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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpa para padr\u00f5es baixos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
Por muito que ames outra pessoa ou tenhas medo de acabar sozinho, nunca te deves contentar com menos do que mereces.<\/p>\n
Esque\u00e7a os que o acusam de ser demasiado exigente ou de pedir demasiado.<\/p>\n
Tem autoestima suficiente para saber o que quer e isso \u00e9 algo de que se deve orgulhar. <\/p>\n
No entanto, como \u00e9 que se pode saber quais s\u00e3o os padr\u00f5es que devem ser os nossos \"dealbreakers\"? Como pode saber a que aspectos deve prestar especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n
Se estas s\u00e3o as perguntas que lhe passam pela cabe\u00e7a, est\u00e1 na altura de consultar a nossa lista de padr\u00f5es de relacionamento, que representa os requisitos m\u00ednimos que deve procurar num potencial parceiro. <\/p>\n
Lista de padr\u00f5es de relacionamento<\/p>\n
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Let\u2019s be real: you can\u2019t expect to enter a new relationship with someone you\u2019re not physically attracted to.<\/p>\n
Yes, there are other way more important things to look for while setting relationship standards, but you won\u2019t be able to get yourself to scratch underneath those layers if you don\u2019t first find them attractive.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t mean you necessarily have to be turned on by this person the moment you lay eyes on them \u2013 you just have to like them enough to be drawn to them.<\/p>\n
This person doesn\u2019t have to be beautiful or handsome according to society\u2019s standards \u2013 it is enough for them to be appealing to you.<\/p>\n
\u00c9 claro que a atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, por si s\u00f3, nunca pode ser a base de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n
Pode partilhar uma qu\u00edmica incr\u00edvel com algu\u00e9m, mas se voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o n\u00e3o compat\u00edvel<\/a>, things won\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n As much as you shouldn\u2019t limit yourself to just one type and reject a person just because they, for example, have brown hair and you prefer jet black. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t accuse yourself of being shallow or having overly high standards just because of a certain taste when it comes to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re just a human being who\u2019s in a search for a romantic partner, not a best friend.<\/p>\n No mundo moderno dos encontros, n\u00e3o colocar um r\u00f3tulo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada de extraordin\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n Muitos homens e mulheres passam meses ou mesmo anos a namorar com uma pessoa sem nunca se chamarem realmente namorado e namorada.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. If both you and your current partner want to keep coisas casuais<\/a>, there is nothing remotely wrong with that, and it\u2019s not something you should be judged for.<\/p>\n No entanto, perder tempo e esperar que algu\u00e9m tenha a dec\u00eancia de se decidir sobre si \u00e9 um grande e gordo n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n After all, we\u2019re talking about setting RELATIONSHIP standards here, aren\u2019t we? So the bare minimum is to actually call all that\u2019s going on a romantic relationship before building it any further.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not old-fashioned for wanting to know where you stand and not accepting someone who\u2019ll lead you on.<\/p>\n You need a partner who won\u2019t have any doubts when it comes to choosing you. Someone who\u2019ll be proud to hold your hand in public.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet and you\u2019re completely right for wanting to make things official.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if the other person makes an issue out of this, it\u2019s clear that they don\u2019t match your standards and you shouldn\u2019t spend another minute next to them.<\/p>\n De acordo com os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es, outro fator decisivo \u00e9 namorar com algu\u00e9m que pensa em si como conveniente<\/a> e nada mais.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t settle for a partner who\u2019s in your life just because it\u2019s time for a serious relationship or because they can\u2019t seem to find anyone better.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not too picky if you demand someone who won\u2019t treat you like plan B or the person they come to when everyone else turn their backs on them.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be your significant other\u2019s safety net or last resort, and don\u2019t let them equate your relationship to settling for less.<\/p>\n What you want is a partner who keeps on choosing you every day. Someone who can live without you but doesn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n Someone who wouldn\u2019t trade you for millions of other people and treats you not just like their first option, but the only option they\u2019re willing to even consider.<\/p>\n Despite what you might think, true love can\u2019t exist without mutual respect.