{"id":50156,"date":"2019-12-23T22:30:13","date_gmt":"2019-12-23T22:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50156"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:37:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:37:36","slug":"5-coisas-para-lembrar-quando-ele-nao-te-ama-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-para-lembrar-quando-ele-nao-te-ama-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas para lembrar quando ele n\u00e3o te ama de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Loving someone who doesn\u2019t love you back<\/span><\/a> is, without a doubt, one of the worst things you\u2019ll ever feel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sente-se infeliz e h\u00e1 uma batalha constante entre o seu orgulho e o desejo de perseguir essa pessoa e tentar conquist\u00e1-la de novo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Experiencing unrequited love is never easy. Besides being heartbroken by the realization that the man you love so deeply doesn\u2019t care for you, this also brings about many insecurities and self-doubts. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been in this kind of situation, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see all of this as the end of the world and you can\u2019t help but wonder why can\u2019t you be enough for this guy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re here to give you these 5 reminders which will help you get out of this as unharmed as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s his right<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Por muito que este facto doa, a dura verdade \u00e9 que as pessoas t\u00eam o direito de n\u00e3o nos amarem ou de n\u00e3o gostarem de n\u00f3s. E este tipo n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you are the one who doesn\u2019t have the right to hate him because of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t blame him, don\u2019t look for his flaws and have enough decency to accept the reality, even though it is painful.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of this doesn\u2019t make him a douchebag or a jerk\u2014it just makes him a human being with a heart that doesn\u2019t take orders from anyone.  <\/span><\/p>\n

What you have to understand is that you can\u2019t force anyone to have feelings for you, just because you would want it that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same way you can\u2019t control your emotions and make yourself stop this person just like that, the same goes vice versa: he can\u2019t make himself love you back. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, quereria mesmo que esse homem estivesse consigo por pena? <\/span><\/p>\n

Would you be happy knowing that he agreed to give you a chance even though he doesn\u2019t see you as girlfriend material?<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, this is probably not the last time you\u2019ll be in this situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

There will be some other men in your future who won\u2019t give you back the love you expect to receive from them and that is all part of life. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Vais ultrapassar isso<\/h2>\n

\"Respirar\"<\/p>\n

Even though things probably don\u2019t seem this way now, the fact is that you will forget all about this man sooner or later.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, at this point, you see him as the love of your life and you\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll spend an entire eternity crying over him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? You won\u2019t. In fact, in a few months, you\u2019ll forget that he ever existed, you\u2019ll move on with your life and you\u2019ll be sorry for wasting so much energy on him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember how they say that if something won\u2019t matter in five years from now, it doesn\u2019t deserve five minutes of your time. <\/span><\/p>\n

And you and I both know that this guy won\u2019t even be on your radar in the future. <\/span><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 como uma flor, tem de ser regado e alimentado para crescer. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, when you\u2019re not getting any feedback, the love you\u2019re feeling toward someone is slowly dying with each day that passes until it completely fades away.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not trying to devalue your current emotions. Instead, this is just a reminder that you will <\/span>ultrapassa-o<\/span><\/a> e que ser\u00e1s melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. It doesn\u2019t make you unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

When someone you deeply care for doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, the first thing that goes through your mind is that you\u2019re apparently unlovable. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this is the man who saw the best of you and someone you gave your entire self to, so if he can\u2019t love you, who else could? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, you won\u2019t end up alone and you won\u2019t spend the rest of your life chasing men who can\u2019t give you what you need just because one guy couldn\u2019t love you back. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, podes estar magoado agora, mas prometo-te que as tuas cicatrizes v\u00e3o desaparecer e que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o vai sarar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prometo-lhe que um dia (e esse dia est\u00e1 mais pr\u00f3ximo do que pensa), um homem que lhe dar\u00e1 o seu amor verdadeiro e incondicional aparecer\u00e1 na sua vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando chegar a altura certa, conhecer\u00e1 um homem que ver\u00e1 toda a sua beleza exterior e interior, um homem que a amar\u00e1 por aquilo que \u00e9 e que nunca pensar\u00e1 em faz\u00ea-la sentir-se assim. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will run into a man who will see how much love and attention you deserve and who won\u2019t go anywhere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014just because one man doesn\u2019t love you, it doesn\u2019t give you permission to stop loving yourself and it certainly shouldn\u2019t be a reason for you to start seeing yourself through his eyes. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: your relationship with yourself always comes first and it doesn\u2019t depend on the way others perceive you, treat you or how they feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Os sentimentos dele n\u00e3o s\u00e3o um reflexo do seu valor<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Another thing that you must never forget is that one person\u2019s perception of you is in no way a reflection of your value as a person, as a woman or as a potential girlfriend. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 porque este homem n\u00e3o viu tudo o que tem para oferecer, n\u00e3o \u00e9 sinal de que deva come\u00e7ar a questionar-se <\/span>o seu valor<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t take his rejection so personally. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not beautiful, attractive, smart or interesting enough, just because his heart didn\u2019t grow fond of yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

It just means he doesn\u2019t see you that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, there is always the possibility that objectively, this guy considers you to be an awesome girl but he simply can\u2019t get himself to see you as his forever person. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, even if he considers you not to be enough for him at the moment, that doesn\u2019t devalue you in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that all other men from your future will see you as unworthy or especially that you should see yourself this way.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Deves estar grato<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Em vez de pensares que isto foi a pior coisa que te podia acontecer, agradece o facto de as coisas terem corrido como correram. Em vez de amaldi\u00e7oar o dia em que este homem nasceu, aprecia a sua honestidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014instead of feeling sorry for yourself, consider yourself lucky. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, \u00e9 melhor para si saber qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

The guy we\u2019re talking about was sincere; he didn\u2019t try <\/span>a gui\u00e1-lo<\/span><\/a>, he didn\u2019t give you false promises and he didn\u2019t swear his eternal love for you one day just to backstab you the very next.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, mesmo que tudo isto tenha acontecido e mesmo que ele tenha mentido sobre o facto de a amar, \u00e9 \u00f3timo que tenha descoberto a verdade a tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na verdade, escapou a uma bala aqui; podia ter passado anos ao lado deste homem, tendo a certeza das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, para depois perceber que n\u00e3o passava de um engano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, don\u2019t forget to be thankful for all the lessons this experience taught you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se nunca tivesses vivido um amor n\u00e3o correspondido, nunca saberias que algumas pessoas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o destinadas a ser, que tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o e que nunca se pode for\u00e7ar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, you wouldn\u2019t have learned how to recognize the signs that a guy doesn\u2019t love you back and that is something that might come in handy in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Loving someone who doesn\u2019t love you back is, without a doubt, one of the worst things you\u2019ll ever feel. You feel miserable and there is a constant battle going on between your pride and the desire to chase this person and give it another shot in winning him over.  Experiencing unrequited love is never easy….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":50165,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_1139758664-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50156","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50156"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50156\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50165"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}