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<\/p>\nQuando a vires, ela vai lembrar-te a neve - bonita por fora, fria ao toque. \u00c9 nisso que a transformaste. Ela nem sempre foi assim.<\/p>\n
Tinha uma personalidade brilhante e solarenga, com uma energia inacredit\u00e1vel, e o seu n\u00edvel de compaix\u00e3o e compreens\u00e3o era dif\u00edcil de encontrar. <\/p>\n
Mas pouco a pouco roubaste-lhe a fa\u00edsca. Roubaste-lhe o brilho interior.Eras a sua maior fraqueza. <\/b>She never learned to say \u201cNo!\u201d to you.<\/p>\n
She was always there when you would call.She\u2019d drop everything to be with you. She took from herself and gave to you because she thought that was the right thing to do.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s what you do when you love somebody as much as she loved you. <\/p>\n
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She got tired at times, she wasn\u2019t getting anything in return, so she would make her stand.She\u2019d demand to be treated right, but never follow through. <\/p>\n
Ela sempre te perdoou, apesar de nunca teres dito que estavas arrependido. <\/b>As soon as she\u2019d see you, she\u2019d forget about all the bad.<\/p>\n
You had control over her that she couldn\u2019t withstand. She could never stay mad at you for too long.No matter what you did.<\/p>\n
No matter how hard she cried or how you made her feel one sweet word, kiss, and hug and she\u2019d ignore everything else. <\/p>\n
Os dias passavam sem uma \u00fanica palavra tua e depois, sem qualquer aviso, voltavas a entrar na vida dela como se nada tivesse acontecido. <\/b><\/p>\n
Por breves instantes, tudo seria perfeito. Depois, bum, estavas de novo fora. Desaparecias no ar. Cada vez que fazias isso, o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela partia-se um pouco mais. <\/p>\n
She\u2019d tell you how awful she felt every time you did that.Tell you how it hurts and how she\u2019s crumbling from the inside.<\/p>\n
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But you didn\u2019t really care. Sure, you would listen.You would say a sweet word or two on how it\u2019s never going to happen again. <\/p>\n
But the moment she started feeling safe and happy again, you would pull the safety net and she\u2019d fall flat on her face. <\/p>\n
A verdade \u00e9 que nunca gostaste dela. <\/b>A \u00fanica pessoa que importava para ti era tu pr\u00f3prio. <\/b><\/p>\n
Nunca a trataste bem. Nunca lhe deste o respeito, o amor e a compreens\u00e3o que ela te dava. S\u00f3 tiraste, tiraste e tiraste at\u00e9 ela n\u00e3o ter mais nada para dar.<\/p>\n
As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es estavam esgotadas. A sua alma estava cansada. E nesse estado, deste-lhe um golpe final. Deixaste de voltar. <\/p>\n
She can\u2019t really tell if that was what broke her or she was broken long before that. <\/b><\/p>\n
All she knew was that she had to accept what she couldn\u2019t change.All she knew was that even though she was so damn tired, she had to keep on going. <\/p>\n
She had to pick herself up from the ground and continue her life.She had to find the strength she didn\u2019t even know she had inside. <\/p>\n
O melhor de tudo isto \u00e9 que ela finalmente percebeu que a sua aus\u00eancia foi a melhor coisa que lhe aconteceu. <\/b><\/p>\n
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The bad thing is she doesn\u2019t know if she is ever going to find someone she can trust and feel safe with. <\/b><\/p>\n
She is all out of understanding now.She is all out of love. She\u2019s become numb.She\u2019s become cold. She\u2019s become a shadow of the woman she once was. <\/p>\n
Although deep down, warmth is still a part of her heart, it\u2019s just covered with titanium walls and a thick layer of ice. <\/p>\n
It\u2019s her defense mechanism.It\u2019s a way of making sure no one ever hurts her again as you did. <\/b><\/p>\n
Mas sabes que mais, eu j\u00e1 fui essa mulher. Amei algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o t\u00f3xico como tu e vivi para contar a hist\u00f3ria. Sobrevivi e aprendi a confiar novamente. Ela tamb\u00e9m vai aprender. <\/p>\n
Eu estava quebrada e curvada, atingi o meu ponto mais baixo a n\u00edvel emocional, tinha medo de amar, tinha medo de confiar, e consegui ultrapassar isso. Transformei a minha dor na minha arma mais forte.<\/p>\n
Trabalhei para tornar a minha vida melhor do que alguma vez foi e consegui-o. Aprendi a ser feliz sozinha. Algures pelo caminho, tamb\u00e9m encontrei as m\u00e3os certas para me segurar.<\/p>\n
I found the heart that melted the ice and revived my warmth. Trust me, she will too.Trust me, you will want her back.Trust me, she won\u2019t even care. <\/p>\n
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