{"id":51049,"date":"2020-01-11T15:59:45","date_gmt":"2020-01-11T15:59:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51049"},"modified":"2022-09-20T08:35:32","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T08:35:32","slug":"luta-pelo-poder-nas-relacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/luta-pelo-poder-nas-relacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de alerta de luta pelo poder nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"

De acordo com a maioria dos <\/span>especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span>, a <\/span>luta pelo poder<\/span> n\u00e3o \u00e9 nada de invulgar no <\/span>in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> com algu\u00e9m novo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to show this person that they can\u2019t play with you and you see this as a way of earning their respect.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que isso seja infantil e completamente in\u00fatil, <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> em <\/span>novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span> s\u00e3o, de facto, bastante comuns e n\u00e3o s\u00e3o motivo de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na maior parte dos casos, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 um sinal de alarme de que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 <\/span>condenado ao fracasso<\/span><\/a>, como este <\/span>fase de luta pelo poder<\/span> will go away the moment you two get to know each other and become more certain in the other person\u2019s feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, se <\/span>lutas de poder numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> continuar, mesmo ap\u00f3s algum tempo, pode ser bastante alarmante. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clear sign of deeply rooted insecurities and fragile egos in both partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando isto acontece, o romance deixa de existir como uma parceria igualit\u00e1ria e passa a ser uma competi\u00e7\u00e3o, o que n\u00e3o \u00e9 de forma alguma um ambiente saud\u00e1vel. Parece-me familiar, certo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, se for esse o caso, deve continuar a ler e ver se consegue relacionar a si e ao seu parceiro com alguns dos sinais mencionados abaixo.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re both stubborn<\/h2>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

A primeira coisa comum aos casais que lidam com <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> \u00e9 o facto de todos eles terem personalidades incrivelmente fortes. <\/span><\/p>\n

These are usually hard-headed people who find it impossible to change their minds, listen to someone else\u2019s advice, or look at things from another <\/span>ponto de vista<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

These are the people who don\u2019t give up easily on something they set their minds to and whose stubbornness is their most dominant quality. <\/span><\/p>\n

As soon as something doesn’t go the way they planned it to be, <\/span>sentimentos de impot\u00eancia<\/span> overwhelm them \u2013 and that is something they can’t stand. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vendo as coisas por este \u00e2ngulo, estes tra\u00e7os de personalidade parecem bastante apelativos. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, the last thing you want is a partner who doesn\u2019t know what they want and doesn\u2019t stand behind their words.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, a teimosia n\u00e3o \u00e9 boa para nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, muito menos para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. <\/span><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 exatamente isso que se passa entre si e o seu parceiro.<\/span><\/p>\n

It appears that both of you would rather die than admit that you\u2019re wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

You rarely change your mind and admit something was your fault, even when deep down you know you\u2019ve made a mistake.<\/span><\/p>\n

This type of arrangement can only work when one person is hard-headed, while the other doesn\u2019t have a problem bending a little (even though this isn\u2019t a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span> either \u2013 nobody should be forced to take over the role of a people pleaser or deal with <\/span>sentimentos de impot\u00eancia<\/span> apenas para evitar que um ente querido se afaste).<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, no seu caso, n\u00e3o se trata de um <\/span>tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante-submissa<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you both want supremacy and you\u2019re both used to being in charge; that\u2019s exactly why all these <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> est\u00e3o a acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. There\u2019s no compromise<\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Stubborn people don\u2019t compromise. You and your significant other never put an effort into finding <\/span>terreno comum<\/span>A decis\u00e3o de encontrar um meio-termo e tomar uma decis\u00e3o que satisfa\u00e7a as necessidades de ambos.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o existe <\/span>formas saud\u00e1veis<\/span> of communication, no understanding, no trying to look at things from the other person\u2019s <\/span>ponto de vista<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you ever take a walk in your partner\u2019s shoes, try to comprehend how they feel, and try to get to the bottom of the struggles they\u2019re going through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, a \u00fanica coisa que importa \u00e9 a sua perspetiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re both quite <\/span>ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/a> and rarely take the other person\u2019s needs, desires, and feelings into consideration.<\/span><\/p>\n

