<\/p>\n
Se lhe apetecia fazer alguma coisa, tinha de ser feita, e ningu\u00e9m lhe perguntava nada.<\/p>\n
After you\u2019ve set yourself free from this suffocating and destructive relationship, a man who knows how to take your opinion into consideration comes along.<\/p>\n
Ele ensinar-lhe-\u00e1 o que \u00e9 o compromisso e o que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e feliz, porque nunca teve a oportunidade de aprender isso.<\/p>\n
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Tudo o que aprendeste foi a ignorar os insultos e a dor que ele te causava.<\/p>\n
Habitua-te a toda a gentileza.<\/b> O ego\u00edsmo era a \u00fanica coisa que conhecias e experimentavas na tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior. Era sempre sobre ele.<\/p>\n
Now, you\u2019ve been introduced to kindness and sharing\u2014it should have been like that from the start.<\/p>\n
Pode ser dif\u00edcil para si habituar-se, mas \u00e9 assim que o amor deve ser. Deve ser uma rua de dois sentidos e n\u00e3o um beco sem sa\u00edda.<\/p>\n
Not hear \u2018I\u2019 and \u2018me\u2019 all the time<\/b>. Your new boyfriend is well aware of the things you\u2019ve been through but he will never make everything just about him.<\/p>\n
He will listen to what you\u2019ve got to say because he genuinely cares about your opinion.<\/p>\n
He loves you and he cares about what his better half has got to say, unlike in the past where it was all about one person\u2014the sneaky narcissist.<\/p>\n
Hear \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019.<\/b> At\u00e9 agora, o \u00fanico que pediu desculpa foste tu.<\/p>\n
The narcissist made you think you were to blame for everything, so you apologized for everything, all the time\u2014the things that you did and didn\u2019t do because you were afraid of the confrontations and arguments.<\/p>\n
Ao admitir que fez algo de errado, esperava que ele esquecesse o assunto, mas ele nunca o fez.<\/p>\n
He dragged you in even deeper. Well, things are different now. You will be left in a state of shock when he apologizes the first time, but it\u2019s true, it\u2019s from the heart.<\/p>\n
Real men own up to their mistakes; they don\u2019t hide and blame others like those cowards do.<\/p>\n
N\u00e3o ser manipulado.<\/b> There is no more of that feeling of accidentally saying something wrong and then BOOM!\u2014a fight breaks out all of a sudden. You can finally relax and trust your partner.<\/p>\n
Maybe not at first, but as soon as you realize he\u2019s not like that manipulative piece of s**t, you are going to look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n
But if you want to do all these things, you have to get rid of the fear and let him find a way to your heart, you have to let him heal you and show you things you haven\u2019t seen thus far.<\/p>\n
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Ele vai finalmente ensinar-te o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor. <\/b>Amor verdadeiro<\/b> \u00e9 sobre amar algu\u00e9m incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about loving someone with flaws and all. It\u2019s about appreciating someone.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about finding something in that other person that will make you never let go. That person
\n\u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa no mundo que tem essa coisa e tu quere-la.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about picking each other up every time you fall down. It\u2019s about supporting your loved one in everything they do.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about respecting each other. It\u2019s about having endless trust in each other.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about compromising and taking each other into consideration.<\/p>\n
Tem todas estas coisas agora e n\u00e3o as tinha na altura. Tiveste a infelicidade de trope\u00e7ar em algu\u00e9m que s\u00f3 se preocupava com ele pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n
The only thing the two of you had in common was loving the same person\u2014HIM. Finalmente, tudo isso desapareceu.<\/b><\/p>\n
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