Prepare-se mentalmente:<\/h2>\n
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The process of trying to figure out how to tell a guy you ‘re into him can be nerve-wracking .<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why you have to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the first move before anything else.<\/p>\n
If you follow this step-by-step guide, you’ll be ready to express your feelings and let this guy know how crazy you are for him in the best possible way.<\/p>\n
1. Esque\u00e7a os pap\u00e9is tradicionais de g\u00e9nero<\/h2>\n
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When it comes to dating, relationships, romance, and love life in general, the man is usually the one who\u2019s expected to make the primeiro passo <\/a> .<\/p>\n He\u2019s the one who approaches the girl, asks her out, kisses her first, and should initiate the first sex.<\/p>\n No entanto, estas regras est\u00e3o obviamente ultrapassadas e pertencem ao passado, porque aqui est\u00e1 voc\u00ea, a perguntar-se como dizer a um rapaz que gosta dele.<\/p>\n Como mulher, quer igualdade em todos os aspectos da vida, certo?<\/p>\n So, why can\u2019t you also sometimes take over the leading role when it comes to dating, instead of always waiting for a guy to do all the work?<\/p>\n \u00c9 tempo de esquecer as tradicionais divis\u00f5es entre g\u00e9neros e de tomar as coisas nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os se quisermos alcan\u00e7ar alguma coisa.<\/p>\n \u00c9 altura de descobrir como dizer a um rapaz que gosta dele.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t embarrass yourself, he won\u2019t think of you as any less of a woman, and you won\u2019t endanger his masculinity for taking the first step.<\/p>\n De facto, isto vai ajud\u00e1-la a destacar-se do resto das raparigas e garanto-lhe que, em vez de gozar consigo, o rapaz de quem gosta vai admirar a sua coragem.<\/p>\n Besides, you can\u2019t expect for this man to magically know that you\u2019re into him unless you give some hints.<\/p>\n The last thing you want is to miss a chance with someone you like just because you\u2019re burdened with some ancient stereotypes.<\/p>\n O pr\u00f3ximo passo no processo de se preparar mentalmente para expressar os seus sentimentos a um homem \u00e9 preparar a sua confian\u00e7a <\/a> .<\/p>\n Nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua autoestima tem de estar no auge.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re trying to get this man to like you back, aren\u2019t you? Well, this is something you\u2019ll never manage to achieve unless you start liking and loving yourself first.<\/p>\n You need to convince him that you\u2019re a high quality woman who\u2019s worthy of his time and attention, and in order to do that, you have to become aware of all of your good sides.<\/p>\n You have to start thinking of yourself as the woman of every man\u2019s dreams \u2013 as the most beautiful and attractive, the smartest and the most interesting girl that this guy\u2019s ever had the chance of meeting.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean you ought to become cocky or self-centred.<\/p>\n De facto, o objetivo de aumentar a sua autoconfian\u00e7a \u00e9 deixar de ver este homem como algo que n\u00e3o lhe diz respeito e deixar de se considerar a si pr\u00f3pria n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom <\/a> para ele.<\/p>\n Besides, even if things between you two fail and don\u2019t turn out the way you imagined them to, the progress you made on yourself remains.<\/p>\n Therefore, don’t waste a lot of time focusing on your insecurities and start seeing yourself as the catch you really are.<\/p>\n O problema de se estar apaixonado por algu\u00e9m que nunca se teve \u00e9 o facto de, normalmente, se idealizar essa pessoa.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve only seen his good sides and never had the chance to get bored of him.<\/p>\n Bem, antes de fazeres algo de concreto em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos teus sentimentos, tens de tirar os teus \u00f3culos de sol cor-de-rosa e come\u00e7ar a ver este tipo como um ser humano feito de carne e osso, em vez de o veres como Sr. Perfeito <\/a> que criaste na tua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n Once you do this and become aware of his imperfections, you\u2019ll see that getting to him is actually a piece of cake.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not claiming you don\u2019t like him enough, I\u2019m just saying that you think he is the only man you could ever feel this incredible infatuation for because he\u2019s unattainable and unreachable.