{"id":50269,"date":"2019-12-26T17:39:21","date_gmt":"2019-12-26T17:39:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50269"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:56:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:56:03","slug":"sentimentos-apanhados-pelo-homem-errado-6-formas-de-os-fazer-desaparecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sentimentos-apanhados-pelo-homem-errado-6-formas-de-os-fazer-desaparecer\/","title":{"rendered":"Apanhado a sentir algo pelo homem errado? 6 maneiras de os fazer desaparecer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando o conheceste, estavas convencida de que finalmente tinhas encontrado o <\/span>pessoa certa<\/span>O seu homem de sonho, o seu Pr\u00edncipe Encantado (ok, acho que j\u00e1 perceberam) porque ele era simplesmente DIFERENTE e porque fazia todas as coisas certas! <\/span><\/p>\n

You thought you were dreaming because you couldn’t believe that this was happening to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You couldn’t believe that you finally met that one guy who is a total keeper, right?!<\/span><\/p>\n

You caught feelings quickly, or better said in a record time, out of fear that you’ll wake up and realize that you were in a coma or in a long, awesome dream, and you simply didn’t want to risk losing all of this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Convenceu o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o de que desta vez seria diferente porque ESTE HOMEM \u00e9 tudo o que sempre quis e precisou.<\/span><\/p>\n

But now, you actually have no idea where he is, what he’s doing or thinking because this guy, your dream guy, has simply disappeared into thin air. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Or he’s <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> h\u00e1bitos transformaram-se em <\/span>textos de uma palavra<\/span><\/a> twice a month because of some super important things he can’t miss, not even if his life was at stake.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only time he’s willing to make a serious effort is when he needs to think of a perfect excuse and make you think that you’re the crazy one (or at least try to).<\/span><\/p>\n

But, you know that all of this is bullshit because you’ve probably been playing detective as every woman out there who is <\/span>sentir-se triste<\/span>, magoado e desiludido. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know exactly how much time he spends on social networks, and how full of shit he really is, but you don’t understand one thing: <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazes ideia<\/b> porque \u00e9 que se deixa <\/b>captar sentimentos<\/b> so quickly for him like he’s the <\/b>\u00fanica pessoa<\/b> no mundo, como se <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> equals breathing and you wanted to make sure that you’re getting the right amount of it.<\/b><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que fizeste de errado? Como pudeste sequer pensar que ele era <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/span><\/a> material when in reality he’s more of a <\/span>FWB<\/span> – ‘<\/span>amigos com benef\u00edcios<\/span>‘, ‘<\/span>engate casual<\/span> material’ or ‘no fucks given’ prick? <\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se pode impedir de continuar <\/span>captando sentimentos<\/span> para o tipo errado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me lembrar-vos de uma coisa: <\/span>Fazer de um homem a sua prioridade desde o in\u00edcio sem lhe dar algum tempo para o merecer primeiro s\u00f3 far\u00e1 com que ele perca o interesse e a considere como garantida. <\/b><\/p>\n

And that is how your \u201cright guy\u201d becomes the wrong guy!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

So, no matter how much you’re excited about your <\/span>fofinho<\/span> pie, your new special guy, you can’t act like you just went to a <\/span>mercearia<\/span> e encontrou uma coisa nova e perfeita que vai continuar a adorar e a tratar com especial cuidado sem primeiro verificar a sua qualidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because the more you’re going out of your way to initiate things, to surprise him, to always be there when he needs you (and even when he doesn’t), to be just perfect, the more you will push him away from yourself! Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because no one in the world will ever choose to reciprocate if you’re constantly putting them on a pedestal even when they didn’t deserve any of it. And now it’s time to stop doing all of that!<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to deixar de ter sentimentos pelos tipos errados <\/a><\/span>e trabalhar para preservar a sua autoestima e o seu amor-pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to look at the other, brighter side of the road which will both help you delete the feelings you caught for the wrong guy and prevent you from repeating it in the future!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Mantenha-se ativo na sua vida social e valorize os outros contactos<\/h2>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

