Too many times have you thought that not getting a response meant you\u2019ve done something wrong, right? That you perhaps haven\u2019t been clear enough, that you asked too much, or that you haven\u2019t thought about how they really feel about the matter.<\/p>\n
J\u00e1 se culpou demasiadas vezes por n\u00e3o saber fazer as perguntas certas para obter as respostas certas.<\/p>\n
But, the truth is that it wasn\u2019t your fault. You were asking the right questions, and all you got in return was no response.<\/p>\n
Or was it so? Perhaps they were answering you all this time, but you simply didn\u2019t listen or couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n
Send one text message he\u2019ll have no choice but to respond to \u2013 CLIQUE AQUI PARA SABER MAIS<\/a>.<\/p>\n Perhaps they were giving you clues that told you how they really feel, but you didn\u2019t want to believe it. You didn\u2019t want to ouvir o seu instinto <\/a>dizendo-te que durante todo este tempo tinhas todas as respostas \u00e0 tua frente.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 porque haven\u2019t received a text<\/a> or heard a word from them, this doesn\u2019t mean that you haven\u2019t been sent the message (especially if bloquearam-no<\/a>). <\/p>\n Lack of response is a powerful response that tells you a lot about a person\u2019s life, their perspective on things, and their intention.<\/p>\n Para despertar o interesse deles por si, recomendo vivamente que utilize Texto de Qu\u00edmica<\/a>O guia #1 \u00e9 um guia para fazer com que ele se apaixone por si num instante.<\/p>\n Every time a person refuses to utter a single word or write a single letter, they send you a message that they\u2019re not willing to make you a part of their life, not willing to reciprocate, and don\u2019t give a damn how you feel about it.<\/p>\n Sempre que uma pessoa se recusa a pronunciar uma palavra ou a escrever uma carta, decide deliberadamente deixar-te esperar<\/a> in case they change their mind and realize that they should\u2019ve answered you while they could.<\/p>\n Sempre que uma pessoa se recusa a responder, decide guardar para si todas as palavras n\u00e3o ditas.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s obvious that they\u2019re not willing to share their thoughts with you.<\/p>\n E n\u00e3o estar disposto a partilhar os seus pensamentos com algu\u00e9m significa n\u00e3o estar disposto a torn\u00e1-lo parte da sua vida. Esta \u00e9 a li\u00e7\u00e3o mais valiosa que aprendi no ano passado.<\/p>\n But, you couldn\u2019t know that when you were looking the person in the eye, or when you were holding your phone filled with hope and excitement that you\u2019ll get a response.<\/p>\n When you thought that you should wait just a little longer or give them another chance because there must be a reason why they haven\u2019t responded yet.<\/p>\n Quando algo assim acontece, um milh\u00e3o e um de perguntas come\u00e7am imediatamente a passar pela nossa cabe\u00e7a. Uma delas \u00e9 a seguinte:<\/p>\n I understand that no matter how many times you repeat the above sentence, it still doesn’t make sense to you because the irrational part of your brain prevails.<\/p>\n When you really care about receiving someone’s reply, you unquestionably inventar desculpas<\/a> for their lack of response because back then you didn\u2019t know that by saying nothing, they are actually saying a lot.<\/p>\n All you could hear was that little voice in your head reminding you of that one sentence: \u201c<\/b>Tenho saudades tuas<\/b><\/a>.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n All you could do was hope that they\u2019d realize their mistake and finally open their eyes to see what you were trying to tell them all this time. But, they didn\u2019t. Instead, they said and wrote nothing.<\/p>\n E nenhuma resposta \u00e9 uma resposta<\/a>. N\u00e3o responder significa, antes de mais, falta de interesse e falta de vontade. De facto, o sil\u00eancio \u00e9 a melhor resposta.<\/p>\n Porque o sil\u00eancio diz mil palavras<\/a>!<\/p>\n Silence tells us what words cannot. Just like a picture, silence speaks a thousand words \u2013 all we need to do is listen to it.<\/p>\n Em vez de procurar respostas vis\u00edveis, \u00e9 preciso aprender a ouvir o som do sil\u00eancio!<\/p>\n If there\u2019s one thing I\u2019ve learned during my humble life, it\u2019s this: A honestidade \u00e9 um presente caro<\/i><\/a> que n\u00e3o se pode esperar de pessoas baratas.<\/i><\/p>\n Being honest means sharing important things with the person you care (or don\u2019t care) about. It means having the dignity to say what you really mean and spare the person of unnecessary overthinking and drama.<\/p>\n Them deciding to stay silent instead of being a responder tells you that they don\u2019t have the guts to say what they really want to stay. They don’t have the guts to deal with hurtful things and emotions because you are not on their priority list.