{"id":50479,"date":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T21:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50479"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:57","slug":"como-escolher-entre-dois-homens-com-a-ajuda-destas-13-perguntas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-escolher-entre-dois-homens-com-a-ajuda-destas-13-perguntas\/","title":{"rendered":"Como escolher entre dois homens? Com a ajuda destas 13 perguntas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m guessing that right now you’re in quite a predicament. You’ve opened up o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a>e decidiu finalmente deixar algu\u00e9m entrar.<\/p>\n

Mas o que \u00e9 que didn’t<\/i> esperar que dois tipos entrassem no nosso mundo e o virassem de pernas para o ar.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, em algum momento, conheceu um <\/i>novo homem<\/i> que se sentiam bem, at\u00e9 conhecerem o <\/i>segundo homem<\/i>quem te fez pensar que fizeste o <\/i>decis\u00e3o errada<\/i> earlier… but did you really?<\/i><\/p>\n

Now, you’ve got a great guy you can’t get out of your head but guy number two is seriously proving to be the right man as well.<\/p>\n

E, sinceramente, para uma rapariga que esteve solteira durante tanto tempo, como pode estar agora num tri\u00e2ngulo amoroso que a impede de tomar boas decis\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

You’ve always been into monogamy. You respect other people’s choices but you’re a one-man woman and swaying from that never crossed your mind until you met two men who won you over and swept you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Now you’re que <\/i>girl. The girl you promised you’d never be. The kind who seemingly plays with the hearts of two men, trying to make the best out of this situation.<\/p>\n

Only you’re not. You’re not enjoying this. You don’t want to be playing with anyone’s feelings. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You didn’t plan for this to happen. You just wanted to meet <\/i><\/b>Sr. Certo<\/i><\/b><\/a> who’d turn out to be a really <\/i><\/b>bom rapaz<\/i><\/b> e tornar-se o seu <\/i><\/b>melhor amigo<\/i><\/b>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Spending time with him would hopefully lead to a long-term relationship and you’d know that loving him would be the right decision.<\/p>\n

But finding TWO of these guys you’d eventually fall in love with was beyond your wildest dreams…<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que isto aconteceu?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Demorou muito tempo a conseguir voltar a namorar depois da sua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria. <\/p>\n

P\u00f4s-se \u00e0 prova. Entrou novamente no mundo dos encontros e finalmente baixou as suas barreiras.<\/p>\n

E sentia-se bem. Come\u00e7ou a sentir-se novamente como o seu antigo eu e isso deu-lhe o empurr\u00e3o de que precisava para ir realmente em frente com uma miss\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E encontraste. Parecia que finalmente se tinha encontrado <\/i><\/b>a <\/i><\/b>homem bom<\/i><\/b><\/a>. He was kind, he seemed genuine and he didn’t immediately try to get in your pants. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And in today’s world, that’s a huge plus.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

He was easy to talk to and seemed to really like you back. There didn’t seem to be any obvious deal-breakers and you set up a follow-up date and you actually looked forward to it!<\/p>\n

Depois veio o segundo homem.<\/i><\/b> <\/p>\n

Do nada, um outro tipo aproximou-se de si e falou consigo. O homem tinha jogo. A qu\u00edmica sexual era fora de s\u00e9rie e tamb\u00e9m era f\u00e1cil de falar com ele.<\/p>\n

Isto estava mesmo a acontecer? Acabaste mesmo de conhecer outro candidato leg\u00edtimo para conquistar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/p>\n

This felt like a dream. For so long, there didn’t seem to be anyone out there. The extent of a male presence in your life was a good friend.<\/p>\n

And now, you’re actually asking yourself como escolher entre dois homens<\/i>! A vida \u00e9 mesmo uma montanha-russa.<\/a><\/p>\n

But luckily, you’re in the right place. I’ve had experience on this front (and then some!) so I know just how to help you choose between two men.<\/p>\n

13 perguntas para o ajudar a escolher<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

It sucks being in this conundrum but there’s a way out. The only thing is, you’re going to have to devote some serious time and energy toward resolving this and it’s not going to be easy.<\/p>\n

If you feel like one of these two men could end up making you a better person, at the end of the day, that’s all that really matters.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 muito importante e mereces encontrar o teu amor verdadeiro<\/a> fora deste tri\u00e2ngulo amoroso.<\/p>\n

I’m going to show you some questions that will help you find what you’re looking for and weed out the one who’s only aparentemente<\/i> adequado para si.<\/p>\n

