Naturalmente, querem-no fora da sua vida e do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. No entanto, apercebeu-se do seu erro e est\u00e1 disposto a fazer tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para que ela o perdoe. <\/p>\n
Bem, isto \u00e9 o que normalmente acontece quando algu\u00e9m batota<\/a> sobre o seu ente querido.<\/p>\n Compreende as consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos e implora por outra oportunidade para corrigir as coisas. <\/p>\n So, how do you do it exactly? Do you write an apology letter in which you simply say “I’m sorry”? Do you keep on texting and calling your significant other until their anger goes away?<\/p>\n Ou tenta deitar as culpas todas para cima deles? Justifica-se a si pr\u00f3prio e usa falsas desculpas para o seu comportamento?<\/p>\n How to apologise for cheating? Well, you’re about to find out. <\/p>\n Basta seguir os passos abaixo e encontrar a melhor maneira de sair desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Boa sorte!<\/p>\n Antes de tomar qualquer medida para corrigir a situa\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 preciso, antes de mais, romper com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t necessarily have to fight with them, but you can\u2019t stay best friends either.<\/p>\n However, if they are your coworker or some other person you can\u2019t kick out of your life completely, reduce your contact to the bare minimum. There is no texting, no phone calls, no spending time together…<\/p>\n You can\u2019t expect your partner to be okay with the fact that you still hang out with someone you cheated on them with, and you certainly can\u2019t expect to get another chance in those circumstances. <\/p>\n Nevertheless, you shouldn\u2019t blame your lover for anything that has happened either.<\/p>\n Of course, it is never okay to be the third person, but they didn\u2019t force you to become a batoteiro<\/a>independentemente do que fizessem.<\/p>\n Foi voc\u00ea que fez essa escolha, por isso n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de discutir com eles e de os considerar culpados pelos seus erros.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, o seu parceiro pode interpretar mal a sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e concluir que ainda sente alguma coisa por essa pessoa, logo que tenha necessidade de a encerrar.<\/p>\n Por conseguinte, o melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 interromper todos os contactos poss\u00edveis com essa pessoa.<\/p>\n Naturally, you\u2019re not ignorando-os para chamar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>: you\u2019re doing it because it is the only right thing to do. <\/p>\n Seja radical: bloqueie os seus perfis nas redes sociais, bloqueie o seu n\u00famero de telefone e deixe de aparecer nos locais onde sabe que os pode encontrar. <\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t be doing this to prove something to your partner either: you should make this move only because you\u2019ve realized that this was an awful mistake and because you want this person out of your life. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t wait until you\u2019re sure that your significant other will take you back to cut your lover off.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, deixe de ter contacto com a pessoa antes de a tentar contactar e mesmo antes de come\u00e7ar o processo de pedir desculpa. <\/p>\n Trust me\u2014this is the only way for them to see that you\u2019re serious and that you\u2019re really sorry about everything you did. <\/p>\n The next step doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with your significant other: it is something you have to do on your own.<\/p>\n Para come\u00e7ar, comece a analisar os seus problemas de relacionamento<\/a>e tentar perceber porque \u00e9 que fez tudo isto. <\/p>\n This is one of the first questions you\u2019ll be asked when you confront your partner, so it is better to have an answer ready.<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que lhe faltou na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tentou procurar noutro lugar?<\/p>\n Sentiu-se emocionalmente negligenciado? Ou estava a tentar vingar-se da pessoa amada por algo que ela fez no passado?<\/p>\n Did your relationship fall into a rut? Were you looking for butterflies and the excitement you haven\u2019t been getting for some time? <\/p>\n Tentaste marcar uma posi\u00e7\u00e3o e provar a ti pr\u00f3prio que ainda tens o que \u00e9 preciso para conquistar algu\u00e9m do sexo oposto?<\/p>\n Or you were just not thinking straight and don\u2019t even know why you did it?<\/p>\n Even when you get to the bottom of each one of these questions, they don\u2019t free you from guilt.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what was going on in your relationship: cheating is never an option. <\/p>\n Se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava a passar por momentos dif\u00edceis, devia ter agido como um adulto maduro e esfor\u00e7ar-se por resolver as coisas.