You feel free, rejuvenated, and loved. You feel like anything is possible when you’re together because the world, all of a sudden, doesn’t have limits.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
You seek dating advice and relationship advice from everywhere and everyone because you’re so anxious that you’ll fuck things up \u2013 and that’s why you landed up here reading this.<\/p>\n
No matter which stage of the relationship you’re at right now, use ESTE GUIA<\/a> para n\u00e3o cometer erros.<\/p>\n You were looking for the things that characterize the first three months of a relationship so that you can know where you stand. And you\u2019ve done the right thing!<\/p>\n \u00c9 que, quando se entra numa <\/b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>, basicamente introduz-se o <\/b>fase de lua de mel,<\/b> which lasts for 90 days \u2013 in other words, 3 <\/b>meses de namoro<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n And this phase is critical. It\u2019s at this time when you usually decide whether or not you’re ready for a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/b> \u2013 whether you’re ready to either take it to the <\/b>n\u00edvel seguinte<\/b> ou <\/b>romper<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Many people start doubting their relationship at the three-month mark, so we could say it’s totally normal for you to feel this way also.<\/p>\n Afinal, como \u00e9 que se pode ter a certeza de que o que se tem agora vai evoluir para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel ou para algo totalmente oposto?<\/p>\n No worries \u2013 that’s why I’m here today. The first part consists of a list of changes that are bound to (and should) happen in every 3-month relationship.<\/p>\n A segunda parte abrange as altera\u00e7\u00f5es que podem ser potenciais sinais de alerta aos quais deve prestar especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/p>\n Certifique-se de que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 surpresas e aprenda tudo o que h\u00e1 para saber sobre a psique masculina e a for\u00e7a motriz por detr\u00e1s das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es: CLIQUE AQUI.<\/a><\/p>\n RELA\u00c7\u00c3O DE 3 MESES: 12 MUDAN\u00c7AS QUE N\u00c3O PODEM DEIXAR DE ACONTECER<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Como j\u00e1 foi dito acima, a fase de lua de mel <\/a>\u00e9 como entrar num novo mundo m\u00e1gico, cheio de divers\u00e3o e emo\u00e7\u00e3o, e dura cerca de tr\u00eas meses.<\/p>\n Esta fase \u00e9 t\u00e3o viciante que a maioria de n\u00f3s quer ficar l\u00e1 para sempre s\u00f3 para continuar a sentir essa felicidade.<\/p>\n But, unfortunately, this is not really possible because at some point (usually after three months), the honeymoon phase will begin to fade. But, don’t be mistaken.<\/p>\n This doesn’t mean that your feelings will begin to fade or anything like that.<\/p>\n It means that all that bliss and magic that you’ve felt from the beginning will start turning into something more serious.<\/p>\n When you enter a relationship, it feels like you’ve just been born and everything around you is new, therefore, exciting.<\/p>\n Mas, com o passar do tempo, habituamo-nos a todas essas coisas e a magia desaparece gradualmente.<\/p>\n The exact same thing happens to relationships as well, and this is perfectly normal because it means that you’re evolving!<\/p>\n When you just start dating, you’re overly concerned about basically everything.<\/p>\n You worry that you’re texting them too much, you’re afraid that you’re giving them too many likes on social media, you’re scared that they’ll think you’re playing hard to get, you don’t want to seem needy or pushy, you wait for a specific sequence of things to take place before you decide to take some action.<\/p>\n All of these can be classified as sweet, dating games that every couple goes through. It shows that you like each other a lot and that’s why you’re so anxious about not ruining anything.<\/p>\n But, after three months have passed, you’ll be more relaxed around each other and you won’t think about all those things that much.<\/p>\n You won’t worry about what they will think of you if you send them that specific text message at a specific time, or whatever the case may be. You’ll be stress-free and casual!<\/p>\n Every relationship progresses at its own pace and there isn’t a guide that can tell you when the right time is to say those three words.<\/p>\n For that, you have to follow your heart and listen to your feelings. Usually, people start feeling like they’re ready to say Eu amo-te<\/i> ap\u00f3s tr\u00eas meses ou mais.<\/p>\n After so much time spent together and all the fun you\u2019ve had, you will start feeling those warm sensations telling you that you should profess your love because you’re perfectly ready.<\/p>\n You will often fantasize about saying it and even though you’ll feel like you’re ready, it\u2019s understandable that you may have certain levels of anxiety about saying it, which is totally normal because it’s not something you say every day to someone!<\/p>\n When you just start dating, it’s you and them. You’re still two separate individuals in the process of uniting.<\/p>\n But, gradually, this changes as well and you start using the words “us” and “we” instead of “you” and “I.”<\/p>\n You start making both big and small future plans like going to a concert, visiting that one special place you’ve talked about, trying certain food, watching an addictive series that’s about to get released\u2026<\/p>\n Come\u00e7a a pensar nos dois e n\u00e3o apenas nos seus pr\u00f3prios desejos e vontades.<\/p>\n Os seus gostos e avers\u00f5es tornam-se os deles ou transformam-se num compromisso.<\/p>\n You make sure to plan things in advance because you want to keep spending every second with each other. You take care about each other’s happiness.