{"id":50711,"date":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-07T13:13:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50711"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:48:20","slug":"deixar-de-se-apaixonar-se-ele-deixar-de-tentar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-de-se-apaixonar-se-ele-deixar-de-tentar\/","title":{"rendered":"Pare de se apaixonar se ele parar de tentar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dizem que o verdadeiro amor exige esfor\u00e7o e sacrif\u00edcios. Deve-se lutar por quem se ama e estar pronto para ultrapassar todos os obst\u00e1culos que a vida possa atirar aos nossos p\u00e9s. <\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t let anyone stand in the way of their romance. <\/p>\n

And I couldn\u2019t agree more: no relationship can become healthy overnight. Instead, it takes a lot of hard work, commitment, devotion, trust, and compromise to make things work. <\/p>\n

Of course, most importantly\u2014it takes a lot of love to build it right. <\/p>\n

However, the truth is that sometimes, love isn\u2019t enough, especially if it\u2019s one-sided.<\/p>\n

There is no point if you\u2019re <\/b>o \u00fanico que est\u00e1 a tentar<\/b><\/a>O \u00fanico que faz avan\u00e7ar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o \u00fanico que se preocupa com o seu futuro.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Remember: every relationship is a two-way street, and all of your efforts are in vain if the other person isn\u2019t ready to move his finger for the sake of your romance.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, you will burn out in a matter of time, while your partner will start taking you for granted and assume that you\u2019ll always be there to prevent your relationship from going downhill. <\/p>\n

Por isso, por favor, compreendam que lutar pelo amor e persegui-lo s\u00e3o duas coisas diferentes. Dar o melhor de si e ser o \u00fanico a tentar n\u00e3o s\u00e3o a mesma coisa. <\/b><\/p>\n

No, you\u2019re n\u00e3o pedir demasiado<\/a> just because you want to have a mentally and emotionally present boyfriend who doesn\u2019t consider his job to be done the moment he sees that you\u2019ve fallen for him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not overdemanding for wanting a man who will spend the rest of his life in attempts to win you over with each day that comes. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have too high of a standard for expecting a gentleman who will forever court you\u2014a real man who will never forget your worth and who will consider himself lucky for having a woman like you by his side. <\/p>\n

No, it is not selfish to walk away from someone who stops putting effort around you; leaving a man who obviously couldn\u2019t care less whether you\u2019re around or not is an act of self-care, not a sign of ego-centrism. <\/p>\n

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All of this is a lot easier said than done, I know. However, it seems that you keep forgetting that you\u2019re the ruler of your own emotions, not the other way around. <\/p>\n

Yes, you have what it takes to order your heart to stop loving someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Tem a capacidade de deixar de dar tudo de si, sem receber nada em troca.  <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, you can\u2014and have to\u2014stop falling in love the moment you see that he isn\u2019t trying to put a smile back on your face anymore or that he doesn\u2019t care whether he is breaking your heart and how his actions are affecting you; the moment you see that this man wouldn\u2019t do anything if you abandon him and that he would never chase you to come back. <\/p>\n

You need to stop falling in love when he stops seducing you and putting effort into reminding you how butterflies feel each day; when he stops paying attention to the little things\u2014when he starts forgetting your birthday or anniversary date, stops noticing that you have a new haircut, and stops caring when he sees that you\u2019re sad. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to call it quits the moment you start feeling like his second choice.<\/p>\n

The moment he puts everyone and everything in front of you, just because he\u2019s certain that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n

It needs to happen when you see that he doesn\u2019t appreciate you anymore; that he is taking you for granted and stops matching your sacrifices. <\/p>\n

Deixar de se apaixonar quando ele deixar de estar totalmente envolvido. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Deixe de dar tudo de si no momento em que se aperceber que esta se tornou uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral; quando come\u00e7ar a sentir-se mais sozinha do que se fosse solteira e que este homem \u00e9 apenas oficialmente o seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico. <\/b><\/p>\n

Deixe de se apaixonar quando essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a trazer-lhe mais tristeza do que felicidade; quando vir que sobrecarrega os seus pensamentos e que continua a partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n

Back out when you see that it has a negative impact on your emotional and mental health; once you see that you\u2019re losing yourself, in attempts to save the remains of this already failed relationship. <\/p>\n

Deixar de se apaixonar por ele no momento em que v\u00ea que ele est\u00e1 prestes a <\/b>apaixonar-me por ti<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, admitir para si pr\u00f3pria que o homem que pensava ser a sua alma g\u00e9mea est\u00e1 a tornar-se indiferente para si \u00e9 incrivelmente dif\u00edcil, mas acredite em mim, \u00e9 muito melhor faz\u00ea-lo antes que seja tarde demais. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be desperate, and don\u2019t wait for all of his emotions to fade away. Don\u2019t settle for crumbs, and don\u2019t expect things to go back the way they used to be.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, corra pela sua vida, sem nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Esque\u00e7a as culpas e as segundas oportunidades, porque o momento em que este homem deixou de tentar foi o momento em que quebrou a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de forma irrepar\u00e1vel. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Pare<\/p>\n

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They say that true love takes effort and that it demands sacrifices. You should fight for the one you love and be ready to overcome all obstacles life might throw at your feet.  After all, you\u2019ve read all the fairytales. You know how both the Prince and the Princess fight the evil witches and don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":50713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_14626124031.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}