<\/p>\n Se visses que voc\u00eas os dois, enquanto casal, estavam condenados ao fracasso, podias ter-te afastado a tempo, em vez de fazeres tudo isto. <\/p>\n Independentemente do que o seu parceiro lhe tenha feito e da forma como o tratou, esta nunca \u00e9 uma forma de resolver os problemas da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou de o fazer mudar. <\/p>\n Outra coisa em que deve pensar \u00e9 nos seus sentimentos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o foi nada para al\u00e9m de paix\u00e3o ou apaixonou-se por eles?<\/p>\n Did you break things off with them out of fear that you\u2019ll lose your relationship or marriage, which are way more permanent and secure or did you really understand that you were making a mistake?<\/p>\n After you\u2019ve gotten all the answers, it is time to look at your relationship as realistically as possible.<\/p>\n \u00c9 mesmo vale a pena lutar<\/a>E h\u00e1 alguma possibilidade de voc\u00eas os dois resolverem as coisas depois deste desastre?<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not trying to justify your affair in any way, but it is more than clear that something was off in your relationship as long as you cheated. Well, is this something that can be fixed?<\/p>\n Voc\u00ea e a sua cara-metade t\u00eam a for\u00e7a e a capacidade de virar uma nova p\u00e1gina e de come\u00e7ar de novo, sem nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s?<\/p>\n Or will this entire effort be pointless because deep down, you\u2019re perfectly aware that you can\u2019t succeed?<\/p>\n Espera que o seu parceiro lhe pague quando surgir a primeira oportunidade? Ser\u00e1 ele capaz de o perdoar verdadeiramente por tudo?<\/p>\n Are you done with your affairs? Do you sincerely think that you won\u2019t repeat the same mistake at the first glance of trouble?<\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 que se amam o suficiente para que as coisas funcionem, apesar desta trai\u00e7\u00e3o e humilha\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n Est\u00e1s disposto a fazer o que for preciso s\u00f3 para ter essa pessoa de volta?<\/p>\n If you\u2019re trying to rebuild your broken relationship just out of habit and nostalgia and are not sure that you won\u2019t engage in another affair soon, please give up in time.<\/p>\n J\u00e1 magoaste esta pessoa o suficiente, e a \u00faltima coisa de que ela precisa \u00e9 que a esfaqueies pelas costas outra vez. <\/p>\n No entanto, se acha que vale a pena lutar por isto e que o seu parceiro \u00e9 a sua alma g\u00e9mea, arrependa-se e fa\u00e7a o que for preciso para que ele o aceite de volta. <\/p>\n When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to apologize for cheating and lying, you have to be ready to be interrogated by your partner.<\/p>\n After all, they won\u2019t forgive you just like that, without finding out everything they\u2019re interested in.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t lie and don\u2019t inventar desculpas<\/a> porque isso s\u00f3 os vai deixar ainda mais zangados.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t try making them a fool\u2014just be as honest as possible. <\/p>\n Of course, you won\u2019t talk about some sexual details, but you shouldn\u2019t wrap things up in a shiny paper either.<\/p>\n Besides, be aware that your partner probably knows a lot more than you might think, so don\u2019t let them catch you lying again. <\/p>\n After all, you\u2019ve already done enough, so getting another strike against yourself is the last thing you need. <\/p>\n Quando a sua cara-metade lhe perguntar porque \u00e9 que a traiu, diga-lhe a verdade.<\/p>\n Seja sincero sobre quanto tempo durou o seu caso, se foi uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira ou apenas um caso casual, se foi apenas sexo ou se houve emo\u00e7\u00f5es envolvidas, se aconteceu pela primeira vez ou se continuou a faz\u00ea-lo, e qualquer outra informa\u00e7\u00e3o que queiram saber. <\/p>\n I know you\u2019re trying to spare them, but believe me when I tell you that coming clean is the only way to start over without any emotional baggage from the past.<\/p>\n Lembre-se: a verdade n\u00e3o pode ser escondida e a sua cara-metade vai descobrir tudo, mais cedo ou mais tarde. <\/p>\n Por conseguinte, \u00e9 sempre prefer\u00edvel que seja o pr\u00f3prio a contar-lhes tudo.<\/p>\n \u00c9 preciso acabar com este assunto de uma vez por todas, em vez de o varrer para debaixo do tapete e estar sempre a preocupar-se com a sua reapari\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n I\u2019ll be harsh here, but I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re ashamed to talk about all of this.<\/p>\n Yes, I know that you would rather skip this topic, but you weren\u2019t ashamed when you were fooling around, so now is the time to man (or woman) up and stand by your actions.<\/p>\n At first, wanting to know all of this sounds masochistic. However, if having all the necessary information will help your partner feel more in control and eventually forgive you, it\u2019s what you have to do.<\/p>\n They just want to know everything they\u2019re dealing with, and they\u2019re testing your honesty. <\/p>\n Repeat after me: \u201cI\u2019m the only one guilty for everything that went on, and I’m sorry<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nobody forced or manipulated me into committing adultery, and no matter what was going in my relationship at that moment, I\u2019m the one who is guilty.