{"id":5031,"date":"2021-04-04T06:48:14","date_gmt":"2021-04-04T06:48:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5031"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:05:28","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:05:28","slug":"sinais-de-namoro-com-um-homem-quebrado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-namoro-com-um-homem-quebrado\/","title":{"rendered":"Namorar um homem quebrado: 15 coisas que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o sabia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>\u00c9 assim que o <\/i><i>enredo<\/i><i> de <\/i><i>amar um homem quebrado<\/i><i> turned out in my case&#8230;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Conheci um homem que me deixou de rastos! <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/what-it-really-means-have-supportive-partner\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Era carinhoso, amoroso e solid\u00e1rio<\/a>. Ele era tudo o que eu procurava num homem. Ele era o homem dos meus sonhos!<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, after a couple of months, I found out that he is not that perfect. I realized that he has issues, and those issues were making a living hell out of our relationship. To be clear, it wasn&#8217;t an<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-coisas-a-fazer-quando-a-falsa-esperanca-o-mantem-numa-relacao-abusiva\/\"> rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/a>mas tamb\u00e9m estava longe de ser saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, I was loving a broken man. I somehow became a part of the broken man\u2019s life. I never thought that I would meet someone emotionally unavailable and broken.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca pensei que iria trope\u00e7ar no mundo do <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/15-caracteristicas-dos-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/\">homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I thought something nice would finally happen to me because I deserved it. I still don\u2019t understand why God sent him to me. Perhaps that was His way to teach me a lesson. Maybe I was supposed to save my man.<\/p>\n<p>Dos seus segredos mais obscuros, da vida em agonia e depress\u00e3o, da frieza. Talvez esta li\u00e7\u00e3o tenha sido o presente que Jesus me deixou.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez.<\/p>\n<h2>O que significa exatamente um homem quebrado?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68932\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"casal a olhar para o mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-looking-at-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-looking-at-sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>If your man is emotionally unavailable, damaged, cold and distant, if you can&#8217;t get through to him and make him open up to you&#8230; I&#8217;m sorry but I have to break it to you that you&#8217;re dealing with an emotionally damaged and maybe even a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/broken\/e-assim-que-se-reconhece-um-homem-destrocado-com-bagagem-emocional\/\">homem quebrado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>However, the awful fact is that at the beginning, you actually don\u2019t get it when someone is broken. Broken people act like everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Contam anedotas, riem, v\u00eaem programas de televis\u00e3o, jogam jogos de v\u00eddeo, passam tempo com os seus entes queridos e, basicamente, vivem as suas vidas como todos n\u00f3s. Mas as suas verdadeiras dificuldades surgem quando ficam sozinhas.<\/p>\n<p>In those moments, they don\u2019t need to pretend that they are someone else. Those moments are there to show them what they\u2019ve transformed into.<\/p>\n<p>E ningu\u00e9m v\u00ea o que acontece, exceto as quatro paredes dos seus quartos. Neste caso, vi o que se sente quando se est\u00e1 partido.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/homens-toxicos-ordenados-do-mais-para-o-menos-com-base-no-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\"> Homens t\u00f3xicos classificados do mais para o menos, com base no seu signo do Zod\u00edaco<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>15 coisas que deves saber sobre como amar um homem destro\u00e7ado<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/380e3wdrm-9u3ye0o42qqlx985.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-115669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/933-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/933-1.jpg 933w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/933-1-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/933-1-768x346.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/933-1-150x68.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a>When it comes to my personal experience, I saw many signs of an emotionally broken man, and I couldn\u2019t ignore them. Today, I want to share them with all of you who are struggling to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-dicas-fantasticas-para-namorar-um-homem-emocionalmente-afetado\/\"> amar um homem ferido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So, listen to me, because these are the things you didn\u2019t know and that will surely help you in maintaining your relationship with an emotionally damaged man.<\/p>\n<p>To unlock his hero instinct \u2013 the only thing that will make him feel whole again, <a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" rel=\"noopener\">CLIQUE AQUI<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ele tem traumas do seu passado<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68934\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-standing-in-the-dark.