I know that right now it feels like it’s both of them but trust me, out of these two guys, there’s a real winner and I’m going to help you find him. Your gut feeling is going to play a vital role here as well.<\/p>\n

O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o meteu-te nesta confus\u00e3o, mas a tua cabe\u00e7a vai tirar-te dela. <\/b><\/p>\n

Choosing between two men is a mighty task but after you’re done with this, it’ll all be worth it. Right now there are two guys, one girl and a huge decision to be made. <\/p>\n

One that’s about to change three love lives. Are you ready to make the right decision and find the best man out of the bunch? I hope you are because este <\/i>is how you’ll do it!<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que a atraiu para estes dois homens?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

What was the thing that made you feel so drawn to the first guy and what was it that you couldn’t resist about the second guy?<\/p>\n

Since you’re in this tricky situation, you must really be into both of these men and the attraction surpasses a physical one. So think about it this way: What was it that drew you to the first guy? <\/p>\n

At first, I’m sure it was his looks (you’re only human) but when you got to talking, you probably realized he was more than just a hunk.<\/p>\n

Foi o seu sentido de humor que a cativou? Foi a sua intelig\u00eancia ou a forma como a sua ambi\u00e7\u00e3o brilhava quando lhe falava dos seus neg\u00f3cios?<\/p>\n

E agora voltemos ao segundo rapaz. Como \u00e9 que ele conseguiu roubar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o depois de ter sido conquistada pelo primeiro?<\/p>\n

He must’ve really had something special for you to fall for him without wanting to.<\/p>\n

Volte ao dia em que o conheceu, pense bem nas coisas que a atra\u00edam nessa altura e compare-as com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual.<\/p>\n

Which guy made you weak at the knees? Whose personality shined brighter? It might be a close race but it’ll bring you one step closer to finding your guy.<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on one guy?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

This one will tell you a lot. Reminisce about when you’re spending time with one guy and think back to how it made you feel (other than wanting to jump his bones).<\/p>\n

Does it ever feel like you’re cheating on the other?<\/p>\n

Alguma vez sentiste que um dos rapazes ficaria mais aborrecido se descobrisse o tri\u00e2ngulo amoroso do que o outro?<\/p>\n

If so, that could be the guy you’ve forged a stronger bond with, the guy you feel like you’re being unfaithful to.<\/p>\n

Subconsciously, you probably already know which one he is but it doesn’t hurt to reevaluate it again.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, your heart already knows the answer that your brain doesn’t want to accept. Clearly, these two guys are both good men. But which one is o homem certo<\/a> para si?<\/p>\n

Ouve o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Foi ele que o levou a esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, mas pode ajud\u00e1-lo a encontrar o caminho de volta.<\/p>\n

Which one makes your heart beat faster? That’s the guy for you.<\/p>\n

Qual deles est\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer?<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, ambos os homens est\u00e3o prontos para lhe dar o que precisa at\u00e9 certo ponto. Mas qual deles est\u00e1 mais em sintonia com as suas ideias e esperan\u00e7as para o futuro?<\/p>\n

You obviously want to build a long-lasting thing here, right? And one guy might be readier to give it to you than the other, it’s just a matter of figuring out which one.<\/p>\n

Have you been able to talk openly about the future with both these guys? Are they both on the same page with you when it comes to your relationship and where it’s going?<\/p>\n

Com qual delas \u00e9 que se identifica realmente no que \u00e9 importante?<\/p>\n

This is really important to figure out because they both seem perfect now. But what you need is someone who’ll remain in harmony with your vision in the years to come.<\/p>\n

Don’t let this current infatuation fool you. With time, it’s going to die down. And then, you’ll be left with two men and less sure of anything than ever before.<\/p>\n

So now is the time to evaluate who’s on your wavelength and who needs to go.<\/p>\n

Qual delas o faz querer ser uma pessoa melhor?<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

O homem com quem passa a sua vida deve fazer com que queira dar o seu melhor. Ele deve ser a pessoa que a empurra para se tornar a mulher que ele sabe que pode ser e que, entretanto, lhe d\u00e1 amor e apoio.<\/p>\n

Never settle for a man who doesn’t make you ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. Considera isso uma bandeira vermelha imediata.<\/p>\n

Por isso, agora h\u00e1 que considerar qual destes dois tipos nos faz querer alcan\u00e7ar as estrelas.<\/p>\n

