{"id":51140,"date":"2020-01-13T16:43:16","date_gmt":"2020-01-13T16:43:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=51140"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:15:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:15:08","slug":"ele-nunca-sera-teu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-nunca-sera-teu\/","title":{"rendered":"Por mais que o queiras, ele nunca ser\u00e1 teu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, podemos dar o nosso melhor, mas n\u00e3o recebemos nada em troca. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, por muito que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/partiu-o-coracao-embora-nunca-tenha-realmente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you want someone, you won\u2019t have them.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Por vezes, a vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 justa. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><b>The cards are like that\u2014Destiny has chosen; you can\u2019t do anything about it.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it\u2019s better to just leave it be and move on with your life. For you&#8230;for them&#8230;for everybody.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When love is right, you know it\u2019s right.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no second-guessing. There is no jealousy. There is no immaturity. When you know something\u2019s right, it is. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nada o pode convencer do contr\u00e1rio. Esse sentimento interior nunca est\u00e1 errado no final.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll give everything you have for that love which awaits you, with no doubt in your mind or your heart that he might someday hurt you. <\/span><b>Alguma vez tiveste assim tanta certeza de algo?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_173853119.jpg\" alt=\"uma bela mulher de 35 anos est\u00e1 em frente \u00e0 janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_173853119.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_173853119-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_173853119-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I\u2019m not talking about self-denial, shutting your eyes to the red flags, and lying to yourself that whatever he\u2019s doing is only temporary.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I\u2019m talking about pure love\u2014impeccable, safe, and simply beautiful.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edceis.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong, relationships are a challenge. You will fight like cats and dogs, but the catch is\u2014you will kiss and make up and forget as if nothing happened. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s not about not fighting in a relationship. It\u2019s about being able to forgive, finding the strength to listen to the other person, and most importantly, to understand them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the relationship between you two is more tiring than it\u2019s fulfilling and fun, I\u2019m sorry to say, but you will never have that man for yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe you feel like you have him now, but that relationship is not going to last, and it\u2019s going to go down in flames with a big and painful boom.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Respeita-te o suficiente para te poupares \u00e0 dor inevit\u00e1vel.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51160\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_589683482.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher bonita e cansada. Depress\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_589683482.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_589683482-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_589683482-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that it never ends differently.&nbsp; A man not for you will never become a man for you. There won\u2019t be any sudden change of hearts, a realization or enlightenment inside his mind. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it will be, it will happen but not the way you want it. The odds won\u2019t be in your favor because it wasn\u2019t meant to be from the beginning.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algumas pessoas nunca ser\u00e3o tuas, por muito que queiras que o sejam. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can waste your time, you can give yourself false hope, but that perfect little bubble you\u2019ve created for yourself will burst.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Guarda as tuas segundas oportunidades para algu\u00e9m que realmente as mere\u00e7a.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51161\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1563207922.jpg\" alt=\"Imagem recortada de um jovem casal caucasiano de m\u00e3os dadas enquanto caminha numa rua da cidade\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1563207922.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1563207922-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1563207922-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por que raz\u00e3o desperdi\u00e7aria a sua energia e a sua confian\u00e7a com <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/um-homem-que-te-ache-digna-aparecera\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? It&#8217;s a very dangerous thing to do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know why? Trust is not an inexhaustible source. There will come a time when you\u2019ll cut off your supply.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem is, if you waste your trust and your second chances on the person who didn\u2019t deserve it, you will cut off the one who actually deserved it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Think about it\u2014because you are scared to face the truth now, you\u2019re destroying the relationship that hasn\u2019t even started yet.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re demolishing your future, and you haven\u2019t even made peace with your present.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Defina bem as suas prioridades!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you push yourself from the No. 1 spot on your priority list, be aware that you\u2019re making a huge mistake\u2014one which you will never be able to make right. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once the trust is completely gone, it\u2019s almost impossible to get it back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having this in mind, think about yourself. Don\u2019t be your own worst enemy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Loving yourself is the only way to avoid the hardship and the pain you\u2019re causing by disrespecting yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-51163\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-8-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Por mais que o queiras, ele nunca ser\u00e1 teu\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-8-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/herway.net-8.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, you can give it your best, but you won\u2019t get anything in return. Sometimes, no matter how much you want someone, you won\u2019t have them. Sometimes, life is just not fair. The cards are like that\u2014Destiny has chosen; you can\u2019t do anything about it.&nbsp; Sometimes, it\u2019s better to just leave it be and move&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":51162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51140","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/shutterstock_1196187574-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51140","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51140"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51140\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/51162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51140"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51140"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51140"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}