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste parado no escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-standing-in-the-dark.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-standing-in-the-dark-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-standing-in-the-dark-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>The broken man will never talk much about his past life. The thing is\u2026 Those people have problems trusting strangers.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, ter\u00e1 de ganhar a confian\u00e7a e o respeito dele para o fazer abrir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>A raz\u00e3o pela qual o seu homem est\u00e1 quebrado \u00e9 que ele tem algum <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/linguagem-do-amor\/\">trauma do seu passado<\/a>. Pode tratar-se de maus tratos a crian\u00e7as, da perda dos pais ou de dificuldades em ultrapassar uma trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Todas essas coisas deixaram cicatrizes no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e ele est\u00e1 a lutar para as ultrapassar.<\/p>\n<p>For as long as he refuses to face his past, he will remain broken and unhappy. It\u2019s a vicious cycle that cannot be broken that easily.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele compara-se com os outros<\/h3>\n<p>Por alguma raz\u00e3o, o seu homem pensa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom para si. Ele compara-se com os outros.<\/p>\n<p>Ele at\u00e9 vai querer deix\u00e1-la ir para encontrar um homem melhor do que ele. Isto \u00e9 uma <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/larry-schwimmer\/10-signs-youre-dating-an-_b_7998866.html\" rel=\"noopener\">sinal de um homem gravemente ferido!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t think his life is valuable, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/homens-com-baixa-autoestima\/\">he doesn\u2019t have any self-esteem<\/a>. Se queres ficar com ele, ensina-o a amar.<\/p>\n<p>Diga-lhe que precisa dele e que a sua vida passada n\u00e3o tem tanto significado como ele pensa. Com um ente querido, \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil lidar com os problemas da vida.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t let you near<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>O sinal mais \u00f3bvio de um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens\/letters-for-him\/para-o-homem-quebrado-que-eu-tentei-consertar\/\">homem quebrado <\/a>\u00e9 que ele nunca o deixar\u00e1 aproximar-se. Ele tem problemas em deixar novas pessoas entrarem na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Foram muitos os que o magoaram, e ganhar a sua confian\u00e7a pode ser uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>It is up to you if you want to stick to a man like this. But whatever you decide, bear in mind that he is capable of loving\u2014he just does it differently.<\/p>\n<p>Se te esfor\u00e7ares por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/7-formas-de-manter-o-interesse-dos-homens\/\">conquist\u00e1-lo<\/a>talvez ele fa\u00e7a de si a mulher mais feliz do mundo.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele est\u00e1 ansioso<\/h3>\n<p>Todos os homens e mulheres que s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/5-dicas-fantasticas-para-namorar-um-homem-emocionalmente-afetado\/\">emocionalmente afetado <\/a>ou quebrados lutam contra a ansiedade ou a depress\u00e3o. Isso \u00e9 algo que os pode acompanhar at\u00e9 \u00e0 morte.<\/p>\n<p>He will always have that dose of caution because he went through so much shit in his life. He was hurt, and he won\u2019t forget that.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, ele s\u00f3 quer evitar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/citacoes-sobre-ser-magoado\/\">ser ferido<\/a> again. That\u2019s why he will act so anxious when he meets new people.<\/p>\n<p>O que se passa \u00e9 que ele s\u00f3 precisa de voltar a ter f\u00e9 na vida e nas pessoas e deixar que os outros tornem a sua vida mais rica.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele est\u00e1 deprimido<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68936\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-holding-his-hand-up.jpg\" alt=\"homem com a m\u00e3o levantada\" width=\"800\" height=\"571\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-holding-his-hand-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-holding-his-hand-up-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-holding-his-hand-up-768x548.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Of course, he will be depressed\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/going-back-to-the-person-who-is-bad-for-you\/919304\" rel=\"noopener\">algu\u00e9m o magoou<\/a>e agora ele precisa de recuperar disso. Ele precisa de encontrar uma maneira de curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<p>Ele precisa de se sentir vivo novamente.<\/p>\n<p>He needs to trust people and let them come near. Otherwise, his life won\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<p>We are all social human beings, and the fact is that we can\u2019t function without people in our lives. If your man has these signs, be there for him.<\/p>\n<p>Mostre-lhe, passo a passo, que, afinal, a vida pode ser bela. S\u00f3 precisa de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/ser-suficientemente-forte-para-deixar-de-lado-tudo-o-que-o-faz-infeliz\/\">deixar algumas coisas de lado.