Qual delas o faz querer alcan\u00e7ar o imposs\u00edvel e o faz sentir-se realmente capaz de o fazer?<\/p>\n

Be with the guy who’s the wind beneath your wings, not the guy who cuts them off.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que estes dois homens se comparam no que diz respeito \u00e0s suas necessidades?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Pense no que precisa e nas coisas que quer de um homem. Pergunte a si pr\u00f3pria de que tipo de homem precisa realmente na sua vida e comece a comparar. <\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a uma lista e, ponto por ponto, assinale todas as caixas em que cada homem se encontra. Como \u00e9 que se comparam? Qual deles assinala mais caixas?<\/p>\n

The guy who fits better on paper is probably the guy you’ll have a more promising future with.<\/p>\n

At this point, you know exactly what you need in a man and what you don’t have time for. So help yourself by weeding out the guy who doesn’t have what it takes to go the distance.<\/p>\n

Sure, it’s all rainbows and butterflies now but will it stay that way in the foreseeable future? It’s vital to think ahead.<\/p>\n

Which of them has more qualities that you need in a man? You’ve been settling for far too long.<\/p>\n

Now, choose the man who’ll never make you settle again.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 que ponto conheces REALMENTE estes tipos?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to choose between two men, this could be the deal-breaker. I know this isn’t ideal to hear but ask yourself how well you truly know them.<\/p>\n

Que informa\u00e7\u00f5es partilharam consigo at\u00e9 agora? Conhece-os a um n\u00edvel mais profundo ou \u00e9 mais superficial?<\/p>\n

Sim, a qu\u00edmica sexual \u00e9 fant\u00e1stica, mas uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura \u00e9 muito mais do que apenas sexo.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algum tipo que conhe\u00e7as um pouco melhor do que o outro? Algum deles falou sobre os seus antecedentes familiares?<\/p>\n

These are all crucial boxes to check before deciding. Don’t get involved in a serious relationship with a guy who isn’t willing to share his life story with you.<\/p>\n

Com que defeitos \u00e9 mais aceit\u00e1vel viver?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Okay, so it goes without saying that by now you must’ve come across certain flaws with each man.<\/p>\n

Nobody’s without their imperfections and it’s only a matter of whose flaws are less detrimental to your lifestyle.<\/p>\n

What is it that you don’t like about man A and what puts you off man B?<\/p>\n

Does it feel possible to accept both these guys’ shortcomings and live that way without going insane or is there one of these guys whose flaws are less annoying?<\/p>\n

Nobody’s judging here. We’re all deeply flawed human beings. But this is YOUR life we’re talking about. You’re the one who has to live life alongside one of these men.<\/p>\n

So why not make it easier on yourself and choose the guy who doesn’t make you want to rip his head off every other day?<\/p>\n

E a qu\u00edmica sexual?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Agora chegamos \u00e0 parte sumarenta. Qual deles \u00e9 que te faz querer trepar para cima dele no momento em que se olham? Quem compreende todas as suas necessidades sexuais sem que tenha de dizer uma palavra?<\/p>\n

Which one makes you forget about the outside world and pleases you in a way you haven’t experienced in a long time?<\/p>\n

I’m guessing both of them are good in the sack, otherwise you wouldn’t be in such a dilemma but when you really think about it, there HAS to be a clear winner here.<\/p>\n

Sexual chemistry is a huge part of a relationship. Which one gets your rocks off the moment you see them? Answer this and you’re so much closer to the right decision.<\/p>\n

Which one would you choose if they weren’t physically attractive?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Take away their looks. Imagine you couldn’t see their faces at all. Now think about it this way: Which guy would you go for if all you had to go on was what you hear and feel when you’re near them?<\/p>\n

Qual deles \u00e9 mais sedutor quando fala consigo? Qual \u00e9 a presen\u00e7a que o deixa mais \u00e0 vontade?<\/p>\n

You’re looking for an emotional and physical connection. Now that you’ve taken physicality out of the equation, which guy wins o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>? <\/p>\n

A que tipo de pessoa est\u00e1 mais ligada emocionalmente? Quem \u00e9 que torna mais f\u00e1cil ser vulner\u00e1vel e cru perto dele?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que a tua melhor amiga pensa de cada um deles?<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Este ajudou-me muito. Admite-o, o teu melhor amigo<\/a> knows you better than almost anybody else and she’d die for you. <\/p>\n

