{"id":50480,"date":"2020-01-04T16:59:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-04T16:59:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50480"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:35:48","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:35:48","slug":"como-abordar-um-rapaz-sem-parecer-desesperado-10-passos-para-o-sucesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-abordar-um-rapaz-sem-parecer-desesperado-10-passos-para-o-sucesso\/","title":{"rendered":"Como abordar um homem sem parecer desesperado: 10 passos para o sucesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let’s face it\u2014<\/span>a maioria das mulheres<\/span> evitar perguntar a um <\/span>homem fora<\/span> a todo o custo. <\/span><\/p>\n

They think that it is a man’s job to make the initial step towards them, and as much as they like someone, they will rarely be the ones to make the <\/span>primeiro passo<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que <\/span>homens que se aproximam<\/span> n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo de que se deva ter medo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pedir para sair <\/span>rapaz bem parecido contigo<\/span>‘re into doesn’t make you desperate or pathetic. It makes you a modern woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, se quiser fazer tudo corretamente, certifique-se de que segue este guia passo-a-passo e prometo-lhe que este homem ser\u00e1 todo seu. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Certificar-se de que ele \u00e9 solteiro<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Antes de tomar qualquer medida concreta nesse sentido <\/span>homem de quem gosta<\/span>Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 preciso ter a certeza do seu estado de relacionamento e saber mais sobre o seu <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se ele estiver comprometido (em qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou casado), est\u00e1 fora dos limites, por muito que goste dele, porque a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 ser uma destruidora de lares.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, antes mesmo de <\/span>namoriscar<\/span> com ele ou utilizar qualquer <\/span>frases de engate<\/span><\/a>Verifique se ele est\u00e1 a usar uma alian\u00e7a de casamento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenha tamb\u00e9m cuidado com os seus vest\u00edgios (como um anel de bronzeado), porque h\u00e1 muitos <\/span>homens casados<\/span><\/a> que tentam esconder o facto do seu estado civil tirando as alian\u00e7as de casamento quando lhes conv\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pergunte tamb\u00e9m se ele \u00e9 solteiro ou est\u00e1 comprometido. Se necess\u00e1rio, verifique o seu <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> porque podem revelar muita coisa.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, the fact that this guy is officially single doesn\u2019t have to necessarily mean much. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he is not in a labelled relationship but isn\u2019t emotionally available either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you can\u2019t know this for a fact, but you can try and ask around if you have some mutual friends or acquaintances. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to chase a man with loads of emotional baggage or someone who is still in an on-and-off relationship <\/span>com a sua ex<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re not positive that he really is one hundred percent single and available, maybe it would be wiser to wait a little longer before you approach him and until you\u2019re completely sure about his status. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se conseguiu descobrir tudo o que queria saber, est\u00e1 na altura de tomar medidas concretas.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Encontrar uma forma de se encontrar com ele<\/h2>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

A maioria das mulheres<\/span> cometem um erro semelhante quando se trata de homens que <\/span>discreto<\/span> como: n\u00e3o fazem literalmente nada em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, they just sit there patiently, waiting for this guy to magically notice them, to read their minds, to realize they\u2019re into him, and finally, to like them back and win them over with his <\/span>frases de engate<\/span><\/a> e move-se. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that things don\u2019t really work out like that. <\/span>After all, how can a man even form an opinion, let alone grow feelings for you, if you\u2019re nowhere near his radar?<\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez ele gostasse de si se soubesse que existia. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll never know this as long as you expect him to find you under the rock where you keep hiding.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que o pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 crucial. \u00c9 altura de se tornar vis\u00edvel para este homem, de todas as formas poss\u00edveis, para que ele a note e tome consci\u00eancia da sua exist\u00eancia e presen\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que seria mais f\u00e1cil se pudesse simplesmente <\/span>dizer ol\u00e1<\/span> a ele, apresente-se e comece com algumas <\/span>conversa fiada<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, you want to avoid this at all costs because you\u2019re scared of chasing him away or coming on as too creepy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 preciso criar uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que este encontro tenha de acontecer acidentalmente. Isso ser\u00e1 mais do que suficiente para que este homem a registe e saiba quem \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

OK, isto \u00e9 f\u00e1cil quando ele \u00e9 seu colega de trabalho, um vizinho, algu\u00e9m com quem anda na escola ou o v\u00ea quando vai ao gin\u00e1sio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se for esse o caso, s\u00f3 precisa de encontrar uma raz\u00e3o para iniciar uma conversa: pode perguntar-lhe uma <\/span>pergunta simples<\/span> or ask him for a favor\u2014to lend you a pen, to help you out with your task or to show you that difficult exercise you can\u2019t seem to grasp.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, when we\u2019re talking about a <\/span>rapaz voc\u00ea<\/span> n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada em comum com (por exemplo, um <\/span>rapaz voc\u00ea<\/span> see on the bus every day you when go back home from work or someone you keep spotting in the same club every Saturday night), things aren\u2019t that simple. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why, in this case scenario, the best way to make him notice you is through your mutual friends or acquaintances\u2013make sure you two get invited to the same event or have a group get-together.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Saber mais sobre ele<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

The next thing to do is to find out as much as you can about this man you\u2019re infatuated with.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to become obsessed with him, to stalk him or to suddenly start appearing everywhere he goes because that would only make you look like a lunatic.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you to find out more about his hobbies, his taste in music and movies, his favorite sport, and other things he is interested in. <\/span><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend you have the same interests as him just to be more appealing to this guy, but if you do happen to have some things in common, great! <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as coisas que pode utilizar em seu benef\u00edcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o todos os factos sobre ele que podem tornar-vos mais pr\u00f3ximos, e os factos que podem ajudar a descobrir mais sobre os locais e eventos que ele visita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, esta informa\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 \u00fatil quando decidir que \u00e9 altura de fazer a <\/span>primeiro passo<\/span> e abord\u00e1-lo a s\u00e9rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

