{"id":50418,"date":"2019-12-27T17:00:05","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T17:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50418"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:30:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:30:37","slug":"para-o-homem-que-nao-me-queria-agora-e-mutuo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-homem-que-nao-me-queria-agora-e-mutuo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o homem que n\u00e3o me queria: Agora \u00e9 m\u00fatuo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aposto que estavas convencido de que eu passaria o resto da minha vida \u00e0 espera que ganhasses ju\u00edzo e tivesses a dec\u00eancia de me escolher.<\/span><\/p>\n

To be honest, I don\u2019t blame you that much\u2014everyone who knew how crazy I was for you since day one would assume a similar thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Desde o primeiro dia, n\u00e3o passei de uma rapariga tola que caiu nas tuas mentiras vazias e falsas promessas. Uma rapariga que pensava estar a lutar pelo teu amor, quando na verdade estava a lutar contra a tua indiferen\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que toda esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o provavelmente tamb\u00e9m aumentou um pouco o seu ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentias-te t\u00e3o grande e importante por ter um eu desesperado a perseguir-te e a depender de todos os teus movimentos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal, tudo entre n\u00f3s aconteceu sob as tuas condi\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

I settled for crumbs of your attention and appreciated them as I felt I didn\u2019t deserve anything more. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Continuei a culpar-me pela tua falta de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e vi-me como se n\u00e3o fosse suficiente para um homem perfeito como tu. Isso deve ter sido espetacular, n\u00e3o \u00e9? <\/span><\/p>\n

Achaste gra\u00e7a a brincar com o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a minha mente, a testar a minha paci\u00eancia e a for\u00e7a do meu amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Partir e voltar para mim como te apetecia divertia-te mais do que devia enquanto me despeda\u00e7ava o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era bom ter sempre algu\u00e9m pacientemente \u00e0 nossa espera, independentemente da dist\u00e2ncia que percorr\u00eassemos. Ter algu\u00e9m que <\/b>couldn\u2019t stop loving you<\/b><\/a>independentemente do que fizeste. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ter uma rapariga para quem se pode sempre voltar, quando todos os outros nos abandonam. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que estava pronto para te perdoar por toda a dor, algu\u00e9m cujos bra\u00e7os estavam sempre abertos e algu\u00e9m que te apoiou em todos os momentos. <\/span><\/p>\n

E o melhor de tudo \u00e9 que nunca nos pediram nada em troca. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t put any effort into our quasi-relationship; you didn\u2019t make any sacrifices nor did you invest yourself in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na verdade, eu estava a fazer todo o trabalho, sem a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de alguma vez lhe virar as costas.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

So, learned from experience, you were convinced that things would go on like this forever\u2014<\/b>t<\/span>que eu iria envelhecer <\/b>implorando-te que me ames<\/b><\/a> e a fazer tudo o que estiver ao meu alcance para te conquistar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, eu tamb\u00e9m pensava assim. Estava t\u00e3o apaixonado por ti que n\u00e3o via qualquer sa\u00edda; n\u00e3o via qualquer possibilidade de deixar de te amar e seguir em frente com a minha vida. <\/b><\/p>\n

Bem, adivinha: contra todas as probabilidades, foi exatamente isso que aconteceu. Deixei de pensar em ti, deixei de esperar por ti e deixei de te amar. <\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that you never wanted me for real. Well, the feeling is mutual now because I don\u2019t want you at all. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not telling you this to capture your attention. I\u2019m not doing it in the hopes that my faked indifference will scare you and that you will end up running into my arms. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it to hurt your ego or to get even with you. I\u2019m saying it because it is the only truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all of this time, I\u2019ve realized I never actually needed you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

De facto, passei todos estes anos sem te ter completamente, por isso \u00e9 mais do que \u00f3bvio que posso ter sucesso sem ti ao meu lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca estiveste presente quando mais te desejei, por que haveria de te querer agora? <\/span><\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t there to hold my hand through hard times, to wipe off my tears, to support me, to have my back. You were never my friend or partner. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, <\/span>foste tu que me ensinaste a viver sem ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mostraste-me que a tua presen\u00e7a na minha vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 essencial e ajudaste-me a habituar-me \u00e0 tua aus\u00eancia. <\/b><\/p>\n

I guess you got exactly what you wanted all along. You got rid of me, and now you\u2019re free to continue on your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

I just want you to know that I don\u2019t resent you for not loving me enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you couldn\u2019t order your heart to care for me, despite all the love I was giving you.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto,<\/span> I can\u2019t forgive you for leading me on for so long<\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t forgive you for stealing years of my life, despite knowing very well how you felt and being aware that you were unable to give me what I wanted . <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t forgive you for not being man enough and not moving away from me the moment you saw you couldn\u2019t reciprocate my love.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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I bet you were convinced that I would spend the rest of my life waiting for you to come to your senses and have the decency to choose me. To be honest, I don\u2019t blame you that much\u2014everyone who knew how crazy I was for you since day one would assume a similar thing. From…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":50422,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_434027401.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50418"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50418\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}