Relacionadas: 35 sinais de alerta nas redes sociais para ter cuidado com as rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Fazem ci\u00fames um ao outro<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 a little bit of jealousy in <\/span>amor rom\u00e2ntico<\/span> \u00e9 giro. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 o caso, nomeadamente, da <\/span>in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> quando os dois est\u00e3o apenas a conhecer-se.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want to appear too desperate in front of your new date. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want them to think you\u2019ve spent your entire life patiently waiting for them, as if you had no other options and would\u2019ve remained single forever if they didn\u2019t come along.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, sabe que essa pessoa se apaixonar\u00e1 mais por si se sentir um pouco de concorr\u00eancia ao virar da esquina. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ter\u00e3o medo de o perder antes mesmo de o conquistar a s\u00e9rio e esse medo despertar\u00e1 sentimentos mais fortes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, um pouco de ci\u00fame pode ser um sinal de que a outra pessoa se preocupa. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o seria natural que o seu parceiro fosse completamente indiferente \u00e0 possibilidade de ser substitu\u00eddo e n\u00e3o se importasse, por exemplo, que namoriscasse com outras pessoas \u00e0 frente dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, making the other person jealous even though you\u2019re in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span> \u00e9 definitivamente um sinal de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9 exatamente isso que voc\u00ea e o seu ente querido t\u00eam vindo a fazer desde que se lembra.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019re not doing anything behind each other\u2019s back, you feel enormous satisfaction whenever you notice you managed to shake their sense of security. <\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that neither of you cross the line, so you can\u2019t think that the other person is actually having an affair, but you both use every opportunity to make each other jealous.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Problemas<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you keep bringing your ex to the table, comparing each other to other people, whether you have a habit of flirting right in front of each other, texting other people, or simply disappearing for hours, leaving them wondering what you\u2019ve been up to \u2013 your sneaky intention is what matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ambos querem que a outra pessoa sinta que pode ser facilmente substitu\u00edda e privam-na de um sentimento de seguran\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, sempre que voc\u00eas os dois lutam ou <\/span>romper<\/span>, you both make sure your significant other thinks you\u2019ve found someone new in a matter of seconds, even if this person doesn\u2019t even exist.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s clear that you both seek confirmation of your partner\u2019s feelings through jealousy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer que eles o vejam como desejado e desej\u00e1vel e quer que vivam com medo constante de o perderem num piscar de olhos.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of this might sound interesting, but it\u2019s actually a \u00e9 um sinal vermelho de que algo est\u00e1 muito errado no vosso romance. <\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

A serious relationship doesn\u2019t bring any doubts and insecurities \u2013 it makes both people in it secure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing. Jealousy is not a proof of genuine feelings. Instead, it\u2019s a sign of someone\u2019s huge ego. <\/span><\/p>\n

And just because your partner acts like they couldn\u2019t stand seeing you with someone else, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they love you for real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe they just couldn\u2019t bear the possibility of someone taking what\u2019s theirs.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember: Just because you\u2019re a couple, you don\u2019t magically own each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, doing things in spite of each other won\u2019t bring you anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. It\u2019s important who sends the first text<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Quando conhecemos uma pessoa nova, calculamos todos os nossos movimentos, incluindo os textos que enviamos. <\/span><\/p>\n

You measure the time of their last reply and make sure you don\u2019t rush with your answer (so they don\u2019t notice that you spent hours staring at your phone, waiting for a text back.) <\/span><\/p>\n

Evita enviar-lhes mensagens duplas ou triplas. <\/span>Pode acompanhar quem enviou mais mensagens de bom dia ou de <\/span>textos de boa noite<\/span><\/a>, quem enviou que emoji, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por muito que tudo isto possa parecer imaturo, a verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s o fazemos. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to appear too needy or look like you don\u2019t have a life of your own.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, esta \u00e9 outra pr\u00e1tica que termina quando se entra numa <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span>. Pelo menos na maioria dos casais.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, tudo, incluindo isto, \u00e9 muito diferente entre si e o seu parceiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you two, it is still important who sends the first text during the day, who takes longer to reply, and who\u2019s the first one to reach out when you\u2019re in a fight.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, estes jogos mentais incluem tamb\u00e9m as redes sociais. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ambos registam quem viu primeiro a hist\u00f3ria de quem, quem colocou mais gostos e coment\u00e1rios na atualiza\u00e7\u00e3o de estado de quem e quem publicou uma fotografia vossa juntos no mural dele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parece frustrante e enervante, certo? Bem, para al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m perigoso para o futuro da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the worst thing is you don\u2019t talk about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, enquanto todos estes <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> are happening, you\u2019re both pretending that everything is in perfect order and all of this is normal and usual.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, if you\u2019re involved with a person who\u2019ll see you as a lunatic or stalker just because you sent them a few text messages in a row, maybe it is time to reconsider your choice. <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s mesmo disposto a jogar estes jogos para o resto da tua vida?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. E quem inicia os encontros<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

