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<\/p>\nSe tem alguma experi\u00eancia em encontros modernos, provavelmente pensa que o pior tipo de homem \u00e9 aquele que a seduz, sem nunca lhe dar o lugar que merece na sua vida.<\/p>\n
The ones who you never know where you stand with, don\u2019t want anything serious, and run away at the sound of the word \u201cfuture.\u201d <\/p>\n
Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. Even though these guys are douchebags, you should be grateful for their honesty and walk away in time.<\/p>\n
In this case, at least you know what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n
They\u2019re clear about their desire to fool around, without any intention of committing, and if that\u2019s something you don\u2019t want, nobody is forcing or manipulating you to stay.<\/p>\n
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On the other hand, it\u2019s way worse being with a man who convinces you that he wants to grow old with you, makes concrete plans about your life together, and keeps on bringing up a bright future for the two of you.<\/p>\n
Of course, all of this sounds great if we\u2019re talking about a guy who actually fulfills his promises. <\/p>\n
No entanto, se ele \u00e9 s\u00f3 conversa e n\u00e3o age, raramente vai al\u00e9m dos seus planos e nunca d\u00e1 um passo para cumprir as suas promessas, tem um problema.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that he\u2019s future-faking you, just so he can use you in all possible ways. <\/p>\n
But how can you know whether his intentions are pure or he\u2019s a big fat liar? Just read the signs below and it\u2019ll all become crystal clear to you. <\/p>\n
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I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve heard about this phenomena, but bombardeamento de amor<\/a> \u00e9 uma das t\u00e1cticas mais comuns que os narcisistas usam para atrair as suas v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\n Ao mesmo tempo, \u00e9 uma das t\u00e9cnicas que tamb\u00e9m deixa as piores consequ\u00eancias. <\/p>\n After all those emotionally unavailable men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted, had trouble putting a label on your relationship and defining it, ran away from commitment, and were never clear about their emotions, now you\u2019ve finally met someone who\u2019s completely different. <\/p>\n A man who doesn\u2019t have a problem with telling and showing you how much you mean to him.<\/p>\n Um homem que te faz gestos rom\u00e2nticos e surpresas desde o primeiro dia.<\/p>\n A man who opens up to you, makes you a part of his life, listens to you, and \u2013 finally \u2013 a man who obviously loves you unconditionally.<\/p>\n Um homem perfeito que se cruzou no teu caminho no momento em que mais precisavas dele. <\/p>\n Yes, you might get suspicious. You two have known each other for a very short period of time and despite that, he claims that you\u2019re the love of his life and that he plans on spending eternity with you.<\/p>\n No entanto, esquece rapidamente as suas d\u00favidas simplesmente porque quer e precisa de acreditar nele.<\/p>\n Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe que isso pode custar-lhe muitos nervos e \u00e9 provavelmente um dos seus maiores erros, porque o love bombing \u00e9 um dos primeiros sinais seguros de que algu\u00e9m o est\u00e1 a enganar no futuro. <\/p>\n When you first meet a guy who has the intention of love bombing you, you can\u2019t believe that you got so lucky and wonder whether he\u2019s too good to be true.<\/p>\n Bem, por mais que eu odeie ser eu a quebrar a sua bolha, a triste verdade \u00e9 que ele \u00e9. <\/p>\n Outro sinal de que um homem est\u00e1 a fingir o futuro \u00e9 o seu promessas v\u00e3s<\/a>. Whenever you two talk, he has big plans for your relationship and does his best to convince you he\u2019s honest. <\/p>\n Even if he hasn\u2019t proposed, he\u2019s definitely talking about the way your life together should look like, about buying a house \u2013 he even mentions names for your future kids.<\/p>\n Parece um conto de fadas, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n Well, sadly, it\u2019s everything but that. <\/p>\n The problem lies in the fact that this man\u2019s actions rarely match his words.<\/p>\n Actually, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll notice that in most situations, he doesn\u2019t stand behind what he preaches and ends up apologizing for his lies, promising he\u2019ll never repeat them. <\/p>\n And I\u2019m not talking about promises regarding the distant future here only.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking short term plans as well, such as proposing a dinner date and then standing you up, planning a vacation and then leaving you hanging, or even lying that he\u2019ll call you back in a few minutes, which never happens. <\/p>\n At first, all of this might seem irrelevant and something you should forgive him for in a blink of an eye, in comparison to all the love he\u2019s giving you.<\/p>\n However, one thing\u2019s for sure: he\u2019s a mentiroso compulsivo<\/a> que aproveita todas as oportunidades para vos enganar. <\/p>\n Let\u2019s be straight: if you can\u2019t rely on him regarding these small things, what can you expect when it comes to something more important?<\/p>\n If he isn\u2019t trustworthy and you can\u2019t count on him fulfilling his promise about taking you out, how can you believe him when he tells you that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you?<\/p>\n Well, the only possible answer is that you can\u2019t. In fact, it seems that he\u2019s doing all of this on purpose.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like he enjoys seeing you looking forward to your plans together, just so he can disappoint you when he crushes all of your hopes and dreams. <\/p>\n O pior de tudo \u00e9 a sua natureza vers\u00e1til.<\/p>\n Este tipo vai usar as suas t\u00e9cnicas sorrateiras para a manipular de forma a descobrir o que quer e espera da vida, s\u00f3 para poder espelhar todos os seus desejos e apresentar-se como o seu homem perfeito.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll analyze your every word and observe your behavior carefully until he gets all the intel he needs.<\/p>\n After he\u2019s done with his investigation, he\u2019ll suddenly show up and tell you that he wants exactly those things. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t notice any of this and instead be certain that you\u2019ve found your soulmate.<\/p>\n After all those wrong men, you\u2019ve finally met someone completely compatible with you. <\/p>\n Obviously, you\u2019ll see it as a sign of destiny. As a sign that voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o destinados a ficar<\/a> because there\u2019s no other valid explanation for running into a man whose personality is the spitting image of yours. <\/p>\n There\u2019s no doubt that he\u2019s the man you\u2019ve been waiting your entire life for. He\u2019s your other half and your match made in heaven. <\/p>\n Oh boy, how wrong you are. Even though it\u2019s nice having a boyfriend with a similar attitude and outlook to yours, the truth is that it\u2019s utterly impossible to not disagree on literally everything. <\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que este homem t\u00f3xico<\/a> doesn\u2019t have an opinion of his own and even when he does, he carefully hides it because it\u2019s different from yours.<\/p>\n He\u2019s nothing but a people pleaser who\u2019s pretending to be someone he\u2019s not in order to get under your skin with more ease. <\/p>\n At first, narcissists only show you their good sides. According to the first impression, they\u2019re everything a woman could ever wish for: loving, caring, attentive, and kind. <\/p>\n No entanto, passado algum tempo, as suas m\u00e1scaras come\u00e7am lentamente a cair, apesar das suas fant\u00e1sticas capacidades de representa\u00e7\u00e3o. \u00c9 nesta altura que eles mostram as suas verdadeiras cores e defeitos. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, even when this happens, they won\u2019t allow you to leave them. Instead, they keep on reassuring you that they won\u2019t go back to their old ways.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re involved with a future-faker, he\u2019ll blackmail you that he\u2019ll change<\/a> no momento em que voc\u00eas os dois, por exemplo, v\u00e3o viver juntos ou dizem os votos de casamento.<\/p>\n However, he isn\u2019t ready to show you any inkling of these changes he keeps talking about at this point of your relationship. <\/p>\nHe promises a lot\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n…but his actions don\u2019t match his words<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle reflecte os seus desejos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle promete mudar<\/h2>\n
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