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele sente-se melhor sozinho<\/h3>\n<p>Um sinal de um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/7-sinais-subtis-de-que-o-seu-homem-esta-a-esconder-o-seu-coracao-partido\/\">homem emocionalmente afetado <\/a>\u00e9 que ele prefere estar sozinho a estar no meio de uma multid\u00e3o de pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>Ele tem esse cen\u00e1rio na cabe\u00e7a sobre as pessoas que o magoaram, e \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil voltar a entrar no caminho certo.<\/p>\n<p>Amar um homem assim pode ser dif\u00edcil. Mas se os seus sentimentos forem sinceros, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que a possa impedir de tirar o melhor partido dele.<\/p>\n<p>You just need to be patient, and things will work in your favor\u2014and in his, of course.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele toma \u00e1lcool<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68937\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-laying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"homem deprimido deitado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-laying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-laying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-laying-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>O consumo de \u00e1lcool \u00e9 uma boa forma de sacudir o stress. Isto \u00e9 algo que o homem quebrado sabe muito bem.<\/p>\n<p>Passou tantas noites sem dormir com uma garrafa de Jack nas m\u00e3os, a pensar nas pessoas que o magoaram. Ele estava a pensar em <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kianne-namit\/2016\/09\/for-every-girl-about-to-give-up-on-him\/\" rel=\"noopener\">a mulher que o deixou<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>What you can do in a situation like this is to talk to him. Tell him that if he drinks alcohol, his problems won\u2019t vanish.<\/p>\n<p>They will be even bigger when he wakes up with the next morning\u2019s hangover. Tell him that it is okay to start from scratch because that is something we all do.<\/p>\n<p>E, mais importante, diga-lhe que estar\u00e1 presente, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to give him a hand of salvation and to be his support in any rough days that will come.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele perdeu os seus amigos<\/h3>\n<p>When a man is broken, he won\u2019t feel like hanging out with his friends. This is one of the most important symptoms of a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/citacoes-que-tocam-o-coracao\/\">cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ao fazer isto, est\u00e1 a enviar uma mensagem ao mundo. Ele quer que saibamos que se sente melhor sozinho e que precisa de algum tempo para organizar as coisas na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>E o que tens de fazer nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 deix\u00e1-lo ir. D\u00ea-lhe <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/aprender-lentamente-a-curar\/\">tempo para curar<\/a> completamente. Mostre-lhe que se preocupa o suficiente para esperar por ele.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil, mas pelo menos saber\u00e3o que salvaram um homem que dependia de voc\u00eas. Salvou-o dos dem\u00f3nios dentro dele.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He won\u2019t go an extra mile for you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68938\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-sitting-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"homem deprimido sentado no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-sitting-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-sitting-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-man-sitting-in-the-bedroom-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Let\u2019s face it\u2014he just met you, and he thinks you are the same as the others. You can forget about him going the extra mile <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-incredible-tips-make-partner-happy\/\">para vos fazer felizes<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ele foi magoado e a \u00fanica pessoa que quer ver feliz \u00e9 ele pr\u00f3prio. O facto de ele se esfor\u00e7ar mais por si \u00e9 algo que tem de ser merecido.<\/p>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/8-maneiras-de-o-fazer-perceber-que-se-preocupa-genuinamente-com-ele-mesmo-que-nao-o-consiga-dizer\/\">gosta suficientemente dele<\/a>Mostre-lhe que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma merda. Mostra-lhe que n\u00e3o \u00e9s igual a essas pessoas m\u00e1s que arruinaram a vida dele.<\/p>\n<p>Mostre-lhe que estar\u00e1 presente, independentemente do n\u00famero de vezes que ele a recuse. Mostra-lhe que n\u00e3o \u00e9s uma desistente. Confia em mim, isso vai significar muito para ele.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00f3 tem uma oportunidade<\/h3>\n<p>The broken man won\u2019t give you more than one shot. Even this is too much for him.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t do stupid things, and don\u2019t fuck up all up. Be yourself, and teach him how you function.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the two of you have a lot in common, but you just need to find it out. Don\u2019t be harsh on him because he feels this way.<\/p>\n<p>He would want to be different, but he can\u2019t. He is still learning <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/sobre-o-homem-que-me-ensinou-a-amar\/\">como amar<\/a> o novo ele. E ele ficaria muito agradecido se pudesses ser o maior apoio na sua jornada de vida.