<\/p>\n The reason why they choose to do so is that they don\u2019t want to hurt your feelings, but in reality, they are hurting you ten times more by not saying anything.<\/p>\n E, ao mesmo tempo, est\u00e3o a dizer-nos dez vezes mais ao n\u00e3o dizerem nada.<\/p>\n Em vez de continuar a telefonar e a enviar mensagens de texto, a esperar mensagens de voz, ou a persegui-los nas redes sociais e nas suas publica\u00e7\u00f5es recentes, basta apreciar o som do sil\u00eancio e, garanto-lhe, aprender\u00e1 muito com isso.<\/p>\n Whenever someone decides not to respond, they deliberately decide to ignore. While you might feel like they\u2019re ignoring you, in reality they\u2019re ignoring the truth that they are cowards.<\/p>\n In reality, they\u2019re telling you that you\u2019re not worthy of their time and that\u2019s why they don\u2019t bother responding.<\/p>\n O sil\u00eancio significa ignorar e ignorar significa playing with someone else\u2019s mental health<\/a>sa\u00fade f\u00edsica e felicidade. E ningu\u00e9m no mundo merece sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n No response is a response. No response lets you know that they\u2019re not willing to make you their priority or tell you what\u2019s really going on in their life.<\/p>\n E em vez de procurar cegamente desculpas que justifiquem o seu comportamento, basta criar uma pasta de spam e dar-lhe um nome: Pessoas que n\u00e3o merecem estar na minha vida<\/i><\/a>.<\/p>\n A lot of times, I witnessed people believing that if they try harder, they might catch the other person\u2019s attention and somehow magically win their heart and make them respond \u2013 make them reciprocate.<\/p>\n Eles pensam: \u201cThey don\u2019t text me back because I\u2019m <\/i>n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom<\/i><\/a>. I need to try harder.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n Mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo verdade. O facto de n\u00e3o responderem significa apenas uma coisa: que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o interessados em fazer de si a sua prioridade.<\/p>\n Their silence doesn\u2019t imply that there\u2019s something wrong with you. It indicates that it\u2019s not the right time, they don\u2019t feel attraction toward you<\/a>, or they simply aren\u2019t interested for some reason.<\/p>\n And this reason is not you. No response doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t deserve attention and you\u2019re not worthy of loved one’s and other people’s time.<\/p>\n No response means that they don\u2019t deserve your attention because they\u2019re not appreciating it enough.<\/p>\n You don’t say anything to them but you say to yourself the following things:<\/p>\n So, instead of waiting or blaming yourself, listen to the sound of silence telling you that it\u2019s time to move on and give up on fighting for something that simply wasn\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n Instead of thinking there\u2019s something wrong with you, you need to gather courage and think about what you really deserve.<\/p>\n Achas que mereces uma pessoa que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronta ou que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposta a ligar-te ou a responder-te a uma mensagem?<\/b><\/p>\n Do you think you deserve to suffer because you don\u2019t deserve better? Think again. And listen to the sound of silence again.<\/p>\n Porque mereces ser grande e muito mais. Esperar que eles respondam \u00e9 o sinal m\u00e1ximo da sua paci\u00eancia, generosidade e grande cora\u00e7\u00e3o. E de certeza que merece o mesmo em troca.<\/p>\n Merece algu\u00e9m que seja capaz de reparar em todas estas coisas e que esteja pronto para fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/a> to respond. To remind you that they\u2019re thinking of you even when they\u2019re in the middle of a hurricane.<\/p>\n Mereces algu\u00e9m que aprecie a tua paci\u00eancia, o teu sacrif\u00edcio e todas as pequenas coisas que fazes porque te preocupas. Muito. E mereces que cuidem de ti em troca.<\/p>\n Tudo o que se obt\u00e9m \u00e9 aquele sil\u00eancio torturante que nos recorda todos os momentos de alegria que tivemos ou poder\u00edamos ter. O sil\u00eancio \u00e9 a aus\u00eancia de investimento e de reciprocidade.<\/p>\n It takes only a few seconds to tell the other person how you really feel and what\u2019s really going on, so when you can\u2019t find time to do it, you\u2019re clearly taking them for granted.<\/p>\n You\u2019re deliberately deciding to invest your time in other things that mean more to you than this person\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n Their silence is sending you a message that you shouldn’t wait for them to change. Instead, you should run for your life and never look back!<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to maintain a relationship when you\u2019re the only one trying, talking, and texting. It\u2019s hard to be there for someone who isn\u2019t even trying to be there for you.