{"id":50825,"date":"2020-05-08T22:37:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T22:37:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50825"},"modified":"2022-10-30T12:20:54","modified_gmt":"2022-10-30T12:20:54","slug":"porque-e-que-os-homens-ficam-com-frio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-homens-ficam-com-frio\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que os homens ficam frios depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o? 14 verdades absolutas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 uma s\u00e9rie de raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens ficam frios depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o e a triste verdade \u00e9 que metade dessas raz\u00f5es s\u00e3o provocadas pelo seu comportamento ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o e a outra metade n\u00e3o tem nada a ver consigo, mas com a mentalidade masculina dele.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds harsh, I know, but in my humble opinion, it&#8217;s always better to tell the truth than to sugarcoat it and live in ignorance.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s evident that guys deal with break-ups differently. They have the totally opposite way of thinking and perceiving things, especially past relationships.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why their somewhat odd method of dealing with a messy situation is avoiding it altogether. And we all know that there are no messier situations than break-ups.<\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s no wonder they go cold after a break-up. But there&#8217;s one more reason besides his male psychology and that\u2019s female behavior after a break-up.<\/p>\n<p>Stop for a moment and be honest with yourself\u2014was there something about your behavior that made your ex-boyfriend pull away?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86198\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-arguing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Casal a discutir em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-arguing-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-arguing-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-arguing-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Or was it something in your relationship that indicated you two can&#8217;t function together?<\/p>\n<p>First of all, it&#8217;s important to know break-ups are never easy and always complicated. There is always one side who thinks it shouldn&#8217;t have ended.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 sempre um lado que est\u00e1 mais magoado e que procura algum tipo de conclus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s exactly our pursuit of closure and healing after a heartbreak that makes our ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend go cold after a break-up.<\/p>\n<p>We want answers they can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t give. So we call, text, ask time and time again.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s just one small reason why guys go cold after a break-up and there are 14 more you should look into to determine which applies to your situation.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Para ele, as coisas acabaram antes da rutura efectiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86199\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-on-couch-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Casal no sof\u00e1 de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-on-couch-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-on-couch-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-on-couch-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The break-up wasn&#8217;t an instinctive decision the dumper (your ex) made.<\/p>\n<p>Ele esteve semanas ou meses \u00e0 espera dessa decis\u00e3o at\u00e9 que finalmente teve coragem de falar consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Enquanto que para a pessoa que est\u00e1 a ser abandonada (voc\u00ea), isto foi um choque e nunca previu o que ia acontecer, ele estava bem preparado para toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e sabia claramente as raz\u00f5es que o levavam a terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Houve uma altura na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que ele come\u00e7ou a arrefecer e a perder sentimentos por si.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean you did something that caused the break-up, it just means that he realized that you were not right for each other long before you even had time to process what was happening in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Why did he detach from you after it all ended? Well, if you didn&#8217;t<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-perder-sentimentos-por-alguem\/\"> perder sentimentos<\/a> for each other and mutually agreed on parting ways, it&#8217;s almost impossible to stay friends after a break-up.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Ele est\u00e1 a facilitar as coisas para si pr\u00f3prio ao n\u00e3o a confrontar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-looking-through-window-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easier for guys to cut off all communication completely than to talk about their feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Evitam todo o tipo de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o que os fa\u00e7a sentir desconfort\u00e1veis e falar sobre as raz\u00f5es da rutura.<\/p>\n<p>As conversas profundas sobre como se sente, como ele se sente ou qualquer outra coisa relacionada com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o entram nessa categoria.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the behavior of a 13-year old boy I know but some men tend to avoid awkward and painful situations at all costs.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he probably had experience with that sort of communication while ending his previous relationships and he doesn&#8217;t want to be a part of that scenario again.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not that he doesn&#8217;t care how you feel but he is aware that there is no conversation you two can have that will make either of you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing to say that will make all the wrongs right and in the male mind, it&#8217;s easier to say nothing at all.