{"id":49825,"date":"2021-10-01T16:51:46","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T16:51:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=49825"},"modified":"2024-10-30T14:34:41","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T13:34:41","slug":"este-ano-estou-a-concentrar-me-em-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/este-ano-estou-a-concentrar-me-em-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Em 2025, vou deitar fora tudo o que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico e concentrar-me em mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not a fan of New Year\u2019s resolutions. I never stick to them. That\u2019s why I am starting now and sticking with it in the next year and the year to come, and the year after that\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is that breaking point in my life when I\u2019ve had enough of everything and anyone, and I\u2019m <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-proximo-ano-nao-sera-diferente-a-nao-ser-que-o-faca-assim\/\"> tomar as coisas nas minhas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os <\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Adeus, meu ex t\u00f3xico. Espero nunca mais te ver. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Foi o senhor que me levou a esta auto-revela\u00e7\u00e3o e estou-lhe verdadeiramente grato por isso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is just so much lousy behavior and mind games a woman can take until she\u2019s finally had enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You crossed every limit I had. You tested my love and patience. You abused my good nature and forgiving spirit until I couldn\u2019t forgive anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pegaste no meu amor e atiraste-o de um lado para o outro como se fosse um brinquedo. Brincaste comigo, com os meus sentimentos e com a minha alma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m stopping this because love is not a game.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta sentada numa grande janela\" class=\"wp-image-108930\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>My heart is not made out of clay and it can\u2019t be mended when it breaks. My mind is not so tough that it can suffer beating after beating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to love you. Maybe I love you still. But I love myself more and I won\u2019t put up with you anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m kicking out all the poisonous people from my life. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadly, my ex wasn\u2019t the only toxic person in my life. I had friends that didn\u2019t turn out to be friends after all. I had friends who make my enemies seem small.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tive amigos que me diziam as palavras mais doces, mas que me espetavam uma faca assim que eu virava as costas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tive pessoas na minha vida a quem dava prioridade, mas que nunca se preocuparam em colocar-me na sua lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tinha pessoas que podiam contar comigo para tudo, mas n\u00e3o as encontrava em lado nenhum quando precisava delas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I had people who used to drain energy from me and fill me with negativity and self-doubt. I had those people in my life and I don\u2019t anymore. I am done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>I\u2019m kicking out my own self-sabotaging ways.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"bela mulher loura em pensamentos profundos\" class=\"wp-image-108931\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-blond-woman-in-deep-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Detesto admiti-lo, mas bebi veneno do meu pr\u00f3prio copo. Alimentei-me de inseguran\u00e7as que se tornaram maiores com o tempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think I can thank toxic people in my life for those as well, but it\u2019s my fault I didn\u2019t stop them sooner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am starting a new life right here. right now. I am silencing the voices in my head that are telling me I can\u2019t and I\u2019m turning them into cans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estou a olhar para o meu reflexo no espelho e a ver-me numa luz muito mais brilhante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m loving all my perfect imperfections and getting more comfortable in my own skin as seconds go by. There is no waiting anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Este \u00e9 o meu tempo. O meu dia. O meu m\u00eas. O meu ano. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There isn\u2019t anything I can\u2019t do or accomplish. I got this. I am on my way to becoming the best version of me and nothing can stop me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are not New Year\u2019s resolutions \u2013 they\u2019re life resolutions. And I am sticking by them for dear life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu sou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/estou-farto-de-ter-o-meu-coracao-partido-e-altura-de-novas-regras\/\"> concentrar-se em mim <\/a> para uma mudan\u00e7a. Estou a redirecionar toda a energia positiva para mim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estou a devolver o amor que costumava gastar de forma t\u00e3o imprudente com as pessoas erradas e a come\u00e7ar a amar-me mais e mais a cada dia que passa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no more waiting. It\u2019s time to say, <i> \u201cHello December. Hello, 2025. Hello, my new life.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Em 2025, vou deitar fora tudo o que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico e concentrar-me em mim \" class=\"wp-image-177348\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m not a fan of New Year\u2019s resolutions. I never stick to them. That\u2019s why I am starting now and sticking with it in the next year and the year to come, and the year after that\u2026 This is that breaking point in my life when I\u2019ve had enough of everything and anyone, and I\u2019m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":177352,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/In-2025-Im-Kicking-Out-Everything-Thats-Toxic-And-Focusing-On-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49825"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177353,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49825\/revisions\/177353"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}