{"id":5089,"date":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","date_gmt":"2017-09-16T09:46:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5089"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:14:52","slug":"a-rapariga-das-cartas-precisa-de-ser-apreciada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-rapariga-das-cartas-precisa-de-ser-apreciada\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que precisa de voltar a apreciar-se a si pr\u00f3pria"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o deixes que ningu\u00e9m te defina. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014<\/span>perdeste a defini\u00e7\u00e3o de ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need to let it come back. You need to open up and own up to your mistakes. You need to clear your mind and remember where you did wrong, so you don\u2019t do those mistakes ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need to learn from your mistakes, and you definitely mustn\u2019t blame or hate yourself for getting some things wrong.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No one is perfect. We all have flaws. They are here to serve us as a constant reminder that we are humans\u2014we are not machines. We must have ups and downs, heartbreak, and love. That is what makes us unique\u2014<\/span>a nossa humanidade, a nossa capacidade de sentir, de tocar. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Although you think you\u2019ve hit rock bottom now, there is a happy ending to your story. You just can\u2019t see it yet because you didn\u2019t read through the next few chapters that are leading to the grand finale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t whine, don\u2019t feel sorry for yourself.<\/a> If you treat yourself this way, others will, too. If you pity yourself, others will, too. You don\u2019t want that\u2014<\/span>N\u00c3O! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Queres que as pessoas te tratem com o respeito que mereces. Quer que olhem para si como uma pessoa forte e independente. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A person who is fearless\u2014ready to take down anything or anyone that comes her way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tens de te deixar ir. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important for you to realize that tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/a> God or whichever higher force you believe in has put you on this Earth for a reason and with a purpose. Each and every human being has its task. Only some don\u2019t figure it out right from the start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada nova bofetada na cara torna-nos mais fortes. Recupera-se e esquece-se!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tens de deixar de viver no passado.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nada do que fizeres agora vai mudar o que j\u00e1 aconteceu. N\u00e3o vale a pena lamentarmo-nos porque n\u00e3o h\u00e1 forma de mudar o passado. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you can do is to never do it again\u2014think about your future, and spare your future self what you\u2019re going through now.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Precisas finalmente de fazer as pazes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tens de ser uma pessoa maior. Tens de fazer as pazes com ele e com todos os que te fizeram mal. S\u00f3 assim encontrar\u00e1s for\u00e7as para seguir em frente e esquecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 assim conseguir\u00e1 curar-se. \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tens de te abra\u00e7ar a ti pr\u00f3prio. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 a coisa mais importante que temos de fazer. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Remember: that is not selfish or narcissistic. It\u2019s about respecting yourself and not letting everyone walk all over you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t let anyone define you. Once you had a clear vision of yourself. But then, he came along. Now, after he\u2019s done with you, you are lost. You\u2019ve lost that vision you once had\u2014you lost the definition of yourself. But don\u2019t stress about it. It will come back. The only thing is that you need…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/pexels-photo-365341.jpeg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5089\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}