<\/p>\n There is no point in idealizing your potential romance either. Even if you two do hook up, it won\u2019t be a fairytale.<\/p>\n I assure you that you\u2019ll argue from time to time, that he has some personality traits you don\u2019t like, that sometimes he\u2019ll annoy you, and that there\u2019ll be times in which you\u2019ll want to send him to hell.<\/p>\n Tudo isto \u00e9 perfeitamente normal e acontece a todos os casais, apesar do amor que partilham.<\/p>\n However, if you keep on expecting too much of this guy, once you win him over, see his true colors, and your relationship falls into a rut, you\u2019ll just end up disappointed.<\/p>\n When you build your self confidence, it\u2019s time to get rid of negative thoughts. Instead of picturing the worst case scenario, imagine that things will turn out for the best and that this guy will soon become your boyfriend.<\/p>\n Antes de mais, atra\u00edmos aquilo que tememos.<\/p>\n Therefore, there\u2019s a great possibility of your energia negativa e pessimista <\/a> para afastar esse homem de ti, mesmo antes de o apanhares a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n If you see yourself as a loser, that is exactly what you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n Secondly, negative thoughts won\u2019t bring you anywhere and have no real point.<\/p>\n Things will end up they way they\u2019re destined to be and if you keep on wracking your brains about all the possible outcomes, you\u2019ll just stress yourself out and burden your mind with all of this unnecessary overthinking.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, o pessimismo aumentar\u00e1 a sua ansiedade e inseguran\u00e7as.<\/p>\n Se deixar que o medo do fracasso se apodere de si, o seu subconsciente persuadi-lo-\u00e1 a desistir antes mesmo de tentar.<\/p>\n No entanto, o que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante \u00e9 estar preparado para o pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel, sem ficar obcecado com ele.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t fear rejection and realize that even if this guy tells you NO, it won\u2019t be the end of the world.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado <\/a> or not enough. There is always a tiny chance of him not liking you back and that\u2019s his right, and you shouldn\u2019t blame him for it.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, se isto acontecer, a \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 encarar esta rejei\u00e7\u00e3o como uma derrota pessoal.<\/p>\n No, you\u2019re not humiliated and you didn\u2019t embarrass yourself for going after what you wanted.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you. if you get rejected, you\u2019ll certainly feel bad. Nevertheless, it will be his loss, not yours.<\/p>\n You gave your best and you\u2019ll always know you tried. Instead of beating yourself up for it, be proud of your strength and determination.<\/p>\n Besides, remember that everything happens for a reason. So, if it turns out that this guy doesn\u2019t like you back, it simply means you two are not meant to be.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t see it as a failure \u2013 see it as a new, valuable experience that helped you learn a lot.<\/p>\n Instead of perceiving all of this as the worst thing that\u2019s ever happened to you, see it as God’s way of saving you \u2013 His way of clearing your path for someone better.<\/p>\n Em vez de a verem como uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o, vejam-na como uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Tomar algumas medidas concretas:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n You might think that all of the above-mentioned steps won\u2019t bring you closer to this man and are just nerve-wracking .<\/p>\n However, mental preparation is actually crucial for what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n One of the first steps is to find out more about this guy\u2019s love life . After all, you don\u2019t want to be anyone\u2019s mistress and it\u2019s important to find out whether he\u2019s taken or not.<\/p>\n Se, por acaso, descobrir que esse homem est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou mesmo casado <\/a> , I\u2019m sorry, but sadly, your journey ends here.<\/p>\n Por muito que goste dele, este \u00e9 um sinal claro para desistir dele e procurar outra pessoa.<\/p>\n Ser muito pormenorizado no que respeita a esta investiga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not claiming that this guy is one of those douchebags who\u2019re hiding their wife or girlfriend while they pretend to be bachelors, but it\u2019s always better to be safe than sorry.