<\/p>\n Por isso, este \u00e9 um dos aspectos mais importantes a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o antes de se envolver em algo s\u00e9rio com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re a person and an individual before you\u2019re someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve invested too much in building yourself until now, so it\u2019d be silly to allow someone who\u2019s just walked into your life to treat you like you\u2019re not enough or not to respect you.<\/p>\n Significa que o seu ente querido deve respeitar tamb\u00e9m as pessoas que o rodeiam.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not under any obligation to love your best friends and family members, but they certainly must respect the place they have in your life and heart.<\/p>\n Not only that \u2013 they also must have enough respect for your time, career, accomplishments, opinions, attitudes, wishes, and desires, as well as for your personal boundaries and space.<\/p>\n Sem respeito, tudo o resto \u00e9 in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n After all, you can\u2019t expect to have a healthy relationship with someone who uses every opportunity to put you down, diminish your worth, or insult you in any way (especially in front of others).<\/p>\n Estes s\u00e3o todos enormes bandeiras vermelhas<\/a> de desrespeito a que se deve estar atento.<\/p>\n Apesar de muitas pessoas confundirem os termos respeito e apre\u00e7o, os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es dizem que estes dois conceitos s\u00e3o, na verdade, bastante diferentes, para al\u00e9m de terem algumas semelhan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re appreciated, your efforts and hard work are not taken for granted and your current partner is aware that everything you\u2019re doing is for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you ought to expect constant gratitude for acting like every normal person should in a relationship.<\/p>\n A sua cara-metade n\u00e3o \u00e9 obrigada a beijar o ch\u00e3o que pisa por cada pequena coisa que faz por ela.<\/p>\n That said, it\u2019s nice knowing that you\u2019re not doing anything in vain, and that your efforts are seen and acknowledged.<\/p>\n It\u2019s nice knowing that the other person is thankful for the fact that you\u2019re giving your best, and appreciative of all the hard work you’re putting in this relationship.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, h\u00e1 muitas pessoas que t\u00eam padr\u00f5es mais baixos do que deviam e pensam que o ci\u00fame \u00e9 igual ao amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n Sim, um pouco de ci\u00fame \u00e9 giro, mas quando ultrapassa a linha do bom gosto, pode ser potencialmente perigoso.<\/p>\n Of course, your partner wouldn\u2019t stand still while watching you, for example, kiss another person.<\/p>\n It\u2019s natural for them to be afraid of losing you and therefore have a tiny dose of jealousy in themselves.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s completely different if your current partner is possessivo<\/a> and controlling, and this is the arrangement you shouldn\u2019t accept under any circumstances whatsoever.<\/p>\n This person needs to be aware that you\u2019ve had friends, family members, hobbies, and a life of your own before they tagged along, and that you won\u2019t throw it all away just because they\u2019ve become a part of it now.<\/p>\n It\u2019s insane to have a partner who forbids you to have friends of the opposite sex or hang out with your family members.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa que est\u00e1 sempre atr\u00e1s de si, que desconfia de todos os seus passos, que o acusa constantemente de trai\u00e7\u00e3o sem qualquer prova concreta, que verifica o seu telem\u00f3vel \u00e0 procura de aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros, que o persegue ou que limita a sua liberdade de qualquer outra forma.<\/p>\n This is not love \u2013 it\u2019s a form of emotional slavery and something you should never put up with.<\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que, em muitos casos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas, as pessoas esperam mudar uma \u00e0 outra no futuro.<\/p>\n You meet another human being that you think would be perfect for you \u2013 with slight modifications.<\/p>\n As pessoas raramente se apaixonam por outras pessoas. Em vez disso, apaixonam-se pelo seu potencial e por aquilo em que se podem tornar.<\/p>\n Needless to say, when the expected change doesn\u2019t happen, problems arise. <\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly why your process of setting standards has to include finding a person who will accept you for who you really are.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa que estar\u00e1 completamente consciente dos seus defeitos sem nunca os tentar apagar.<\/p>\n Trata-se de algu\u00e9m que aumenta a sua autoestima e o impulsiona a tornar-se o seu melhor eu, sem ter a necessidade de o mudar.<\/p>\n A pessoa quem o inspira<\/a> to engage in more self care and self love, so you become better for yourself \u2013 not for them.<\/p>\n Yes, a healthy relationship is based on compromise, there\u2019s no doubt about that.<\/p>\n There will be hundreds of situations in which you\u2019ll probably have to meet your partner halfway or do some things you would prefer not doing.<\/p>\n Poder\u00e1 fazer algumas altera\u00e7\u00f5es nos seus h\u00e1bitos ou modificar algumas pequenas coisas que os incomodam.<\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow them to try and mudan\u00e7a<\/a> a ess\u00eancia da sua personalidade e transform\u00e1-lo numa pessoa completamente diferente.