When we’re being ignored, taken for granted or disrespected by someone we’re crazy about, the first thing that comes to our mind naturally is how lonely we are all of a sudden. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s so easy to lose ourselves while chasing someone we believed was the <\/span>pessoa certa<\/span> para n\u00f3s.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, you need to know that you’re not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esteve cega durante algum tempo porque a \u00fanica coisa em que conseguia pensar era nele. P\u00f4s todas as suas esperan\u00e7as nesta aventura rom\u00e2ntica e esqueceu-se que tamb\u00e9m tem outras liga\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

Passava muito tempo a imaginar-se enrolada ao lado dele enquanto via o seu programa de televis\u00e3o preferido, <\/span>acariciar<\/span> and kissing until you got tired of it, and you probably even imagined how you’re going to spend the next few years and what exactly you will be doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

E mesmo que ele nunca te tenha dado qualquer garantia em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo isto, simplesmente nunca deixaste de sonhar porque te sabia t\u00e3o bem, certo? <\/span><\/p>\n

And now that you’re aware of the fact that you caught feelings for the wrong guy, you want to get rid of them ASAP. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, a chave para se livrar deles est\u00e1 em perceber que <\/b>tens a tua PR\u00d3PRIA vida<\/b><\/a> com pessoas fant\u00e1sticas. Tudo o que precisa de fazer \u00e9 voltar a ligar-se a elas! <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to recognize the endless possibilities you have at your disposal, and forget that one guy because he doesn’t deserve to be the centre of your universe! <\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve tried <\/span>vezes suficientes<\/span> para o fazer funcionar e <\/span>tem todo o direito de continuar a sair com outras pessoas (e deve mesmo faz\u00ea-lo), por muito estranho que isso lhe pare\u00e7a. Porqu\u00ea? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you never know whom you’re going to meet. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only reason why you think that the guy you caught feelings for is the only guy you should ever consider being with is because you made yourself think so. You wanted to believe it even though it’s a complete lie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t limit your potential because that way, you’ll never learn how to reach greatness! <\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de perseguir cegamente o homem errado, deve continuar a namorar, manter-se ativa na sua vida social e manter liga\u00e7\u00f5es com os seus <\/span>melhores amigos<\/span> e da fam\u00edlia porque o deve a si pr\u00f3prio!<\/span><\/p>\n

And, trust me, you deserve it. You deserve someone to whom you’ll be the centre of attention, who will spoil you, and who will know how to reciprocate. <\/span><\/p>\n

You deserve someone who will be crazy about you just the way you’re crazy about him!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>7 Shocking Reasons Why We Chase Those We Can’t Have <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Questiona os teus sentimentos (ou encontra algo que te leve a faz\u00ea-lo)<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

The number one reason why is it so hard to stop thinking about someone we shouldn’t be crazy about is because we still think they’re awesome <\/span>(mesmo que acabemos por estar numa <\/span>friendzone<\/span>)<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

We’re convinced that they are the embodiment of greatness because we wanted to believe it and not because it’s true.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve caught feelings for the wrong guy, you need to question those feelings because they are not real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Provavelmente, imaginou-o como um homem perfeito que a far\u00e1 feliz, que a far\u00e1 sentir-se especial e que lutar\u00e1 por si porque s\u00f3 ele \u00e9 capaz de o fazer. Ou ser\u00e1 que \u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

The sole fact that he’s not reciprocating or at least trying to do so tells a lot about his character and priorities. <\/b><\/p>\n

You need to cut all of this at the very root, and you’ll do it by focusing on his flaws instead of “qualities.”<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s really hard to forget someone<\/a> when you’re constantly focused on imagining a future with them and perceiving them as a god\/goddess because by doing that, you’re downplaying yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n

By doing that, you’re convincing yourself that you’re not good enough or that you’re not worthy of being with them and that you need to pursue them even harder in order for them to notice you.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o. <\/span>\u00c9 preciso fazer exatamente o contr\u00e1rio.<\/span><\/i> You need to realize that they’re an imperfect human being just like yourself, and they have tons of flaws and negative sides just like everyone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que ficasse com eles, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estaria longe de ser perfeita e de ser o que imaginou. <\/span><\/p>\n

Question your feelings, question your investment, and do a reality check because it’s the only way to realizing that you deserve better than what you’re accepting in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Estabelecer alguns objectivos pessoais e trabalhar para os atingir<\/h2>\n

