Os casais casados eram uma parte privilegiada da sociedade, enquanto as mulheres e os homens solteiros eram menosprezados. <\/p>\n
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Felizmente, tudo isso mudou. Atualmente, a decis\u00e3o de nunca se casar n\u00e3o \u00e9 um grande problema.<\/p>\n
In fact, more and more people start noticing the perks of a single life and make the choice of never saying: \u201cI do\u201d.<\/p>\n
But how can you know if you\u2019re one of those people and whether ser solteiro<\/a> \u00e9 a coisa certa para si? <\/p>\n Just read the following signs, and if you can relate to most of them, it is pretty obvious that you\u2019ll probably never get married.<\/p>\n No entanto, a melhor parte \u00e9 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de remotamente errado nisso.<\/p>\n De acordo com muitos estudos, infelizmente, a raz\u00e3o n\u00famero um pela qual as pessoas se casam est\u00e1 completamente errada.<\/p>\n No, they don\u2019t experience a moment of epiphany in which they know they\u2019ve met the right one, and they don\u2019t do it out of love\u2014they do it out of fear of solitude.<\/p>\n V\u00eaem toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta acalmar-se<\/a>, and at one point, they become terrified that they\u2019ll end up alone without anyone to grow old next to.<\/p>\n Quando isso acontece, todos os crit\u00e9rios desaparecem. Muitos ficam desesperados e escolhem a primeira pessoa com quem se cruzam diretamente no corredor.<\/p>\n Well, this is where you\u2019re different. It is not that you despite company, but to be honest, you\u2019re quite a loner.<\/p>\n Sim, tem muitos amigos e familiares com quem convive. No entanto, aprecia demasiado o seu espa\u00e7o pessoal e o seu tempo para come\u00e7ar a partilh\u00e1-lo com outra pessoa, apesar do amor que possa sentir por ela.<\/p>\n You have your own habits and routines, and you don\u2019t allow anyone interfering in your schedule.<\/p>\n Sabendo tudo isto, \u00e9 evidente que gosta do seu estatuto de solteiro e tira o melhor partido dele.<\/p>\n You not having a romantic partner is not something life circumstances imposed on you\u2014you embraced your single life because you consciously chose it.<\/p>\n For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been self-sufficient. You knew you were more than enough, and you never needed another human being to give your existence meaning.<\/p>\n It is not that you\u2019re incapable of loving\u2014you simply don\u2019t have a habit of hanging on to one person and allowing your entire world to collapse once they disappear.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, sabe que \u00e9 capaz de se safar sozinho, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n You\u2019re an incredibly independent person who doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s guidance. And when I say independent, I mean truly independente<\/a> on all levels: financially, emotionally, socially…<\/p>\n Ever since you were a little kid, you haven\u2019t expected anyone to do your work for you, to resolve your problems or to get you out of trouble.<\/p>\n You are not the type of person who is constantly looking for a shoulder to cry on or needs someone\u2019s assistance when it comes to choices you makes.<\/p>\n You might listen to someone else\u2019s advice, but you\u2019re always the one who has the final say regarding all decisions in your life. In fact, you wouldn\u2019t be able to stand having someone tell you what to do.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need a leader or a tutor because you\u2019re capable of achieving everything you\u2019ve set your mind to without anyone\u2019s help.<\/p>\n More importantly, you couldn\u2019t imagine your life deprived of this independence which makes up a crucial part of your personality or having to give someone a chance to limit your freedom in any way.<\/p>\n Se formos honestos, a verdade \u00e9 que don\u2019t believe in love<\/a>.<\/p>\n Pelo menos, n\u00e3o no amor rom\u00e2ntico, incondicional, que dura toda a vida e tem o poder de vencer qualquer obst\u00e1culo que surja no seu caminho.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t perceive it the way it is presented in romantic comedies: as this omnipotent force nothing and nobody can destroy.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t believe in the concepts of soulmates, true love, and twin flame connections.<\/p>\n You\u2019re just too practical for these beliefs to guide you through life. You\u2019re not romantic, and you\u2019ve never dreamt of meeting your other half.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que acredita que as pessoas podem gostar muito umas das outras. No entanto, de acordo com a sua opini\u00e3o, h\u00e1 sempre um pouco de ego\u00edsmo em todos os amores rom\u00e2nticos, e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que queira para si.