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele s\u00f3 conhece o presente<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68939\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"homem solit\u00e1rio sentado \u00e0 beira-mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-by-the-sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Ele vive no presente porque tem medo de pensar no futuro. Essa emo\u00e7\u00e3o<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/esta-e-a-sua-maior-inseguranca-de-acordo-com-o-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\"> inseguran\u00e7a<\/a> doesn\u2019t disappear that easily.<\/p>\n<p>For most men, it\u2019s something that follows them like a shadow, for the rest of their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Dito isto, os homens partidos n\u00e3o s\u00e3o a melhor escolha para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/8-regras-que-tem-absolutamente-de-seguir-se-quiser-manter-uma-relacao-duradoura\/\">uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a>. They actually don\u2019t even think that far.<\/p>\n<p>Casar e constituir fam\u00edlia n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que eles considerem.<\/p>\n<p>Not because they don\u2019t want to, but because they are afraid to. If you ask them, they only think about today because they don\u2019t know what awaits them tomorrow.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele \u00e9 sempre cauteloso<\/h3>\n<p>Todos os minutos que passamos com ele s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis. Nunca se sabe o que pode correr mal na cabe\u00e7a dele.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca se sabe quando \u00e9 que a ansiedade e os medos dele podem entrar em a\u00e7\u00e3o e destruir tudo o que os dois constru\u00edram at\u00e9 agora.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t even have to stress that what you have now took a long time to build. It would be a shame to see it all go to waste because of nothing. Because of insecurities and irrational fears.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/principais-regras-de-relacionamento\/\">Construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> takes a long time for him because he\u2019s been hurt and burnt in the past. This time, he wants to make sure that doesn\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n<p>For you, this can easily get frustrating because you don\u2019t have all the time in the world. Your biological clock is ticking. You want to get married and have children.<\/p>\n<p>But with such a man by your side, you don\u2019t know if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/5-sinais-de-que-esta-a-perder-tempo\/\">you\u2019re wasting your time<\/a>. N\u00e3o podes namorar com ele para sempre.<\/p>\n<p>Algo tem de mudar, e depressa. Os homens destro\u00e7ados lutam para oficializar qualquer coisa na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o apenas o casamento.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 preciso ser muito paciente<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68940\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/drunk-man-sleeping-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"homem b\u00eabado a dormir em cima de uma mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/drunk-man-sleeping-on-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/drunk-man-sleeping-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/drunk-man-sleeping-on-table-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Os homens quebrados precisam muitas vezes de algu\u00e9m que os guie. Precisam de algu\u00e9m que os ajude a compreender os seus sentimentos de rutura.<\/p>\n<p>Precisam de uma pessoa que saiba lidar com tudo o que se passa nas suas mentes e cora\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>In most cases, this means you have to be very patient. Most of the time you\u2019re going to talk about his emotions and the problems bothering him.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s beautiful that you help others, but you have to pay attention that your heart doesn\u2019t get hurt in the process. You have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/como-concentrar-se-em-si-proprio\/\">pensar em si<\/a>tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 preciso saber quando dar um passo atr\u00e1s<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s tricky to know exactly when to take one step back and leave him alone. Broken people will always ask you to leave them alone in their hardest moments.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, deix\u00e1-los sozinhos nem sempre \u00e9 a melhor ideia. Claro, toda a gente precisa do seu espa\u00e7o pessoal. Esses s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/limites-nas-relacoes\/\">os limites<\/a> \u00e9 preciso respeitar.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o que \u00e9 que acontece quando eles nos afastam, mas sabemos que temos de estar l\u00e1 para eles. O comportamento \u00e9 o fator a ter em conta. \u00c9 preciso prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 forma como se comportam.<\/p>\n<p>People who suffer from depression often abandon their personal hygiene. They simply don\u2019t care about it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>O n\u00edvel da sua sa\u00fade psicol\u00f3gica \u00e9 muito baixo.<\/p>\n<p>At those moments, you can\u2019t leave them alone nor can you always be present. If you\u2019re there all the time, it will drive them to an even worse state than they are already in.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, \u00e9 preciso ser invis\u00edvel para elas, mas t\u00ea-las sempre \u00e0 vista sem que elas se apercebam. Por vezes, \u00e9 preciso negar-lhes o que eles querem e dar-lhes o que pensamos que eles precisam.