<\/p>\n<h2>3. He didn\u2019t go cold after the break-up, he was always cold<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Man-listening-music-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Homem a ouvir m\u00fasica em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Man-listening-music-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Man-listening-music-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Man-listening-music-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are men out there who are simply deprived of empathy. They don&#8217;t have a compassionate bone in their body and they are unable to realize how their actions affect others.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a pretty common <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-ele-tiver-estas-10-caracteristicas-pode-ser-vitima-do-seu-abuso-narcisico\/\">carater\u00edstica de um narcisista <\/a>tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>If you were in a relationship with someone like that, don&#8217;t be surprised with him going cold after the relationship ended. He was cold all throughout the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that he caused you pain doesn&#8217;t make him feel remorse. In his mind, with the relationship ending, he is ending all ties with you and that&#8217;s that.<\/p>\n<p>With all that said, there is one question you have to ask yourself: &#8220;Aren&#8217;t you better off without someone like him?&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>4. He doesn&#8217;t believe in staying friends after the break-up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86194\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-wearing-suit-in-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"homem de fato num restaurante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-wearing-suit-in-restaurant.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-wearing-suit-in-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-wearing-suit-in-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When the relationship ends, we don&#8217;t only lose our boyfriend, we lose our best friend too and we want to stay in touch.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, na maioria dos casos, a amizade depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel, a n\u00e3o ser que a rutura tenha sido m\u00fatua e que se tenha apercebido de que estava melhor como amigo do que como casal.<\/p>\n<p>Mas isso quase nunca acontece.<\/p>\n<p>Na maioria dos casos, um dos lados arrefeceu enquanto o outro continuava muito interessado e apaixonado.<\/p>\n<p>In that scenario, it&#8217;s impossible to maintain a friendship without hurting the person who still has feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u00c9s pegajosa e ele sabe disso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86197\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/close-up-photo-of-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/close-up-photo-of-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/close-up-photo-of-sad-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/close-up-photo-of-sad-woman-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know it too. Be brutally honest with yourself\u2014do you fit the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-caracteristicas-que-definem-uma-namorada-pegajosa\/\">defini\u00e7\u00e3o de uma namorada pegajosa<\/a>? Era por vezes um pouco possessivo?<\/p>\n<p>Querias uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o constante quando ele n\u00e3o estava contigo?<\/p>\n<p>Dedicou a sua vida a explorar os padr\u00f5es de comportamento dele, pondo a sua vida em suspenso?<\/p>\n<p>Causava drama sempre que ele queria passar mais tempo com os amigos do que consigo? Desconfiavas ou tinhas ci\u00fames?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s just scratching the surface but that means you were a clingy girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Esse tipo de comportamento faz com que um homem perca o interesse muito rapidamente e, se ele costumava aturar isso enquanto voc\u00eas estavam numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para o fazer depois de tudo ter acabado.<\/p>\n<p>That might be hard to hear but it doesn&#8217;t make it any less true. Work on yourself for yourself. Build up your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a uma vida para si e nunca fa\u00e7a nada que ponha em risco a sua paz interior e a sua felicidade quando um dia entrar numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing you can do regarding your ex is nothing at all; stop texting, don&#8217;t make phone calls, delete him on social media and slowly start accepting that things ended and you need to heal.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso seguir em frente e preparar-se para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que o seu apego seja uma mem\u00f3ria distante.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Ele est\u00e1 a trabalhar na sua nova vida de solteiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-Taking-selfie-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tirar uma selfie na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-Taking-selfie-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-Taking-selfie-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-Taking-selfie-in-nature-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Alguns homens encaram as rupturas como uma oportunidade para come\u00e7ar de novo.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t mean they have it easy and that they suddenly stop caring for you all of a sudden, it only means they are trying to cope with the new situation.<\/p>\n<p>They are well aware that they can&#8217;t get over you if you are still a part of their life, that&#8217;s why they go no contact.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it isn&#8217;t a lack of love for one another that draws you apart but a lack of compatibility.<\/p>\n<p>If your relationship was an on-again, off-again thing, it&#8217;s probable that your ex decided it was off for good.<\/p>\n<p>Some people simply can&#8217;t function together, in spite of their best efforts and feelings.<\/p>\n<p>As for him going cold? You can&#8217;t be friends with someone you still care for.