<\/p>\n Se isso acontecer, ambos acabar\u00e3o por ficar insatisfeitos.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll never be able to truly change you, which will make them unhappy while you\u2019ll be uneasy in the constant struggle between the person you really are and the person you ought to become according to their standards.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you see that your partner can\u2019t seem to accept the true you, walk away in time and save both of you a lot of unnecessary headaches, because they’re definitely not your soulmate.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em ter um tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem compromissos, desde que ambos tenham decidido que as coisas devem ser assim.<\/p>\n No entanto, a \u00faltima coisa que algu\u00e9m deve experimentar \u00e9 ser uma booty call para a pessoa que ama verdadeiramente e com quem quer algo mais.<\/p>\n A mature relationship is much more than sex. It has to be based on other things as well. The same goes with intimacy \u2013 it\u2019s not only physical. It\u2019s built on many other levels.<\/p>\n Portanto, n\u00e3o, tu don’t have high standards<\/a> if you\u2019re content with a partner who pretends they like you just to get in your pants.<\/p>\n You should never settle for crumbs of someone\u2019s love and connect it with the attention they give to your body only.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re a whole package and if someone has a problem with that, they don\u2019t deserve getting parts of you either.<\/p>\n Se uma pessoa quer o seu corpo, tem de se esfor\u00e7ar por conquistar tamb\u00e9m o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e o seu c\u00e9rebro.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that good quality sex is not required for a well functioning love life \u2013 it definitely is.<\/p>\n You probably won\u2019t notice its importance while everything is in perfect order, but if it happens that things in the bedroom start going downhill or if you experience lack of sex, you\u2019ll immediately notice that your entire relationship is affected.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight. There\u2019s no such thing as people who are good or bad at sex, only ones who suit you or not. That\u2019s why you always have to have a sexually compatible partner. <\/p>\n Por isso, ter as mesmas prefer\u00eancias sexuais, gostar de coisas semelhantes e ter o mesmo desejo de experimentar coisas novas (ou n\u00e3o) \u00e9 um dos requisitos obrigat\u00f3rios em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n If that\u2019s not the case, neither of you will be happy under the sheets, which will sooner or later reflect on other aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n Also, when you’re setting standards, pay attention to the effort your partner puts in in the bedroom.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t be with someone who looks after their needs only and doesn\u2019t give a damn about your satisfaction.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s temos alguma bagagem emocional e experi\u00eancias de vida amorosa que nos moldaram para nos tornarmos quem somos hoje.<\/p>\n When you reach a certain age, it becomes impossible to find a person without any romantic history, and this isn\u2019t something you should factor in when setting relationship standards. <\/p>\n And you shouldn\u2019t try looking for them either, because someone’s past is not necessarily a red flag.<\/p>\n Whatever happened before you and whoever was a part of your partner\u2019s life before you came along doesn\u2019t endanger your place in it and shouldn\u2019t bother you.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you mustn\u2019t allow your partner to compare you to anyone, especially to their exes.<\/p>\n Let them know that you are a separate individual, have no intention of copying their past relationships, and are no one\u2019s rebound or replacement.<\/p>\n Besides, wherever you look, you\u2019ll find people who might be more attractive or smarter than you.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t mean that your partner should constantly compare you to any of these people or make you feel bad for not being someone else.<\/p>\n Remember: You\u2019re special and unique just the way you are. If someone doesn\u2019t see it \u2013 their loss. They don\u2019t deserve a place in your life.<\/p>\n Um importante padr\u00e3o de relacionamento que deve ser estabelecido desde o in\u00edcio \u00e9 o compromisso.<\/p>\n Nunca se deve contentar com um parceiro rom\u00e2ntico que n\u00e3o seja totalmente devotado ou dedicado \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, apesar do amor que possa sentir por ele.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 precisa de saber que essa pessoa est\u00e1 sempre presente a cem por cento, emocional e mentalmente, na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n You have to be certain that your romance is as important to them as it is to you, and see that they\u2019re ready to put in the same amount of effort you are.<\/p>\n Ter um parceiro empenhado significa ter um parceiro que sabe que construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um trabalho de equipa e que colocar\u00e1 sempre o seu amor no topo da sua lista de prioridades.