O mesmo se passa com os vossos encontros. Apesar da dura\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ambos ainda se preocupam em saber quem prop\u00f4s mais encontros e quem convidou quem para um encontro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you want to see your partner today, you won\u2019t <\/span>convid\u00e1-los a sair<\/span><\/a> s\u00f3 porque o fizeste das \u00faltimas tr\u00eas vezes. Que infantilidade!<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you should go around, begging someone to spend time with you while they couldn\u2019t care less whether they\u2019ll see you or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, ser\u00e1 que importa realmente quem iniciou mais encontros, depois de todo este tempo?<\/span><\/p>\n

O que tem de ter em mente \u00e9 que todos estes c\u00e1lculos, para al\u00e9m de serem infantis e sem sentido, est\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m a diminuir a qualidade da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see each other way less than you would both like to and you both get frustrated if you feel like you\u2019re dragging the other person by the sleeve.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Competir quando se trata de dinheiro<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Outro sinal seguro de <\/span>lutas de poder numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> est\u00e1 fortemente ligado ao dinheiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re in a committed romance, it\u2019s perfectly natural that both partners share everything they have, but this is not the case between you and your significant other. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m not saying it\u2019s acceptable for one person to take care of all expenses while the other acts like a typical gold digger. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 realmente importante quem paga mais e, mais importante ainda, quem ganha mais?<\/span><\/p>\n

But this is exactly what\u2019s going on between you and your partner. No, neither of you avoids taking the check \u2013 you’re actually doing completely the opposite. <\/span><\/p>\n

Parece que voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o a competir sobre quem tem mais dinheiro e quem ganha mais. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t wait to brag to your partner about your new purchase and make it clear that you\u2019re the one who can afford more. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same goes with your careers as well. You use every opportunity to put each other’s jobs down and present them as totally irrelevant. <\/span><\/p>\n

A <\/span>amor maduro<\/span> rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> is about pushing each other to accomplish more. It certainly doesn’t include lowering the other person’s <\/span>autoestima<\/span> and making them feel as less worthy just because they’re not doing their dream job at the moment or because they earn less money than you. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. It matters who\u2019s right <\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Todos os casais discutem<\/a> \u2013 there\u2019s absolutely no doubt about that and whoever\u2019s trying to convince you otherwise is lying. <\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal, de acordo com quase todos os <\/span>especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span>uma discuss\u00e3o de vez em quando \u00e9 uma das <\/span>desafios da rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span> que todos n\u00f3s enfrentamos e, na verdade, um sinal de <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s perfectly normal for two people to disagree on something. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, pode n\u00e3o ter problemas no <\/span>per\u00edodo de lua de mel<\/span><\/a>mas assim que se tiram os \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa e se v\u00ea o <\/span>fase do amor rom\u00e2ntico<\/span> passes, it\u2019s inevitable for some things regarding your partner to start bothering you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dito isto, se o que tem \u00e9 um <\/span>amor maduro<\/span>as vossas lutas ser\u00e3o produtivas. Ser\u00e1 \u00fatil para ambos encontrarem uma <\/span>terreno comum<\/span> and solution to whatever you’re dealing with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias, s\u00e3o sempre os dois contra o problema. <\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o unidos, \u00e0 procura de uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o e da melhor forma de p\u00f4r este assunto para tr\u00e1s das costas, sem que isso afecte ainda mais a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

Formas saud\u00e1veis<\/span> de discutir incluem parceiros que <\/span>assumir responsabilidades<\/span> and don’t have a problem with admitting they are guilty. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eles trabalhar nos seus <\/a><\/span>comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> compet\u00eancias<\/span> e fazer o seu melhor para ultrapassar esta fase e avan\u00e7ar para a <\/span>fase seguinte<\/span> da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, quando se trata de si e do seu parceiro, as coisas n\u00e3o est\u00e3o nem perto disso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, v\u00ea cada um destes <\/span>desafios de relacionamento<\/span> como uma amea\u00e7a que pode p\u00f4r fim \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nenhum de v\u00f3s est\u00e1 pronto para <\/span>assumir responsabilidades<\/span> for their actions and instead of trying to work things out, the only thing that matters is who\u2019s right and who got what they wanted. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t look for closure, you look for a personal victory. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando lutam, esquecem-se das vossas <\/span>compet\u00eancias de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span>, you insult and humiliate each other, and even when you realize that you\u2019re wrong, you don\u2019t admit your mistakes, even if your life depends on it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo quando o seu parceiro tenta chamar-lhe a aten\u00e7\u00e3o para as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, v\u00ea isso como um ataque. Em vez de ouvir os seus argumentos, o seu <\/span>defensividade<\/span> acorda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, you never get to the bottom of the problem nor do you make sure it doesn’t repeat. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, ambos acabam por ficar ressentidos, guardando rancores como muni\u00e7\u00f5es para disparar contra o seu parceiro assim que surgir a pr\u00f3xima oportunidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. E quem se importa mais<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Whether you’re aware of this or not, the final goal of each one of these <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> \u00e9 apenas uma coisa: n\u00e3o ser aquele que <\/span>adora mais<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You make your partner jealous and don’t want to be the one who first professes love, the one who forgives more, or the one who initiates dates just out of fear that you’ll be left hanging. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 compreens\u00edvel e, de certa forma, aceit\u00e1vel no in\u00edcio <\/span>palco do amor<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re overly careful because you still don’t know who you’re dealing with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared that you’re the only one who fell in love while the other person couldn’t care less, and you don’t want to make a fool out of yourself by exposing your true emotions right away. <\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you wants to be the one who says “I love you” first and you don’t want to admit how crazy you actually are for the other person, until you\u2019re certain of their emotions too. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t want to be the first to show your vulnerabilities, who invests in more effort and shows more affection, and who puts themselves out there completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, recusa-se a derrubar as grossas paredes que rodeiam a sua verdadeira personalidade e continua a agir sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, quando o seu <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span> atinge o <\/span>fase seguinte<\/span>Se o seu filho n\u00e3o tiver a certeza de que o seu filho est\u00e1 a ser tratado como um homem, tudo isto dever\u00e1 tornar-se uma coisa do passado. <\/span><\/p>\n