You KNOW she’d never let you be with a guy undeserving of you so if she has a strong opinion on each guy, I’d listen to her!<\/p>\n

She sees them more clearly than you do and since she knows you to your core, she’ll know which of these two guys brings out the best in you.<\/p>\n

If she’s ever seen you with them or listened to you talking about them, she can easily help you choose the guy who’s a better candidate for your love.<\/p>\n

Ask her and know that she’s probably right, no matter what her opinion is.<\/p>\n

Com que tipo de homem pode estar tranquila mas confort\u00e1vel?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

If I’m with a guy, I have to be able to sit in silence with him and be completely comfortable, otherwise what’s the point?<\/p>\n

Nem sempre lhe apetece ser tagarela, por isso precisa de estar com um homem que possa sentar-se em sil\u00eancio consigo e divertir-se e vice-versa.<\/p>\n

Quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais assunto para falar, qual \u00e9 o homem que te d\u00e1 vontade de ir embora e qual \u00e9 o que te d\u00e1 vontade de ficar ali e desfrutar do sil\u00eancio enquanto se acariciam confortavelmente?<\/p>\n

Esteja com o homem com quem pode ser totalmente tagarela num dia e n\u00e3o ter de esconder a sua falta de vontade de falar sobre nada no dia seguinte.<\/p>\n

It’s so vital to be able to share the silent moments with each other!<\/p>\n

Um homem que compreende o seu sil\u00eancio e fica ao seu lado \u00e9 um homem vale a pena lutar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De quem \u00e9 o nome que aparece no ecr\u00e3 que o deixa mais feliz?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You know that feeling when you’re texting with a guy and you just can’t wipe that smile off your face? Well, that says everything about how he makes you feel and more!<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 o tipo que te d\u00e1 vontade de saltar de alegria quando v\u00eas o nome dele no teu telem\u00f3vel? Qual deles \u00e9 que te faz manter esse sorriso parvo durante toda a conversa?<\/p>\n

In a serious relationship, it’s SO important to still have that almost childlike joy around each other.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it such a reassuring feeling to know that after a lot of time has passed, you STILL get excited when you see or hear his name?<\/p>\n

And you just can’t get rid of that inner happiness because it makes you glow! Which guy makes you feel this way?<\/p>\n

Which guy can you talk to for hours on end without ever getting tired of them? THAT\u2019S your guy!<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que cada homem a trata?<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated like the amazing, kind woman you are. You’ve spent a lot of time considering their qualities, appearances and flaws. But what about how they are with YOU?<\/p>\n

Which guy treats you better? Which one makes you feel safe and taken care of (emotionally)? It’s important that you’re treated with the respect and effort that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Pense naquelas pequenas coisas cavalheirescas que eles fazem. Como abrir portas para si e puxar a sua cadeira ao jantar.<\/p>\n

Taking your coat when you come over and being there for you emotionally whenever you’re struggling.<\/p>\n

Tudo isto s\u00e3o indica\u00e7\u00f5es claras de um homem am\u00e1vel, est\u00e1vel e maduro que sabe como uma mulher merece ser tratada.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, qual \u00e9 o homem que ganha esta ronda (extremamente importante)? Qual deles te faz ver um futuro juntos com base no seu comportamento para contigo?<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"\"How to choose between two men? That’s a question to wrap your head around, isn’t it? Being stuck on two guys really makes you wonder how the hell you’re supposed to choose just one!<\/p>\n

But deep down, you probably already know which guy is Mr.Right. You just can’t force yourself to make the right decision out of fear of making the wrong one.<\/p>\n

This is why I’m here. To help you make the right choice without a shadow of a doubt! These questions are designed to help you find your way out of a love triangle. <\/p>\n

Eles est\u00e3o aqui para a ajudar a ver estes dois homens como eles s\u00e3o e como as suas personalidades se encaixam nas suas!<\/p>\n

No final do dia, precisa de um homem que lhe proporcione estabilidade e um compromisso s\u00e9rio. Claro, agora ambos parecem \u00f3ptimos no papel. Mas s\u00f3 um \u00e9 o mais correto a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

And by answering the above 13 vital questions, you’re going to get the answer you’re looking for. As long as you’re being honest with yourself, you’ll get the right guy.<\/p>\n

Letting go of one of them feels like a nightmare right now. But once you make this tough choice, it’s going to feel like so much weight has been lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\n

Boa sorte e n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de confiar sempre no seu instinto!<\/p>\n

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