<\/p>\n You believe in mutual respect and appreciation. You think that two people can function together if they\u2019re compatible and convenient for each other\u2014not because a chemical in their brains and butterflies in their stomach told them they should.<\/p>\n Therefore, for you, the concept of forever and \u201cuntil death do us part\u201d is just a fairytale which is impossible to maintain in real life.<\/p>\n Segundo a sua opini\u00e3o, as pessoas acabam por se cansar umas das outras, mas continuam casadas porque n\u00e3o t\u00eam para onde ir.<\/p>\n And if that is the point of marriage, you\u2019d rather pass it by.<\/p>\n Outra coisa que pode ser a raz\u00e3o pela qual don\u2019t want to get married<\/a> est\u00e1 em tudo o que se v\u00ea, para onde quer que se olhe.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t see love and respect. You see people living their lives in misery; you see serial cheaters, abusers\u2026<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re a child of divorced parents. It is possible that you spent your entire life looking at the two of them arguing but remaining together just because of that piece of paper.<\/p>\n Ou repara que tanto os seus amigos homens como as suas amigas mulheres sofrem no casamento.<\/p>\n You see that married couples either end up with a nasty divorce or with the silent resentment of two people who can\u2019t stand each other but don\u2019t leave.<\/p>\n De qualquer modo, para si, parece que o casamento \u00e9 sin\u00f3nimo de infelicidade. <\/p>\n Depois de tudo o que testemunhou, por que raz\u00e3o acreditaria que poderia ser de outra forma?<\/p>\n E por que raz\u00e3o se exporia quando tem claramente zero hip\u00f3teses de ser bem sucedido?<\/p>\n Maybe this is something you wouldn\u2019t admit to anyone, including yourself, but the truth is that deep down, you\u2019re terrified of any unnecessary change.<\/p>\n Gosta da sua vida tal como ela \u00e9 e adora estar preso na sua zona de conforto.<\/p>\n O casamento ir\u00e1 inevitavelmente introduzir algumas diferen\u00e7as cruciais na sua exist\u00eancia quotidiana.<\/p>\n Quer queiras quer n\u00e3o, ter\u00e1s de te adaptar a esta nova pessoa que se tornou uma parte crucial da tua vida.<\/p>\n That is what scares you the most: having to modify yourself just to please someone else, having to change your daily habits and customs to fit the other person in, not being able to make important decisions without consulting them\u2026 and the list goes on.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not only that. You\u2019re also repulsed by the idea of bringing some minor differences to your life such as having to clear space in your clothes closet for your marital partner\u2019s clothes, disturbing your sleep schedule or seeing your friends less often.<\/p>\n Algu\u00e9m pode chamar-lhe cobarde, mas odeia saltar para o desconhecido.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t know how well you could get by in this new union, and you would rather remain blissfully uninformed than give it a shot in marriage and fail.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re male or female: both boys and girls have dreamt of their wedding when they were kids.<\/p>\n Most of us imagined the wedding dress or tuxedo we\u2019d be wearing and how that magical moment under the aisle would look.<\/p>\n Well, you didn\u2019t. Moreover, you\u2019ve always despised even being invited to weddings.<\/p>\n You see them as unnecessary and in most cases, tacky, and you don\u2019t see the point in spending this happy day surrounded by, among others, random friends and distant family members whom you couldn\u2019t care less about.<\/p>\n Considera a dia do casamento<\/a> uma fonte de stress para os rec\u00e9m-casados. <\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 que v\u00e3o poder pagar tudo? Todos os convidados ficar\u00e3o satisfeitos?<\/p>\n Ir\u00e1 tudo correr como planeado? <\/p>\n Not only that, you were never into proposals either. You never saw any romance in a man going down on one knee and buying a ring he can\u2019t afford just to pop this infamous question.<\/p>\n Who would consciously choose all of this just to make an impression? You surely wouldn\u2019t, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n Bem, j\u00e1 alguma vez pensaram se n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 apenas o vosso \u00f3dio em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao pr\u00f3prio dia do casamento?<\/p>\n Could this be your subconscious repulsion towards the entire marriage thing and a subtle sign you don\u2019t want to get married?<\/p>\n De facto, tamb\u00e9m nunca gostou de tradi\u00e7\u00f5es e costumes. N\u00e3o via sentido em as pessoas seguirem os h\u00e1bitos dos seus antepassados praticados h\u00e1 d\u00e9cadas ou mesmo s\u00e9culos, sem qualquer raz\u00e3o l\u00f3gica.