<\/p>\n<p>Ele achou que era melhor n\u00e3o ter not\u00edcias suas nem v\u00ea-lo e seguiu a sua vida. Talvez devesses seguir o exemplo dele e seguir a tua vida sem ele.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Ele est\u00e1 a desfrutar da sua nova liberdade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-guy-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"Homem feliz sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-guy-sitting-on-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-guy-sitting-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-guy-sitting-on-couch-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se a falta de espa\u00e7o foi uma das frases mais mencionadas pelo seu ex-namorado, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele se tenha sentido um pouco sufocado pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que esteja a aprender a ser solteiro novamente.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that he went out chasing other women; he might be gaming all day long or spending time with his friends.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns homens terminam as rela\u00e7\u00f5es porque ainda n\u00e3o est\u00e3o preparados para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Outros porque n\u00e3o t\u00eam liberdade e sentem que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o os est\u00e1 a aprisionar.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se quer saber todos os passos do seu parceiro. Precisava de muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o e seguran\u00e7a?<\/p>\n<p>Did you continue to demand the same after the break-up? If your answers are yes, then it&#8217;s no wonder your ex disappeared from your life.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ele tem uma nova namorada<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86189\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-man-kisses-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Homem feliz beija mulher sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-man-kisses-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-man-kisses-smiling-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-man-kisses-smiling-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most obvious answers to: \u2018Why do guys go cold after a break-up?\u2019 is &#8216;Because they are already seeing someone else&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Se um homem est\u00e1 a saltar de barco t\u00e3o rapidamente, ele certificar-se-\u00e1 de cortar todos os la\u00e7os que tem consigo.<\/p>\n<p>And no, you shouldn&#8217;t ask him if he is seeing someone else because he will either deny it or ignore your question.<\/p>\n<p>Saber\u00e1 em breve, porque tudo ser\u00e1 revelado em breve.<\/p>\n<p>If it turns out that a new girl is the reason for your break-up, you will at least know he is definitely not the one for you and you haven&#8217;t lost much by losing him.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Ele \u00e9 consumido pela culpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86195\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-guy-holds-for-head.jpg\" alt=\"um homem preocupado segura a cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-guy-holds-for-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-guy-holds-for-head-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/worried-guy-holds-for-head-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O seu ex pode estar a ser consumido pela culpa e h\u00e1 duas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis para ele se sentir culpado.<\/p>\n<p>Ou se sente mal porque sabe que est\u00e1 a sofrer e odeia o facto de ter sido ele a caus\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n<p>Or if he cheated on you or started a new relationship with some other woman while he was with you, it&#8217;s no wonder he can&#8217;t have a face-to-face conversation with you.<\/p>\n<p>He knows what he has done is wrong and it&#8217;s easier this way.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Ele est\u00e1 acima de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86202\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-using-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Homem a utilizar o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-using-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-using-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-using-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Somewhere down the line, he simply stopped having strong feelings for you. It&#8217;s difficult to accept that but sometimes people fall out of love and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o existe nenhum conselho, m\u00e9todo ou feiti\u00e7o secreto que a possa ajudar a recuperar o seu ex se isto acontecer. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-o-teu-ex-ja-te-esqueceu-e-nao-te-quer-de-volta\/\">Se ele te ultrapassa, <\/a>n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer para o fazer mudar de ideias.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not your fault this happened and it&#8217;s not him either; when two people are not meant for each other, the ending is inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>If your feelings are strong, you will have a hard time accepting he doesn&#8217;t feel the same way about you.<\/p>\n<p>Mas lembre-se de que precisa de algu\u00e9m que a ame tanto quanto voc\u00ea o ama e que nunca pensaria em deix\u00e1-la ir.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t pine for the wrong person, wait for the right one.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Ele est\u00e1 a tratar de assuntos que n\u00e3o lhe dizem respeito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86186\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-with-white-teeth.jpg\" alt=\"Homem com dentes brancos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-with-white-teeth.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-with-white-teeth-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-with-white-teeth-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time our ex doesn&#8217;t take our phone call or respond to one of our text messages, we think it&#8217;s something we said or did <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-ele-me-esta-a-ignorar-de-repente\/\">that&#8217;s making him ignore us<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>What you, me and my other readers have to understand is that our ex is under no obligation to keep in touch with us after it&#8217;s all over.