\u201d <\/p>\n N\u00e3o existem apenas palavras que deve dizer ao seu parceiro para que ele o perdoe e o aceite de volta.<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 a verdade e \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar a acreditar nela antes de a dizer a algu\u00e9m. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if you had a long-lasting affair or you had a one-night-stand with someone while you were wasted or in a fight with your significant other: your sin is the same.<\/p>\n You\u2019re an adult, and you consciously chose to do the wrong thing, without thinking about how your partner feels. <\/p>\n You\u2019re responsible for cheating, for humiliating and hurting your partner, and for destroying everything the two of you have been building for years.<\/p>\n Respons\u00e1vel por todos os traumas e cicatrizes que tudo isto possa deixar neles, pelos seus problemas de confian\u00e7a e por se questionarem sobre o seu valor. <\/p>\n You carry full responsibility for their every tear and heartache. So, you\u2019re the only one who should be judged.<\/p>\n A pior coisa que se pode pensar em fazer \u00e9 envolver-se no jogo da culpa.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t plan on getting away with your misdeeds by accusing your partner of not giving you their undivided attention, of not loving you enough or of not treating you the way you deserved. <\/p>\n Eles s\u00e3o as v\u00edtimas, e a v\u00edtima nunca \u00e9 culpada!<\/p>\n As was already stated, you could have tried changing the situation or leaving it, but out of all the options, you chose cheating\u2014like a real coward. <\/p>\n Also, remember that you ought to be sorry for everything you did\u2014not for getting caught.<\/p>\n Pe\u00e7a desculpa ao seu parceiro e seja a pessoa mais importante pelos seus erros, n\u00e3o por ele ter descoberto. <\/p>\n Do it because it is the right thing and because you want to\u2014not because it is expected of you and not because it is something you should do in this type of situation. <\/p>\n If it’s necessary, write a sincere apology letter and put all of your feelings on a piece of paper.<\/p>\n For example, start with telling them “I’m sorry for what I did and I promise I’ll never do it again.”<\/p>\n Esta \u00e9 uma boa ideia mesmo que o seu noivo ou c\u00f4njuge se recuse a ouvi-la: basta enviar-lhe uma carta de desculpas para que ele saiba como se sente. <\/p>\n Voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro passaram por muitas coisas e passaram muito tempo ao lado um do outro.<\/p>\n Voc\u00eas os dois tinham grandes planos e partilhavam emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas. <\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter what happened later on\u2014the fact is that at one point, this was the reality of your relationship.<\/p>\n Mesmo que agora n\u00e3o haja qualquer vest\u00edgio de sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos entre os dois, voc\u00eas foram uma coisa e t\u00eam uma hist\u00f3ria juntos. <\/p>\n Por isso, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tudo aquilo por que passaram juntos merecem respeito e merecem o vosso pedido de desculpas sincero<\/a>. <\/p>\n Have in mind that you are a cheater and that your partner doesn\u2019t have to give you a second chance. In fact, they have every right to forgive you but not want you back in their life. <\/p>\n \u00c9 por isso que se deve pedir desculpa sem quaisquer expectativas.<\/p>\n Tell them straightforwardly that you know you\u2019re in no position to make any demands and that you just want them to know how terribly sorry you are for causing them this pain and for destroying your romance. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of insulting them or changing your story even if you see that they have no intention of forgiving you.<\/p>\n They\u2019re not the bad guy here, and you\u2019re the one who needs to stay humble until the end because you\u2019re the one who made an awful mistake. <\/p>\n Also, make sure you apologize in private. Avoid writing apology letters and posting them on social media or involving your mutual friends in all of this because they won\u2019t help you. <\/p>\n When you hurt someone, you can\u2019t expect one sincere apology to magically erase everything you did and fix things overnight.<\/p>\n As pessoas precisam de tempo para processar as coisas, para as aceitar e, finalmente, para decidir se merece ou n\u00e3o o seu perd\u00e3o. <\/p>\n E o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o. Ser um traidor \u00e9 terr\u00edvel e \u00e9 natural que ele lhe pe\u00e7a para se manter afastado durante um certo per\u00edodo de tempo at\u00e9 pensar em tudo e passar pelo processo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de casos<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, don\u2019t demand an answer right away simply because they can\u2019t give you one.