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso fazer isso em fun\u00e7\u00e3o do estado emocional do homem quebrado. Essas escolhas dependem apenas de si.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, in those moments, you know what\u2019s best for them.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He is not emotionless. He\u2019s learned to react to disappointment<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68941\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/worried-man-holding-for-his-head.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado a segurar a cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/worried-man-holding-for-his-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/worried-man-holding-for-his-head-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/worried-man-holding-for-his-head-768x501.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He doesn\u2019t want you to go through the same emotional disaster he went through. Trust me\u2014that is the last thing he wants.<\/p>\n<p>His reactions are justified. He is not cold and emotionless. He has just learned to react to heartbreak without using his emotions. He can\u2019t afford to let his heart <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/nunca-se-envolver-com-estes-3-signos-do-zodiaco\/\">envolver-se<\/a> demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let this get to you. He is being rational. That\u2019s all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-militar\/\">Tudo o que precisa de saber sobre namorar um militar<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>How Do You &#8220;Fix&#8221; A Broken Man?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68942\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-looking-up.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar para cima\" width=\"800\" height=\"553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-looking-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-looking-up-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-looking-up-768x531.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-man-looking-up-360x250.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Alguns especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es concordam que \u00e9 preciso descobrir o que os prejudicou ou quebrou antes mesmo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-namoro-com-um-homem-quebrado\/\">tentar corrigi-los<\/a>. However, I can&#8217;t agree with that.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so difficult to get a damaged man to open up to you, so you&#8217;ll have to wait for too long to get through to him or you may even never discover that information. This means you&#8217;ll never be able to fix them and build <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/citacoes-de-relacoes-saudaveis\/\">uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> com eles.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o, n\u00e3o, n\u00e3o. A \u00fanica coisa que tens de fazer \u00e9 tentar compreender o teu homem. Compreender o seu sil\u00eancio. Compreender e, acima de tudo, respeitar a decis\u00e3o dele de n\u00e3o falar sobre o seu passado.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Esteja l\u00e1 para ele, SEMPRE<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Your relationship will surely be filled with many peaks and valleys but you need to stay by his side no matter what. It&#8217;ll be difficult for sure because he&#8217;ll try to drive you away sometimes, but you need to be persistent and patient.<\/p>\n<p>Once he realizes that you&#8217;re his ride or die, that you&#8217;re planning to stay with him forever no matter what happens, he&#8217;ll start changing.<\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t allow himself to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/fazer-estas-coisas-vai-fazer-te-perder-a-rapariga\/\"> perder uma mulher \u00fanica na vida<\/a> devido aos seus traumas e feridas passadas.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ele precisa de ser lembrado do seu valor<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Your man needs to be reminded of all of his virtues and strengths. You fell in love with him because he&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/10-caracteristicas-que-definem-um-homem-de-valor-elevado-que-tratara-bem\/\">um homem de alto valor<\/a> but that&#8217;s something he doesn&#8217;t usually think of himself.<\/p>\n<p>All those painful past experiences made him create a very poor self-image. That&#8217;s something you need to help him change. Help him to see his true self, help him to see the man you fall in love with.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/o-que-e-que-os-homens-gostam-de-ouvir\/\">Fa\u00e7a-lhe muitos elogios<\/a>, tell him how happy and thankful you&#8217;re for having such an amazing man by your side. It&#8217;ll boost his confidence and faith in himself.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ouvir com amor<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68949 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/woman-holding-a-flowers-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar uma flor ao lado do namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/woman-holding-a-flowers-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/woman-holding-a-flowers-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/woman-holding-a-flowers-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>One of the ways you&#8217;ll show him that you&#8217;re there for him and that you&#8217;ll keep loving him no matter what, is by listening actively to everything he&#8217;s saying to you. It&#8217;ll show him that you really care for him and get him to open up to you.