{"id":50307,"date":"2019-12-26T19:07:00","date_gmt":"2019-12-26T19:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50307"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:34:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:34:22","slug":"5-lembretes-para-uma-rapariga-que-nao-viu-o-seu-desgosto-chegar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-lembretes-para-uma-rapariga-que-nao-viu-o-seu-desgosto-chegar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 lembretes para uma rapariga que n\u00e3o viu o seu desgosto chegar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez se envolveu com um tipo que nem sonhava que a pudesse magoar? <\/span><\/p>\n

Com algu\u00e9m que pensavas ser a tua pessoa para sempre e que te fez acreditar que preferia morrer a partir-te o cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/span><\/p>\n

However, after a while, that was exactly what he did\u2014shattered it to pieces without thinking twice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the worst part about this case scenario is the fact that you didn\u2019t see your heartbreak coming. You didn\u2019t expect it and it just hit you out of nowhere. <\/span><\/p>\n

So now, you\u2019re not only devastated by the pain of your ex leaving you, you\u2019re also in a state of shock. What actually happened and when did things start going downhill?<\/span><\/p>\n

If this is something you can relate to, please don\u2019t forget these 5 things. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. It\u2019s not your fault<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

When we get betrayed by someone we trusted the most, the first thing that goes through our mind is that we\u2019re guilty of allowing this to happen in the first place. And you\u2019re no different.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t believe that you picked the wrong guy, that you let him into your life and heart and that you gave him the opportunity to hurt you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t believe how you could have fallen for his lies and wonder whether there was something you could have done to prevent all of this from happening. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como pudeste ser t\u00e3o tola para planear um futuro com algu\u00e9m que obviamente nunca te amou o suficiente? <\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que pudeste cair nas suas promessas vazias e esperar um resultado completamente diferente?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you\u2019re not to blame. He is the only one responsible for breaking your heart and you\u2019re nothing but his victim. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re not stupid and there was no way for you to predict this outcome. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were (and probably still are) just in love and the intensity of your feelings didn\u2019t let you see things clearly. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Tudo isto faz parte da vida<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

This might not be comforting but you\u2019re not alone in this pain. You\u2019re not the only person in the world who is going through something like this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, I know that the fact that other people are suffering as well won\u2019t ease your pain but it will definitely make you feel like less of a fool, if nothing else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that all of this is a part of dating and that there probably doesn\u2019t exist a single human being who hasn\u2019t experienced something similar at some point. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you can\u2019t expect your life to be all sunshine and roses. You have to go through a few failures and a few break-ups before finding the real deal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, deixe de ver o desgosto como o fim do mundo. Em vez disso, veja-o como uma oportunidade para um novo come\u00e7o. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. It won\u2019t break you\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Another thing you must have in mind at all times is that luckily, this man hasn\u2019t succeeded in <\/span>quebrando-o<\/span><\/a> s\u00f3 porque ele encontrou uma maneira de partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t see this now, you\u2019re much stronger than you appear and than you might think. <\/span><\/p>\n

Despite all the pain you\u2019re feeling at this moment, he didn\u2019t break you beyond repair. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele prejudicou-a at\u00e9 certo ponto, mas as suas feridas acabar\u00e3o por se transformar em cicatrizes e acabar\u00e1 por sarar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vai ultrapassar o seu ex e vai ressurgir desta experi\u00eancia como uma f\u00e9nix das cinzas.<\/span><\/p>\n

And when that happens, you\u2019ll be more powerful than ever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prometo-te uma coisa: vais seguir em frente com a tua vida. Vais conseguir viver sem ele e vais sobreviver! <\/span><\/p>\n

4. …but it will teach you a lot<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest here; I\u2019m not saying that your heartbreak didn\u2019t change you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you still remain the same person you\u2019ve always been in the essence of your soul but something like this would leave a mark on anyone. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, em vez de deixar que a escurid\u00e3o o engula e que tudo isto o torne negativo, amargo e <\/span>emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/span><\/a>A Comiss\u00e3o Europeia, em conjunto com a Comiss\u00e3o Europeia, v\u00ea esta mudan\u00e7a como uma oportunidade para ser e fazer melhor. <\/span><\/p>\n

See all of this as a valuable experience that will shape you into the woman you\u2019re destined to become. <\/span><\/p>\n

Encara-o como um teste \u00e0 tua for\u00e7a e \u00e0 tua f\u00e9, como uma oportunidade para aprenderes a n\u00e3o repetir os teus erros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Veja as coisas de um ponto de vista mais positivo; a verdade \u00e9 que, desta vez, o seu desgosto apanhou-o desprevenido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Surpreendeu-nos e deixou-nos chocados, para al\u00e9m de nos ter destro\u00e7ado. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, garanto-vos que, da pr\u00f3xima vez, tudo ser\u00e1 muito diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now, you\u2019re richer for one experience more and you have the ability to see the signs that something is off before you get backstabbed. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re wiser and smarter now and you\u2019ll be able to spot all the red flags you should run away from. And that was never possible before. <\/span><\/p>\n

Outra coisa que aprender\u00e1 \u00e9 a escolher melhor e a ter mais cuidado com as pessoas a quem d\u00e1 acesso. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will understand that you don\u2019t need anyone to give your life meaning and that you can keep on going without all those you thought you needed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014you will also master the art of healing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vai fazer uma grande introspe\u00e7\u00e3o e vai encontrar as melhores formas de se ajudar a si pr\u00f3prio quando passar por uma fase dif\u00edcil, independentemente de estar ou n\u00e3o relacionada com o amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re not unlovable<\/h2>\n

\"Os<\/p>\n

Just because one guy ditched you, it doesn\u2019t mean that your personal history will repeat itself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just because he failed to see your worth, it doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t be enough for some other man who will know how to appreciate you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just because your ex didn\u2019t treat you the way you deserved, it doesn\u2019t mean that all the men you meet will be like him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just because he turned out to be a manipulative jerk and a liar, it doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t run into an honest, nice guy who will conquer your heart all over again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014just because one douchebag didn\u2019t care for you, it doesn\u2019t make you <\/span>inam\u00e1vel<\/span><\/a> ou indesej\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

This guy doesn\u2019t represent all the men out there and you shouldn\u2019t allow your past traumas to prevent you from having a bright future and a happy love life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t let him diminish your worth and kill you spiritually. Don\u2019t let him destroy your optimism and faith in love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him convince you that you\u2019ll never find someone who will love you wholeheartedly. Because you will. <\/span><\/p>\n

E at\u00e9 l\u00e1, at\u00e9 que o homem certo apare\u00e7a, amarmo-nos o melhor que pudermos ser\u00e1 mais do que suficiente. <\/span><\/p>\n

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