O <\/span>per\u00edodo de lua de mel<\/span> is over and you two are still together, which makes it obvious that you love each other. So what\u2019s the point of faking indifference? <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, o fim do <\/span>fase de luta pelo poder<\/span> \u00e9 o momento em que ambos devem esfor\u00e7ar-se por provar um ao outro a intensidade e a for\u00e7a do vosso amor incondicional. <\/span><\/p>\n

The period in which you should compete in who loves whom more, instead of doing everything in your power to show that you’re the one who cares less. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Fazes jogos mentais<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Envio de sinais contradit\u00f3rios, <\/span>soprando quente e frio<\/span><\/a>, pretending to be hard to get \u2013 these are all signs of low <\/span>autoestima<\/span> e inseguran\u00e7as. <\/span><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, isto tornou-se um padr\u00e3o habitual na maioria das <\/span>novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span> na data\u00e7\u00e3o moderna. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what\u2019s even worse is when this kind of behavior continues \u2013 and this is what’s happening to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de ter <\/span>comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/span> e ser completamente honesto com o seu parceiro sobre os seus sentimentos, desejos, medos mais profundos e objectivos da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, est\u00e1 a fazer completamente o oposto. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re bothered with something your significant other did, you give them the silent treatment, instead of talking things through like adults. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of telling them when you’re hurt and kindly asking them not to repeat their mistakes, you plot your revenge and wait for the best opportunity to get even.<\/span><\/p>\n

Neither of you is consistent and you’re not constants in each other’s lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you’re always in some kind of an on-and-off relationship in which you basically never know where you stand. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are periods when you act like you couldn’t live without each other and then days when you act like each other\u2019s worst enemy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Entra e sai, e fica preso num c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel de <\/span>separa\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span> and makeups, in which it\u2019s only important who came crawling back more often and who was the one who left more times. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your relationship would be non-existent if you’re both not putting in effort into dissecting the other person’s texts, words, and actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nada \u00e9 claro e nunca se sabe o que o amanh\u00e3 nos trar\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, this might sound thrilling \u2013 it\u2019s never boring and it keeps the sparkle alive. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 um grande sinal de alerta e, definitivamente, n\u00e3o constitui uma base para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcional no futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. Voc\u00eas deitam-se uns aos outros abaixo<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Outro sinal claro de que um casal est\u00e1 a lidar com <\/span>lutas pelo poder<\/span> (ou passando por um <\/span>fase de luta pelo poder<\/span>) numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma como aproveitam todas as oportunidades para se rebaixarem um ao outro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see, when you’re in a mature relationship, you and your significant other have <\/span>comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/span> and can tell each other everything, but as relaxed as you are, you don’t call each other names nor do you use jokes that you know might hurt the other person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, consigo e com o seu parceiro, tudo \u00e9 bastante diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

You’re constantly insulting humiliating each other (especially in front of others) and do everything you can to show the other person they’re beneath you in every way possible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of praising your loved one, you’re using every opportunity to point out their flaws, make them look bad, and feel as if they’re <\/span>n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que ambos querem ser dominantes e pensam que a \u00fanica forma de o conseguir \u00e9 desvalorizar ao m\u00e1ximo a outra pessoa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, ambos se recusam a aceitar que, se querem que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione, t\u00eam de ser uma equipa. <\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no leader and no follower \u2013 you’re equal partners who should go through life shoulder to shoulder next to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

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