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, the world of our ex-boyfriend doesn&#8217;t revolve around us.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode estar a ter problemas e quest\u00f5es pessoais que tem de resolver e os fantasmas do passado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e3o a acrescentar bagagem adicional.<\/p>\n<p>Se for esse o caso, ele vai entrar em contacto com ela num par de dias, ou pode demorar semanas ou mesmo meses at\u00e9 pedir desculpa.<\/p>\n<p>He will then explain why it all had to go down like that. If he doesn&#8217;t, he had no real problems except his rude behavior.<\/p>\n<h2>12. In the case of a long-distance relationship&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86204\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/man-in-alone-in-the-dark.jpg\" alt=\"homem sozinho no escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser dif\u00edceis em geral e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia s\u00e3o um desafio em si mesmas.<\/p>\n<p>A causa mais comum para o fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia \u00e9 a pr\u00f3pria dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se torna dif\u00edcil recordar a \u00faltima vez que algu\u00e9m nos beijou ou nos abra\u00e7ou, as coisas come\u00e7am a quebrar.<\/p>\n<p>A lack of physical contact and face to face conversation makes every day a struggle when it&#8217;s all supposed to flow easily.<\/p>\n<p>Once things end it&#8217;s easy for both sides but usually for guys to go cold after the break-up.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer hip\u00f3tese de se cruzar com eles na rua ou numa festa de amigos comuns.<\/p>\n<p>Basta que o ignorem, bloqueiem ou desfa\u00e7am a amizade para que a frieza seja mais evidente.<\/p>\n<p>When this happens, the chances are your long-distance guy decided to end things for good and that&#8217;s why he vanished from your life altogether,<\/p>\n<h2>13. He worries that you&#8217;ll misinterpret his behavior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86187\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"Homem bonito a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se ainda sente algo pelo seu ex-namorado e ele sabe disso, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que tenha esfriado para a poupar a mais dor.<\/p>\n<p>Ele receia que possa interpretar mal as suas palavras doces e preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es como sinais de que quer que voc\u00eas fa\u00e7am as pazes e voltem a estar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, as painful as it might be for you not to hear from your ex, he&#8217;s probably doing you a favor by not staying in touch.<\/p>\n<p>He isn&#8217;t feeding you with false hopes that you will get back together.<\/p>\n<h2>14. O facto de ele se tornar frio depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas a sua forma de a finalizar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86185\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-walking-alone.jpg\" alt=\"Homem a caminhar sozinho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-walking-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-walking-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-walking-alone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os homens lidam com as rupturas de forma diferente e t\u00eam uma maneira completamente diferente de pensar.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why them going cold is probably confirmation that things between you are over for good.<\/p>\n<p>Tentar ver as coisas melhor do que elas s\u00e3o na realidade \u00e9 um mecanismo de auto-defesa que muitas pessoas utilizam enquanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-estiver-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-dolorosa\/\">sobreviver a uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we wonder, &#8220;Why do guys go cold after a break-up?&#8221; when there is actually no reason for them to stay in touch when the relationship ends.<\/p>\n<p>Manter a amizade depois de um romance \u00e9 algo que s\u00f3 as pessoas que perderam os sentimentos uma pela outra muito tempo antes do fim oficial da rela\u00e7\u00e3o conseguem fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Em todas as outras situa\u00e7\u00f5es, uma das partes (a pessoa que deixou a casa) espera voltar a juntar-se \u00e0 outra parte (a pessoa que deixou a casa), o que nunca acaba bem para ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<h2>O que fazer quando um rapaz fica frio depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86200\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/focus-on-Mans-hands.jpg\" alt=\"concentrar-se nas m\u00e3os de Mans\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/focus-on-Mans-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/focus-on-Mans-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/focus-on-Mans-hands-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eu sei que o seu instinto inicial, quando um homem a ignora, \u00e9 ir atr\u00e1s dele com mais for\u00e7a ainda.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just something every human being is born to do. We are always more interested in the things we can&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<p>The good news is that men are wired the same way. They go after what&#8217;s slipping through their fingers.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se quiser ter o seu ex de volta ou apenas faz\u00ea-lo falar consigo novamente, <b>don&#8217;t chase after him\u2014<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ignore-get-attention-imple-tips\/\"><b>ignor\u00e1-lo para chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b>\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Spin the situation to suit you. If he is used to you being available all the time, texting for a second time when he doesn&#8217;t answer the first time and doing the impossible for him to notice you, just stop.<\/p>\n<p>Ele notar\u00e1 a sua aus\u00eancia melhor do que qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not about playing games and tricking him, it&#8217;s about knowing male psychology.