<\/p>\n<p>The first time your man starts opening up to you about his past, that&#8217;s when you really need to carefully listen and pay attention to every word that comes out of his mouth.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll understand how to &#8220;fix&#8221; your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/acredita-em-mim-ele-nao-esta-emocionalmente-danificado-e-apenas-um-idiota\/\">homem emocionalmente afetado<\/a> s\u00f3 se ouvirmos com aten\u00e7\u00e3o a sua hist\u00f3ria sobre o que o quebrou em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Mostrar compaix\u00e3o<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Se ele se abrir consigo, precisa de ser compassivo e mostrar empatia com a sua hist\u00f3ria. Se ele continuar a evitar falar do passado, tem de ser novamente compassiva e compreensiva.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, truly, silence is the best answer. Your man probably went through too much and he simply doesn&#8217;t want to touch his old wounds.<\/p>\n<p>O seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/o-silencio-faz-com-que-um-homem-sinta-a-sua-falta\/\">sil\u00eancio <\/a>vai revelar-vos que ele passou pelo pior tipo de trai\u00e7\u00e3o e desgosto no passado. Aquele do qual uma pessoa nunca se recupera totalmente.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>D\u00eaem espa\u00e7o aos dois<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68943\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-in-the-dark.jpg\" alt=\"homem solit\u00e1rio sentado no escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-in-the-dark.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-in-the-dark-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-man-sitting-in-the-dark-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Os homens emocionalmente afectados precisam de uma parceira que respeite a sua necessidade de espa\u00e7o pessoal na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de compreender que o seu homem ainda est\u00e1 a sofrer e a tentar recuperar dos traumas do passado. Muitas emo\u00e7\u00f5es diferentes dominam-no e ele precisa de estar sozinho de vez em quando para travar as suas pr\u00f3prias batalhas.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you don&#8217;t understand it right now, but personal space will be beneficial for you too. You also need to be alone with your thoughts to sort out your feelings and make the best decisions regarding your relationship and your own life.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ama-o com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e alma<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que o seu homem precisa \u00e9 de um homem puro, honesto e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/diferencas-fundamentais-entre-o-amor-verdadeiro-e-uma-simples-paixoneta\/\">amor verdadeiro. <\/a>O amor verdadeiro \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que o pode fazer mudar e curar-se dos seus traumas passados.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de tentar mud\u00e1-lo constantemente, tente aceitar, abra\u00e7ar e apaixonar-se pelas suas falhas e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es. O facto \u00e9 que, quando amamos verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m, amamos cada parte dessa pessoa, mesmo o seu lado pior e mais sombrio.<\/p>\n<p><i>The more you love him, the more he&#8217;ll try to <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-estar-com-uma-mulher-forte-faz-de-si-um-homem-melhor\/\"><i>tornar-se um homem melhor<\/i><\/a><i> para si.<\/i><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ser paciente, muito paciente<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-68950 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-in-love-hugging-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado abra\u00e7ado na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"572\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-in-love-hugging-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-in-love-hugging-in-nature-300x215.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-in-love-hugging-in-nature-768x549.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Fixing&#8221; an emotionally broken or damaged man will be a hell of a journey, so you really need to arm yourself with patience.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/um-dia-encontrar-se-ao-um-mostrara-o-verdadeiro-amor\/\">amor verdadeiro<\/a> is always worth fighting for. Once you manage to make him realize his own worth and prove to him that you could never hurt him and make him go through the hell he has gone through once already, you&#8217;ll enjoy all the sweet nuggets of true love.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Faz com que ele se mude por causa do teu amor<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A conclus\u00e3o \u00e9 que nunca deve tentar mud\u00e1-lo, deve apenas motiv\u00e1-lo a compreender que precisa de mudar por si pr\u00f3prio. E, claro, precisa de ser o seu maior apoio nessa jornada dif\u00edcil e avassaladora.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the key to the functionality of your relationship with a broken, emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n<h2>Loving A Broken Man Is A Commitment&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68946\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-sitting-on-the-bench-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado num banco do parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-sitting-on-the-bench-in-the-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-sitting-on-the-bench-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-sitting-on-the-bench-in-the-park-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura com um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/12-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-ele-e-emocionalmente-desequilibrado\/\">pessoa emocionalmente inst\u00e1vel <\/a>is an enormous commitment\u2014no matter how emotionally strong you are.