<\/p>\n And that’s what the right relationship is all about.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 diferen\u00e7as entre uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e uma saud\u00e1vel<\/a><\/p>\n No in\u00edcio de cada nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o, passamos 90% do nosso tempo a pensar em como podemos impressionar a pessoa especial.<\/p>\n You choose perfect outfits, you never leave your house without shaving beforehand or doing your makeup (if you’re a girl), you take special care of your hairstyle, and so on.<\/p>\n You do all of this because you want everything to be perfect. You like them so much that you just can’t leave anything to chance.<\/p>\n Mas, ao fim de algum tempo, tudo isto come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a mudar, o que significa que n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 qualquer problema em verem-se em edi\u00e7\u00f5es casuais.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se importam nada de se verem um ao outro sem se barbearem, sem maquilhagem, de pijama e em dias de mau cabelo.<\/p>\n But, this doesn’t mean that you should get lazy or that you will get lazy.<\/p>\n Vai continuar a querer mostrar o seu melhor, mas de uma forma mais informal, o que n\u00e3o tem pre\u00e7o!<\/p>\n Meeting each other’s friends for the first time was probably a fun experience, but it came with lots of anxiety as well.<\/p>\n Given that you wanted to leave a good impression, you just couldn’t be 100% relaxed in front of them.<\/p>\n Estava t\u00e3o preocupado com o facto de gostarem de si que se sentia literalmente como se estivesse numa entrevista de emprego em vez de num encontro.<\/p>\n And that’s another perk of starting a new relationship. But, around three months, this also changes.<\/p>\n You\u2019re naturally more relaxed around each other’s friends. You\u2019re more casual and there are less awkward situations or silent moments.<\/p>\n Nesta altura, j\u00e1 sabe muitas coisas sobre os seus amigos e vice-versa e passar tempo com eles come\u00e7a a parecer uma casa.<\/p>\n Por mais aberto que se seja por natureza, nunca se pode ser demasiado aberto no primeiro dia e no primeiro m\u00eas, ou nos dois seguintes, porque construir confian\u00e7a e um ambiente sem preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es onde se sinta confiante e suficientemente seguro para abrir-se sobre as coisas<\/a> leva tempo.<\/p>\n After you’ve been together for some time, you start being more open about things such as your past love life and your emotions.<\/p>\n You\u2019re more open about literally everything \u2013 your secrets, all the embarrassing things that happened in your childhood, and the like.<\/p>\n Sentem-se suficientemente \u00e0 vontade para chorar \u00e0 frente um do outro quando as vossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es assim o exigem.<\/p>\n You share all of your fears, talk about things that made you the person you are today, and open up about your life-changing events and people who had the strongest impact on your development \u2013your role models.<\/p>\n And you collect all of this data in your brain’s special compartment, nurture it, and later rewind all of it with a smile on your face.<\/p>\n When you’re still at the initial stages of getting to know each other, you spend lots of your time on the phone texting or calling each other.<\/p>\n Your phone becomes the main communication tool because you want to know everything about each other, and for that, you\u2019d need to be together 24\/7.<\/p>\n You know that’s quite impossible and that’s when your phone comes in handy.<\/p>\n That’s why you literally become attached to your phone every second of every day, impatiently waiting for them to reply to your text messages, return your missed call, and talk into the small hours until you fall asleep.<\/p>\n But this lasts for the first few months and after that, you won’t feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7 because you\u2019ll rather choose to save some topics for when you’re seeing each other in person.<\/p>\n Nesta fase da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o olhos nos olhos torna-se a sua principal ferramenta para criar la\u00e7os e trocar ideias.<\/p>\n Uma vez que todas as novas rela\u00e7\u00f5es precisam de algum tempo para progredir e para que duas pessoas comecem a abrir-se, haver\u00e1 poucas ou nenhumas discuss\u00f5es logo no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n Why? Because you’re still trying to get to know each other, you don’t know each other’s likes and dislikes, points of view, and true personality.<\/p>\n When you’re still in the process of getting to know each other, there is no space for fights or arguments.<\/p>\n You just absorb everything, connect the dots, and create each other’s profiles in your heads.<\/p>\n E depois, s\u00f3 passado algum tempo, poder\u00e3o come\u00e7ar a discutir um pouco mais frequentemente, porque se sentir\u00e3o mais confort\u00e1veis, descontra\u00eddos e sem medo de dizer o que realmente querem dizer.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll open up more and more to each other, and arguments will be just an inevitable part of that process.<\/p>\n Fighting a bit more often, compromising, and accepting each other’s differences are clear signs of every healthy relationship!<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: 7 argumentos que voc\u00ea tem que sinalizam o come\u00e7o do fim<\/a><\/p>\n Not everyone of us has the same opinion regarding introducing their family to the person they\u2019ve started dating.<\/p>\n Alguns de n\u00f3s optam por o fazer mais cedo, outros guardam-no para mais tarde. Mais uma vez, tudo depende do indiv\u00edduo e das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Usually, after a few months of dating, it comes naturally to the majority of us to start thinking about meeting each other’s family.