\"conceito<\/p>\n

You know what’s the best cure for everything and especially for forgetting the guy you caught feelings for? It’s distracting yourself and being busy. But, not any kind of being busy. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s about being busy for the sake of improving your life, <\/span>alcan\u00e7ar objectivos de vida importantes<\/span><\/a>e tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio. Pense nisto desta forma:<\/span><\/p>\n

If you continue constantly thinking about some guy who doesn’t even know you exist or who doesn’t bother knowing that you exist or reciprocating, you will waste large amounts of your time that no one will ever return to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can return the dresses you just bought in every shop, you can apologize and make up for something you’ve done wrong, but you can never turn back time, no matter what you did. <\/span><\/p>\n

Time is the only thing more worthwhile than anything in the world, and you how to be careful of how you’re using it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wasting it on thinking about ‘What if’ or ‘I should have’, make some personal goals, and work toward them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de perder o seu tempo a pensar no homem que quer esquecer, concentre-se em enriquecer a sua vida com perspectivas diferentes, aprender novas l\u00ednguas, encontrar novos passatempos e tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesma!<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you are all you\u2019ve got, and wouldn’t it be better to use your potential and turn your life into an awesome story instead of using it to keep regretting something that wasn’t even meant to be?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Quanto mais o persegues, mais te magoas a ti pr\u00f3pria<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. Don’t act on any of your impulses<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Se quer esquec\u00ea-lo e elimin\u00e1-lo da sua vida, tem de aprender a n\u00e3o agir de acordo com os seus impulsos! O que \u00e9 que isto significa?<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa controlar os seus impulsos de lhe enviar mensagens de texto pela cent\u00e9sima vez, controlar os impulsos que a obrigam a telefonar-lhe, deixar de o perseguir nas redes sociais ou de fazer qualquer tipo de declara\u00e7\u00f5es de amor e de afeto por ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso compreender a diferen\u00e7a entre os impulsos e os sentimentos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os impulsos s\u00e3o aquelas pequenas vozes na nossa cabe\u00e7a que nos obrigam a fazer coisas apenas para satisfazer desejos incontrol\u00e1veis e irracionais que s\u00e3o t\u00f3xicos para o nosso bem-estar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sempre que sentir um forte desejo de o ver, telefonar ou enviar mensagens de texto, lembre-se disso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remind yourself that what you’re feeling is not real, and, therefore, you should not be acting on any of it because these are just impulses that can be IGNORED. <\/span><\/p>\n

Compreenda que isto n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com os seus verdadeiros sentimentos e repita esta frase frequentemente:<\/span><\/p>\n

“I’m aware of the fact that <\/span><\/i>Apanhei<\/span><\/i> sentimentos por ele, e ainda <\/span><\/i>os meus sentimentos<\/span><\/i> are the ones preventing me from letting go, thus making me do stupid things.”<\/span><\/i> <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Para o <\/b>primeira vez<\/b> in your life, delete him from every social media app, turn off your phone, and the most important thing – STOP HOPING that things will change magically somehow.<\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe they will, maybe they won’t, but one thing is sure: Nothing will ever change as long as you’re still chasing him and acting on your impulses!<\/b><\/p>\n

You need to detach yourself from these toxic urges to still be a part of his life because it’s not healthy, and it will not bring you anything good. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t deserve to waste your life on waiting for someone to start noticing you or to change their behavior and start reciprocating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Merece ser feliz no momento, reparar em todas as pequenas coisas que lhe trazem alegria, beber as suas bebidas favoritas, dan\u00e7ar ao som da sua m\u00fasica favorita e divertir-se ao m\u00e1ximo com os seus amigos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Merece viver uma vida despreocupada e ser movido pelo entusiasmo e por todas as coisas boas que a vida pode oferecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, say \u2018yes\u2019 to freedom and say \u2018no\u2019 to acting on your impulses! Say \u2018yes\u2019 to happiness and say \u2018no\u2019 to torture!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Esque\u00e7a-o a menos que ele esteja disposto a fazer estas 7 coisas por si<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