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you won\u2019t see it at first, but their mental health can seriously impact yours in a negative way.<\/p>\n<p>Os homens danificados v\u00eam com um monte de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/5-formas-comprovadas-de-lidar-com-a-bagagem-emocional-numa-nova-relacao\/\">bagagem emocional <\/a>and a past that haunts them. If you can\u2019t handle it, don\u2019t get into it.<\/p>\n<p>Abandonar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica ou abusiva numa fase inicial n\u00e3o \u00e9 um crime. S\u00f3 precisa de fechar as portas que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o levam a lado nenhum.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking about your own needs and your mental health is not being selfish. It\u2019s called loving yourself.<\/p>\n<h2>Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de The Broken Man<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir na cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>To wrap this all up, I added a few quotes that will make things more clear to you. Also, these quotes can serve as a pretty good motivation for your emotionally damaged man to heal and snap out of the situation he&#8217;s currently in once and for all.<\/p>\n<p>1. &#8220;You are damaged and broken and unhinged. But so are shooting stars and comets.&#8221; \u2013 Nikita Gill<\/p>\n<p>2. &#8220;There is nothing stronger than a broken man who has rebuilt himself.&#8221; \u2013 Proverbs 24:3<\/p>\n<p>3. &#8220;God is looking for broken men who have judged themselves in the light of the cross of Christ. When He wants anything done, He takes up men who have come to the end of themselves, whose confidence is not in themselves, but in God.&#8221; \u2013 Henry Allen Ironside<\/p>\n<p>4. &#8220;A broken man learned to savor what he could when he had the opportunity.&#8221; \u2013 Jennifer Ashley<\/p>\n<p>5. &#8220;If a piece of knotted string can unleash the wind, and if a drowned man can awaken, then I believe a broken man can heal.&#8221; \u2013 Annie Proulx<\/p>\n<p>6. &#8220;A broken man doesn&#8217;t know what to do with a love like hers. It&#8217;s gentle and giving but intense and it hits in waves. She&#8217;s giving him a whole, limitless and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/amor-incondicional-sentimentos-fortes-alguem\/\">amor incondicional<\/a>, but he&#8217;s so stubbornly broken so he lets it slip through his pieces &#8211; now she&#8217;s in pieces too.&#8221; \u2013 Allison Ryder<\/p>\n<p>7. &#8220;The man without a chin, no stamina, dead man, broken man, whatever. On your way to the top, you always get some criticism. Criticism is a great motivation. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/sente-que-e-um-fracasso-no-amor\/\">Falha<\/a> is not an option to me.&#8221; \u2013 Wladimir Klitschko<\/p>\n<p>8. &#8220;It takes a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/citacoes-de-mulheres-fortes\/\">mulher forte<\/a> to handle a broken man.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>9. &#8220;They will never count me among the broken men.&#8221; \u2013 George Jackson<\/p>\n<h2>Em resumo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68948\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Being a broken man is not a bad thing. It only means that a man like that went through more things than the others. And after all, he surely didn&#8217;t want to be hurt and left with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/eis-como-recuperei-do-desgosto-que-quase-me-matou\/\">desgosto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>What a man like this craves the most is a woman who will show him that after it all, he can be the old him\u2014the UNBREAKABLE ONE!<\/p>\n<p>Agora, a verdadeira quest\u00e3o \u00e9: \u00e9s suficientemente mulher para amar um homem destro\u00e7ado?<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not ready to love such a man with all your heart, it\u2019s better for you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/blogue\/10-boas-razoes-para-se-ir-embora\/\">afastar-se<\/a> at the beginning. If you\u2019re too sensitive to handle it, that relationship will destroy you.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129142\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Namorar um homem quebrado 15 coisas que voc\u00ea n\u00e3o sabia\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is how the storyline of loving a broken man turned out in my case&#8230; I met a guy who knocked me off my feet! He was caring, loving, and supportive. He was all that I was looking for in a man. He was the man of my dreams! Unfortunately, after a couple of months,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":68954,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Dating-A-Broken-Man-15-Things-You-Didnt-Know.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":11,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5031","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5031"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5031\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68954"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5031"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5031"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5031"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}