<\/p>\n After checking whether he\u2019s wearing a wedding ring or not, snoop through his social media profiles and subtly ask your mutual friends about his relationship status.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019re not crazy for doing all of this, you\u2019re just making sure that you won\u2019t be interfering in someone\u2019s relationship if you come clean about your feelings.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you\u2019re certain that he is single, this fact alone doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be a green light for you to start chasing him.<\/p>\n Quanto tempo passou desde a sua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria?<\/p>\n Has he really cut all ties with his past or will you likely find yourself third-wheeling in the middle of an on-and-off relationship that obviously won\u2019t ever end?<\/p>\n Ele responderia aos seus sentimentos s\u00f3 para fazer ci\u00fames a algu\u00e9m?<\/p>\n Would you be his rebound he doesn’t plan on spending a lot of time with, after he gets what he wants?<\/p>\n Haver\u00e1 alguma bagagem emocional que ele possa levar para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Ele pode ser solteiro, mas ser\u00e1 que est\u00e1 emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel?<\/p>\n Sim, tudo isto parece muito trabalhoso e demasiado pensado.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s better to know these things upfront, before you get yourself dragged into an unwanted situation.<\/p>\n Also, keep in mind that you probably won\u2019t be able to get all the answers you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t get to the bottom of all the details regarding his romantic past, but try finding as much as you can to get the bigger picture.<\/p>\n Is there any chance that this guy already likes you back? Maybe he\u2019s also trying to find a way to approach you, but you haven\u2019t been paying attention?<\/p>\n Antes de mais, esforce-se por saber mais sobre o tipo de raparigas que ele prefere.<\/p>\n And I\u2019m not talking about a physical type here only, I\u2019m talking about whether he likes introverted or extroverted girls, if he\u2019s more into the \u201cnice girl\u201d type of prefers the alpha females, and so on.<\/p>\n All of this intel doesn\u2019t serve you to change your ways in order to become more likeable for him.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t pretend to be someone you\u2019re not until you get him, because sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to show your true colors, which will leave this guy feeling deceived.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, saber mais sobre as ex dele s\u00f3 a pode ajudar a perceber se faz ou n\u00e3o o seu g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n Remember: Even if you\u2019re completely different from all the girls he\u2019s ever dated, it doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t grow to like you, if you two click.<\/p>\n The next thing is to check out the signals he\u2019s been sending you.<\/p>\n Mant\u00e9m o contacto visual, aproveita todas as oportunidades para estar perto de si e ter contacto f\u00edsico, namorisca consigo e como responde \u00e0s suas linha de recolha<\/a>s?<\/p>\n Keep your eyes wide open and pay attention to his body language because it\u2019s possible that he\u2019ll make the first step, if he just gets a little push from you.<\/p>\n Antes de esperar que esse homem comece a gostar de si, ele tem primeiro de reparar em si e tomar consci\u00eancia da sua exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s your job to make yourself visible to him without becoming a pain in the ass in the process.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s your colega de trabalho <\/a> Por exemplo, se o seu chefe n\u00e3o for capaz de o elogiar \u00e0 frente de toda a gente, pe\u00e7a-lhe ajuda.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s your neighbour or someone you often see on the street, make sure you two run into each other as much as possible. If he\u2019s someone you noticed in the gym, start exercising at the same time he does\u2026<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you and this guy don\u2019t have much in common, use some sneaky ways to find out where he spends his free time.<\/p>\n “Accidentally” appear at the club or coffee shop he usually visits, or see if you have some mutual friends who can introduce you to him.<\/p>\n However, make sure he doesn\u2019t notice you doing any of these things on purpose.<\/p>\n Yes, it can be a funny story once you start dating and he\u2019d probably be flattered by the effort you invested in winning him over, but at this point, he\u2019ll only think of you as a stalker and your behavior might chase him away.