5. Melhore os seus cuidados pessoais e aprenda a gostar mais de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

One of the sad reasons why we often lose ourselves at some point in our lives is because we’re not satisfied with ourselves. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que tendemos a procurar alguma valida\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros para nos sentirmos novamente dignos. \u00c9 por isso que tendemos a apaixonar-nos com for\u00e7a e em tempo recorde por algu\u00e9m que consideramos um ideal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensamos que, se conseguirmos fazer com que reparem em n\u00f3s, estaremos automaticamente a aumentar o nosso pr\u00f3prio valor e tudo se encaixar\u00e1. Queremos sentir-nos amados, apreciados e queremos tornar-nos completos. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we feel that way, it’s so easy to get lost in chasing the wrong people and wrong ideals, and that is why you need to up your self-care and learn to love yourself more! <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to admit to yourself that you’re an imperfect human being with lots of flaws and that’s exactly what makes you so unique and beautiful!<\/span><\/p>\n

Mime-se com longos banhos de espuma, releia os seus livros favoritos, pratique afirma\u00e7\u00f5es positivas diariamente, v\u00e1 ao gin\u00e1sio e concentre-se apenas nas coisas positivas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ama-te o suficiente para n\u00e3o deixares que nada na tua vida te esgote ou te fa\u00e7a sentir menos digno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love yourself enough to forgive yourself for not treating yourself like a priority. Love yourself enough to stop only focusing on other people’s happiness\u2014learn to be the master of your own!<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Encontrar a for\u00e7a para aceitar as coisas que n\u00e3o pode mudar<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Uma das coisas mais dif\u00edceis de fazer na vida \u00e9 encontrar for\u00e7as para aceitar as coisas que n\u00e3o se podem mudar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever we\u2019re having difficulties in our life, we instantly focus on finding the reason why this is happening to us and how can we make it right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, ou para ser mais preciso, na maioria das vezes, a \u00fanica coisa que precisamos de fazer \u00e9 ACEITAR. <\/span><\/p>\n

Temos de encontrar a for\u00e7a para aceitar as coisas que n\u00e3o podemos mudar. <\/span><\/p>\n

So what if he’s not answering your calls,<\/span> mensagens de texto<\/span> voltar<\/span><\/a> ou mostrar afeto? <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of being mad at yourself, the people around you and Lord knows whom else, decide to find the strength to accept it because you can’t change it.<\/span><\/p>\n

O <\/b>\u00fanica pessoa<\/b> who can change his behavior is himself, and if he still hasn’t decided to do so, there’s no need to bother yourself with it, to overthink or to constantly keep finding solutions that will help you change things. <\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, a \u00fanica coisa sensata a fazer \u00e9 n\u00e3o fazer nada e aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso cair para nos levantarmos de novo e tornarmo-nos mais fortes, mais s\u00e1bios e aprendermos a amar-nos mais. <\/span><\/p>\n

O <\/span>resultado final <\/span> is you need to give up on expecting things, and focus on what you already have in front of you\u2014focus on what’s real and worthy of your time and effort! <\/span><\/p>\n

You need to treat yourself with respect, and work on boosting your self-love because that’s the only way to finding true happiness!<\/span><\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Sempre que se encontrar <\/span>captando sentimentos<\/span> Se n\u00e3o se sente \u00e0 vontade com o homem errado, tem de respirar fundo e concentrar-se em apreciar todo o amor e as coisas que j\u00e1 tem na sua vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisa de se manter ativa na sua vida social e de continuar a questionar os seus sentimentos por ele, em vez de se deixar devorar por eles.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso estabelecer alguns objectivos pessoais e esfor\u00e7ar-se por alcan\u00e7\u00e1-los, em vez de viver numa ilus\u00e3o, esperando secretamente que ele mude de ideias de um dia para o outro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Precisa de continuar a viver a sua melhor vida e, no momento em que come\u00e7ar a fazer isso, tudo o resto se ir\u00e1 encaixar! <\/span><\/p>\n

Entretanto, concentre-se em apanhar outras coisas, como sugere a seguinte cita\u00e7\u00e3o sobre sentimentos apanhados: <\/span>“Catch flights, not feelings!” – <\/span><\/i>Desconhecido<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>11 Things To Do When You Can’t Stop Thinking About Him<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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