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not someone who blindly follows stereotypes, and you do everything in your power to avoid blending into the masses.<\/p>\n Your life decisions have nothing to do with societal standards and norms, so you never get pressured into doing something you actually don\u2019t want just so you won\u2019t be called a weirdo.<\/p>\n Therefore, you\u2019re not afraid of anyone judging you or commenting on your life choices just because you decide to remain unwed.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinions and expectations and don\u2019t let them guide you.<\/p>\n Consequently, you don\u2019t think that finding a life partner and having kids should be every person\u2019s final goal and purpose in this world.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o tem qualquer problema em ficar sozinho, mesmo que isso contrarie todas as normas em que foi educado.<\/p>\n Para si, um casamento legal n\u00e3o representa literalmente nada. \u00c9 apenas um peda\u00e7o de papel que n\u00e3o tem qualquer valor. <\/p>\n Se amamos algu\u00e9m e esse algu\u00e9m nos ama de volta, podemos passar o resto da vida juntos, sem ter de preencher essa formalidade e assinar esse peda\u00e7o de papel.<\/p>\n Desta forma, se alguma vez decidirem separar-se, podem simplesmente afastar-se um do outro, sem fazer um grande alarido e sem se envolverem em diferentes procedimentos legais que tornam todo o processo mais dif\u00edcil do que deveria ser. <\/p>\n A \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 ter de correr para os tribunais e divorciar-se do seu c\u00f4njuge \u00e0 frente de todo o mundo, para al\u00e9m de passar por um doloroso desgosto. <\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, pensa que a institui\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento n\u00e3o passa de uma inven\u00e7\u00e3o social que n\u00e3o tem qualquer sentido real.<\/p>\n You don’t mind living unwed with your loved one and never going down the aisle. <\/p>\n Contrary to popular opinion, it is not in everyone’s blood to want to have heirs. Some people don’t want kids, and that is their right. <\/p>\n Mesmo que ainda n\u00e3o esteja 100% seguro desta decis\u00e3o, a verdade \u00e9 que nunca foi do tipo infantil.<\/p>\n You thought that this natural instinct would come to you with time, but that isn’t happening. <\/p>\n You simply love your life enough that you don’t want to change it. You don’t feel the need to have a child and don’t think you would be a good parent. <\/p>\n Alguns podem chamar-lhe ego\u00edsta, mas tem o direito de n\u00e3o querer ser respons\u00e1vel por trazer outro ser humano a este mundo cruel.<\/p>\n Besides, being honest about this is way better than having kids just because society, your family or your significant other expects you to and then making everyone\u2019s lives a living hell. <\/p>\n Of course, you don’t have to get married in order to reproduce. You can always be a single parent or have kids with someone who won’t be your spouse. <\/p>\n However, having this kind of attitude can also be a red flag that you’re not marriage material and that you couldn’t imagine yourself living a happy, married life.<\/p>\n No entanto, se isto se revelar errado e encontrar uma pessoa com quem queira envelhecer, certifique-se de que tem os mesmos desejos e objectivos futuros em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos filhos (e a tudo o resto) desde o in\u00edcio. <\/p>\n Another one of the signs that you\u2019ll never get married lies in your high standards. Don’t get me wrong\u2014I’m not accusing you of being demasiado exigente<\/a>.<\/p>\n I’m just pointing out that you have some deal breakers when it comes to the person you see as marriage material, which is a good thing. <\/p>\n Afinal, trata-se de algu\u00e9m que deve ser o seu companheiro de vida nos dias bons e maus, e a pessoa cujo rosto ser\u00e1 a primeira coisa que ver\u00e1 para o resto da sua vida.<\/p>\n Por isso, \u00e9 perfeitamente natural que toda a gente seja extremamente cuidadosa na escolha do seu parceiro conjugal. <\/p>\n You’re someone who refuses to settle for less. You don’t want to get married to someone you’re not compatible with nor are you ready to end up stuck in a loveless marriage. <\/p>\n Instead, you’re looking for the perfect person who can reach all of your standards and criteria. Yes, there is a possibility of never finding someone like this, but that is a risk you’re willing to take. <\/p>\n After all, you’re perfectly aware that it is always better to permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 que a pessoa certa apare\u00e7a<\/a> do que desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo e energia com as pessoas erradas.