{"id":50426,"date":"2019-12-27T21:32:22","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T21:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50426"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:30:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:30:09","slug":"precisas-mais-de-ti-do-que-deles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/precisas-mais-de-ti-do-que-deles\/","title":{"rendered":"Precisas mais de ti do que dos outros"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perder algu\u00e9m de quem se gosta muito nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil. Acabar sem as pessoas que amamos \u00e9 devastador para os mais fortes de n\u00f3s. <\/p>\n

Therefore, suffering because of someone\u2019s absence and missing them are not signs of weakness. In fact, it is what makes you a human being made of flesh and blood. <\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m not here to preach to you or act like a smartass who knows it all. I\u2019m not going to try to convince you that your heartbreak is unimportant and that you\u2019re crying without a valid reason.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you were disappointed by a boyfriend, a friend or a family member.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Seja como for, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que agora tem de continuar a viver sem eles e aprender a viver a sua vida sem o seu apoio. <\/p>\n

No matter who hurt or backstabbed you, having to remove the person you love from your life or them abandoning you is one of the worst things you\u2019ll ever have to go through.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re luto pela perda<\/a> de uma pessoa que, gra\u00e7as a Deus, est\u00e1 viva, s\u00e3 e salva, e isso requer tempo e for\u00e7a. <\/p>\n

Sim, perder algu\u00e9m que se ama \u00e9 dif\u00edcil. No entanto, sabes o que \u00e9 ainda pior? Perder-se a si pr\u00f3prio. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Pode parecer brutal, mas quem se afasta da sua vida pode e ser\u00e1 facilmente substitu\u00eddo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Encontrar\u00e1 um novo namorado, um novo amigo ou at\u00e9 mesmo uma pessoa que representar\u00e1 uma figura familiar para si. <\/p>\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que nunca se pode substituir \u00e9 a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/b> That is exactly why the most important relationship you\u2019ll ever have is the one with yourself.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t allow your losses and heartbreaks to spiritually kill you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them leave permanent consequences on your emotional and mental health and don\u2019t let your bad experiences mark you for life. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you to chase away the idea that you\u2019re incomplete without someone else. That you need other people\u2019s approval, advice and guidance to carry on the right path. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m asking you to stop thinking that someone was giving purpose to your life. That you would be nothing without them and that you will never make it on your own. <\/p>\n

This might sound brutally honest but the truth is that we\u2019re all alone in this world. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Yes, it is nice having someone to love and support you but at the end of the day, you\u2019re the one who has to deal with your own problems, the one who has to make all the important decisions regarding your life.<\/p>\n

Aquele que tem de curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a>A que tem de viver com as consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos e a que acaba por ficar sozinha com os seus pensamentos. <\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014you\u2019re the only one who can make yourself happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, outras pessoas podem contribuir para a sua felicidade e torn\u00e1-la ainda maior, mas se n\u00e3o estiver satisfeito com a vida que tem, ningu\u00e9m vai aparecer com uma varinha m\u00e1gica e mudar esse facto.<\/p>\n

Depois de saber isto, porque \u00e9 que ainda desperdi\u00e7a tanta energia com as pessoas que sa\u00edram da sua vida por uma raz\u00e3o? Porque \u00e9 que continua a permitir que os seus dem\u00f3nios do passado o assombrem? <\/p>\n

Why do you keep on searching for closure and an explanation? Why can\u2019t you leave it all behind and start afresh? <\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Lembra-te: whoever doesn\u2019t have a place in your life anymore shouldn\u2019t be present in your heart or thoughts either.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de se concentrarem na tentativa de recuperar os que perderam, concentrem-se em voc\u00eas pr\u00f3prios. <\/p>\n

Trabalhe para se aperfei\u00e7oar e para se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel da rapariga que \u00e9 agora.<\/p>\n

Trabalhe para alcan\u00e7ar os seus objectivos futuros, sem esperar que ningu\u00e9m o ajude a faz\u00ea-lo. <\/p>\n

Trabalhe para transformar os seus sonhos em realidade e tornar a sua vida t\u00e3o perfeita quanto poss\u00edvel. Concentre-se em fazer-se feliz, em vez de esperar que outra pessoa o fa\u00e7a por si. <\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de ego\u00edsta em colocar-se a si pr\u00f3prio, \u00e0s suas necessidades e aos seus desejos em primeiro lugar.<\/b> De facto, \u00e9 exatamente o que deveria ter feito h\u00e1 muito tempo. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget that n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m mais valioso neste mundo do que tu.<\/b> You\u2019re precious and irreplaceable and no one compares to you. <\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 melhor certificar-se de que n\u00e3o <\/b>perder-se<\/b><\/a> no processo de procura de outros.<\/b> Because if that happens, you\u2019re pretty much screwed. <\/p>\n

Em vez disso, cuide de si da mesma forma que cuidaria da pessoa que mais ama neste mundo. Porque \u00e9 exatamente assim que as coisas devem ser. <\/p>\n

\"Precisas<\/p>\n

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Losing someone you deeply care for is never easy. Ending up without the people you love is devastating for the strongest of us.  Therefore, suffering because of someone\u2019s absence and missing them are not signs of weakness. In fact, it is what makes you a human being made of flesh and blood.  So, I\u2019m not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":50427,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50426","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shutterstock_6580596731.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50426","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50426"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50426\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50427"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50426"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50426"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50426"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}