It would be great if someone could tell you something more about this man\u2019s personality, as well\u2014what his <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span> como \u00e9 a hist\u00f3ria e de que tipo de raparigas ele gosta normalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 t\u00edmido ou extrovertido? E <\/span>introvertido<\/span><\/a> ou um extrovertido?<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, concentre-se no que pode decidir sobre o estilo de vida dele s\u00f3 de olhar para ele a uma dist\u00e2ncia segura. Ele \u00e9 um nerd ou um rapaz que gosta de foder?<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ter a melhor apar\u00eancia poss\u00edvel<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Quer goste de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, os homens s\u00e3o criaturas visuais e este homem precisa de se apaixonar pela sua apar\u00eancia antes de a conhecer como pessoa e antes de se apaixonar pelo seu car\u00e1cter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por muito que isto possa parecer duro, ele tem de se apaixonar pelo seu corpo e rosto antes de descobrir outras camadas mais importantes de si como mulher.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there doesn\u2019t exist a woman in this world who is always dressed for the occasion, who has full makeup on, and whose hair always looks on point. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos dias em que nos sentimos como lixo, e dias em que preferimos n\u00e3o ver ningu\u00e9m que conhecemos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ironically, these are usually the days during which you\u2019ll run into your crush. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is a huge possibility of you not seeing him for weeks, and then all of a sudden, bump into him when you\u2019re on your way to the nearest shop or when you\u2019re taking out the garbage in your old, ripped sweatsuit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once this happens, you can\u2019t help but beat yourself up about allowing yourself to look like this. <\/span><\/p>\n

Amaldi\u00e7oa o destino por ter enviado este homem para o seu caminho exatamente no momento em que n\u00e3o parece estar nem perto do <\/span>mulher bonita<\/span> que realmente \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parece-me familiar, n\u00e3o \u00e9? Bem, para evitar estas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 crucial que esteja sempre no seu melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 especialmente importante para situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que sabe que existe uma grande probabilidade de encontrar esse indiv\u00edduo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to wear a fancy gown and have false eyelashes every time you see him\u2014just make sure you\u2019re neat, wearing clean clothes, have clean and brushed hair, and smell good.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Elogi\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"Closeup,<\/p>\n

Sabes como n\u00f3s, raparigas, adoramos ouvir <\/span>outra pessoa<\/span> telling us that we’re <\/span>mulher bonita<\/span> e a fazer-nos outros elogios? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that men are no different, so once you\u2019ve managed to reach some kind of contact with this guy, it is time to compliment him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Os homens adoram ser elogiados e a maior parte deles gosta de ver o seu ego refor\u00e7ado por uma rapariga que gosta deles. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ao aumentar a sua <\/span>autoestima<\/span>, you\u2019ll give him the courage to make the <\/span>primeiro passo<\/span>, and he\u2019ll be more sure about himself when it\u2019s time to approach you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t be too pathetic and constantly go after him, telling him that he is good-looking all the time or trying to assure him that he is the best man in the world. This would be too obvious, and it is clearly not honest.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, wait for the opportunity to arise when you\u2019ll have the chance to compliment his masculinity. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por exemplo, pe\u00e7a-lhe um favor (como substituir o seu pneu furado, abrir-lhe um frasco se partilharem um local de trabalho ou dar-lhe boleia para casa). <\/span><\/p>\n

Then, after he\u2019s done, show your appreciation and admiration by telling him that he is a great driver or by jokingly praising his strength. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 acrescentar que nunca teria sido capaz de o fazer sozinho e que ele \u00e9 o seu salvador, o que n\u00e3o deixar\u00e1 de o fazer. <\/span>aumentar a sua <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, none of this is true\u2014you\u2019re not a weak woman, and you won\u2019t follow this behavior pattern in which you pretend to be incapable in the future or throughout your potential relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, doing something like this won\u2019t hurt you in the beginning, and he\u2019ll hopefully have plenty of time to get to know the real you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Outra coisa boa que pode fazer \u00e9 prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a alguns pequenos pormenores sobre ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Elogie-o pelo seu novo corte de cabelo ou pela camisola nova que acabou de comprar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides making him feel better, you\u2019ll also let him know that he matters to you enough to notice everything about him which is always a plus. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just make sure not to exaggerate and make yourself look like you\u2019re obsessed with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Enviar-lhe sinais de linguagem corporal<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Uma das coisas mais importantes quando se trata de atrair a pessoa de quem se gosta n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as palavras. <\/span><\/p>\n

It is the hidden meaning behind your actions and behavior, and this is especially the case if you\u2019re wondering <\/span>como abordar um rapaz t\u00edmido<\/span> who needs some encouragement and assurement that you\u2019re really into him before doing anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio <\/span>namoriscar<\/span> com isto <\/span>rapaz giro<\/span>e enviar-lhe <\/span>linguagem corporal<\/span> sinais antes de fazer um <\/span>primeiro passo<\/span> sobre ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

These signals will help you see whether you\u2019re getting any positive feedback or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, they will prepare him for what\u2019s coming next ,so if you decide to admit him your feelings sometime in the future, he won\u2019t be surprised or shocked.<\/span><\/p>\n