<\/p>\n You want them to see who the beautiful-inside-and-out person you’re with is and share your joy with them.<\/p>\n Querem unir as vossas fam\u00edlias porque elas s\u00e3o uma grande parte da vossa vida e de quem s\u00e3o hoje.<\/p>\n E quer ouvir todas aquelas hist\u00f3rias embara\u00e7osas da inf\u00e2ncia e pormenores sumarentos que s\u00f3 os pais t\u00eam coragem de contar.<\/p>\n As a matter of fact, parents enjoy retelling every detail from their child’s first steps to when they did something ultimately stupid yet no one could blame them for it because they were just kids.<\/p>\n There’s nothing more exciting in the whole world than the first few dates when you just start dating.<\/p>\n You’re full of romantic ideas and you want to visit every place together, which means spending lots of time mostly outside and doing all the fun activities suited to new couples.<\/p>\n \u00c0 medida que a fase da lua de mel avan\u00e7a, o conceito das vossas noites de namoro tamb\u00e9m vai mudar.<\/p>\n This means that at one point you’ll start spending most of your Friday nights on the couch watching Netflix and enjoying your favorite foods, without any regrets about not visiting a new exciting place together.<\/p>\n Over time, you’ll become totally casual and enjoy every second of each night spent curled up next to each other while watching your favorite TV shows.<\/p>\n After some time spent together (after a few months), you’ll become honest to the core about who you are \u2013 about your dislikes and likes, dreams, perspective on different things \u2013 and you\u2019ll also know each other’s flaws and quirks.<\/p>\n You won’t pretend that you’re okay with something just because you want to be polite.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll express your concern or discontent in a polite manner when you need to and expect the same from your partner.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll discuss things on a daily basis and learn to compromise when you can’t agree on something.<\/p>\n Ser honesto sobre quem realmente \u00e9, aceitar todas as suas peculiaridades e defeitos e estar disposto a comprometer-se s\u00e3o a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e bem sucedida no futuro.<\/p>\n RELA\u00c7\u00c3O DE 3 MESES: 7 (POTENCIAIS) SINAIS DE ALERTA<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Now that we know all the changes that are bound to happen in a relationship after a few months, it’s time to move to more serious matters.<\/p>\n It’s time to learn about all the (potential) sinais de alerta que podem destruir qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> (especialmente os novos, porque podem facilmente perder a for\u00e7a).<\/p>\n While it’s true that after three months, you will no longer feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7, this doesn’t mean that you should stop sending those cute, spontaneous texts that mean so much and can brighten your day.<\/p>\n Estes textos s\u00e3o uma parte importante de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque ajudam a manter viva a chama!<\/p>\n And if you notice that, as time progresses, you’re less likely to send each other those cute texts or retell something funny that happened to you at work, you know that you’re subconsciously killing your relationship or preventing it from turning into something more serious.<\/p>\n Every dating or relationship coach will tell you the exact same thing: It\u2019s all in the little things. And, indeed, it is.<\/p>\n Manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o significa fazer um esfor\u00e7o para continuar a surpreender o outro com todas aquelas pequenas coisas que significam tanto.<\/p>\n E se, a dada altura, deixar de o fazer, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a perder gradualmente o seu encanto inicial e tornar-se-\u00e1 sem amor.<\/p>\n Tal como os textos espont\u00e2neos e as surpresas um ao outro, planear coisas divertidas \u00e9 outro aspeto importante de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e duradoura.<\/p>\n It’s something that keeps your passion alive and should be an essential part of your everyday lives.<\/p>\n While watching Netflix and chilling on a Friday night is something you should definitely do, still this shouldn’t be the only thing that you do when you’re together.<\/p>\n It’s important to bring some variety into your relationship \u2013 variety means excitement.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 provavelmente um dos maiores sinais de alerta de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de 3 meses n\u00e3o vai durar muito mais tempo.<\/p>\n If you’re still not feel at ease telling each other secrets, opening up, and being who you really are in front of each other, then you know there’s something just not right \u2013 something unsaid that will keep creating a huge gap between the two of you.<\/p>\n And if you’re not comfortable enough to be with each other, even after you’ve spent lots of time together, then you know you shouldn’t take this fact for granted.<\/p>\n Outro potencial sinal de alerta que pode surgir numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de 3 meses \u00e9 a falta de conversa sobre planos futuros.<\/p>\n Those partners who talk about their hopes, dreams, and future plans together are basically telling each other that they want to stay in each other\u2019s lives and make sure to include their partner in their every future activity and life-changing event.<\/p>\n Se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem este aspeto, deve perguntar-se seriamente se est\u00e1 no caminho certo ou se deve mudar de faixa.