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 men are visual creatures before anything else.<\/p>\n Isso significa que um homem tem de se sentir fisicamente atra\u00eddo por si antes de come\u00e7ar a descobrir as camadas da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong. I bet that you\u2019re an amazing person and that every man would be thrilled to have you as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n However, sadly, he probably won\u2019t give you a chance unless he considers your looks appealing.<\/p>\n After all, I\u2019m sure that this guy\u2019s physical appearance is also one of the reasons you like him so much, so why would he be different?<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you have to look your best every time you think you might run into him.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m espera que seja uma top model, mas pode dar \u00eanfase aos seus atributos e usar alguma maquilhagem.<\/p>\n Also, don\u2019t forget to have clean and nice hair and always smell good.<\/p>\n If you have trouble letting this guy know how you feel, can’t find a way to get closer to him, and seem to have a problem with running into him face to face , use the benefits of modern technology and approach him online.<\/p>\n Basta enviar-lhe um pedido de amizade ou de seguir nas suas contas das redes sociais.<\/p>\n Like his pictures, comment on his status updates, watch his stories, and if he has a dating profile like Tinder, don\u2019t forget to swipe right.<\/p>\n Also, this way you two can start some kind of communication \u2013 if nothing else, you can always direct message him regarding something he posted.<\/p>\n Depois de ver que a conversa est\u00e1 a fluir, experimente alguns frases de engate <\/a> e mostrar o seu interesse por ele.<\/p>\n After all, texting a guy you like is much easier than talking to him face to face . He won\u2019t see that you\u2019re nervous or shaking, and you have more time to think of a witty response.<\/p>\n However, make sure you\u2019re not too pushy either. It\u2019s one thing for you to make the first step towards him, but completely different if you send him a text message every few minutes, without any positive feedback.<\/p>\n When it comes to your social media profiles, make sure he can see that you\u2019re single and available and always post photos of yourself looking as gorgeous as possible.<\/p>\n Hide the photos with your ex you still might have on your page, put a hashtag \u201cfriend\u201d every time you post a picture with your guy friend, and forget about posting some sad quotes or songs, which might imply that you\u2019re still not over someone from your past.<\/p>\n Outra coisa que pode dar a este homem uma dica de que gosta dele \u00e9 fazer algo simp\u00e1tico por ele.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t exaggerate with huge gestos rom\u00e2nticos <\/a> and expensive gifts \u2013 just show him that you\u2019re there and he can count on you.<\/p>\n Buy him a little something you know he likes, wish him a happy birthday, politely ask him if he needs anything when he\u2019s going through hard times, or do him a favor when he\u2019s in a time of need.<\/p>\n Tudo o que fizer vai mostrar-lhe que repara nos pequenos pormenores, que quer faz\u00ea-lo feliz e que se preocupa com o seu bem-estar.<\/p>\n Also, don\u2019t hesitate turning to him when you need help during your own hard times .<\/p>\n Remember that men enjoy being the heroes and he\u2019ll probably be thrilled at the fact that you see him as reliable and all too happy to have the chance to help you out.<\/p>\n Sometimes, when you\u2019re trying to get closer to the object of your affection, the hardest thing is to break the ice.<\/p>\n You\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll get tongue-twisted if you try talking to him and just make a fool of yourself.<\/p>\n No entanto, basta iniciar uma conversa <\/a> com este tipo, de uma forma ou de outra, se planeias chegar ao cora\u00e7\u00e3o dele.<\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t approach him out of the blue, telling him you\u2019re into him.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you have to be patient and wait for an opportunity to talk to him, without looking like a lunatic.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, pode pedir-lhe um simples favor, uma ajuda ou um conselho, consoante as circunst\u00e2ncias e a natureza da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n What\u2019s important here is to plan the conversation in as much detail as you can before saying anything.<\/p>\n Se mais n\u00e3o for, pratique a sua frase de abertura e espere que o resto da conversa flua naturalmente.