{"id":50945,"date":"2020-01-09T18:55:07","date_gmt":"2020-01-09T18:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=50945"},"modified":"2022-04-27T11:59:25","modified_gmt":"2022-04-27T11:59:25","slug":"como-te-vais-embora-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-te-vais-embora-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se vai embora, mesmo quando \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que se quer fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estala os dedos e acorda do sonho louco. <\/b>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>That\u2019s the first thing you need to do. Stop living in delusion and stop hoping he will finally pay attention that you exist and that you love him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deixar de correr para ele. P\u00e1ra de fazer planos de acordo com ele. P\u00e1ra de planear a tua vida em sincronia com a dele, porque ele nunca faria o mesmo por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele esmagar-te-ia s\u00f3 para se sentir feliz, e provavelmente j\u00e1 fez algo assim antes. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re just denying it because you\u2019re refusing to accept the truth. The truth is too painful for you to face. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o perguntem porqu\u00ea!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Medo,<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma raz\u00e3o espec\u00edfica para isso. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 previs\u00e3o de quando vai parar ou de que Deus est\u00e1 a castigar-te<\/a> for something bad you\u2019ve done. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por vezes, a vida d\u00e1-nos uma m\u00e3o de merda e temos de lidar com ela. Por vezes, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para algo ter acontecido, simplesmente aconteceu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of wrapping your mind around why this misfortune happened to you, ask yourself why you can\u2019t forgive and forget. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ask yourself why you can\u2019t ou move on with your life, burying the memory of devastating love deep in your past. <\/span><\/p>\n

Encarar a verdade!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Even you know deep inside that the man who broke your heart wasn\u2019t the right man for you from the moment you met him. <\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 tu tiveste o pressentimento de que as coisas se iam desmoronar mais tarde, mas ignoraste-o porque era tentador. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o era diferente e nova. Ele deu-te a aten\u00e7\u00e3o que sempre sonhaste ter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eras algu\u00e9m que importava pela primeira vez em muito tempo. Foi isso que te fez perder o rumo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Foi isso que manchou os seus olhos e desfocou a sua vis\u00e3o clara do futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Podias ter tomado uma decis\u00e3o melhor, mas a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: terias aprendido a mesma li\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o. O seu desgosto aconteceu por uma raz\u00e3o, a sua luta para tomar a decis\u00e3o certa est\u00e1 a acontecer por uma raz\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes what we\u2019re going through is totally unrelated to the present, it\u2019s unimportant for what is happening right now but it\u2019s of crucial importance for what\u2019s coming next.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make the first step\u2014it\u2019s just like ripping off a Band-Aid. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s the most painful and the most difficult step to take. But it\u2019s the most liberating one. You simply have to cut yourself off from him without thinking about it twice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tens de apagar todas as mensagens que ele te enviou. Apag\u00e1-lo de todas as redes sociais. Na verdade, apaga tudo o que te faz lembrar dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

E as palavras dele que est\u00e3o a ressoar na sua mente? <\/b><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m se pode livrar deles. Podes livrar-te deles muito facilmente. Faz-te entender que as palavras dele nunca significaram nada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nada do que ele te disse era verdade, nem vinha do cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era um monte de mentiras, <\/span>um monte de promessas vazias<\/span><\/a> disse para te levar para a cama ou para conseguir o que quer que fosse que ele precisava de ti naquele momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s merciless to think this way but I\u2019m afraid it\u2019s the cold and harsh truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

The sooner you realize you were just a casualty to him and never nothing bigger than that, the sooner you\u2019ll be able to rip yourself from him and move on with your life the way you deserve it. <\/span><\/p>\n

O penso r\u00e1pido s\u00f3 pode arder depois de o tirar. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

The aftershock is coming! Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking you\u2019ve done it on the first try. It\u2019s never that easy. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be like a junkie without your drug for too long. You\u2019ll want the dose, you\u2019ll want the fix because you need it. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>Nesses momentos, far\u00edamos qualquer coisa s\u00f3 para o ver e tocar de novo. Nesses momentos, dar\u00edamos tudo por tudo e perder\u00edamos toda a nossa dignidade s\u00f3 para o abra\u00e7ar mais uma vez e o sentir \u00e0 nossa volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fight it with everything you have because that feeling doesn\u2019t last. It\u2019s just a moment of weakness followed by\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Lembrar-se da sua vida antes dele. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de que a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 sobre ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembra-se de quem era antes de o conhecer e compara-o com o que \u00e9 hoje. S\u00e3o duas pessoas muito diferentes e sei que odeias a que \u00e9s agora. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, para voltar a ser a mulher confiante e feliz que j\u00e1 foi, tem de o abandonar e a todas as recorda\u00e7\u00f5es que tem dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembre-se dos planos que tinha antes de o conhecer. Lembre-se dos objectivos e sonhos que queria alcan\u00e7ar, mas que foram adiados quando o conheceu. <\/span>
\n<\/span>
\n<\/span>You can do all of that now. You\u2019re free to do whatever you want now. <\/b><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que tem de fazer \u00e9 dar esse passo em frente para o futuro que merece.<\/b><\/p>\n

O resto \u00e9 com o destino. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to be alone for the rest of your life but you don\u2019t have to worry about it either. Karma brings presents at just the right time. And you\u2019re in for a big surprise. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone who has suffered and didn\u2019t deserve it will be rewarded sooner or later. You\u2019re up next, trust me. <\/span><\/p>\n

God will reward you because you\u2019re honest. <\/b><\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t done anything wrong. This time, you are just a victim of a cruel reality. <\/span>Deixar o resto para Deus<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deus far\u00e1 com que tenhas a tua justi\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever happens to the man you loved, don\u2019t sweat it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think about it. Even if he apologizes to you and begs you to come back, even if he changes or if you never hear from him again, don\u2019t think about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deus conduzi-lo-\u00e1 pelo caminho que deve seguir. <\/span><\/p>\n

No final, n\u00e3o saber o que vai acontecer \u00e9 sempre mais divertido.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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