{"id":50872,"date":"2020-12-21T19:22:49","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T19:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50872"},"modified":"2024-10-30T15:58:25","modified_gmt":"2024-10-30T14:58:25","slug":"definir-a-sua-quase-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/definir-a-sua-quase-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Este ano, defina a sua quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se trata de encontros modernos, n\u00e3o definir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre duas pessoas tornou-se completamente normal.<\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s like this has become a standard; you\u2019re even at risk of being called old-fashioned if you demand to know where you stand right from the start.<\/p>\n

After all, what\u2019s wrong with having some casual fun?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the harm in seeing a guy from time to time, sleeping with him with sem compromisso <\/a> e ir para a cama com ele sempre que vos apetece, sem quaisquer promessas para o futuro?<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all just living in the moment, right? Who cares what will happen tomorrow if we\u2019re enjoying each other\u2019s company right now?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m no Judge Judy and all of this is perfectly fine with me as long as both parties involved agree upon the nature of their relationship.<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa tem o direito de n\u00e3o querer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em determinadas alturas da sua vida e tudo o que tem de fazer \u00e9 ser completamente honesta sobre as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, sem enganar a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que as coisas se passam no seu caso, pois n\u00e3o? The truth is that you\u2019re not okay with this almost relationship you got yourself involved in.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

At first, you thought you could make it. You wanted to blend in with the masses and you wanted to try something new but obviously, you miscalculated things and you didn\u2019t evaluate your emotional capacities well.<\/p>\n

De facto, este situa\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> tem vindo a destruir-te por dentro h\u00e1 j\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n

Even though you don\u2019t want to admit it to yourself, let alone to your quase namorado<\/a>O facto \u00e9 que quer muito mais. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not comfortable with not labeling your relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not happy being with a guy who refuses to commit, who never swore his loyalty and who has no duty to be faithful to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

This type of arrangement doesn\u2019t suit you, as much as you try to convince him, yourself and the rest of the world that it does.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re settling for less by accepting the role of his part-time girlfriend, by seeing him occasionally, by not having the right to text him whenever you feel like it and by being his booty call.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que tem sentimentos crescentes por este homem, por mais que esteja a lutar contra eles.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Queres que ele seja o teu verdadeiro namorado e queres ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica s\u00e9ria com ele.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re too scared of coming clean. You\u2019re afraid of admitting your emotions because they were not part of the deal.<\/p>\n

You assume that he\u2019ll start perceiving you as too weak or pathetic.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll end up with both your ego and heart crushed into pieces if you give it a shot and be honest about your feelings and desires.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: this can happen.<\/p>\n

There is the possibility of this guy telling you that he doesn\u2019t want the same things you do, that he doesn\u2019t care about you enough to make you his girlfriend, that he doesn\u2019t find you two compatible or that he is simply not ready to commit right now. <\/b><\/p>\n

No entanto, even this case scenario is better than being left on hold; at least, you\u2019ll know where you stand and what you\u2019re dealing with. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know it\u2019s time to ditch all of your hopes, you\u2019ll walk away from him before you get yourself dragged into this mess even deeper and most importantly\u2014you\u2019ll stop wasting your time.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ll be hurt but the pain will go away.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m a possibilidade de voc\u00eas os dois estarem mesmo a trabalhar.<\/p>\n

A possibilidade de ele ter os mesmos dilemas que tu e a possibilidade de isto se transformar num conto de fadas da vida real.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, whatever happens, please, make your new year\u2019s resolution to put a stop to this agony.<\/b><\/p>\n

Em 2025, seja suficientemente corajoso para definir a sua quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o; <\/b>transform\u00e1-lo num verdadeiro<\/b><\/a> ou p\u00f4r-lhe fim.<\/b><\/p>\n

After all, whatever happens, at least you\u2019ll know you tried. You\u2019ll be proud of yourself for following your heart and for doing exactly what it wanted you to do.<\/p>\n

Sim, pode falhar, mas ser\u00e1 heroico. No entanto, em vez disso, podes voar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014either way, you\u2019ll feel much better than now.<\/p>\n

Estar ciente da pior verdade \u00e9 sempre melhor do que passar todos os dias na ignor\u00e2ncia, sem saber o que esperar e o que esperar.<\/p>\n

\"Este<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When it comes to modern dating, not defining a relationship between two people has become completely normal. In fact, it\u2019s like this has become a standard; you\u2019re even at risk of being called old-fashioned if you demand to know where you stand right from the start. After all, what\u2019s wrong with having some casual fun?…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":177402,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50872","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/This-Year-Define-Your-Almost-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50872","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50872"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50872\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":177403,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50872\/revisions\/177403"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/177402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50872"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50872"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50872"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}