<\/p>\n<p>Se os pressionarmos demasiado, se formos atr\u00e1s deles e tentarmos for\u00e7ar alguma coisa, eles afastar-se-\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you start focusing on yourself and your life and disappear from his phone and inbox, he will spend the next day wondering, &#8220;What happened? Did she lose interest?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86201\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-has-headache.jpg\" alt=\"Um homem tem dores de cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-has-headache.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-has-headache-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Guy-has-headache-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>H\u00e1 uma regra de ouro que todas as mulheres devem seguir quando passam por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o causada por <\/b><b>dor de cabe\u00e7a<\/b> and it&#8217;s well known and highly effective: The No Contact Rule.<\/p>\n<p>Sem contacto significa sem qualquer contacto, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/devo-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-parabens-ao-meu-ex\/\">nem sequer feliz anivers\u00e1rio<\/a> nem uma mensagem aleat\u00f3ria de boa noite, nem perguntar entre amigos comuns, nem consultar as suas contas nas redes sociais, etc.<\/p>\n<p>O <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/uma-visao-da-psicologia-masculina-durante-a-regra-de-nao-contacto\/\">efeito que a regra de n\u00e3o contacto tem na psicologia masculina<\/a> \u00e9 verdadeiramente not\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>If there is anything that can shake your boyfriend up and make him think, &#8220;God, how could I ever let this girl go?&#8221; it\u2019s the no contact rule.<\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes, as pessoas perguntam-se se os mesmos m\u00e9todos podem ser utilizados nos seus ex-maridos e, embora essas situa\u00e7\u00f5es sejam um pouco mais complicadas, a resposta continua a ser sim.<\/p>\n<p>No matter whether it&#8217;s a 10-year relationship, a marriage or a few months, the same rules apply.<\/p>\n<p><b>O que \u00e9 \u00f3timo <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/recuperacao-de-uma-separacao-90-dias-sem-contacto\/\"><b>sobre <\/b><b>a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/b> <\/a><b>\u00e9 que serve tanto como um m\u00e9todo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o como um meio de obter o seu <\/b><b>ex voltar<\/b><b> so it&#8217;s a win-win deal you have to take.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Afaste-se do seu ex e de toda essa situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Deixe-o vir ter consigo se alguma vez tiver uma epifania e perceber tudo o que perdeu quando o deixou ir.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, if his heart is in the right place, he will call, text and come after you with everything he&#8217;s got.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dele n\u00e3o estiver virado para si, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa fazer para o fazer mudar de ideias.<\/p>\n<p>If that&#8217;s the case, if things are truly over, you have to find a way to accept that and move on.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86196\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Worried-guy-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Homem preocupado num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Worried-guy-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Worried-guy-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Worried-guy-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The sooner you do that, no matter how hard it gets, the sooner you&#8217;ll heal.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing worse than deluding yourself and holding on to something that will never be.<\/p>\n<p>Take a long and deep look into yourself and ask yourself, &#8220;Do I deserve better than my ex?&#8221; I am sure your answer will be yes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Reconhe\u00e7a o seu pr\u00f3prio valor e atreva-se a pedir mais do que o seu ex lhe estava a dar.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Porque se olharmos para a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia, veremos que houve muito mais coisas m\u00e1s do que boas.<\/p>\n<p>You will see that he isn&#8217;t the right fit for you as you thought all along.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez haja algu\u00e9m muito mais adequado para si, mas ao agarrar-se t\u00e3o firmemente \u00e0 sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o passada, est\u00e1 a perder todas as coisas boas que est\u00e3o para vir. Est\u00e1 a perder um bom rapaz enquanto se concentra no rapaz errado.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t do that to yourself and stop asking, &#8220;Why do guys go cold after a break-up?&#8221; and start asking, &#8220;How can I make my life warmer, better and happier?&#8221;, &#8221; How can I attract a good guy into my life instead of obsessing about the wrong one?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86181\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Why-Do-Guys-Go-Cold-After-A-Break-Up-14-Absolute-Truths-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Porque \u00e9 que os homens ficam frios depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o? 14 verdades absolutas\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Why-Do-Guys-Go-Cold-After-A-Break-Up-14-Absolute-Truths-Pinterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Why-Do-Guys-Go-Cold-After-A-Break-Up-14-Absolute-Truths-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a number of reasons why guys go cold after a break-up and the sad truth is that half of those reasons are provoked by your post-break-up behavior and the other half have nothing to do with you but with his male mindset. It sounds harsh, I know, but in my humble opinion, it&#8217;s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":86182,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Why-Do-Guys-Go-Cold-After-A-Break-Up-14-Absolute-Truths.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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