<\/p>\n You two will probably start with some irrelevant small talk, but that\u2019ll give you an opportunity for some meaningful, deeper conversation in the future.<\/p>\n When talking to this guy for the first time, do your best to make him laugh. Be witty and interesting and don\u2019t bore him.<\/p>\n Um bom conselho \u00e9 terminar a conversa a meio, para o deixar com vontade de mais.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, seria bom evitar temas demasiado s\u00e9rios desde o in\u00edcio e manter as coisas o mais informais poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Quando quiser que um homem goste de si, s\u00f3 tem de saber como namoriscar com ele de forma eficaz e como utilizar a sua linguagem corporal a seu favor.<\/p>\n O truque \u00e9 dar-lhe uma pista sem ser demasiado insistente.<\/p>\n For starters, try maintaining eye contact . Stare at him and when he looks at you, smile and don\u2019t look away.<\/p>\n Whenever the two of you are close, make sure to sit next to him. Laugh at his jokes and glance over his mouth when you\u2019re talking.<\/p>\n Every time you two greet, hug him tightly and don\u2019t let go right away.<\/p>\n Beije-o na bochecha ou no canto da boca e esteja atento \u00e0 sua rea\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Aproveita todas as oportunidades que tiveres para lhe tocar.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re laughing or making a point, put your hand on his shoulder or knee. This way, his body will get used to yours.<\/p>\n When you two are texting , don\u2019t hesitate to send him some textos de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> . Utilize emojis de beijos e cora\u00e7\u00f5es e veja como ele reage!<\/p>\n Whatever you do, pay attention to the feedback you\u2019re getting.<\/p>\n Ele sente-se \u00e0 vontade na sua presen\u00e7a e retribui o flirt?<\/p>\n Ou ele est\u00e1, de forma indireta mas clara, a pedir mais espa\u00e7o pessoal e prefere obviamente que se afaste?<\/p>\n Outra forma de dizer a um rapaz que gostas dele \u00e9 convid\u00e1-lo para sair<\/a>. If you still don\u2019t have enough courage for some big steps, this doesn\u2019t have to be a primeiro encontro<\/a> convite.<\/p>\n It\u2019s enough to ask him on a group get-together with your other friends or coworkers.<\/p>\n Pode convid\u00e1-lo a acompanh\u00e1-la \u00e0 hora de almo\u00e7o ou a tomar um caf\u00e9, sem que isso implique um significado mais profundo.<\/p>\n Another sneaky way you can use here is to get to the bottom of this guy\u2019s interests.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, se descobrir que ele gosta de uma determinada banda ou autor de um livro, compre bilhetes para o concerto ou lan\u00e7amento e convide-o a ir.<\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t honestly tell him just how much effort you put into all of this.<\/p>\n Instead, make it all look like a coincidence. Mention the event and tell him that you\u2019d like to go, but none of your friends want to accompany you.<\/p>\n When he gets surprised that you have common interests and tells you that this is something he likes too, casually mention that you have a spare ticket and ask if he\u2019d like to tag along.<\/p>\n Despite the fact that you show interest in them, there are simply some guys who can\u2019t seem to take the hint.<\/p>\n Se a sua paixoneta \u00e9 uma delas, n\u00e3o tem outra escolha sen\u00e3o falar abertamente sobre os seus sentimentos e ser completamente direto.<\/p>\n Maybe he\u2019s convinced that you\u2019re just being kind and don’t see him as more than a nice guy whom you’ll put in the friend zone.<\/p>\n2. Desenvolver a sua auto-confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Don\u2019t expect too much<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Be optimistic\u2026<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. …but prepare for the worst<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Find out more about his relationship status…<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. …and whether this o homem gosta<\/a> voltar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Tornar-se vis\u00edvel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Ter a melhor apar\u00eancia poss\u00edvel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Segui-lo nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Fazer algo por ele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Come\u00e7ar a falar com ele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Namoriscar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Convid\u00e1-lo para sair<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Dizer-lhe diretamente<\/h2>\n
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