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t do it either.<\/p>\n Em vez de esperar que algo mude, deve ser voc\u00ea a mudar. A op\u00e7\u00e3o de ignorar n\u00e3o est\u00e1 dispon\u00edvel apenas no mundo virtual, mas tamb\u00e9m na vida real.<\/p>\n You should initiate the change by deciding to open your eyes and realizing that you don\u2019t deserve a \u201cNo response\u201d treatment.<\/p>\n Aprender a proteger-se<\/a> from narcissists and other negative people by practicing self-love. Don’t expect their phone calls, texts, or voicemails because time is the greatest resource you have, and also one of the most limited.<\/p>\n Perhaps they\u2019re married, perhaps they\u2019re in a relationship, perhaps they want to widen their horizons (if you catch my drift) and that\u2019s why they\u2019re putting you on hold.<\/p>\n They\u2019re putting you on hold because they don\u2019t want or need you at the moment, but they\u2019re n\u00e3o estou pronto para te perder<\/a> ou.<\/p>\n They want to make sure that you\u2019ll be there waiting on them when they decide to come back, that you\u2019ll be there when they decide to finally respond.<\/p>\n But, you shouldn\u2019t. If you care about your happiness at all, you should rely on what they\u2019re telling you with their silence instead of their potential words.<\/p>\n What they\u2019re telling you with their silence is that they don\u2019t really care about how you feel. They let you wait just because they know you will.<\/p>\n The longer you\u2019re letting them play with your feelings and <\/i>tom\u00e1-lo por garantido<\/i><\/a>, the longer you\u2019ll feel miserable and unhappy!<\/i><\/p>\n Quanto mais tempo esperar pela resposta deles, mais prolonga a sua dor!<\/i><\/p>\n The longer you accept their toxic treatment, the more they\u2019ll be hurting you.<\/i><\/p>\n So, open your eyes and see the message that\u2019s been right in front of you all this time, but for some reason, you avoided it, didn\u2019t want to accept it, didn\u2019t want to seguir em frente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Open your eyes for the first time in your life and see that no response is a response, and it\u2019s a powerful one!<\/p>\nA aus\u00eancia de resposta \u00e9 uma rejei\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>No response doesn’t mean rejection. The absence of a reply is not the same thing as rejection but it still carries a powerful message.<\/p>\nDeve voltar a enviar mensagens depois de n\u00e3o ter recebido resposta?<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>The answer is simple here. If you’ve texted them twice or more than that in the past few days and still haven’t received a response, do yourself a favor and put the phone down. Don’t text again until they text you back.<\/p>\nPorque nenhuma resposta \u00e9 uma resposta!<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>Silence means that they\u2019re cowards who didn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings by saying what they really wanted to say!<\/p>\nSil\u00eancio significa ignorar!<\/h3>\n
No one deserves for their well-being to be influenced by another\u2019s decision to respond.<\/b><\/h4>\n
They aren\u2019t interested in fazer de si a sua prioridade<\/a>!<\/h4>\n
What do you say when someone doesn’t reply?<\/h2>\n
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You don’t texto duplo<\/a> them. You don’t send them a sarcastic text only to make them laugh and motivate them to text you back. You don’t go out of your way to win their attention. Instead, you focus on yourself.<\/p>\n\n
O sil\u00eancio \u00e9 a aus\u00eancia de investimento e de reciprocidade!<\/h2>\n
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O sil\u00eancio \u00e9 um dos potenciais assassinos de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and friendship. It\u2019s when you look your partner in the eyes and tell them how you feel, expecting the same thing in return, but all you get is no response.<\/p>\nNenhuma resposta \u00e9 uma resposta, uma resposta poderosa.<\/h3>\n
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By not responding, they are sending you a message that they\u2019re not willing to invest in your relationship.<\/p>\nO sil\u00eancio significa colocar outra pessoa em espera at\u00e9 uma altura mais conveniente!<\/h4>\n
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Decidir n\u00e3o responder traduz-se em decidir colocar a outra pessoa em espera<\/a> at\u00e9 chegar uma altura mais conveniente! As raz\u00f5es que levam algu\u00e9m a querer coloc\u00e1-lo em espera variam.<\/p>\nP\u00f5em-no em espera<\/a> just because they know you will be there when it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/h4>\n
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And the worst thing you could do in that situation is to wait and hope that something will change. Because it won\u2019t!<\/p>\n
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