<\/p>\n You would rather grow old alone than catch yourself wondering if you\u2019ve destroyed your entire life by making this bad choice. <\/p>\n Na maioria dos casos, as pessoas que sentem repulsa pela ideia do casamento s\u00e3o fobias de compromisso<\/a>. And if you’re one of them, it is a clear sign you will never settle down, simply because you see it as your biggest nightmare. <\/p>\n A monogamia e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de compromisso a longo prazo assustam-no imenso. Sente-se preso e enjaulado com a simples ideia de ter de passar o resto dos seus dias ao lado de uma s\u00f3 pessoa. <\/p>\n Em vez disso, prefere rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas e encontros casuais<\/a>. Aprecia o tipo de acordos em que passa tempo com a outra pessoa sempre que lhe apetece.<\/p>\n Os dois divertem-se, mas nenhum de voc\u00eas se preocupa com coisas como a monogamia ou o compromisso. <\/p>\n Se isto \u00e9 algo com que se identifica, \u00e9 mais do que evidente que o casamento simplesmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 para si.<\/p>\n Don’t get me wrong\u2014not being able to devote yourself completely to another person is your right; you just have to be completely honest about it in time, instead of conduzir algu\u00e9m<\/a>, assuring them they’re in a healthy relationship while they’re actually dealing with a hidden commitment-phobe. <\/p>\n Normalmente, as pessoas que decidem que nunca se v\u00e3o casar s\u00e3o as que tiveram uma vida amorosa de merda at\u00e9 esse momento.<\/p>\n Se passou por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o horr\u00edvel<\/a>, if you’ve been played, abandoned or cheated on, it is normal that you’ve lost faith in love and that you see red flags everywhere you look. <\/p>\n No passado, era um rom\u00e2ntico sem esperan\u00e7a que colocava o amor em primeiro lugar. Fazer com que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica resultasse era a sua prioridade n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o havia d\u00favidas de que queriam ter filhos e n\u00e3o havia sinais da separa\u00e7\u00e3o horr\u00edvel que aconteceu depois. <\/p>\n No entanto, do nada, toda a sua vida se desmoronou. A pessoa em quem mais confiava e que pensava que nunca o iria magoar, causou-lhe um choque desgosto<\/a> que ainda hoje vos deixou sequelas inarred\u00e1veis. <\/p>\n After all this time, you’re still haunted by your past traumas and demons, which you can’t seem to get rid of.<\/p>\n Ever since all of this happened, you haven’t had a healthy relationship because whenever you meet someone new, you see the warning signs of their toxicity, even when there are none. <\/p>\n So, you can’t help but think: “Why get married?”, when you’ll only end up disappointed, betrayed and heartbroken one way or another. Isn’t it better to enjoy all the vantagens de ser solteiro<\/a>?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you can\u2019t be both career-oriented and have a successful family life. However, the truth is that one has to suffer for the other.<\/p>\n Bem, \u00e9 isso que quer evitar porque, para si, a sua carreira e vida social est\u00e3o sempre em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n Quer progredir e ser o melhor naquilo que faz, e gosta de passar tempo com os seus amigos acima de tudo.<\/p>\n Basicamente, tem todas as suas prioridades bem definidas e a \u00faltima coisa de que precisa \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m interfira com elas.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want to dedicate your entire life to having a spouse and children without the possibility of putting all of your energy into your work.<\/p>\n Por conseguinte, \u00e9 prefer\u00edvel continuar a ser uma mulher solteira<\/a> or man than getting yourself into a situation where you\u2019re torn between your career and your marriage.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want to pick because you\u2019ve already made your choice.<\/p>\nYou\u2019re a loner<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA sua independ\u00eancia \u00e9 crucial<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou don\u2019t believe in true love<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou\u2019re surrounded by negative examples<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTem medo da mudan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDetestas casamentos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nN\u00e3o \u00e9 tradicional<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou don\u2019t believe in the institution of marriage<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou don\u2019t want kids<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou\u2019re looking for the perfect person<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFoge do compromisso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou\u2019re haunted by past traumas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA carreira e a vida social est\u00e3o em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou\u2019re not willing to compromise<\/h2>\n
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