<\/p>\n Even if your significant other already knows what the outcome will be but wants to torture you a little bit, it is what you deserve\u2014as awful as it might sound. <\/p>\n Give them as much time as they need to come to a decision. On the other hand, if you\u2019re not ready to wait, tell them straightforwardly, and try setting a date by which they will give you their final answer. <\/p>\n Use this period of time to work on rebuilding trust. Don\u2019t be a stalker and don\u2019t push them too hard, but let them know that you\u2019re there and that you\u2019re not going anywhere. <\/p>\n Show them that you really will change and that you\u2019ll do whatever it takes for their forgiveness.<\/p>\n Se mais n\u00e3o for, seja o seu melhor amigo<\/a> e algu\u00e9m com quem podem contar, apesar de tudo o que se passou. <\/p>\n Don\u2019t even think of dating other people during this time, let alone getting back in touch with your lover.<\/p>\n Yes, you will be officially single, but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to fool around while you\u2019re allegedly trying to rebuild your relationship. <\/p>\n I will be straight with you: don\u2019t expect too much out of this. Don\u2019t get your hopes up because there is a big possibility of your partner choosing not to forgive and sending you to hell. <\/p>\n Portanto, \u00e9 algo para o qual tem simplesmente de se preparar. Na verdade, \u00e9 algo para o qual se deveria ter preparado desde o momento em que decidiu envolver-se neste caso. <\/p>\n Not only that\u2014your significant other might insult you, call you names, and refuse to even give you an opportunity to explain yourself.<\/p>\n Even if the worst thing happens and you two break up, remember that it is your fault and that you\u2019re the one who caused it. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying not to put all your efforts in apologizing\u2014I\u2019m just introducing you to all of your options, so you don\u2019t start acting all surprised if they cut all ties and kick you out of their life, as if you were never a part of it. <\/p>\n However, even if this occurs, at least you\u2019ll always know you didn\u2019t give up without a decent fight.<\/p>\n Despite the outcome, you\u2019ll know that you did everything you could and that you gave it your best.<\/p>\n Of course, if you have any conscience, this won\u2019t help you a lot. You\u2019ll still have to live with yourself and with the fact that you are the one who blew things.<\/p>\n However, if your partner decides to forgive you, don\u2019t forget to appreciate it more than anything and finally put them in primeiro lugar<\/a> na sua vida.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t see it as a green light to keep on hurting them, and don\u2019t take them for a fool just because they decided to give you another chance. <\/p>\n Quando se parte um prato, ele esmaga-se num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os. E quando o colamos de novo e tentamos torn\u00e1-lo inteiro, as cicatrizes permanecem para sempre. <\/p>\n Well, that is exactly what will happen with your relationship and your significant other\u2019s heart, even if they accept your apology and decide to take you back.<\/p>\n The harsh truth is that things will never be the same, and you shouldn\u2019t expect them to be. <\/p>\n A confian\u00e7a que voc\u00eas tinham foi violada e todo o vosso romance foi posto em perigo.<\/p>\n Everything you two had and all the love you shared is in question, so don\u2019t think that your partner will start acting like nothing has happened just like that. <\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you should spend a lifetime apologizing for your affair.<\/p>\n Afinal, se o seu ente querido decidir perdo\u00e1-lo, n\u00e3o vale a pena trazer o assunto \u00e0 baila todos os dias ou guardar rancor. <\/p>\n In this case scenario, it is better for them to be honest from the start and tell you that they can\u2019t continue living next to you then to make your future a living hell and a torture for both of you. Nevertheless, be aware that this experience changed them for good.<\/p>\n Levar\u00e1 anos para recuperar a confian\u00e7a deles e para que eles esque\u00e7am verdadeiramente a dor que lhes fez passar, porque levar\u00e3o anos a curar-se realmente dela. <\/p>\n Quando algu\u00e9m nos trai, precisamos de muito tempo para nos curarmos, para recuperarmos a nossa autoestima<\/a>e para ultrapassar isso.<\/p>\n And a lot of people don\u2019t succeed in accomplishing all of this is hard work. <\/p>\n Claro que os milagres s\u00e3o sempre poss\u00edveis. Por mais louco que possa parecer, h\u00e1 uma hip\u00f3tese de este acontecimento fortalecer a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n1. Cortar rela\u00e7\u00f5es com a terceira pessoa<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Compreender porque \u00e9 que o fez<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Decidir se vale a pena lutar pela rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Apresentar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o pormenorizada<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Assumir plena responsabilidade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Pedir desculpa sem quaisquer expectativas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Dar-lhes tempo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Estar preparado para o pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Don\u2019t expect everything to be the same<\/h2>\n
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