<\/p>\n It\u2019s having someone who is ready to fight by your side, won\u2019t back out on you on the first sign of the slightest inconvenience, and will be there for you whenever you need them.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s temos o direito de nos apaixonarmos pela nossa cara-metade e o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n No entanto, se isso acontecer, t\u00eam a possibilidade de se afastar com dignidade e a batota nunca \u00e9 uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Remember: When a person loves you, they won\u2019t cheat on you. Everything else is empty excuses and lies.<\/p>\n This is something that shouldn\u2019t be especially noted; it\u2019s something that\u2019s a minimum requirement for every relationship.<\/p>\n No entanto, infelizmente, muitas pessoas esquecem-se ultimamente da import\u00e2ncia da fidelidade, pelo que \u00e9 claramente necess\u00e1rio record\u00e1-la como uma norma que nunca se deve sequer pensar em abandonar.<\/p>\n What\u2019s also vital to keep in mind is that cheating is much more than sex or some other physical contact.<\/p>\n It includes flirting, using dating apps, and searching for someone new while you\u2019re still taken, as well as having an caso emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n These are all the things you shouldn\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n Because if you tolerate it once, you\u2019re just giving the other person the green light to keep on hurting you, continue sneaking behind your back, and make you a fool once more.<\/p>\n Qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida, e especialmente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica, \u00e9 uma parceria com os seus membros iguais.<\/p>\n Therefore, one of your relationship standards should also be finding a partner who won\u2019t act as if they are above you in any way or expect you to always be the dominant one.<\/p>\n Os dois devem tomar todas as decis\u00f5es em conjunto e ter a capacidade de assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos.<\/p>\n One person shouldn\u2019t be in charge and carry all the weight on their back, nor should anyone be treated as inferior.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll be intimidated by your success or use every opportunity to put you down and treat you like you\u2019re their servant.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t look for someone who\u2019ll follow you or go ahead of you. Look for a partner who will walk through life next to you, shoulder to shoulder, holding your hand.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, h\u00e1 situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que emotions simply aren\u2019t enough<\/a>, por muito que queiramos que o sejam.<\/p>\n You can love someone with all of your heart, but if the two of you aren\u2019t compatible, there\u2019s no point in fighting for this relationship.<\/p>\n As pessoas inteligentes procuram um parceiro que tenha vis\u00f5es do mundo semelhantes \u00e0s suas, cuja personalidade se adeq\u00fae ao seu car\u00e1cter, com quem partilhem objectivos futuros comuns e que queira as mesmas coisas da vida.<\/p>\n Doesn\u2019t sound overly romantic, I know, but it\u2019s reality and the only way a relationship can actually work out.<\/p>\n For example, if your lifelong dream is to become a parent, you can\u2019t expect to be happy with someone who doesn\u2019t plan on having kids.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t believe in marriage, you can\u2019t plan a future with a person who\u2019d never live with you unwed.<\/p>\n O mesmo se aplica ao seu foco atual.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re into building a career right now, you can\u2019t get along with a partner who took a year off from work and decided to go and travel the world. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 all of us have our differences. But we\u2019re talking about some crucial disagreements here.<\/p>\n Por isso, pe\u00e7o-vos que tenham uma coisa em mente ao estabelecerem os vossos padr\u00f5es de relacionamento: Os opostos podem atrair-se, mas as semelhan\u00e7as perduram.<\/p>\nSaber qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o ser conveniente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSer respeitado<\/h2>\n
![\"vista](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/back-view-of-couple-hugging-in-nature.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSer apreciado<\/h2>\n
![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Beautiful-lady-leans-to-mans-shoulder-while-he-hugs-her.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o ser controlado<\/h2>\n
![\"tr\u00eas](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/three-smiling-female-friends.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSer aceite<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o ser utilizado para sexo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nMas ter bom sexo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o ser comparado com ningu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCompromisso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFidelidade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTer um parceiro igual<\/a><\/h2>\n
![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Man-and-woman-walking-along-tall-grass-field..jpg\")
<\/p>\nQuerer as mesmas coisas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBoa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n
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