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<\/p>\nPara a maior parte das pessoas, o apego \u00e9 algo que deve ser evitado, uma vez que est\u00e1 associado a estilos de apego pouco saud\u00e1veis que muitos de n\u00f3s tendemos a ter.<\/p>\n
However, what they don\u2019t know is what true, healthy attachment is all about.<\/p>\n
So, what exactly are the crucial differences between a \u201cregular\u201d type of romantic love and an \u201cattachment\u201d kind of love?<\/p>\n
How can you recognize whether you\u2019re experiencing one or another?<\/p>\n
Continue a ler e descubra. <\/p>\n
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A primeira grande diferen\u00e7a entre os tipos de amor rom\u00e2ntico e de apego est\u00e1 na sua dura\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n
O amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o tempor\u00e1ria<\/a>\u2014it gives you what you think you need in a given moment.<\/p>\n Ajuda-nos a curar, a preencher os buracos no nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Ajuda-nos a crescer e est\u00e1 normalmente ligado a uma determinada fase da nossa vida. Parece-me fant\u00e1stico, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n Bem, o amor de apego \u00e9 ainda melhor porque \u00e9 completamente independente do lugar em que a sua vida se encontra neste momento.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t have anything to do with your surroundings, education, career or age simply because it never stops. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that romantic love necessarily has to be short-lasting. However, in comparison to a lifetime, it can be classified as temporary, while attachment love is permanent.<\/p>\n Um amor do tipo apego tem mais probabilidades de acabar em casamento e fam\u00edlia, enquanto os romances terminam mais frequentemente antes de se transformarem em algo maior. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: this doesn\u2019t mean that the type of relationships based on attachment love can\u2019t be broken.<\/p>\n No entanto, mesmo que algo assim aconte\u00e7a, o facto \u00e9 que eles ocupam sempre um lugar especial na sua mem\u00f3ria. <\/p>\n You know how you meet a guy and go crazy for him until you get him? How you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to get under his skin and make him completely yours?<\/p>\n However, some time after you reach your goal, your emotions slowly start to fade away. You got what you wanted, and you\u2019re not so head over heels for him anymore. <\/p>\n In fact, he stops being so appealing and interesting to you. After all, you\u2019re certain he isn\u2019t going anywhere, and there is no more need for you to fight for his attention and emotions anymore. <\/p>\n Se isto lhe parece um padr\u00e3o familiar, \u00e9 um sinal claro de que tem estado a viver um amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n It is actually based on your ego which can\u2019t stand not getting what it wants, and the moment this certain person becomes yours, your feelings start to get colder. <\/p>\n Portanto, o que temos aqui \u00e9 um exemplo t\u00edpico de desejo e \u00e2nsia. Por outro lado, o amor de apego \u00e9 representado pelo ter. <\/p>\n You feel the same way about your partner when he\u2019s around you and when he is far away.<\/p>\n You enjoy his presence, and you never get bored of him just because you see that he\u2019s fallen for you hard. <\/p>\n Outra diferen\u00e7a importante entre estes dois tipos de amor \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o pela qual come\u00e7am.<\/p>\n Dizem que os sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos s\u00e3o, na verdade, o resultado de reac\u00e7\u00f5es qu\u00edmicas no c\u00e9rebro e acontecem devido ao impacto de certas hormonas que nos fazem sentir atra\u00eddos pela nossa pessoa especial. <\/p>\n Por conseguinte, tudo isto em conjunto resulta em amor apaixonado<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to like your partner\u2019s personality traits.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to agree with him on important life matters, and you two don\u2019t have to get along to get involved in a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o atra\u00eddos um pelo outro como \u00edmanes, sem qualquer raz\u00e3o especial.<\/p>\n Partilham uma paix\u00e3o incr\u00edvel e uma qu\u00edmica forte que os impede de pensar com clareza. <\/p>\n While I\u2019m not saying that physical attraction and sex are uinmportant in an attachment kind of love, they\u2019re definetely not its essential components.<\/p>\n In fact, attachment love\u2019s major foundation is compatibility.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t mean that you and your significant other have to be the same person or that you have to agree on literally everything.<\/p>\n No entanto, \u00e9 preciso ter atitudes semelhantes e querer as mesmas coisas da vida.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re compatible with someone, your characters match. The other person feels like your missing part of the puzzle, and it is someone you can see yourself growing old next to. <\/p>\n Em certos per\u00edodos das nossas vidas, todos n\u00f3s desejamos borboletas e fogo de artif\u00edcio.<\/p>\n And you\u2019re no exception: the last thing you would ever settle for is a boring relationship which doesn\u2019t cause a rollercoaster of emotions in your heart and entire body. <\/p>\n You want to be with someone you\u2019re incredibly attracted to, someone you can\u2019t live without, and someone who gives you thrills just by looking at you.<\/p>\n Well, if this is the case, you\u2019re dealing with a romantic kind of love.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you: this love makes you feel alive more than anything. It makes you enjoy every breath you take, and it awakens all possible emotions within you. <\/p>\n No entanto, quando se fica um pouco mais velho, v\u00ea-se que h\u00e1 uma enorme diferen\u00e7a entre amar algu\u00e9m e estar apaixonado<\/a> com essa pessoa.<\/p>\n And this excitement we\u2019re talking about is a sign you\u2019re feeling the latter. <\/p>\n On the contrary, when you\u2019re experiencing an attachment love, you\u2019re overwhelmed with peace.<\/p>\nDesejo vs ter<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPaix\u00e3o vs compatibilidade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEntusiasmo vs. paz<\/h2>\n
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