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: If You Can’t Talk To Him About These 5 Things, Your Relationship Has No Future<\/a><\/p>\n There’s a huge difference between making your relationship the ONLY priority and making your relationship a priority.<\/p>\n You should never make your relationship your only priority \u2013 it’s unhealthy for the both of you \u2013 but you should definitely treat it as a major priority.<\/p>\n This includes constant effort, surprising each other, not making excuses for why you haven’t showed up on a date, and the like.<\/p>\n Implica confian\u00e7a, respeito m\u00fatuo, apre\u00e7o e luta pelo que se tem.<\/p>\n If there’s none of this, then you know your relationship won\u2019t last.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas encontros divertidos e Netflix e chill. Tamb\u00e9m t\u00eam a ver com apoiarmo-nos mutuamente<\/a> e poderem confiar uns nos outros.<\/p>\n If you can’t trust your partner to the extent of sharing everything with them, then it’s time to question your relationship.<\/p>\n If you can’t rely on your partner when something bad happens to you or you’re feeling off, then it’s time to question your relationship.<\/p>\n If you’re the only one going out of your way to make things work, then you should definitely question your relationship.<\/p>\n If your partner is not willing to invest in your relationship and fight for it, then there’s nothing you can do on your own.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 o respeito m\u00fatuo, o apre\u00e7o e o esfor\u00e7o s\u00e3o capazes de resistir mesmo \u00e0s piores condi\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 o verdadeiro amor \u00e9 capaz de viver para sempre sem perder o seu encanto inicial! E o verdadeiro amor exige sacrif\u00edcios.<\/p>\n![\"Jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Happy-young-couple-embracing-and-smiling-while-sitting-on-the-pier-near-the-lake.jpg\")
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<\/a><\/p>\nA fase de lua de mel come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a desvanecer-se<\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\nYou’ll stop playing dating games and be more relaxed around each other<\/h2>\n
![\"Um](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/A-young-couple-relaxing-at-their-home.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll start feeling like you’re ready to say: I love you<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’ll start using the words “us” and “we”<\/h2>\n
![\"retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/portrait-of-living-young-couple-at-the-beach.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o se importam nada de se verem em edi\u00e7\u00f5es casuais<\/h2>\n
![\"Jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-Couple-Relaxing-On-A-Boat-Enjoying-Sunny-Day-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be more relaxed around each other’s friends<\/h2>\n
![\"Grupo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Group-of-friends-walking-along-the-beach-with-men-giving-piggyback-ride-to-girlfriends.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be more open and start revealing each other’s secrets and embarrassing things<\/h2>\n
![\"Vista](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Top-view-of-young-couple-talking-and-laughing-while-sitting-in-cafeteria-relaxing-and-drinking-coffee.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou won’t feel the need to be attached to your phone 24\/7<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’ll fight a little more often<\/h2>\n
![\"rapaz](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/resentful-guy-and-girl-acting-like-arguing-couple-and-not-speaking-to-each-other.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll start thinking about meeting each other’s family<\/h2>\n
![\"Noite](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Noel-evening-night-family-gathering-meeting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll spend most of your Friday nights on the couch (without any regrets)<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Loving-couple-watching-tv-and-eating-popcorn-at-home-covered-with-blanket.jpg\")
<\/p>\nYou’ll be honest about who you truly are<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Playful-couple-laughing-in-a-bar.jpg\")
<\/p>\nFalta de textos giros e espont\u00e2neos<\/h2>\n
![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Woman-Sitting-On-Couch-At-Home-Using-Mobile-Phone.jpg\")
<\/p>\nJ\u00e1 n\u00e3o se surpreendem uns aos outros com pequenas coisas<\/a><\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Bored-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-holding-phones.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDeixar de planear coisas divertidas para fazer em conjunto<\/h2>\n
![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Young-woman-getting-bored-while-man-using-phone-in-the-background.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o sermos capazes de sermos genu\u00ednos uns com os outros<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-having-problems-in-relationship-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o fazer planos para o futuro<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o fazer da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o uma prioridade<\/h2>\n
![\"Casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Sad-couple-sitting-on-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nN\u00e3o poderem confiar uns nos outros<\/h2>\n
![\"Retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Portrait-of-young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park..jpg\")
<\/p>\nLembre-se que s\u00e3o precisos dois para dan\u00e7ar o tango!<\/h2>\n
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